Is this libra done for good?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by novacane8 on Wednesday, May 30, 2018 and has 9 replies.
Aries woman & Libra man. Libra man wanted space because he believed I didn’t treat him very well, and I offered to change. Every question I asked regarding our relationship he would say “I don’t know.” I offered to have lunch with him and the same response “I don’t know I will let you know.” He did not let me know, and I did not bother him by texting him because he wanted space. we would talk on the phone and have a good conversation but if our relationship came up in topic he would become agitated and keep his response to “I don’t know.” Haven’t texted him in 3 days so that he could have space to decide what he wanted. Now I see that he has removed me off of social media. I’m very confused. Is this his way of deciding? will he come back and tell me his answer or is this it?
just let it be - find someone who enjoys you
ooh, you must have done something pretty awful for him to shut down on you.
Posted by jeane
ooh, you must have done something pretty awful for him to shut down on you.


He is very insecure and he felt as if I did not treat him well in public or around others. Ex public affection and such.
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Posted by jeane
ooh, you must have done something pretty awful for him to shut down on you.



He is very insecure and he felt as if I did not treat him well in public or around others. Ex public affection and such. click to expand
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i wouldn't believe him that that was the real answer if i were you. it takes me an awful lot to shut down like that. something would have been either brewing for a loooooong time or i wasn't very much interested in the first place.

but like tiz says, you've done what you can do. best to leave it be.
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Posted by jeane
ooh, you must have done something pretty awful for him to shut down on you.



He is very insecure and he felt as if I did not treat him well in public or around others. Ex public affection and such. click to expand


i wouldn't believe him that that was the real answer if i were you. it takes me an awful lot to shut down like that. something would have been either brewing for a loooooong time or i wasn't very much interested in the first place.

but like tiz says, you've done what you can do. best to leave it be. click to expand



How long have you been together? Libra men are not famous for breaking up with people in a direct way. They just slowly fade away lol. This might be his way of doing that. Just let him be. Not worth it. If he cares he will reach out to you. click to expandclick to expand
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A year!
yeah here’s my advice, he must have felt emasculated by however you acted when you guys were out. Aries girls can overthink things and end up acting the exact opposite of what us libras want. libras do want you all over us but at the same time we think it’s emasculating to have to say those exact words. I have an Aries gf and I’ve had to be very blunt with her about things in the past. and we’re great now, always a work in progress, but that’s my girl you know.

if you really like this guy process this advice and reach back out to him...if you really mean it he’ll feel it eventually.
Posted by jeane
ooh, you must have done something pretty awful for him to shut down on you.
☝THIS.
Im a Aries woman he is a Libra man We were dating about 5 months. He is a great guy and he was always there helping me with my kids and he would call me beautiful all the time take me out help me with everything and we had great compatibility with everything. We always seen each other and he helped me through the hardest times when I started to be okay he started distant himself and I called him out on it but he said he needs space & likes to be alone so I got mad and ask him about the relationship & he started avoiding me more and just texting sometimes... So I called him & he answered and told me he isn't ready to be in a Relationship even though he cares so much about me & want to leave things where they're at. I asked to work it of & he said no dont force it & he feels bad about ending thing ... & Didn't wanna leave me like that. But he still text and do things for me and still tells me how he feels , he said he wants to be alone & fix himself and get his life together first ... And he be like I didn't want the relationship but I grew to love & care for you & your family . I want to meet him so bad ... But he say yeah but doesn't , I want him back !!!! Any tips ? What do you think I did wrong or why he let ? I also kept asking about marriage later , relationship and plans ... And was a little clingy , do you think he will come back or is this normal in Libra men ? He say he still really care and love me (grew on him) which is good . He still have pictures of me and respond sometimes but mostly all the time just when he feel like it