Is this Libra just playing hard to get? Does he like me or just see an easy opportunity?
This topic was created in the Libra forum by Swaggysaggi on Monday, June 12, 2017 and has 7 replies.
So been talking to this libra guy for about 3 weeks, almost every day, we had met in a class last semester in college, but then I ended up messaging him to say we should hang out sometime over summer, at first he seemed to blow me off completely. But I asked a couple more times just to see, and then we started talking, we would mostly Snapchat but when I did give him my number we started to have a few really deep conversations, I was caught off guard with how easy it was to talk to him. I just got out of a long relationship about a month ago so I thought maybe he was kind of worried about that. Idk. I told him I wasn't looking for anything super serious and then he started blowing me off when I finally did try to hang out with him. Anyway, yesterday I finally got to hang out with him, he picked me up and had a friend with him, we spent most of the night all 3 of us, but it was kind of a relief for me because I was nervous, and it made it easier to keep the conversation going consistently. But at the end of the night when he dropped me off we got to my house, he said "I'll walk you to the door" and I was shocked. Then he walked me up to the door and just gave me a hug as I said "thanks for picking me up" and he said "ya no problem" but I was kind of confused why he didn't try to kiss me? Maybe he was nervous too? Or trying to be a gentleman, but he still doesn't really snap me first now, so Idk if it's just an act or him playing hard to get? He did say "We can hang out again soon, without my friend" but hasn't made any concrete plans? I'm not sure what I should do.
I forgot to say I'm a Sagittarius if you didn't get that from my username, which I know those are supposed to work well together, but I'm just not sure what his intentions are?
He's playing hard to get trying to see if he can get you to chase but with you being a sagg and all I doubt you will, watch how the tables turn...
You said it yourself that you were not prepared for anything serious, so this was not a date, but a hanging out with friends. He respected your choice. He was polite till the end. Maybe if you make it more clear of what you expect from him, he will change his attitude, if he also likes you. Until now, you both have kept it in the friend zone.
Posted by compyWell he has flirted a little, but its very subtle. One time I sent him a risque pic and he said "Damnn" and he also has said a few things that insinuated that I was attractive, but it's never been really blunt or direct. I think he knows I want something flirty and fun, and I actually do like him a lot. There's no way he thinks I just want to be friends. But yea I knew that wasn't a date, which is why I'm glad he said "We can hang out again soon, without my friend"
You said it yourself that you were not prepared for anything serious, so this was not a date, but a hanging out with friends. He respected your choice. He was polite till the end. Maybe if you make it more clear of what you expect from him, he will change his attitude, if he also likes you. Until now, you both have kept it in the friend zone.
Pls help we're supposed to hang out tonight after he gets off work. But I don't know what time and he hasn't messaged me yet. I keep thinking he's guna flake because he already did that once
It sounds like you are friends.
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