Is this not relationship behaviour??
This topic was created in the Libra forum by Newnat2 on Saturday, June 11, 2022 and has 16 replies.
Fellow Librans-I have never come across this before and I find it strange that it almost feels like he is already in a relationship with me in his head. For example. He mistakenly thought recently I was upset that he needed to meet a female friend for coffee who is helping him with something and he started panicking and apologising and saying it was only for half an hour and explaining everything they spoke about. Which I stopped immediately!!
He then has started to call me to apologise if he does not speak to me earlier in the day so I don’t think he’s ignoring me…not to mention the time he was speaking to a restaurant for getting our order wrong and called me his partner on the phone… Now for me that is relationship behaviour yet he hasn’t actually kissed me however he does kiss me on the neck or really close hugs but that’s it and I’m not sure what to make of it
Otherwise things seem normal for relationship behaviour not friendship. we are in contact multiple times a day always call in the evening to discuss which ever part of the day we haven’t already discussed via text. Contact is always initiated by him unless I have something specific to say.
He hasn’t yet said no to me about anything! We spent 10 hours together the other day for which he kept adding on time it was only supposed to be a couple hours and he kept asking what we were doing next so I went with it.
He wants to meet my mum when she comes to visit and has spoken to his parents about me so I usually pass on a hi (though I’m not sure what he’s said) he’s been single for 10yrs and never speaks to his parents about anyone other than his male bfs so I’m surprised he even mentioned me.
Ages are late 30s and early 40s and it has gradually developed to this point since meeting in Nov 2021. The calling has been consistent since Feb we used to just text everyday.
I really don’t know much about libra men so maybe I’m missing something??
He then has started to call me to apologise if he does not speak to me earlier in the day so I don’t think he’s ignoring me…not to mention the time he was speaking to a restaurant for getting our order wrong and called me his partner on the phone… Now for me that is relationship behaviour yet he hasn’t actually kissed me however he does kiss me on the neck or really close hugs but that’s it and I’m not sure what to make of it
Otherwise things seem normal for relationship behaviour not friendship. we are in contact multiple times a day always call in the evening to discuss which ever part of the day we haven’t already discussed via text. Contact is always initiated by him unless I have something specific to say.
He hasn’t yet said no to me about anything! We spent 10 hours together the other day for which he kept adding on time it was only supposed to be a couple hours and he kept asking what we were doing next so I went with it.
He wants to meet my mum when she comes to visit and has spoken to his parents about me so I usually pass on a hi (though I’m not sure what he’s said) he’s been single for 10yrs and never speaks to his parents about anyone other than his male bfs so I’m surprised he even mentioned me.
Ages are late 30s and early 40s and it has gradually developed to this point since meeting in Nov 2021. The calling has been consistent since Feb we used to just text everyday.
I really don’t know much about libra men so maybe I’m missing something??
You are correct. As to why he will not cross that line on his own...🤷
Could be so many reasons but that's irrelevant.
If your interested, call him out by telling him he can OR my favorite, on the next hug hold him in a little firmer to slow the withdraw and turn your head towards him. The other way is to make eye contact the move in slower with your lips parting without turning your head going into the hug.
Either one should break him to cross the line.
Personally I have had this issue when I'm unsure of her feelings or willingness to reciprocate and I value our relationship too much to risk undermining trust and my intentions questioned.
But again back to you. Reread the first paragraph.
Could be so many reasons but that's irrelevant.
If your interested, call him out by telling him he can OR my favorite, on the next hug hold him in a little firmer to slow the withdraw and turn your head towards him. The other way is to make eye contact the move in slower with your lips parting without turning your head going into the hug.
Either one should break him to cross the line.
Personally I have had this issue when I'm unsure of her feelings or willingness to reciprocate and I value our relationship too much to risk undermining trust and my intentions questioned.
But again back to you. Reread the first paragraph.
6 months and you’ve never kissed?? Is he a virgin? Religious?? Waiting for marriage???
Posted by LibraandgenerousOnly ever seen this type in one of those 3 categories or all 3.Posted by sweethearts
6 months and you’ve never kissed?? Is he a virgin? Religious?? Waiting for marriage???
Maybe he's waiting for her to do the first move, as he's afraid if he does she might take it the wrong way.click to expand
I'm gonna be honest with you - the only way you'll know his intentions is after you guys have sex.
6 months dating and no sex not even a kiss?! You have the patience of a saint
Posted by LostthoughtsThank you! This is a good idea I will try it.
You are correct. As to why he will not cross that line on his own...🤷
Could be so many reasons but that's irrelevant.
If your interested, call him out by telling him he can OR my favorite, on the next hug hold him in a little firmer to slow the withdraw and turn your head towards him. The other way is to make eye contact the move in slower with your lips parting without turning your head going into the hug.
Either one should break him to cross the line.
Personally I have had this issue when I'm unsure of her feelings or willingness to reciprocate and I value our relationship too much to risk undermining trust and my intentions questioned.
But again back to you. Reread the first paragraph.
Your last paragraph was really helpful.
I was getting confused as I thought that maybe he didn’t like me but then his behaviour wouldn’t make sense. He always tries to extend our time together but gets all jittery when I get close to him
What's this guy's Sun sign?
Posted by DonnaLibra
What's this guy's Sun sign?
He is a libra though I’m not sure of his other placements
So you both are Libras?
Posted by DonnaLibraNo I’m an aqua
So you both are Libras?
Posted by DonnaLibraNo I’m an aqua
So you both are Libras?
Posted by MonaLisa26Hahaha! A new twilight zone I didn’t know existed!!Posted by alexscariesPosted by MonaLisa26Posted by alexscaries
10 hours on a date and you weren't having breakfast in bed. 😋
The man is freaking mental case!
Maybe he's one of those incels.
I am LMAO because I once was a friend with group of guys and when I came to one of them brothers wedding - my pictures were all over and they all treated me as his WIFE! And we had not even kissed. Maybe held hands because we were friends.
Is this is some kind of mental disorder? Unannounced dating condition? LMAOclick to expand
Posted by Newnat2Posted by DonnaLibra
So you both are Libras?
No I’m an aquaclick to expand
Libra men love, love, love Aqua women so no wonder he wanted to spend so much time with you. Aqua and Aries women have them by the testies.
Posted by DonnaLibraI’m beginning to see this!! I need read a bit more on it. I’m leaving to see my family for 2 weeks today and so far he has called 6 times today and wants me to msg before I fly as it will be 1am which Is currently in only 1hr…and we just got off the phone! It’s a lot!! Haha!Posted by Newnat2Posted by DonnaLibra
So you both are Libras?
No I’m an aqua
Libra men love, love, love Aqua women so no wonder he wanted to spend so much time with you. Aqua and Aries women have them by the testies.click to expand
Posted by DonnaLibraI’m beginning to see this!! I need read a bit more on it. I’m leaving to see my family for 2 weeks today and so far he has called 6 times today and wants me to msg before I fly as it will be 1am which Is currently in only 1hr…and we just got off the phone! It’s a lot!! Haha!Posted by Newnat2Posted by DonnaLibra
So you both are Libras?
No I’m an aqua
Libra men love, love, love Aqua women so no wonder he wanted to spend so much time with you. Aqua and Aries women have them by the testies.click to expand
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