Is this sincere .....
This topic was created in the Libra forum by spion on Tuesday, May 13, 2008 and has 6 replies.
Hello again from me
I got answer from my Virgo guy after so many push and pull thing that he is so scared he told me that what i see into myself I want to fix this in you ( mean on fear ).
I told to him that i am so scare that he not accept me intellectually that i feel so unaccepted and scary that i will be reject from him after this he told me that he accept me intellectually and to not be scared and also told me this what i wrote to you above. And also he told me if you didn't want to talk with you i will not waste my time on you.
We also talk about on same private things about his sister and about his new work etc.
But after this conversation he withdrawn again and disappear again please tell me what to do next in the next conversation, also he told to me in this conversation you can see that i open up to you fully what this mean, and where you will find such honest person like me and i told to him i never try to find another. I wait to him very long time and i will wait more if is needed because i love him but i really don't know how to show him this because in this period of time he is so distant from me.And i talk to him only if he contact me because when i try to speak with him he always find some excuses or not answer.
Please any advise
If you are a libra, i wouldnt recommend a virgo guy. it will end up hurting u way deeper than u might be able to anticipate now. its too much of a headache wrapped under the emotional attraction. you can hear more details from LS.
I went through this with a virgo guy......We ended up falling deeply in love until he passed away.
Spion: He likes you...virgos are not sugar-coaters and they don't waste time on people they do not care for. They use the withdrawal thing as a defense mechanism. It means that he has fallen for you and he does not know how to accept it....
Virgo's are not good with emotions because they are deeply emotional people so they create this exterior shell as a shield. I would suggest that when he contacts you you suggest another sit down or invite him to dinner. Do not I repeat DO NOT let him know that you want to have a serious conversation beforehand. When you all are face to face tell him explicitly how his withdrawing has made you feel and how it has played a part in your feelings of inadequacy....this is a face to face conversation where you need to see his reaction. Then tell him that at this point you have interpreted from his behavior that you may not be the one for him....
If things do not change after that or if during the conversation you do not have a breakthrough than I say give him space because he is not ready....
I will say the conversation you posted above is a very very good sign that he is. My virgo guy and I had the same conversation....and well I turned into Linda Blair mixed with a bit of cybil. After that we were virtually inseparable until he died.
Virgo's are not good with emotions because they are deeply emotional people so they create this exterior shell as a shield. I would suggest that when he contacts you you suggest another sit down or invite him to dinner. Do not I repeat DO NOT let him know that you want to have a serious conversation beforehand. When you all are face to face tell him explicitly how his withdrawing has made you feel and how it has played a part in your feelings of inadequacy....this is a face to face conversation where you need to see his reaction. Then tell him that at this point you have interpreted from his behavior that you may not be the one for him....
If things do not change after that or if during the conversation you do not have a breakthrough than I say give him space because he is not ready....
I will say the conversation you posted above is a very very good sign that he is. My virgo guy and I had the same conversation....and well I turned into Linda Blair mixed with a bit of cybil. After that we were virtually inseparable until he died.
so i guess virgo boys are just like some libra boys...i would have said all libra boys but i didn't want to offend thelibran...i value what u say
oh and they wanna fix ya cuz they love you! My dad is a virgo and he is my personal handyman lol!
yup 2libras that why they hide and push pull.
yup 2libras that why they hide and push pull.
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