It can be haaaaard.....
This topic was created in the Libra forum by VIRGOEXALTED on Wednesday, August 30, 2006 and has 12 replies.
I've been eyeing this Libran girl for a while, and sometimes I find her almost 'untasteful'.....a little too 'realistic' and 'boundary spaced' for me; she seems, 'boring'...like she readily clings to social norms, and instead of changing things she's either in favor of them or against them, to pursue, something else to 'live by'....I live a little more freely, and openly, and would rather possess individuality than reject it; she would rather have friends than being individual....I almost pity her from all the pressure she must live under...I'm a Virgo guy, and HIGHLY ROMANTIC, but I can't ever seem to get her to 'love me'....It can be hard getting her 'personal side'.... I want to here about her, not the others...I'm stressed, anyone know what to do????
Thats a libra for you!However you do know her as herself.All the libras I know are usually very current in fashion,gossip,etc.socially and make being social,friends,etc. a top priority.It can be boring,whatever but libras are also very sweet,thoughtful and stuff in thier own right just different than water signs.Besides I find people who try to be "individuals" are the biggest followers to ever exists,they only dislike something just because its popular or like something that they don't really like just cause its not popular.Its still based on other people and not of themselves without any real personality of thier own
i think u should focus on her good qualities but if they dont outweigh the things u dont like about her,dont mean to be negative,but, maybe u should move on to someone more compatible for u
True to her nature this girl would avoid controversy at all costs. Rather than making ripples in the rather calm seas she would choose her pick from what's already available to her.
*** I can't ever seem to get her to 'love me'
Just because she doesn't love you doesn't mean she doesn't have a personality. You just aren't a match.
Just because she doesn't love you doesn't mean she doesn't have a personality. You just aren't a match.
Oh and just because she loves people and has many friends doesn't make her shallow. She probably knows more about the people in her life than anyone else and is less likely to pass serious judgement on any of them.
If you have already judged her, better find another girl. She wont find it happy with you. According to my knowledge on libran girls, they are hottest and romatic and often amazingly beautiful. far more openminded and intellectually advanced than a virgo. Carries the best butt in neighbourhood which can give an instant hard on for any normal man. 
If what you said is true about her, she can possibly be a virgo-libra cusp.
If what you said is true about her, she can possibly be a virgo-libra cusp.To Tiamat:
I don't agree on that; the fact that you simply want to be an individual 'FOR THE SOLE PURPOSE OF REBELLIION IS NOT WHAT IT MEANS TO BE AN INDIVIDUAL'.....that is a 'poser' for ya.... to be an idividual is to have a dream to turn the tides of humanity wide-spread, or to try to open the world to a new way of thinking/doing things to alter our very lives for the better; it's about staking you're own claim, and the definition of where YOU AS A PERSON STAND IN THE WORLD, AND WHAT YOU CAN DO AT YOUR VERY BEST; and broad-spoken WITHOUT aiming so low as to 'rebel' that isn't an 'true' individual; just a person who fears being like everyone else.
To Kelis:
I focus alot on her good qualities, WITHOUT ignoring her bad....I see the whole picture rather than just one side.... yet I can't 'reach' her, as she has no desire to get 'personal' and 'deep'...I want to expeience her romance, and her feelings, yet she only can see ME as a friend....we could MAKE it work, as in all relationships, there can be kinks; I anticipate them in order to work through them, and get back to the lovin' lol!!
To Avalan32:
Perhaps; there's nothing wrong with that, but I'd like for her to well, have a little backbone honestly speaking!! Why not make ripples if the possibility exists out there in those calm seas, to make it BETTER, or to get MORE?...I'd like to talk about the deeper stuff with her as I do tend to be rather philosophical, and well-aged....perhaps maturity is the/a factor?
Little Sparrow:
I never said she didn't have personality; I MEAN THAT'S THE VERY REASON WHY ANYONE GETS INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE YA KNOW? LOL!! she just seems heavily swayed, and 'receptive' to others....she needs to 'be apart of something' a mere part? Why not the head, or leader? She got a great head on her shoulders, and is beautiful, but that is fleeting, and isn't where the 'real magic' lies now is it?
theLibran:
Sounds to me you seem offended; I meant not to offend Libran; I had not 'judged' her yet, becauase I still weigh the option of being with her, and considering her 'relationship material' or just a friend; both have their pluses, but I have my preference; I am definitely not lacking in the bredth of vision department as I have big dreams/hopes, and a tolerant, broad-minded approach to life I respect just about avyone upon meeting them, and rather than just 'writing them off, I will consider the adventure in the very least.....the fact that you are comparing the scale
I don't agree on that; the fact that you simply want to be an individual 'FOR THE SOLE PURPOSE OF REBELLIION IS NOT WHAT IT MEANS TO BE AN INDIVIDUAL'.....that is a 'poser' for ya.... to be an idividual is to have a dream to turn the tides of humanity wide-spread, or to try to open the world to a new way of thinking/doing things to alter our very lives for the better; it's about staking you're own claim, and the definition of where YOU AS A PERSON STAND IN THE WORLD, AND WHAT YOU CAN DO AT YOUR VERY BEST; and broad-spoken WITHOUT aiming so low as to 'rebel' that isn't an 'true' individual; just a person who fears being like everyone else.
To Kelis:
I focus alot on her good qualities, WITHOUT ignoring her bad....I see the whole picture rather than just one side.... yet I can't 'reach' her, as she has no desire to get 'personal' and 'deep'...I want to expeience her romance, and her feelings, yet she only can see ME as a friend....we could MAKE it work, as in all relationships, there can be kinks; I anticipate them in order to work through them, and get back to the lovin' lol!!
To Avalan32:
Perhaps; there's nothing wrong with that, but I'd like for her to well, have a little backbone honestly speaking!! Why not make ripples if the possibility exists out there in those calm seas, to make it BETTER, or to get MORE?...I'd like to talk about the deeper stuff with her as I do tend to be rather philosophical, and well-aged....perhaps maturity is the/a factor?
Little Sparrow:
I never said she didn't have personality; I MEAN THAT'S THE VERY REASON WHY ANYONE GETS INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE YA KNOW? LOL!!
she just seems heavily swayed, and 'receptive' to others....she needs to 'be apart of something' a mere part? Why not the head, or leader? She got a great head on her shoulders, and is beautiful, but that is fleeting, and isn't where the 'real magic' lies now is it? theLibran:
Sounds to me you seem offended; I meant not to offend Libran; I had not 'judged' her yet, becauase I still weigh the option of being with her, and considering her 'relationship material' or just a friend; both have their pluses, but I have my preference; I am definitely not lacking in the bredth of vision department as I have big dreams/hopes, and a tolerant, broad-minded approach to life I respect just about avyone upon meeting them, and rather than just 'writing them off, I will consider the adventure in the very least.....the fact that you are comparing the scale
s, to the virgin is actually quite superfluous; we have our strengths, and our weakness; I have always been broad-minded, and wide-visioned, so much so, that I get carried away.... just who's 'juding who now?! HERMMMM?! lol she's funny, kind, pretty dogmatic (WHICH I LUUUUVE ABOUT HER!!) I just wish she weren't so easily swayed, and less afraid to lead...If she were by my side I COULD PROMISE SHE'D FEEL LIKE A QUEEN 24/7!! She was born October 8, so I don'tthink she's a cuspian....
she's funny, kind, pretty dogmatic (WHICH I LUUUUVE ABOUT HER!!) I just wish she weren't so easily swayed, and less afraid to lead...If she were by my side I COULD PROMISE SHE'D FEEL LIKE A QUEEN 24/7!! She was born October 8, so I don'tthink she's a cuspian....lol...i dont get offended by texts or dialogues Virgoexalated, Its way hard to offend me or make me angry for that matter. (libran).. By judging, what i mean is that you have already formed an opinion about the girl and though you will find good things about her, these first opinions will be rooted and will cloud your reason. If those opinions were in a right direction, it would have advanced easily. Clean up the slate and change ur glasses and take a second look at her.
Um,not every,single person is "meant" to be or even has the potential to be some kind of great,revoloutionary first off.President Bush also thinks hes a revolutionary however its not as great as he wants to be remembered for.Also to be a bigger part of something along those lines a mellow libra could do it better than what your giving the impression of what you think it takes for change.They are refered to as "the diplomats" in astrology (if I remember correctly)for a reason.They're the less bossy of the cardinal signs no doubt but thats also thier plus over the others.If your in a powerful position and only care about what you think,its not going to be revolutionary or even close to it.You have to listen to other sides,understand it and allow yourself to be swayed if the other person does have a better idea than you,working together makes things happen not the other if you don't have the proof already at hand.Otherwise,its just thoughts and opinions and you also have to carry all those other people to be successful for it to be viewed as a positive change for humanity.
awesome post by Tiamat!
VirgoEx
Libras are known for their social grace and ability to move in most circles. They don't rock the boat, instead they sooth the waves.
She won't let her guard down until she trust you. At this point, you aren't her mate. She will only do that for her mate.
VirgoEx
Libras are known for their social grace and ability to move in most circles. They don't rock the boat, instead they sooth the waves.
She won't let her guard down until she trust you. At this point, you aren't her mate. She will only do that for her mate.
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