WaterCup
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It's true..
Posted by tiziani
I've never agreed with the saying, personally.
But I can't speak from that much experience, whereas you seem to have a pretty solid background.
you mean you wouldn't slay dragons for the one you love? I honestly believe that the road to love is a bumpy one & ones true intentions are shown during the trying times. If they continue to persist regardless of an injured ego etc, then it must mean something. Dont worry, Tiz, love has a way of taking you straight of character. You'll do things you never thought you would just to keep her smiling and by your side. It'll happen, mark my words & remember to mention me in your 'trying-to-get-back-against-all-odds' speech. I'll appreciate that VERY much 😄
Today, i officially hate men 🙂 I will comment again when i change my mind!
Posted by Sola
Today, i officially hate men 🙂 I will comment again when i change my mind!
why?😢
Just because one jerk made you unhappy, doesnt mean that the right one is not out there for you. And you know what? Usually you find him when you arent even 'searching' anymore. Focus on you for now & your prince will find YOU when the time is right ((hugs))
Posted by Pecheresse
Sounds good WC 😉
thanks, Pech. It feels SO good that I even wrote my 1st novel..the OP LOL.
Posted by tiziani
Haha, I look forward to it!
I do know about acting out of character in love though. Didn't turn out all that great tbh. Wouldn't say I wouldn't do it again but honestly, can't see myself fitting the bill in terms of that "guy that stops at nothing".
The road is long and winding indeed, and it's hard enough figuring out your own bag without having to read minds or do the work for others before you're already in a relationship.
To me, I think the best scenario is when you can be honest with yourself in front of someone, and they can be honest with themselves in front of you. Then figure it out together from there.
Someone said something the other day about people expending so much energy trying to figure each other out before they're even in a relationship, that by the time they actually make a commitment... they're exhausted. Strikes me as very true.
But hey if I ever turn to a life of dragon slaying, you shall be remembered in the victory speech indeed 🙂
its all good in writing, buddy, but wait until it happens to you. You just haven't met THE ONE yet. Believe me when i say, this guy is a 5* cold hearted king douche, but here he is grovelling on my feet saying & doing things he never knew existed. Just remember me, k? 😛
Posted by tiziani
Hahahaha ok, deal!
sure. I'm thinking of starting 'air catching' classes for the ladies LOL. Jokes aside, everybody has somebody who will love them completely, I believe..they are out there sighing away to this thing called love & unaware that someday the moon and the stars will come out to play.
Posted by tizianiPosted by WaterCupPosted by tiziani
Hahahaha ok, deal!
sure. I'm thinking of starting 'air catching' classes for the ladies LOL. Jokes aside, everybody has somebody who will love them completely, I believe..they are out there sighing away to this thing called love & unaware that someday the moon and the stars will come out to play.
You're on a real roll today. I like that one.click to expand
because im high on
I'm just so tired of the seemingly endless crap associated with "love and relationships". Honestly, i am so happy alone, or more so with the time I spend with my friends. Obviously it would be a fib if I said it wouldnt be nice to eventually meet the "one", but for a while there I was actively looking for something..big mistake. I'm glad for those it's all working out for though, it's positive!
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Why do so many women doubt this? It's not until they experience it that they GET it. Of course, there are always exceptions to the rule, but it's not as common as this. Guys' behavior is always very telling whether they're aware or not and of course, women don't pay attention to it until it's way too late and painfully obvious.
Posted by tiziani
I've never agreed with the saying, personally.
But I can't speak from that much experience, whereas you seem to have a pretty solid background.
Of course you can't, you're not female. You don't approach dating like a female needs to. I know you don't always agree with the standard guidelines put in place to protect women from the usual traps, but they exist for a reason. There's always grey areas involved that prove some leeway may be needed, but women seriously need to pay attention to this stuff. Guys do too, but women tend to fall into these ridiculous traps more often and don't really "get" it until it's too late.
Posted by Sola
I'm just so tired of the seemingly endless crap associated with "love and relationships". Honestly, i am so happy alone, or more so with the time I spend with my friends. Obviously it would be a fib if I said it wouldnt be nice to eventually meet the "one", but for a while there I was actively looking for something..big mistake. I'm glad for those it's all working out for though, it's positive!click to expand
Seriously. I've never had luck going and looking for it. It always pops up when you least expect it.
I just dislike how dating and relating can be such a pain in the ass- this is where I agree with you- that singledom is so much easier to deal with sometimes. This guy that I've been seeing- everything was going great for awhile. Then here it comes, WHAM, instant behavior change and I'm seeing "he's not that into you."
Me- ....really?? Kinda irritating because it feels like you've had your time wasted. It's a shame, because I like him, too. Now I gotta be a hard ass. *sigh*
Posted by Sola
I'm just so tired of the seemingly endless crap associated with "love and relationships". Honestly, i am so happy alone, or more so with the time I spend with my friends. Obviously it would be a fib if I said it wouldnt be nice to eventually meet the "one", but for a while there I was actively looking for something..big mistake. I'm glad for those it's all working out for though, it's positive!
like i said im my previous post to you, dont 'look' or search. Just enjoy your single life & do you and you might get a surprize of a lifetime. I met this libra guy after a year+ of being single. I've previously broken up with a cheating aqua ex & for some reason I felt okay with just being alone. I felt okay with everything and 'boom' in he came, totally unexpected. I'll make you guys gag😛..we believe we are soulmates! I cant predict the future, but I know he'll ALWAYS be in my life. I dont know how i know this, i just know it.
There's a guy waiting for you, on his knees with a rose between his teeth at the end of the tunnel. Have hope, k? 🙂
Posted by leoliza
it's SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO true WC!!!!!
a little bit of mutual chasing is fun too after the initial stages 😉
(said the cat to the mouse)
i believe in mutual chasing too lol. I mean, you cant let another woman's child do all the work for you like you're a queen of nowhereland. Hows things with your leeb now?
Posted by LIBRA1234
@WC "If a guy is really interested in you, he'll exhaust all resources just to be with you"
I would generally agree with this statement but sometimes it does happen to come across a guy who is just stupid (or shy or inexperienced, etc) when it comes to women. These kind of men need a little push. They can be worthy but if you give up on them just cuz they don't chase you, u may lose a good catch. I have seen this happen
i guess it depends on an individual as i'd never chase a guy who doesnt chase, its embarrassing lol. If its a loss, so be it, it wasnt meant to be to begin with. Have you ever chased a guy?
Posted by LIBRA1234Posted by WaterCupPosted by LIBRA1234
@WC "If a guy is really interested in you, he'll exhaust all resources just to be with you"
I would generally agree with this statement but sometimes it does happen to come across a guy who is just stupid (or shy or inexperienced, etc) when it comes to women. These kind of men need a little push. They can be worthy but if you give up on them just cuz they don't chase you, u may lose a good catch. I have seen this happen
i guess it depends on an individual as i'd never chase a guy who doesnt chase, its embarrassing lol. If its a loss, so be it, it wasnt meant to be to begin with. Have you ever chased a guy?
I would not call it a chase, more like a push! lol. He was type of a guy who was shy and child like around women but sooo smart, funny and just very worthy in my book. I married that guyclick to expand
what's a 'push' & how is it different from a jog?
Oh, ok. You scared me there for a bit lol
Posted by LIBRA1234Posted by WaterCup
Oh, ok. You scared me there for a bit lol
hahahah u thought I was stalking him 🙂click to expand
not really, but 'push' sounded a tad suspicious lol. How did it end & what sign was he?
Posted by LIBRA1234Posted by WaterCupPosted by LIBRA1234Posted by WaterCup
Oh, ok. You scared me there for a bit lol
hahahah u thought I was stalking him 🙂
not really, but 'push' sounded a tad suspicious lol. How did it end & what sign was he?
Also libra. We are currently separated (not divorced) after 10 years together. We were amazing together in every possible way. We are still very good friends. We just had a loss to deal with and didn't know how.click to expand
oh, im sorry, that's understandable. Do you wanna get back together?
Posted by piscesmoonPosted by tiziani
I've never agreed with the saying, personally.
But I can't speak from that much experience, whereas you seem to have a pretty solid background.
Lost what is the point of this threat...?
PMclick to expand
Found, which 'threat'?
Posted by LIBRA1234
We care about each other a lot still so I don't know, I am not ready to go there yet, I am currently ok with how things are
fair enough.
Posted by LIBRA1234
@WC "If a guy is really interested in you, he'll exhaust all resources just to be with you"
I would generally agree with this statement but sometimes it does happen to come across a guy who is just stupid (or shy or inexperienced, etc) when it comes to women. These kind of men need a little push. They can be worthy but if you give up on them just cuz they don't chase you, u may lose a good catch. I have seen this happen
Agreed. This is the grey area that I was referring to.
For me it sound very weird to just let someone go or to let him solve his problems alone... If you, as woman are not on his side until he save his problems, then why you say you are a woman inlove wuth him—?
I was constantly contacted my Libra, even he cut off all his contctes with me for 3 weeks, but I continues to talk to him in messsages, because I knew he will read them and he likes what I said and how I support him , after this he send me his reply , said he is feel bad and sad ( for what was wrong ) but he loves me. I was more than happy to see that he appreciate my love and he still love me and have this feeling same as me. I think when 2 peoples love each other, is very important to be one near each other, not important if we are distance , distance in love is not exist , just between the places.... Remember this, so be warm with your libras and you will get warm response and he will always be back to you . 🙂
I was constantly contacted my Libra, even he cut off all his contctes with me for 3 weeks, but I continues to talk to him in messsages, because I knew he will read them and he likes what I said and how I support him , after this he send me his reply , said he is feel bad and sad ( for what was wrong ) but he loves me. I was more than happy to see that he appreciate my love and he still love me and have this feeling same as me. I think when 2 peoples love each other, is very important to be one near each other, not important if we are distance , distance in love is not exist , just between the places.... Remember this, so be warm with your libras and you will get warm response and he will always be back to you . 🙂
Posted by Aylin33
For me it sound very weird to just let someone go or to let him solve his problems alone... If you, as woman are not on his side until he save his problems, then why you say you are a woman inlove wuth him—?
I was constantly contacted my Libra, even he cut off all his contctes with me for 3 weeks, but I continues to talk to him in messsages, because I knew he will read them and he likes what I said and how I support him , after this he send me his reply , said he is feel bad and sad ( for what was wrong ) but he loves me. I was more than happy to see that he appreciate my love and he still love me and have this feeling same as me. I think when 2 peoples love each other, is very important to be one near each other, not important if we are distance , distance in love is not exist , just between the places.... Remember this, so be warm with your libras and you will get warm response and he will always be back to you . 🙂
i dont agree with your post, but if it works for you YIPPIE. 1st of all, ALL RELATIONS are different & ALL COUPLES do exactly what works FOR THEM. 2ndly, its HIS PROBLEMS & not mine or OUR PROBLEM, so its his to solve. 3rdly, we are not siamese twins, we need space to focus & get a mental and emotional alignment. We are both air signs so space is VERY important. If your libra is koala & wants to be around you all the time, well this one is not like that, besides i would have dumped him since i dont remember adopting him- i need space to breathe & not have someone all up in my ass all the damn time. Do you, k? 🙂
i guess im weird but if someone chases me too much and i cant satisfy mu curiosity as to why its a red flag for me. maybe im just too suspicious but everyone needs something from someone.
Posted by libra08
i guess im weird but if someone chases me too much and i cant satisfy mu curiosity as to why its a red flag for me. maybe im just too suspicious but everyone needs something from someone.
not weird at all, but people arent the same. Besides, if the feeling is mutual, why the hell not? Chase
Posted by leolizaPosted by WaterCupPosted by leoliza
it's SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO true WC!!!!!
a little bit of mutual chasing is fun too after the initial stages 😉
(said the cat to the mouse)
i believe in mutual chasing too lol. I mean, you cant let another woman's child do all the work for you like you're a queen of nowhereland. Hows things with your leeb now?
LOL! The queen of nowhereland sounds kind of cool tho..haha
We are doing so great. Love support and more love! So much fun. Right mix of space friendship passion romance work and creativity! Ty for askin (:click to expand
aww, thats great. Its cool when they finally centre themselves.
Posted by Aylin33
For me it sound very weird to just let someone go or to let him solve his problems alone... If you, as woman are not on his side until he save his problems, then why you say you are a woman inlove wuth him—?
I was constantly contacted my Libra, even he cut off all his contctes with me for 3 weeks, but I continues to talk to him in messsages, because I knew he will read them and he likes what I said and how I support him , after this he send me his reply , said he is feel bad and sad ( for what was wrong ) but he loves me. I was more than happy to see that he appreciate my love and he still love me and have this feeling same as me. I think when 2 peoples love each other, is very important to be one near each other, not important if we are distance , distance in love is not exist , just between the places.... Remember this, so be warm with your libras and you will get warm response and he will always be back to you . 🙂
...you sound a little looney tunes. :/
Thanks, leeeebra🙂
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My advice to other ladies, if you are doing all the chasing then something isn't right. If a guy is really interested in you, he'll exhaust all resources just to be with you. There's hope for all of us when it comes to love. We just need to meet the correct guy who'll do almost anything to keep us with them. If you were chasing before, drop those running shoes right now & just watch him come to you..that's how you see if they give 2 shits about you.
Good luck🙂