Leo Girl's Last Attempt to Ask Libra Out on a Date
This topic was created in the Libra forum by schweppes1474 on Saturday, April 9, 2011 and has 2 replies.
Sooo after about 3.5 years, I think one of my Aries friends said something like 1265 days, I am almost ready to throw in the towel for this Libra male friend of mine. I am a Leo with Cancer Moon and Venus He is Libra with Cap Moon and Venus. In most aspects things are good between us. We work together in a small office and are planning a business partnership that we hope to launch in August.We've had the awkward moments, lots of flirting, touching etc in the past, but never took it further.
The last 18 months things have been different we still talk and spend time with each other a lot but it is almost always about work or business. We go out to lunch together,and I have had him over for dinner a few times this year but again for business. I've been to some of his family gatherings etc. But I get mixed signals he seems all business, but whenever my taste in men or etc come up or I get suggestive he gets weird and withdraws. Now I don't have a big dating life to speak of so usually these conversations are more about why I am not dating etc. If I withdraw he is all over me, but not in a touchy feely way. Anyways, to make this short, I want to give it was last go. I want to invite him to this festival, we actualy went together three years ago. I've promised my friends if he says no or makes up some excuse, I'll let it go and move on for real..lol. Since we've known each other a while, and he knows my mannerisms and I his, I just want to do this right.
Any tips about asking him out? And.. if he says yes, what can I do short of jumping him to let him know hey i'm still interested if he is. I am asking for advice because I am not a big dater. Funny thing is when I met him first, I thought we could have a cool fling, but he never made a move so now we're in the in the friend zone but with a weird tension. I am just frustrated and tired about it. I just want him to know I am still into him and if he is not interested so be it. I don't want 10 years to go by and then he find out and then say he never knew. Any tips are appreciated.
The last 18 months things have been different we still talk and spend time with each other a lot but it is almost always about work or business. We go out to lunch together,and I have had him over for dinner a few times this year but again for business. I've been to some of his family gatherings etc. But I get mixed signals he seems all business, but whenever my taste in men or etc come up or I get suggestive he gets weird and withdraws. Now I don't have a big dating life to speak of so usually these conversations are more about why I am not dating etc. If I withdraw he is all over me, but not in a touchy feely way. Anyways, to make this short, I want to give it was last go. I want to invite him to this festival, we actualy went together three years ago. I've promised my friends if he says no or makes up some excuse, I'll let it go and move on for real..lol. Since we've known each other a while, and he knows my mannerisms and I his, I just want to do this right.
Any tips about asking him out? And.. if he says yes, what can I do short of jumping him to let him know hey i'm still interested if he is. I am asking for advice because I am not a big dater. Funny thing is when I met him first, I thought we could have a cool fling, but he never made a move so now we're in the in the friend zone but with a weird tension. I am just frustrated and tired about it. I just want him to know I am still into him and if he is not interested so be it. I don't want 10 years to go by and then he find out and then say he never knew. Any tips are appreciated.
Posted by QLIbraMale
Just Ask him out at dinner at your house, I know you probably want tips and all but asking Libra Male out complete turn on lol. Also since you know him from head to toe, do something charming and poetic/memorable. i.e here's my corney Libra Male advice lol. Since y'all don't mix business with pleasure, try to like purposely leave a sexy note in a notepad or book tell him you discovered something very important that would change y'all business lives and have him read it out loud, example so an so has great food and customer service hey _____your name please go out with me? lol. Being embarrassed+flattering does wonders lol.
Thanks for the advice..i guess i felt if i asked him over to my home again it would just be like last few times, i figured if we were out he might not feel backdd into a corner if i was more flirty or suggestive with him...u don't think he would get the hint if i just invite him out for drinks?...my other thought was just to start asking him abt dating advice.. he knws i dont date but i think he thinks its because i don't want to whn really it's because i've been waiting for him..ugh i'm so confused..bu thnx for the tip
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