Libra and lost love

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Upheaval on Friday, July 18, 2008 and has 12 replies.
Saw a foto today from my ex-girlfriend(aries) with her new love.
I feel anger and hate...
Wich i find verry odd cause it's been like half a year we broke up and even saw her..
I know she cares about me cause she still keeps foto's of me on her "myspace" and her best friend told me she misses my friendship and humor.
Why can i not be happy for her that she found someone she really likes ?
Cause you know i'm also happy for her.. but at the same time argghhh.
Is this libra narcism ? or my strong taurus moon influence ?
I feel like hanging out with her again like friends but at the same time i would like to destroy..
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Lol I think its normal to feel a little jealous.. Sometimes people get with their sisters boyfriend par example bec thwey don have that much attn anymore..and bec u used to have her..not bec u r not over her..but only u can say that. I am even a bit jealous by my best friends new bf bec we used to hang out a lot but now she spends her time a lot with him..just my 0.000 cents Winking
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Yeh , u're right
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Mmmmm it was intense but i missed some stuff in the relationship but we split up in friendship you know we both realised that it wasn't gonna work out.
I guess i'm kinda upset because she distand herself from me , the first weeks after the break up we still did stuff together but i felt this distance , this blocking..
I felt ice..
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So you're saying if now i would contact her again she would be spontanious again ?
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But anyway it doesn't really matters , her friendship doesn't mean anything to me no more she wanted distance from me now she has distance.
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No... but she treated me that way.
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It felt like that she was just hanging out with me for me you know.
But that she didn't cared what i did or what i would do and that she wanted to do something else as fast as possible.
Felt like an idiot.
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" she broke down crying in front of you...I'm sure she felt like an idiot before that and felt even more an idiot when she cried to you and all you said was, "I know, I know". Whoa. "
What's wrong with saying that ? I ment that i really understanded it that we couldn't be "lovers" no more , hey don't forget i kissed her forhead and gave her a long hug , it hurted me to A LOT that we couldn't be together anymore.
I really don't c what i did wrong here.
But that doesn't mean i have to act different arround her just because we broke up , neither should she.
But she did and that pissed me off , i had this feeling like whooo who the fuck is she , do i even know her ?
"thats kinda sellfish. she was proteccting herself and you felt it was something against you?"
Protecting herself from what ? My care and friendship ?
Oh and i'm not taking anything you say offensive , i'm trying to learn were i judge aries woman's wrong or form a wrong idea about them and were i go wrong.
Anyway i'm still angry that she blocked me out. I feel betrayed.
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"Were you two friends first? If not....then with the situation changing, naturally, she'd act different."
No weren't friends wich is verry weird for me cause i useually don't jump in a relationship that fast.
"It said that if he has 'any' interest in her and she wants him back DO NOT be seen with a new guy. Libra men will write off her existence."
Well thats true.
"Wow...I must say that I'm proud of you. You took something I said literally. You are not like most libras. I really mean that, lol."
Sarcasm ? :p

I feel betrayed cause she's just "friendly" because she had a good time with me for a while and doesn't want to blow me off , it doesn't run as deep as with me i guess.
But i still want her to be happy despite my anger.
Than again i know she also want me to be happy sooo we are hurting eachother or feel "hurt" for nothing. ( if that makes sense :p )
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"Anyway i'm still angry that she blocked me out. I feel betrayed"
- The Aries-Libra relationship is a strong connection, especially for Aries who loves instinctually, passionately, wholeheartly. Yet for all of our passion we don't do the emotional thing well, and while the fine Libra mind thinks through heartache, Aries moves on through action and distance. It wasn't that she didn't want to hang out with you, but more likely that she couldn't handle it emotionally, didnt want to hurt you, but didnt want to hurt herself further either. Not that you would intentionally do anything to hurt her further, just that Libra's presence, kindness, easygoing nature would remind her of what she had lost too soon after losing it.
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Thx for replying firegirl and arian !
Yeh i understand it better now. Maybe it's an egocentric reaction of me like you said arian.
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