Libra and online dating shadiness

So I've been talking to this libra guy for about 7 months and have met in person several times as well as talking over the phone very frequently and we're both still on this dating app...

We're friends right now and I'll call or text him to talk and he sometimes doesn't pick up or respond to my texts because he says he finds texting boring. He does call me often though.

Fair enough, but I'll constantly see him logged onto this dating app multiple times a day without even having a picture of himself up. If you have no picture up, you can't message anyone or swipe through profiles.

I'm confused as to why he's logging on there? :/

He told me that his family thinks dating apps are for hookups only and his dad was going to find him someone to marry and soon after, I found him on this app and asked him about it. He then said that I was accusing him of being shady and then he threw a fit and stopped talking to me for a week.

During that time, he mentioned he was only on the app to keep tabs on me and didn't even have a picture. He still keeps logging on since then...

I'm confused. Any Libras out there have insight on what he wants/is trying to do?? :/ I'm a Cancer woman and he's a Libra male if that helps...

Don't even bother with them. Believe me, I've learned my lesson the hard way. They are confusing, they tell you you are the light in the darkness, will talk about relationship and even family if they notice you like them, they still keep adding girls on social media, talking other people, they will take you out but couple of other girls as well, you won't be the one. Besides they like throwing tantrums like a toddler, if you confront them they will quit talking to you. Year ago I was going thru the same, I remember my first appearance here and people commenting my thread, after reading my "story" one libra guy said "keep reading over and over and still don't understand what's the problem". So he doesn't see the issue being scumbag , he thinks it's okay to ignore people and being rude in general, disrespect "one you swore you couldn't live without" etc etc

Just forget him and never ever chase libra. Also keep your secrets, they aren't for deep conversations. Never show them that you care ! just tell them to fuck off and they will kiss your ass

Posted by 2Moon

Posted by pisceanloves
Don't even bother with them. Believe me, I've learned my lesson the hard way. They are confusing, they tell you you are the light in the darkness, will talk about relationship and even family if they notice you like them, they still keep adding girls on social media, talking other people, they will take you out but couple of other girls as well, you won't be the one. Besides they like throwing tantrums like a toddler, if you confront them they will quit talking to you. Year ago I was going thru the same, I remember my first appearance here and people commenting my thread, after reading my "story" one libra guy said "keep reading over and over and still don't understand what's the problem". So he doesn't see the issue being scumbag , he thinks it's okay to ignore people and being rude in general, disrespect "one you swore you couldn't live without" etc etc

Just forget him and never ever chase libra. Also keep your secrets, they aren't for deep conversations. Never show them that you care ! just tell them to fuck off and they will kiss your ass

Wtf?

Jesus.... You are Crazy.

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Wtf?? anything you don't understand ? not talking your language so far— lol

Well OP already experienced libra personality, same goes for me. I'm not crazy actually, every single word I've said is the truth 🙂

Posted by topes
Water signs and their double standards. And they are so good at making accusations when they are just as if not more hypocritical than other signs.

But it's always everyone elses fault, as usual..

Ugh.

Well I guess another libra here lol

The thing is I was blaming myself for quit some time. I thought I did something wrong and was trying to find out what. Water signs don't play any games, we say exactly whatever it is. you guys are just too confusing

@pisceanloves you are RIGHT! I'm going through the same thing! Confronted him and he disappeared! You Cannot show them you care AT ALL!

Posted by 2Moon

Posted by pisceanloves
Don't even bother with them. Believe me, I've learned my lesson the hard way. They are confusing, they tell you you are the light in the darkness, will talk about relationship and even family if they notice you like them, they still keep adding girls on social media, talking other people, they will take you out but couple of other girls as well, you won't be the one. Besides they like throwing tantrums like a toddler, if you confront them they will quit talking to you. Year ago I was going thru the same, I remember my first appearance here and people commenting my thread, after reading my "story" one libra guy said "keep reading over and over and still don't understand what's the problem". So he doesn't see the issue being scumbag , he thinks it's okay to ignore people and being rude in general, disrespect "one you swore you couldn't live without" etc etc

Just forget him and never ever chase libra. Also keep your secrets, they aren't for deep conversations. Never show them that you care ! just tell them to fuck off and they will kiss your ass

Wtf?

Jesus.... You are Crazy.

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yep just another crazy pisces lol

Posted by toasted_marsh
So I've been talking to this libra guy for about 7 months and have met in person several times as well as talking over the phone very frequently and we're both still on this dating app...

We're friends right now and I'll call or text him to talk and he sometimes doesn't pick up or respond to my texts because he says he finds texting boring. He does call me often though.

Fair enough, but I'll constantly see him logged onto this dating app multiple times a day without even having a picture of himself up. If you have no picture up, you can't message anyone or swipe through profiles.

I'm confused as to why he's logging on there? :/

He told me that his family thinks dating apps are for hookups only and his dad was going to find him someone to marry and soon after, I found him on this app and asked him about it. He then said that I was accusing him of being shady and then he threw a fit and stopped talking to me for a week.

During that time, he mentioned he was only on the app to keep tabs on me and didn't even have a picture. He still keeps logging on since then...

I'm confused. Any Libras out there have insight on what he wants/is trying to do?? :/ I'm a Cancer woman and he's a Libra male if that helps...

Could it be as simple as him checking up on you? I mean why do you still have your account? Just talk to him about both of you cancelling and/or do it together ...

Posted by ChoXtsy
What does it matter? He's on it and you're on it too. I'm sure you have you reasons and he does as well.

Right!!!!

Posted by pisceanloves
Don't even bother with them. Believe me, I've learned my lesson the hard way. They are confusing, they tell you you are the light in the darkness, will talk about relationship and even family if they notice you like them, they still keep adding girls on social media, talking other people, they will take you out but couple of other girls as well, you won't be the one. Besides they like throwing tantrums like a toddler, if you confront them they will quit talking to you. Year ago I was going thru the same, I remember my first appearance here and people commenting my thread, after reading my "story" one libra guy said "keep reading over and over and still don't understand what's the problem". So he doesn't see the issue being scumbag , he thinks it's okay to ignore people and being rude in general, disrespect "one you swore you couldn't live without" etc etc

Just forget him and never ever chase libra. Also keep your secrets, they aren't for deep conversations. Never show them that you care ! just tell them to fuck off and they will kiss your ass

Damn!

Posted by pisceanloves

Posted by topes
Water signs and their double standards. And they are so good at making accusations when they are just as if not more hypocritical than other signs.

But it's always everyone elses fault, as usual..

Ugh.

Well I guess another libra here lol

The thing is I was blaming myself for quit some time. I thought I did something wrong and was trying to find out what. Water signs don't play any games, we say exactly whatever it is. you guys are just too confusing

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When we are in love with the lady, we don't play games. We are very loyal IF we love you. I am a Libra faithful to Capricorn woman for 11 years here. Prior to her, however I was the Libra you described above.

Posted by toasted_marsh
So I've been talking to this libra guy for about 7 months and have met in person several times as well as talking over the phone very frequently and we're both still on this dating app...

We're friends right now and I'll call or text him to talk and he sometimes doesn't pick up or respond to my texts because he says he finds texting boring. He does call me often though.

Fair enough, but I'll constantly see him logged onto this dating app multiple times a day without even having a picture of himself up. If you have no picture up, you can't message anyone or swipe through profiles.

I'm confused as to why he's logging on there? :/

He told me that his family thinks dating apps are for hookups only and his dad was going to find him someone to marry and soon after, I found him on this app and asked him about it. He then said that I was accusing him of being shady and then he threw a fit and stopped talking to me for a week.

During that time, he mentioned he was only on the app to keep tabs on me and didn't even have a picture. He still keeps logging on since then...

I'm confused. Any Libras out there have insight on what he wants/is trying to do?? :/ I'm a Cancer woman and he's a Libra male if that helps...

He is still on the app because he hasn't found what he been looking for and he is looking. When I was on a dating app, if I a met a woman who moved me, I didn't log on for awhile. If I wasn't moved, or captured, I kept my options open.

Posted by Goodtimes

Posted by pisceanloves

Posted by topes
Water signs and their double standards. And they are so good at making accusations when they are just as if not more hypocritical than other signs.

But it's always everyone elses fault, as usual..

Ugh.

Well I guess another libra here lol

The thing is I was blaming myself for quit some time. I thought I did something wrong and was trying to find out what. Water signs don't play any games, we say exactly whatever it is. you guys are just too confusing

When we are in love with the lady, we don't play games. We are very loyal IF we love you. I am a Libra faithful to Capricorn woman for 11 years here. Prior to her, however I was the Libra you described above.

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