Libra & Aries. How the hell does that work?

If there is anyone out there who has made this combo work, please reveal the secret. How do you get two signs as stubborn as these two to meet halfway? I just need to know how to get past 'Communication 101: Talking to Each Other and Not Past Each Other'. 2 years later and I'm ready to snatch my hair, teeth, and eyes out. In our case it's Ram Ram Bull + Scale Scale Bull when it comes to sun, asc, moon.


Opposites attract, but then what?

All I can tell you is that you are interested enough to ask for advice kindly in this forum.
and Librans won't do the same, and if they do, it would be very... very strange/rare.

Take a look at the topics in Libra forum, they are FULL of Aries chicks talking about Libra men.
BUT! there's no Libra male in Aries forum, almost NEVER.

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Well that's all the info I have for you. I hope you realize that I'm not writing this to annoy you, I'm trying to tell you a part of the truth that nobody will tell you here.
Good Luck.

P.D. If many "Libra guys" misteriously start to ask for advice in Aries forum right now, they may be Arian girls. Because Arians don't like to lose and of course they hate to look like fools. (that's what they should think about BEFORE paying so much attention to Libra dudes and posting in this forum).
And I'm not a Libra, sorry.

Posted by CharlieSlaughter

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Well that's all the info I have for you. I hope you realize that I'm not writing this to annoy you, I'm trying to tell you a part of the truth that nobody will tell you here.
Good Luck.

P.D. If many "Libra guys" misteriously start to ask for advice in Aries forum right now, they may be Arian girls. Because Arians don't like to lose and of course they hate to look like fools. (that's what they should think about BEFORE paying so much attention to Libra dudes and posting in this forum).
And I'm not a Libra, sorry.

That could say as much about Librans as it can about Arians. Trust, this is not the "My Libra disappeared, boohoo, what do I do". Maybe it was worded wrong, but I'm just trying to get a little insight from people who've been there and done it. Posted it in both forums to get more "balanced" or I guess less biased responses.

As far as who's doing the asking on what on what forum, isn't it both signs nature to react that way?
Just looking for a little insight.

Thanks.

Posted by MrBalance

He's right...there is this one Aries woman though..she talks a lot of shit 🙂 She already knows who she is and as stupid as she is, I bet she will be responding soon

Oh, I believe it.

'Both signs have to learn to be more confrontational. Libra may have a rep for avoiding confrontation but Aries is just as indirect becsuse whether you like it or not, causing a scene, making drama, shouting real loud and burying problems by going on a rant is not called confronting the real issue.'

^This is deep

Posted by tiziani
- don't base the relationship on great sex

Do Librans and Arians have great sex? How can that be possible?
They are so different... sometimes not in a good way.

I'm not saying you are wrong, but it sounds strange/unbelievable and interesting at the same time.
Well... at least for me.

Human behavior is always interesting. 🙂

Posted by CharlieSlaughter
All I can tell you is that you are interested enough to ask for advice kindly in this forum.
and Librans won't do the same, and if they do, it would be very... very strange/rare.

Take a look at the topics in Libra forum, they are FULL of Aries chicks talking about Libra men.
BUT! there's no Libra male in Aries forum, almost NEVER.

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Well that's all the info I have for you. I hope you realize that I'm not writing this to annoy you, I'm trying to tell you a part of the truth that nobody will tell you here.
Good Luck.

P.D. If many "Libra guys" misteriously start to ask for advice in Aries forum right now, they may be Arian girls. Because Arians don't like to lose and of course they hate to look like fools. (that's what they should think about BEFORE paying so much attention to Libra dudes and posting in this forum).
And I'm not a Libra, sorry.

Maybe it's because libra men like to act like they are not bothered. They hide hurt very well.

After I broke up with the one I was dating he said, "That's fine, I'm not going to die". Yet he called the very next day! Nice one minute & very NASTY the next. One of my favourite lines from his version of nasty is, "You're a bitch, not a small bitch but a big bitch". Like I'm supposed to be hurt by THAT. LOL! I swear librans don't know how to string a few sentences & make them fatal. I'm like, I know this mofo doesn't want to turn this into a war of words because my mix of alphabets can be lethal. One single dose of ABCs & I'll have him convulsing on the floor. LMAO.

Librans are really nice people even when they are trying to be mean. Cute.

Posted by MrBalance

Posted by CharlieSlaughter
All I can tell you is that you are interested enough to ask for advice kindly in this forum.
and Librans won't do the same, and if they do, it would be very... very strange/rare.

Take a look at the topics in Libra forum, they are FULL of Aries chicks talking about Libra men.
BUT! there's no Libra male in Aries forum, almost NEVER.

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Well that's all the info I have for you. I hope you realize that I'm not writing this to annoy you, I'm trying to tell you a part of the truth that nobody will tell you here.
Good Luck.

P.D. If many "Libra guys" misteriously start to ask for advice in Aries forum right now, they may be Arian girls. Because Arians don't like to lose and of course they hate to look like fools. (that's what they should think about BEFORE paying so much attention to Libra dudes and posting in this forum).
And I'm not a Libra, sorry.

He's right...there is this one Aries woman though..she talks a lot of shit 🙂 She already knows who she is and as stupid as she is, I bet she will be responding soon

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You're coming off a but nutty now, dear. You're one of them crazy Libras, aren't you?

Posted by AlphaArietis

Posted by CharlieSlaughter

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Well that's all the info I have for you. I hope you realize that I'm not writing this to annoy you, I'm trying to tell you a part of the truth that nobody will tell you here.
Good Luck.

P.D. If many "Libra guys" misteriously start to ask for advice in Aries forum right now, they may be Arian girls. Because Arians don't like to lose and of course they hate to look like fools. (that's what they should think about BEFORE paying so much attention to Libra dudes and posting in this forum).
And I'm not a Libra, sorry.

That could say as much about Librans as it can about Arians. Trust, this is not the "My Libra disappeared, boohoo, what do I do". Maybe it was worded wrong, but I'm just trying to get a little insight from people who've been there and done it. Posted it in both forums to get more "balanced" or I guess less biased responses.

As far as who's doing the asking on what on what forum, isn't it both signs nature to react that way?
Just looking for a little insight.

Thanks.

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Note, one major flaw in his logic is that men are not as likely as women to come here and seek advice. To compare men going to one forum vs women to another isn't a proper comparison. Every forum has more females seeking advice than males do.

The Aries forum did have a Libra dude awhile back, but we see more women seeking advice than men there, too.

And in regard to your thread in BOTH forums, who the hell knows. One always communicates more/less. In my experience, the Libras usually aren't very forthcoming with what's really going on inside their heads because they're all about keeping the peace.

Posted by WaterCup

After I broke up with the one I was dating he said, "That's fine, I'm not going to die". Yet he called the very next day! Nice one minute & very NASTY the next. One of my favourite lines from his version of nasty is, "You're a bitch, not a small bitch but a big bitch". Like I'm supposed to be hurt by THAT. LOL! I swear librans don't know how to string a few sentences & make them fatal. I'm like, I know this mofo doesn't want to turn this into a war of words because my mix of alphabets can be lethal. One single dose of ABCs & I'll have him convulsing on the floor. LMAO.

^Coming from a person with Sun Square Mars (Sun squaring moon and pluto also).
I have to say that you act just like a weak person, because the strength you claim to have is false strength.

You feel powerful because you are next to a weak/kind person, how's that supposed to be strength?

Sooner or later you'll realize that you have big issues with men, (a very bad natal karma) seems like you don't respect them, and that's why they won't truly love you. The better they are, the faster they will walk away from you. Because REAL men don't need to fight with their women.
Real men conquer their destinies (and other men if necessary).

-Your astral map is very easy to read.

I'm 85% sure that you were a high-society male in your past life, but no woman loved you. Now you have to deal with that karma. (I just need to know where your south lunar node is to confirm that).
You father was very severe with you, somehow he put strong religious believings in you.
Also, It looks like you dream with having a baby, but that may never happen (your bad karma with men is more than evident) and if you have one, that child will inherit the karma of your father, and maybe yours too.

Mark my words, If you don't change your way of thinking, that would happen.

Because the more you burn, the more you learn. That's how karma works.




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Ok, I'm done.
Enough humanity for today.
Don't know why every "opposition-aspect thread" is full of karmic people.

Posted by CharlieSlaughter

Posted by WaterCup

After I broke up with the one I was dating he said, "That's fine, I'm not going to die". Yet he called the very next day! Nice one minute & very NASTY the next. One of my favourite lines from his version of nasty is, "You're a bitch, not a small bitch but a big bitch". Like I'm supposed to be hurt by THAT. LOL! I swear librans don't know how to string a few sentences & make them fatal. I'm like, I know this mofo doesn't want to turn this into a war of words because my mix of alphabets can be lethal. One single dose of ABCs & I'll have him convulsing on the floor. LMAO.

^Coming from a person with Sun Square Mars (Sun squaring moon and pluto also).
I have to say that you act just like a weak person, because the strength you claim to have is false strength.

You feel powerful because you are next to a weak/kind person, how's that supposed to be strength?

Sooner or later you'll realize that you have big issues with men, (a very bad natal karma) seems like you don't respect them, and that's why they won't truly love you. The better they are, the faster they will walk away from you. Because REAL men don't need to fight with their women.
Real men conquer their destinies (and other men if necessary).

-Your astral map is very easy to read.

I'm 85% sure that you were a high-society male in your past life, but no woman loved you. Now you have to deal with that karma. (I just need to know where your south lunar node is to confirm that).
You father was very severe with you, somehow he put strong religious believings in you.
Also, It looks like you dream with having a baby, but that may never happen (your bad karma with men is more than evident) and if you have one, that child will inherit the karma of your father, and maybe yours too.

Mark my words, If you don't change your way of thinking, that would happen.

Because the more you burn, the more you learn. That's how karma works.




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Ok, I'm done.
Enough humanity for today.
Don't know why every "opposition-aspect thread" is full of karmic people.

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WTF?

Finally! Another Aries guy, lol. Funny how I'm interested in an Aries male right now myself, and I am a Libra girl, hmm we may be able to help each other.lol. I'm on my 2nd Aries-Libra combo. One thing I can tell you is listen to Tiziani. The things that were pointed out in his/her comment is very accurate.

The crazy thing is the same thing your wondering about your Libra girl, I'm wondering about my Aries male. Anyway, in my past combo with an Aries the only flaw with this combo IS the communication. Oh they communicate alright, but they have different ways of going about it. Aries is straight forward and direct, and often don't think about what's coming out of their mouth, or I should say —HOW?? something is coming out of their mouth before it's too late, and the Libra may often take what you say the wrong way or heck the right way and they will start to analyze it to the bone. Libra??s often take an extremely long time to react, or respond, and you can double that time if your trying to get us to speak our mind, I??ve learned that this irritates the shit out of the impatient Aries and other fire signs. To you, you??re thinking —OUT WITH IT GIRL! DANG?? to her she's thinking —DON??T RUSH ME! Who do you think you are? Now I have to start all over again.?? Whelp, there's your stubborn right there huh lol.

If you didn't get the message I was implying; she's very rebellious when pushed and shoved or feeling bossed about, and she will try her best to get away from you so don't go there. She might even disappear for a moment. Surprisingly the reason a Libra woman wont disappear on an Aries male in my experience is because he does allow her that space. His life is very face paced and he has millions of things, and people he can deal with while she handles her mind. Then he??ll check on her, and he may even help her make a decision if he can get her to open her trap about what's really bothering her. The thing I loved most about my past and current Aries males is their ability to take a complicated situation and make a simple solution where I would have taken hours, or days to come up with one. I love their drive, and take charge attitude. A Libra woman would much rather prefer a man that adores her opinion not depend on it, because she's horrible at decision making and she knows it, and Aries takes the lead without a problem and without making her feel inferior in fact he makes her feel protected.

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I want to warn you to watch —how?? you say thing to her. Remember, she is your EXACT opposite she doesn't have the thick skin she fools others into thinking she does with that nonchalant, aloof attitude. If you say something that hurt or bothered her, you may get a frown or a blank stare, but she most likely won't confront you right away because unlike you she likes to think about her actions before committing them, and she has to get the perfect words together to get her point across clearly the way she wants. During the time she's taking to prepare she most likely will avoid you or come off nonchalant, or —stubborn?? as you put it. You won't have to worry about this, if you can make your Libra feel comfortable talking to you without a tongue lashing war. Watch your tongue, because I can assure you she will watch her??s if you do, she's all about fairness.
Try to get her in the habit of telling you when something you said or did is bothering the moment she feels it otherwise she??ll make up her own assumptions and your words will fall on deaf ears. Let her see how telling you is better than her taking time to herself to handle it alone or in her head, and how telling you benefits you both. If you can get her to see the good in being open with you at all times, I think this match can go perfectly. My past Aries and I had a very open communication line and during those times I think we could see each other being partners for life, because we were crazy about one another. However one day the disconnection started to happen because we stopped communicating.

To this day I'm sure it had something to do with our differences in communication he used to take care in how he said something to me or around me, I respected him for it so in return I made a point to be honest and straight forward when I felt something, honestly I learned it from him, he always seemed willing to listen and he never scowled me even when I was coming at him about something he did. However, he stopped. Suddenly he didn't care what flew out of his damn mouth and sometimes I wanted to stick a sock in it to shut him up. He??d apologize once I got my words right to tell him how his words made me feel, but by then I??d already made up my own assumptions in my head and his apology felt good but it wasn't solid enough to make me forget whatever it was that he said.

Anyway I could go on and on about this pair. Inbox me if you need more. Lol. P.S I??

Oh gosh, it cut off that last part..well all i said was i have 3 Libra males in my fam, and 5 Aries women. I'm the only Libra girl. lol

I was close friends, in love, and married to an Aries male for about 14 years. It was mostly good, but we were unable to keep things together when the going got tough. Aries energy in general is very "tasty" to Libras, but it probably depends upon mutual tolerance and maturity in the couple to form a solid, lasting relationship.

I would also say that physical stamina and health are important. I was much more tolerant of my aries spouse's temper before experiencing some serious health setbacks.

Posted by CreoleGeisha
I was close friends, in love, and married to an Aries male for about 14 years. It was mostly good, but we were unable to keep things together when the going got tough. Aries energy in general is very "tasty" to Libras, but it probably depends upon mutual tolerance and maturity in the couple to form a solid, lasting relationship.

I would also say that physical stamina and health are important. I was much more tolerant of my aries spouse's temper before experiencing some serious health setbacks.

The Aries I like now already openly admitted he has a temper, and smiled and told him and you will be ignored and avoided if you jump crazy or flip out on me. I'm grown and I won't endure that from no one. He looked at me with wide eyes, and smiled and said —I bet you will.?? Lol. I can't stand him, cocky ass! My other Aries gave no warning he could get a person out his face with one look, however I??ve heard about his temper from his mouth and from other people. I never did anything to make him that mad, he was always so cool and calm yet masculine that I never wanted to see it.lol. I don't believe in provoking a man just to see him flip, I'm very calm and I can frustrate someone with my nonchalant approach, but I very seldom piss people off. I??d rather not.lol

Posted by pinklibra
Continued:
To this day I'm sure it had something to do with our differences in communication he used to take care in how he said something to me or around me, I respected him for it so in return I made a point to be honest and straight forward when I felt something, honestly I learned it from him, he always seemed willing to listen and he never scowled me even when I was coming at him about something he did. However, he stopped. Suddenly he didn't care what flew out of his damn mouth and sometimes I wanted to stick a sock in it to shut him up. He??d apologize once I got my words right to tell him how his words made me feel, but by then I??d already made up my own assumptions in my head and his apology felt good but it wasn't solid enough to make me forget whatever it was that he said.

Anyway I could go on and on about this pair. Inbox me if you need more. Lol. P.S I??_??_

You hit the nail right on the head, pinklibra. Your last paragraph basically sums up where I am. On my end the putting less effort into how things are said is a result of a slow growing resentment.

Posted by Aesma

Posted by AlphaArietis

Posted by pinklibra
Continued:
To this day I'm sure it had something to do with our differences in communication he used to take care in how he said something to me or around me, I respected him for it so in return I made a point to be honest and straight forward when I felt something, honestly I learned it from him, he always seemed willing to listen and he never scowled me even when I was coming at him about something he did. However, he stopped. Suddenly he didn't care what flew out of his damn mouth and sometimes I wanted to stick a sock in it to shut him up. He??d apologize once I got my words right to tell him how his words made me feel, but by then I??d already made up my own assumptions in my head and his apology felt good but it wasn't solid enough to make me forget whatever it was that he said.

Anyway I could go on and on about this pair. Inbox me if you need more. Lol. P.S I??_??_

You hit the nail right on the head, pinklibra. Your last paragraph basically sums up where I am. On my end the putting less effort into how things are said is a result of a slow growing resentment.

Why did you suddenly become like this? The Ram I loved did the same thing and that's how it ended.

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I wanna know too. Lol. Everyone knows Libra??s can be very sensitive when they like someone, so to be so loose with your tongue is sure way to get her to shut down altogether I know I do. I hate it when a guy I like doesn't take care in how he speaks to me, I always try to be considerate even when I'm pissed. I know everyone is not going to be that way, but if you like someone you should try to think about their feelings before you open your mouth. My Aries wouldn't think about my feelings until after the fact. I do know one time he told me I used to be so easy to understand and talk to, and then out of nowhere things started getting complicated on my end he felt. I openly told him I changed because he changed. You can't switch up on someone and expect them to continue doing the same thing. I'm not a doormat.

Posted by Aesma
Okay I probably shouldn't. It's been 7 years...

Definitely.lol. He probably wont even remember.

Posted by pinklibra

Posted by Aesma

Why did you suddenly become like this? The Ram I loved did the same thing and that's how it ended.

I wanna know too. Lol. Everyone knows Libra??s can be very sensitive when they like someone, so to be so loose with your tongue is sure way to get her to shut down altogether I know I do. I hate it when a guy I like doesn't take care in how he speaks to me, I always try to be considerate even when I'm pissed. I know everyone is not going to be that way, but if you like someone you should try to think about their feelings before you open your mouth. My Aries wouldn't think about my feelings until after the fact. I do know one time he told me I used to be so easy to understand and talk to, and then out of nowhere things started getting complicated on my end he felt. I openly told him I changed because he changed. You can't switch up on someone and expect them to continue doing the same thing. I'm not a doormat.

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For me, it's not that I don't care about my libra's feelings. To come off brash or say what comes to mind is just a natural instinct, it's just the way I'm wired, to be as straight forward as possible. It's never intentional to be rude or aggressive, I personally don't even notice it unless someone else comments on it. So, it takes A LOT of effort on my part to "play nice" most of the day. So I feel like at some point it needs to be reciprocated, whether it's opening a lot more (which I'd love, but seems to be damn near impossible for libras) or just realizing that I can be a little brash and that I will tone it down some if you can accept the rest.

Posted by Aesma
Nyahahaha! He held an emotional grudge towards me. Saying shit like he did a lot of stuff for the first time with me and it wasn't easy.

When he said that, I couldn't help but think, "Oh yeah? Well you chose to drift away, you fucker. You get what you deserve."

Been here, done this.
It's really probably just a big mix-up communication wise.

What I found to be funny, in my case, was that libra would "disappear" and because I didn't chase after or because I allegedly was the cause of the "disappearance" that it was all my fault. On the other hand I'm like, "well if I knew what you were thinking or how you felt, maybe....."

Posted by tiziani
Let's be honest though, being straightforward is not an Aries characteristic. They are masters of trying to change the subject with pure bravado/bravada... but when you stick around and say "are you done? Can we get back to the point?" they often run out of things to say. Why is that? Probably, lack of thought. I'm not sure.

Not I. I'm usually the one asking to get back on point, unless I'm talking to a libra who just doesn't want to talk about anymore. I also find them to be more likely to change the subject. Now, it is easy for me to pick up another subject that's partially related to what we're talking about and get carried away with it before I catch myself or eventually make my way back to the original subject. Also, I've started to notice that what I say to librans and pisceans are rarely heard exactly the way I said it. Usually an emotional context is added to it as well that I never intended.

Aesma, I know exactly how you feel sometimes. If someome upsets me, it's like "This is how I feel. You can give me 5 minutes to react to it and think about it and then I'll be your best friend in 6, or you egg me on and I can act a damn fool for the next 5 minutes to get that off my chest".

tiziana, Ikr. They're always on the fence or in the middle.

I'm sitting here cracking up. Lmbo. AlphaAriesitis you sound just like my Aries whenever we were open about our feelings and I finally got the guts to have a sit down with him he would say the EXACT things you are saying. Oh dear.lol.

What's funny is we don't talk at all now, but whenever we see each other it can be months, weeks, or even years down the line and we both admit that it's like we are seeing each other for the very 1st time . He told me his thoughts when he sees me after a long time are —Dang, there she is and I still like her.?? Lol. I told him I be thinking the same darn thing. That polar attraction between these two signs is crazy.

Anyway, I'm not sure if I blew that 1st situation it's like we both just sort of left the door open like —whatever?? and there are no hard feelings there. However I have this new Aries that I'm completely smitten by, however after reading your responses here I'm sure he has no damn idea I like him as much as I do. And because I??ve read that Aries don't like the girl to be the aggressor I can't bring myself to just pour out my feelings. I know he knows I'm interested because we've kissed a few times while hanging out, but he has no idea I have to look at a picture of him at least once a day. Lol.

Posted by Aesma
Ahh! The beauty and tragedy of it breaks my heart. They have so much to offer each other if only there can be a middle ground. ;'(

That middle ground that I so desperately crave.... *sigh*

Posted by Aesma
I didn't change, I just let it go. I assumed that's what he wanted. The way I imagined it is like a train going full throttle then it just suddenly lost the juice and started moving slower and slower until the full stop.

But I am curious to know why they act like this. Maybe I should ask my ram. lol

I am like that when I get bored with something in my life. Or feeling trapped. Just lose interest and can't be bothered if I'm feeling trapped or caged. Any aspect... relationship, work...

That made me laugh.

My husband (libra) and mother (Aries) : like oil and water

Exactly, lotuslily!
Aesma, I can see how it can come off as flighty. To me it's more like "This is what I need. I've tried to make that clear. I'm not getting it from you, so I'm going to go get it from somewhere else before I loose my mind. I'll be back." After a certain point if I feel like you can't deliver something, why bother waiting on it. For example, say that every time we have a conversation we get lost in how it's said rather than what is said. So I tone it down somewhat, but it's still not toned down to the level that you think it should be at. I'm probably going to look at it as you not realizing that I'm making an effort, I'm probably thinking that it should be good enough as it is and if I see that this is how it's going to be I'm going to eventually just start talking to someone that I know won't see my delivery as an issue. That way neither of us is offended by it. It's not that I don't want to talk to you, I just don't see the point in having a similar discussion if it's not going to go anywhere.

Now if that something needed is sex or intimacy, then there's a bigger problem and everything needs to come full stop.

Posted by Aesma
There is a dark side to this placement. When I stop thinking and emotions are let loose without going through the usual filtering and weighing out process, I fuck myself over.

You're probably over thinking it after the fact and then convincing yourself that it was a fuck up.

Yeah, I'm exactly like those Arians that Aesma described. The only difference is that I'm only the way she described in relationships when I'm with a Libra. Honestly, I've only dated fire signs and Libra as I tend to draw a mainly Libra, Scorpio, and then Pisces, Leo, Aries, and Sag. When I'm with a one of the last 3 it is just too much, too fast. I don't have the patience for Scorpio or Pisces, but sex with the former is usually amazing. Libra, I just can't escape.

Posted by Aesma
There's this moment of disconnect when my suppressed emotion gets a hold of my better judgment. I'm impulsive by nature but most of the time, I keep it in check.

I try to explain to my Libra all the time that one reason that I always let it out up front is because I don't want to deal with suppressed emotions when they come back, because they will. Two of my best friends are Gemini and they always give me the "why emotions should be controlled" lecture and I always respond,"..so the three of us can be damaged and unstable together, right"

Oye! Two argumentative signs with stubborn moons... no bueno -_-...

The thing is to remember, love is about opening up and being vulnerable to the other person; therefore, yes, being your true self but it's more than that. It is the willingness to listen, understand, and concede when necessary.

It's important couples argue, I think it makes for a healthy relationship but the goal of the argument should not be who is right or who is wrong--or else you will NEVER get to a resolution and your relationship won't work-- but rather to come to an understanding and compromise. And you will never understand if you both are always yelling over each other.

If it were to work it takes one person to understand the other. Just listen to what your partner has to say. I'm not saying to give up... this is not a winning or losing battle. I'm saying attempt to understand where your partner is coming from. Try to see what they say or do isn't purposefully malicious --they are just coming from an opinion that is different from yours.

I'd say I have a good understanding of the ram/scale dynamic as I fight that battle almost everyday internally...but it's come to a point of harmony because I am open and honest to all facets of myself.

I think if this dynamic were to work the best relationship would be a male ram and a female scale (not to say the other wouldn't work just this is more ideal)... and if one were to concede first I think it best if the male were to only because female scales are very understanding creatures and would not see it as a sign of weakness.

LOL, @aesma I definitely know about them dialogues *smh*


@ OP Bonnie and Clyde one of the greatest Libra/Aries romance of all time 😉

Posted by Aesma
Hmm sounds like a flighty response, Lotuslily. Do you ever come back once you start running? lol

I just quit my job last week because I'm feeling bored and trapped... Like I'm in a cage I love... but it's a cage none the less. I GOTSTA GO! I don't have anything new lined up, but at this point I just have to KNOW that I have to take a leap of faith off a cliff in the dark (figuratively :p ) and that I WILL land on my feet. I always have and I always will. When I start losing pieces of my soul, I will turn away and not look back.

My longest relationship ever was with a Libra guy... we were on and off for about five years. We were recently back in contact and I would totally date him again and be a one-man woman... I even told him so. But in true Libra fashion.... He doesn't know what the hell he wants! So I parted ways again. Maybe we will cross paths again, maybe we will not. Life has it's own plan for us! Who knows what space I will be in if that ever happens... maybe then I will still feel I would commit to him, maybe I won't...All I know is that I'm not holding my breathe or waiting around for that moment to happen.

I guess the short answer is: If I know I deserve better, I won't come back. If I feel it's worth it, yeah I would.

Is Libra my Achilles? I'm convinced at this point, sadly. Those are always the most difficult, and it's probably the challenge that keeps me. So different, yet the same. Ugh

I'm a Leo with Mars in Aries who was initially engaging with a Libra female, whose Venus (also in Libra) had a tight opposition to my Mars. Well, guess what? There was a sexual chemistry at first, but that changed quickly after discovering ourselves. Her delicacy couldn't stand my assertiveness and hyperactivity for long. Also, I'm not that brutish: I achieved self-discipline and self-mastery long time ago. Fortunately, we're still friends, so everything is fine. For now.

Posted by arietteheart2
Alpha what is your moon sign?

I'm Aries-Libra moon. Good to see another with that combo and another with the Libra-Aries moon combo.

Aries sun, Aries rising, Taurus moon trying to make it work with a Libra sun, Libra Rising, Taurus moon.

Aries Man and libra woman can work at the beginning but won't last! However if it does its rarely happens. He lacks some of those qualites to keep a libra woman happy. Soon or later the poor libra woman will find it out.
Telling you guys from my observations
:-)

Posted by libralady27
Aries Man and libra woman can work at the beginning but won't last! However if it does its rarely happens. He lacks some of those qualites to keep a libra woman happy. Soon or later the poor libra woman will find it out.
Telling you guys from my observations
:-)

I love how it's "poor libra woman", I actually hear poor libra a lot in one form or another. I am willing to bet that it was equally as bad for poor aries as well.

Posted by AlphaArietis

I love how it's "poor libra woman", I actually hear poor libra a lot in one form or another. I am willing to bet that it was equally as bad for poor aries as well.

+1

They love the victim card. It's a trend I've noticed with a LOT of Libras.

I could regale with some of the shitty stories I've heard, especially recently. It's amazing that people of a sign who are supposed to be all fair and nice are some of the skeeziest, immature, and irresponsible people that I've come across.

I know of a Libra/Libra couple that nobody thinks is going to last long due to eachother's tendencies. He's a user, womanizer, and any sane woman wouldn't have seen him as a relationship prospect due to how gross he can be. She's an absolute piece of work at 21- druggie, DUIs, alcoholism, sleeps around at the drop of a hat, and is known for cheating. We're all baffled as to why they even want to date eachother.

That said, knowing eachother's history, I bet someone is going to whip out the "poor me" card at some point (we're betting more him than her since she's a hoe). The reality is that there is no "poor me" card when her reputation proceeded her presence.

I also have a former coworker who created all his problems with his wife. Recently, there was a giant, drama filled, Facebook status about how he cheated on his wife (again) and now it was poor him, he was going to lose his wife.

Never will understand some Libra's inability to take blame for their own actions (or lack thereof). Bad choices = bad consequences. But "poor me!"

With Aries/Libra combo, it's really good or really bad. When it's really bad, it's issues on both sides of the coin, not just one.

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Never will understand some Libra's inability to take blame for their own actions (or lack thereof). Bad choices = bad consequences. But "poor me!"

With Aries/Libra combo, it's really good or really bad. When it's really bad, it's issues on both sides of the coin, not just one.

This is where most of our problems lie.

The earlier post that I had written above was from the libra side only. Libras have their bad traits which Aries do not like. Without telling each other they will never find out they it didn't work out as they are 100% opposite of each other. Aries woman and libra man relationship are different than Aries Man and libra woman.

I'm a libra woman happy and contented with my libra man. We've been together for more than 3 years now. We got togther when I was 19 and he was 17. I know we're still young, but I just know that we're meant to be together. Sure, there were a lot of rough times, but which relationship doesn't?

My sun is in Libra, moon in Aquarius, and a Virgo ascendant. His sun is in Aries, moon in Libra, and an Aries ascendant. Weirdly enough, I feel like I'm not the typical Libra, because I'm impatient, confrontational, frank, aggressive, and competitive. I feel like I'm the Aries in our relationship. My Aries is a pacifist, can you believe that? He doesn't like confrontations and he stays quiet whenever we argue which drives me crazy, because I want to talk things out with him. This was the biggest issue in our relationship, he would withdraw whenever we're fighting and it frustated me to no end. But I have learned to accept and respect this side of him and he was willing to compromise with what I need. We really are opposites, but somehow, we understand each other. I'm the Aries and he's the Libra, funny how it is reversed with our signs.

All I can say is Astrology or not, we have to realize that love is bigger than ourselves. In order to make a relationship work, we need to accept our partner's good and bad side. We have to make the choice to love that one person with ALL of that s/he is. It will also help a lot if you share many interests with your partner, which we two have. He's my best friend and I just want us to share this life together.

...so he's an Aries or a Libra? :/