Libra/Aries relationship
Libra/Aries relationship
My best friend is an aries and we have recently been getting serious with eachother. We've known eachother for almost a year and already he knows pretty much everything about me.The problem that I need help with is actually coming to terms with him is talking about committment. Yes we both like eachother and have feelings for eachother as well but I'm so afraid of damaging the relationship in any negative way that I don't want to bother to ask how he feels.
I'm not sure if anyone else can relate, but I know when it comes to me and discussing feelings with someone I want to be with I'll distant myself from the conversation, try to avoid dealing with it,and just act as if I have nothing to say when i know full well I want to open my big mouth and tell him everything thats on my mind.
I'm not sure how to deal with this because this situation feels so delicate, any advice would be great
I'm not sure if anyone else can relate, but I know when it comes to me and discussing feelings with someone I want to be with I'll distant myself from the conversation, try to avoid dealing with it,and just act as if I have nothing to say when i know full well I want to open my big mouth and tell him everything thats on my mind.
I'm not sure how to deal with this because this situation feels so delicate, any advice would be great

go for it. its a good deal.
I think I will I guess I'm just a little scared, I hate weighing every single possible outcome and then having it turn out to be something completely different lol, sometimes i just feel like I should be the one to be chased since im always giving myself to others, even if that sounds a little selfish.

With Aries whenever I tried to do this balancing act inside my head, i got only more and more confused. Mainly bcoz they are unpredictable and doesn't really think before they get into something. But Libra-Aries is a combo worth spending time for. Even at the risk of a friendship. 😉 Just bcoz u say something or do something wont ruin the friendship as you might imagine. Its not like other dumb signs. They do think like a libra once they have done something. So even if things fall apart all of a sudden, you can just stay calm and wait for him to come back. He will.
I would do the exact same thing, create a mental picture and see how well it'll play out with reality and if it doesnt work i just dismiss it =/.He does always keep me on my toes!! It's seems complicated more then usually because I avoid emotions and he hides emotions lol. Everything has been great so far and I never thought I'd meet or even be attracted to my opposite 🙂
When I found out he was an aries I said to myself;this is gona be interesting since he's my first arie's romantic relationship. My last one was with a taurus and didnt work out so well.
It's hard for me to think that he {aries} still thinks like libra just bcuz we're complete opposites;;it's that whole their so decisive and want a definite answer when they ask a question thing that throws me off lol. But i cant help but still love his personality
When I found out he was an aries I said to myself;this is gona be interesting since he's my first arie's romantic relationship. My last one was with a taurus and didnt work out so well.
It's hard for me to think that he {aries} still thinks like libra just bcuz we're complete opposites;;it's that whole their so decisive and want a definite answer when they ask a question thing that throws me off lol. But i cant help but still love his personality
yup
good luck

((It's hard for me to think that he {aries} still thinks like libra just bcuz we're complete opposites;😉)
they dont think like a libra. in fact they dont think at all...lol.. its their sharp instincts which drives them. Somehow it matches well with libra's final decision after the long indecisive stage and balancing act. So its the output which matches, not method of thinking. as a result, they make many errors when they make a decision influenced by social factors and spend a lot of time regretting. But it sync's well. You will be relieved from the duties of making a decision and he will be happy to make them all. All you have to do will be to cross examine his decision and see if its foolproof. which is an easy job for libra by deducting it backwards. good luck. 🙂
they dont think like a libra. in fact they dont think at all...lol.. its their sharp instincts which drives them. Somehow it matches well with libra's final decision after the long indecisive stage and balancing act. So its the output which matches, not method of thinking. as a result, they make many errors when they make a decision influenced by social factors and spend a lot of time regretting. But it sync's well. You will be relieved from the duties of making a decision and he will be happy to make them all. All you have to do will be to cross examine his decision and see if its foolproof. which is an easy job for libra by deducting it backwards. good luck. 🙂

* I should be the one to be chased since im always giving myself to others, even if that sounds a little selfish.
If he is an aries guy and he likes you, he will chase you all over town and then back again. If he ISN'T doing that, I don't think he is that into it. When they want something, they DO NOT take no for an answer.
* I avoid emotions and he hides emotions
hee! This is true. It actually can be a bit of a problem in the relationship though.
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