Good day to all! Need to seek all the fellow libra community on some pointers.
I got to know this libra girl online, we exchange message and she was charming and friendly and will flirt time to time, she will like my messages and use kissing emojis those.
I know that libra tend to be one of the flirtious in the zodiac sign but is it a good sign that she's liking my messages?
I also tried to initiate getting her number and video call but she say she's shy and wants me to slow down the pace. She also say she takes time to know a person and shes afraid if guys ask her out when she just got to know them. I understand her vulnerability. I told her that and she's grateful too. She finds me matured as well. Can any libra advise me if whays I'm doing is correct? Giving her space and letting her take control of the situation?
She will reply to my messages typically within an hour, not sure about her daily life just know she's currenting staying with her friends, I believed there are other pursuers as well. I want to take it slow but I don't wish to lose the attraction as well. When I don't message her, she rarely approach me, is it a bad sign?
I'm a Leo, I want to take control of the situation of the chase but I'm insecure when dealing with her(libra). Please advise how should I approach her? Many thanks!!
Thanks for the heads up. As a Leo, our weakness is we wants to take control of the situation else we will feel uncomfortable. This is our weakness, when dealing with her I will watch this point. Thanks for the idea and effort taken, really appreciate it.
I should let nature take its own course, pursue but at her pace, believe its best for her.
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Sep 17, 2014Comments: 22 · Posts: 8048 · Topics: 36
it's about ebb and flow as well. we're the scales. we need the balance. if you go hard at some stage, you'll then need to step back to allow for equilibrium to return.
you don't need to chase her all the time, let her come to you at times too. go in too hard, too fast and she'll be put off.
we also like good banter. you're online so chat about interesting stuff. keep her engaged and enjoying your conversation. if she likes films, talk about films. send her funny memes, or endearing stories about puppies that are rescued or a band that you think she'll enjoy. keep it light while she makes up her mind about you.
Thanks guys. I notice about the banter too. She like it when it comes naturally.
libra will take a long time to choose their partner? I don't mind about this. Is thee a way to check if I'm pursuing too much? Like slow reply? I don't wish to get ahead of myself again
If she's still talking and laughing means it's still OK?
Around 3 week plus. I don't wish to screw things up so I follow her pace, just message only. No video call those..
I'm not sure her interest level but time to time I will compliment or write I miss you message and she will like the medsage. Is it just a friendly gesture, she don't say that to me? I take it as she is still uncomfortable yet?
Thee are some days which I don't text her and she also didn't initiate contact with me. Is there other meaning other than she's busy? 🤣 🤣
Once again, really thanks thatlibralife, Jeane and dillpickle for the insightful. Leo's are always overbearing from time to time. Born impatient and short temper.
But now it's about the other half so I have to change this point of mine. I believed she will be more pleased with a less raging lion
Ok, thanks.
Last thing, what if she gone cold suddenly? Normally I just stop texting her and wit for her reply. I do believe that space is important and she will reply if she wants to. This move is correct? In short, just no pressure at all
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Sep 17, 2014Comments: 22 · Posts: 8048 · Topics: 36
I dont have issue with wanting to video chat, it is more the expectation that she miss him after knowing him for less than a month and that she should respond within a time he finds reasonable while also chatting everyday.
Shes already told him that it takes her a while to get to know someone. He wants to take charge on how this develops rather than actually just concentrating on getting to know each other first.
It's too much. It's not even been as long as a menstrual cycle.
Wow! Thanks for all the advise fellow libra, I have learn alot from all the comments.
After all the comments, yes I probably been too head on strong in pursuing her, it's probably uncomfortable for her. In order to keep the balance, I will tone down and talk lesser for now for her to reach the balance.
I supposed this is better for her and give her more stability. Let her lead the pace of the relationship will be optimal for now since it's just less than a month into the relationship. Thanks for the feedback once again!!
Leo tend be loud with their action and feelings. We don't like to hide these type of matters, but guess it's too much for libra.
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Mar 27, 2019Comments: 70 · Posts: 506 · Topics: 18
Be her friend, enjoy the process of getting to know her.
Hi to all fellow libra, so I heed the advice and took it slow. Just today she send me a picture of her on the way back home. This is the first time she send. I want to genuinely compliment her but I'm afraid it might seems fake to her.
Not sure what is actually going thru her mind when she send. It's friendly again? She knows I'm into her and she send, does it have any meaning? I'm confused
Hi, all of a sudden she gone cold and sound disinterested? What's going on? Anyone can advise? A few days ago, everything seems ok. What can I do now?
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Nov 23, 2019Comments: 637 · Posts: 460 · Topics: 3
Youre pushing too hard Leo. Hmm where ru fruhm? Clearly not a westernzer try b4 you buy type.
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Oct 21, 2015Comments: 11066 · Posts: 36034 · Topics: 110
Maybe she's shy.
On the flip side maybe she's catfishing you and that's why she doesn't go on video chat with you. You've already invested over a month. If she still doesn't want to facetime or give her number to you there is literally video chat options on most sm platforms.
Hello all, thanks for the feedbacks. Just talk to her on phone and realised she's going thru a little of a depression with her family. That's why she chose not to communicate with others. Hence she chose to break contact with people for now. I told her I'll bring her out to unwind and she agreed. I did not set a date at the moment cos I feel it might be too pushy at that moment.
Just a few days ago I was busy at work for the last 2 days and didn't text her and she texted me at 3am, so I think her feelings are postive towards me
Ps: We are from Asia
Hello guys, I'm really confused 😕.
Is it normal to libra to approach someone out of the blue but yet want to end the conversation. We haven been talking for a while recently and she initiate contact but seems like not willing to chat after. Is this the hot and cold part of them?
I'm confused.. Please advise