Libra boy, pain and joy
This topic was created in the Libra forum by neda on Sunday, January 13, 2008 and has 11 replies.
Met him month ago. I'm gemini he's libra. He smiled at me with these irresistable dimples of his, then took my hand and pulled me out. We ran and laughed and spoke, spoke, spoke and made love (even then we spoke ha ha)and couldn't separate for days.
Yes, but I have a boyfriend Scorpio, we've been together already 5 years, and it's pointless to say how jealous he is and how withering I am in our relationship. However, I've been faithful all these years. I am fond of my boy. Was. Before that charming little libran jumped in my life.
Fell in love instantly.
Next day broke up with my boyfriend. He would sense the presense of another man, they're bloody intuitive them scorpios.
And here started the tough time - libra calls me off, then suddenly appears more lovable then ever, then doesn't answer the phone, it took me days to arrange a meeting, and when we finally met we had the same great time.
For a first time in my life I have a feeling of total similarity with someone, and that joyful childish thrill...
And then he's absent again. I started to be more and more pushy, for I need to be around him. And being pushy is really not in my nature, I feel horrible . He NEVER contacts me first, after I send him msg, he usually answers in 5 sec. I know that I should probably step back and wait for him to call, but patience is hard to me. One week max and then I call again, and he is O!So happy to hear from me!!!Lets have lunch tomorrow, call me 11-12! Next day I call and he doesn't answer. Two more calls at the afternoon.Nobody. Finally I sent msg - I'll be at......after 19:00 Come if you want, and he is there exactly 19.00.Smiling and excited. Crazyness!!!
I don't understand - is that a game, what should I do, I start to lose my dignity.
Two nights ago we spent amazing night together, and he was the most kissable and tender and affectionate thing. At the morning invited me to party Monday evening. Next two days - silence. I let him breathe, but I wonder - the party is tomorrow - if he doesn't confirm, should I remind for the invitation, or should I keep quiet and wait that he FINALLY contacts me.
I can't go on like that
Getting crazy.
Haven't slept for ages, lost like 6 kg in a month time.
Please give me some piece of advice or any comment on the situation.
P.S. - Apologies for my bad english, it's not my mother tongue
Yes, but I have a boyfriend Scorpio, we've been together already 5 years, and it's pointless to say how jealous he is and how withering I am in our relationship. However, I've been faithful all these years. I am fond of my boy. Was. Before that charming little libran jumped in my life.
Fell in love instantly.
Next day broke up with my boyfriend. He would sense the presense of another man, they're bloody intuitive them scorpios.
And here started the tough time - libra calls me off, then suddenly appears more lovable then ever, then doesn't answer the phone, it took me days to arrange a meeting, and when we finally met we had the same great time.
For a first time in my life I have a feeling of total similarity with someone, and that joyful childish thrill...
And then he's absent again. I started to be more and more pushy, for I need to be around him. And being pushy is really not in my nature, I feel horrible . He NEVER contacts me first, after I send him msg, he usually answers in 5 sec. I know that I should probably step back and wait for him to call, but patience is hard to me. One week max and then I call again, and he is O!So happy to hear from me!!!Lets have lunch tomorrow, call me 11-12! Next day I call and he doesn't answer. Two more calls at the afternoon.Nobody. Finally I sent msg - I'll be at......after 19:00 Come if you want, and he is there exactly 19.00.Smiling and excited. Crazyness!!!
I don't understand - is that a game, what should I do, I start to lose my dignity.
Two nights ago we spent amazing night together, and he was the most kissable and tender and affectionate thing. At the morning invited me to party Monday evening. Next two days - silence. I let him breathe, but I wonder - the party is tomorrow - if he doesn't confirm, should I remind for the invitation, or should I keep quiet and wait that he FINALLY contacts me.
I can't go on like that
Getting crazy.
Haven't slept for ages, lost like 6 kg in a month time.
Please give me some piece of advice or any comment on the situation.
P.S. - Apologies for my bad english, it's not my mother tongue
This is typical libra behavior. If it drives you crazy now........it is going to frustrate you even more as time goes by because it does NOT get better for you.
For now, just be his friend and don't expect anything serious unless HE starts pursuing you. He obviously enjoys you and your company but sit back and wait for him to call you and see how long it takes. Be prepared for a long time to pass though.......but eventually, he'll come looking for you to make sure you stay interested in him.
For now, just be his friend and don't expect anything serious unless HE starts pursuing you. He obviously enjoys you and your company but sit back and wait for him to call you and see how long it takes. Be prepared for a long time to pass though.......but eventually, he'll come looking for you to make sure you stay interested in him.
Wow you left a 5 year relationship? With a scorp? Although in my personal experience with a scorp guy, was way too intense (funny huh? me being a scorp) I mean possessive and stalking tendencies, oh wait, he did stalk me. LOL! I enjoyed the extreme interest. Like scorp girls, I think when a scorp guy is into you they really are into you until you break that trust. Guys are just way more extreme. Librans are nothing like scorp guys though. If a libra is READY for a serious relaitionship there won't be too much disappearing. Minimal.
I agree that you shouldn't have left a 5 year relationship for a libra who hasn't even confessed if he wants "to be in a relationshiip" with you or not.
I agree that you shouldn't have left a 5 year relationship for a libra who hasn't even confessed if he wants "to be in a relationshiip" with you or not.
You wonder how can I reject something as stable and devoted as Scorpio, just for a libran bubble?
Well that's an attraction beyond comprehension. I just knew thats my guy. And its not even that particular boy maybe, but the TYPE of person. I thought I either have that or I stay single.
Besides, break up was pretty rational and smart thing to do. First of all, if I would try to hide the affair, it would anyway pop out. You can't hide such a thing from scorpio. On other hand, I stayed clean, i.e I didn't BETRAY my scorpio boy, which means he's still there for me. Not forever, but for a while. 3. Of course I didn't tell him about the other guy. Why to do so, we had plenty other reasons to take a break.
Thanks for the advices, but I decided something else, which my Gemini logic is leading to.
1. If I don't see the Libra, there is no way to put my spell on him. We need to spend time of talking, and charming, and joking and playing games, till the moment he get addicted to it. But if we don't meet, the little closeness we have is going away like a parfume... So, I play his game. I'll be the active one, I'll keep on pursuing - in gentle, joking and airy way. I will take the decisions instead of him. And will never show myself desparate. I'll arrange meetings and then will be flirty with everyone around. And I'll also learn how to disappear just before he gets going.
2. No waiting. Thinks happen now or never.Life to short.
3. I remember John Lennon and Joko ONo story - didn't she pursue him like maniac before he succumbed? And he was Libra.
Damn, I'm not gonna give up that easily.
And if it doesn't work - I ignore and forget. Gemini masters in forgetting.
Well that's an attraction beyond comprehension. I just knew thats my guy. And its not even that particular boy maybe, but the TYPE of person. I thought I either have that or I stay single.
Besides, break up was pretty rational and smart thing to do. First of all, if I would try to hide the affair, it would anyway pop out. You can't hide such a thing from scorpio. On other hand, I stayed clean, i.e I didn't BETRAY my scorpio boy, which means he's still there for me. Not forever, but for a while. 3. Of course I didn't tell him about the other guy. Why to do so, we had plenty other reasons to take a break.
Thanks for the advices, but I decided something else, which my Gemini logic is leading to.
1. If I don't see the Libra, there is no way to put my spell on him. We need to spend time of talking, and charming, and joking and playing games, till the moment he get addicted to it. But if we don't meet, the little closeness we have is going away like a parfume... So, I play his game. I'll be the active one, I'll keep on pursuing - in gentle, joking and airy way. I will take the decisions instead of him. And will never show myself desparate. I'll arrange meetings and then will be flirty with everyone around. And I'll also learn how to disappear just before he gets going.
2. No waiting. Thinks happen now or never.Life to short.
3. I remember John Lennon and Joko ONo story - didn't she pursue him like maniac before he succumbed? And he was Libra.
Damn, I'm not gonna give up that easily.
And if it doesn't work - I ignore and forget. Gemini masters in forgetting.
Geminis do indeed!!!
You seem to have your head screwed on right and you dealt with the Scorp man well....nice to see people have a conscience and morals
Impressive!!
You seem to have your head screwed on right and you dealt with the Scorp man well....nice to see people have a conscience and morals
Impressive!!
neda,
do you find yourself normal after being with a scorp man for 5 years?
do you find yourself normal after being with a scorp man for 5 years?
Thelibran, define normality please )
)the phase where you are able to think and talk whatever you want to without ever wondering what others might think like? to have a behavior where u expect no sympathy or compassion from anyone? thats normality for a gemini. 
hey neda!
I was recently in a very similar situation with a libra, how did your 3 points work out for you?
I was recently in a very similar situation with a libra, how did your 3 points work out for you?
He definitely wouldn't answer or show up on time if he wasn't interested. He might be playing the same little games you're going to play. "Don't call until she calls, make her want me more.." blah blah.
Also, he may feel a little more responsibility since you've ended things with your long term bf. Sure, maybe it didn't have everything to do with him but he was the catalyst and now he might be a little scared.
But not scared enough to not take your calls or meet you.
Gem / Libra is a very fun combo. Lots of games of many kinds between these two
Also, he may feel a little more responsibility since you've ended things with your long term bf. Sure, maybe it didn't have everything to do with him but he was the catalyst and now he might be a little scared.
But not scared enough to not take your calls or meet you.
Gem / Libra is a very fun combo. Lots of games of many kinds between these two
Posted by sweetsherrie
oh libras always do that just dont worry him or be pushy .........patience is a virtue
YEP UR RIGHT!!!
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