Libra boyfriend help!

Ok so I need some help with my Libra man problem Libra sun and Libra moon. Im a sagg with a Tarus moon.
Anyways this is my story, we met 4 months ago and I know it sounds weird but it was like love at first sight, the first time we met we kissed and after that we started going out a week after or so. Things used to be perfect in the beginning, too good to be true, except by the fact that he lives 1:30 away from my house, anyways he used to text message me and even call me everyday he seemed to care so much about me and everything. However then he went into this weird mood where he stopped talking to me, he started being cold and kind of ignoring my requests to see him or to do anything together. It wasnt until I told him that I didnt think our relationship was working and that I didnt feel comfortable of going out with someone I barely saw. After I told him that he started changing and then everything was just like the beginning, with him text messaging me every day and meeting more often.
Anyways things started to change again a week ago(we've been 4 months together now), he started being like he was before, not really text messaging me anymore, saying he was busy and and stuffs like that.
However... I dont know if this matters a lot or not but I??ve been thinking and those 2 periods where he started to become weird and they match with periods where he has been through some trouble.
The first time was because he failed a subject in school and he was looking for a job, I understand that it was hard to meet because he worked from 6-10pm before so it was almost impossible to see each other, but after he found a new job things started to be good again.
The second time (which is now), his job contract where he was working is over, so now he is searching for a job and he has been having problems with his mom lately.
So I don't know I'm very confused to the point of asking him for a break cause I need constant reassurance of my partners love. So is this a typical Libra behavior? to disappear and cut out your girlfriend every time a problem comes ahead of you?
Every time we meet he seems to care so much about me, he constantly tells me how much he loves me and things seem right, is just that the text messaging has decreased by a lot and also our time together. So we pretty much talk every time we meet and when we do meet is just differe.
This is my first serious relationship, so I don't mind some criticism if I'm being selfish and not comprehensive

So far I??ve been very understandable with his situation, I havent been controlling, I have been giving him space, I dont text message him unless he does because I know how busy he is sometimes. Do Libra??s like that? or do you prefer that your girlfriend is the one who??s always text messaging you? and all over you?

Also there is the language and age problem between us. He is younger than me by 1 1/2 years and about the language well his English is not perfect but is somehow fluent but sometimes I see that as a problem because I can tell he cant express himself like we would like.
So can anyone give me their Libra point of view?

Also do Libra??s keep in touch with their exes? cause I know he has lied to me about not talking to his ex because his best friend who he introduced me to slipped it out. And also I saw in his Facebook recently that he has been putting things as "(K)-kisses" on his female friend wall and last month she wrote a message on his wall telling him "I love you so much, much" but he deleted the message and he has been deleting his tracks, however I don't know if he knows or not but that girl added me in Facebook so I can see her news feed.
So I need some advice like I said I dont mind bashing or criticism.

Sounds like something might still be happening with him and his ex. I am still friends with my ex (the two longest and most important ones) but I talk to them maybe once of twice a year now and it is pretty fluff. I wouldn't be posting hugs and kisses on their walls really ... unless it was some sort of joke.

All that being said, you kinda need to be secure in yourself. No one can fill you up, you kinda have to do it yourself.

@SD9 - It seems like your guy is playing the push-pull-blow-hot-and-cold game. Remember this - YOU TEACH PEOPL HOW TO TREAT YOU. With that being said - Would you treat him the way he is treating you? When someone gives you their a $ $ to kiss - don't kiss it, kick it.

About his comments on Facebook to another female/friend- that's cause for concern and you should get an explanation from him...

Good luck.

people

Yeah I have to agree with little sparrow, seems like he hasn't completely closed the door on the ex girlfriend, work and school issues could also play a small part, not sure who is paying his phone bill but maybe attempting to conserve money plays a part in not text messaging so much as he used to but when an ex says I love you then that's a huge clue that he's still involved...kisses from him and I love you from her...not a good sign for your relationship with him

I know a libra guy I have been friends with for over a year, no intimacy with us just friendship, he goes in and out a lot, he loves to chase unavailable women as well, meaning he could be with a really nice available girl that's girlfriend material and very much into him yet he becomes bored and grows cold quickly and start chasing the unavailable women, commitment phobe kind of guy but very sweet, very gentle, loves to talk and a fun kind of guy.