Libra DON'Ts
This topic was created in the Libra forum by krysrenee7 on Monday, January 19, 2009 and has 8 replies.
Let me go ahead & say this...I DO NOT expect for everyone (whether you're a Libra yourself or know alot of Libras) to agree with me. This is my personal opinion from an Aquarian point of view about the Libras I've personally observed. I'm in NO way labeling all Libras or saying that how I feel about this topic will be the same way others feel or the same thing others have observed. But, I am doing what this site allows me to do & that's to state my opinion
DON'T:
-Expect your Libra to make snap decisions-Libras like to weigh alternatives & can be indecisive. They want partners who will respect them more for being so cautious & careful, versus a partner who is annoyed by this
-Suggest that your Libra is looking sick or tired-you may make them worry all night & all the next day (Libras take pride in having a fresh, youthful appearance).
-Be inflexible or without spontaneity-if you like things to be set in stone, you might become quite annoyed by your Libra.
-Push your Libra into making a major decision-they like to think the important things through slowly & carefully. They don't mind if you assist them in making the decision but your assistance has to flow with the pace they are moving at. If not, they will mistake your assistance for pressure.
-Call attention to your Libra's laziness, self-indulgence (pride) or arrogance-These traits may manifest if you constantly tell your Libra about them. Libras feel that what you see is what you get. If you are constantly complaining about the things in their personality that make them who they are, they will immediately assume that you can't handle them & will immediately see no use in keeping you around
DON'T:
-Expect your Libra to make snap decisions-Libras like to weigh alternatives & can be indecisive. They want partners who will respect them more for being so cautious & careful, versus a partner who is annoyed by this
-Suggest that your Libra is looking sick or tired-you may make them worry all night & all the next day (Libras take pride in having a fresh, youthful appearance).
-Be inflexible or without spontaneity-if you like things to be set in stone, you might become quite annoyed by your Libra.
-Push your Libra into making a major decision-they like to think the important things through slowly & carefully. They don't mind if you assist them in making the decision but your assistance has to flow with the pace they are moving at. If not, they will mistake your assistance for pressure.
-Call attention to your Libra's laziness, self-indulgence (pride) or arrogance-These traits may manifest if you constantly tell your Libra about them. Libras feel that what you see is what you get. If you are constantly complaining about the things in their personality that make them who they are, they will immediately assume that you can't handle them & will immediately see no use in keeping you around
-Be gross or vulgar around them. Libras take great pride in trying to impress their partners. If they can sense that their partners don't make any efforts to please them, then your Libra will suddenly stop trying to please you, and will therefore start to shy away from you
-Neglecting basic neatness in personal appearance. They take great pride in how they present themselves to the world & expect for their partners to have the same mindset
-Don't be argumentative. If your arguement is valid, they won't fault you for it. But to purposely start arguments just for the sake of causing drama will immediately mess with your Libras need for peace & will turn them off
-Flirt with others when around them
-Don't like loud arguments. They are turned off by those who can't keep their composure, especially if the argument is over something petty
-Don't like any criticism of their chosen partner, friends or project. When a Libra actually & finally does chose his partner, he feels content in his decision & will not understand why others aren't happy with his decision. Instead of arguing with you & questioning himself, he'd rather just let you move on
-Neglecting basic neatness in personal appearance. They take great pride in how they present themselves to the world & expect for their partners to have the same mindset
-Don't be argumentative. If your arguement is valid, they won't fault you for it. But to purposely start arguments just for the sake of causing drama will immediately mess with your Libras need for peace & will turn them off
-Flirt with others when around them
-Don't like loud arguments. They are turned off by those who can't keep their composure, especially if the argument is over something petty
-Don't like any criticism of their chosen partner, friends or project. When a Libra actually & finally does chose his partner, he feels content in his decision & will not understand why others aren't happy with his decision. Instead of arguing with you & questioning himself, he'd rather just let you move on
Be gross or vulgar around them. Libras take great pride in trying to impress their partners. If they can sense that their partners don't make any efforts to please them, then your Libra will suddenly stop trying to please you, and will therefore start to shy away from you
this is so true this girl im talking to is just like this. i've been neglecting her so now she is doing the same and it blows me
this is so true this girl im talking to is just like this. i've been neglecting her so now she is doing the same and it blows me
-Suggest that your Libra is looking sick or tired-you may make them worry all night & all the next day (Libras take pride in having a fresh, youthful appearance).
usually we look depressed when we are thinking.
it can be spontaneous and can confuse the hell out of most people. and if someone points that out to us saying you need to relax or take a deep breath, that definitely irritates us bcoz we were only thinking.
usually we look depressed when we are thinking.
it can be spontaneous and can confuse the hell out of most people. and if someone points that out to us saying you need to relax or take a deep breath, that definitely irritates us bcoz we were only thinking."usually we look depressed when we are thinking. it can be spontaneous and can confuse the hell out of most people. and if someone points that out to us saying you need to relax or take a deep breath, that definitely irritates us bcoz we were only thinking."
My ex used to walk around sometimes looking like the saddest person on earth & I seriously thought he was depressed. But then I started to realize & notice that every time I'd see him looking so sad/depressed it was around the same time when a big event or big decision was coming. So, now when I see a Libra looking sad I just assume that they are gathering their thoughts & need time to think things through privately, w/o me constantly being in their faces asking them what's wrong. I learned that when Libras need their time, they expect for us to understand & it's that simple.
My ex used to walk around sometimes looking like the saddest person on earth & I seriously thought he was depressed. But then I started to realize & notice that every time I'd see him looking so sad/depressed it was around the same time when a big event or big decision was coming. So, now when I see a Libra looking sad I just assume that they are gathering their thoughts & need time to think things through privately, w/o me constantly being in their faces asking them what's wrong. I learned that when Libras need their time, they expect for us to understand & it's that simple.
Lucky Libra..I agree with what you added. I've noticed that too in Libras. Libras love to spend time with their partners & don't mind spending time 23-7 but NOT 24-7 lol. When a Libra actually needs their time alone from you, they don't mean any harm & it's not something their partners should take offense to. The best thing to do is to just let them have their alone time sometimes. They'll be back. And if you feel that letting your Libra have their space will make them stray or betray from you then you're in the wrong relationships anyways. I totally agree with you. And plus, I don't even see the fun in being cooped up with someone 24-7. I'll never miss them. If anything, I'll start noticing those "flaws" alot more & I'll resent myself in the long run for not having some "me" time myself.
-Be inflexible or without spontaneity-if you like things to be set in stone, you might become quite annoyed by your Libra.
Don't be argumentative. If your arguement is valid, they won't fault you for it. But to purposely start arguments just for the sake of causing drama will immediately mess with your Libras need for peace & will turn them off
This is so true. My ex Libra bf used to get reall really really annoyed with me if we ever had an argument.
-Flirt with others when around them
Hmmm but its like they can flirt with anyone they want to !!
This is so true. My ex Libra bf used to get reall really really annoyed with me if we ever had an argument.
-Flirt with others when around them
Hmmm but its like they can flirt with anyone they want to !!
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