Libra Ex Boyfriend
This topic was created in the Libra forum by mixmix on Tuesday, November 26, 2013 and has 12 replies.
My ex called me up after almost two years, and he said he missed me. But he left me for another girl and I guess they just broke up. Not sure if he's doing it out of loneliness (I actually would like to go with this idea of him telling me out of loneliness) or he really mean it? He totally cut me off when we broke up and he apologized for that. I asked why did he only come to me now, all he said was "because I went to your profile and look at your photos. It hit me that I really do miss you", but we are no longer friends on Facebook. So he actually went to search for my account just to see my photo? Im really puzzled. Please help me out. Really appreciate it.
And of course, he came by and things happened. So I guess it's just a booty call. Sucks to be me.
He also said that he still has feelings for me? I'm really lost. I've tried to talk to him about all these, but it's going nowhere. I know sometimes knowing the answers will not help, but I really just want to know? How can I make him talk and speak the truth? He knows he has the ability to break me into pieces, he knows where he stands in my heart.
And of course, he came by and things happened. So I guess it's just a booty call. Sucks to be me.
He also said that he still has feelings for me? I'm really lost. I've tried to talk to him about all these, but it's going nowhere. I know sometimes knowing the answers will not help, but I really just want to know? How can I make him talk and speak the truth? He knows he has the ability to break me into pieces, he knows where he stands in my heart.
LOL @ "so he went to search for my account". You make it sound like he hired a detective, when all he did was type & move the mouse around a bit. Sorry but the time (two years), the history between you two & the recent breakup are just not acceptable to me. It sounds like he is on the rebound & is using you. Why did it take him two years to "miss" you & why did this happen after he got dumped? No, fuck him!
Umm why would you give time a day to someone who left you for another? I would tell him to find someone as unreliable and disgusting as him for cuddles.
I think that you were right in your initial post.
He probably broke up, and wanted a little company... and even if he does care about you, in this instance you are right to feel used.
He wasn't thinking that you had moved on and after all the damage he'd done in the past he should let you be... he was thinking solely about himself.
I wouldn't even ask for an explanation- you know what is going on here, do you really want the pain of that being spelled out?!
Cut him off again, get it sorted and don't look back (no matter how hard it seems, don't let him see that).
You won't find the future in the past.
But hugs- I know its not easy!
He probably broke up, and wanted a little company... and even if he does care about you, in this instance you are right to feel used.
He wasn't thinking that you had moved on and after all the damage he'd done in the past he should let you be... he was thinking solely about himself.
I wouldn't even ask for an explanation- you know what is going on here, do you really want the pain of that being spelled out?!
Cut him off again, get it sorted and don't look back (no matter how hard it seems, don't let him see that).
You won't find the future in the past.
But hugs- I know its not easy!
I'm sorry, but I gotta keep it real
Why the hell did u give him sex after what he did to u, I would have made him pay for what he did, plus he's a libra, he knew u would have a soft spot for him, the problem is u didn't teach him a lesson at all, by u doing what u did, u basically told him it was ok to leave you without having to tell u anything, then u gave the man some azz, when you should have kicked his azz
Sorry but I had to be blunt here
You are a beautiful person, don't turn into a doormat for a guy that only thinks about himself, if he really missed u 2 years would have never went by, that libra knows what he's doing
Why the hell did u give him sex after what he did to u, I would have made him pay for what he did, plus he's a libra, he knew u would have a soft spot for him, the problem is u didn't teach him a lesson at all, by u doing what u did, u basically told him it was ok to leave you without having to tell u anything, then u gave the man some azz, when you should have kicked his azz
Sorry but I had to be blunt here
You are a beautiful person, don't turn into a doormat for a guy that only thinks about himself, if he really missed u 2 years would have never went by, that libra knows what he's doing
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That was the only reason he came around.
He's lonely and wanted ass. Whenever an ex or any guy from your past comes sniffing around, it's very likely it's for selfish reasons.
You fell for the oldest trick in the book and there are no real answers other than you got played by an emotionally selfish douchelord.
Mine came back around and tried that same shit and I told him no. So glad I did too. I knew I felt way better than I would have after because of his dipshit flighty tendencies.
Consider it a lesson learned and drop his ass.
He's lonely and wanted ass. Whenever an ex or any guy from your past comes sniffing around, it's very likely it's for selfish reasons.
You fell for the oldest trick in the book and there are no real answers other than you got played by an emotionally selfish douchelord.
Mine came back around and tried that same shit and I told him no. So glad I did too. I knew I felt way better than I would have after because of his dipshit flighty tendencies.
Consider it a lesson learned and drop his ass.
LMAO @ douchelord.
I agree with Rocky, but just want to add another thing. An ex will come back for selfish reasons if he has good reason to believe that you would allow his bad behavior. For example, he knows you are soft hearted and perhaps forgiving, so he came back to exploit those very qualities.
I agree with Rocky, but just want to add another thing. An ex will come back for selfish reasons if he has good reason to believe that you would allow his bad behavior. For example, he knows you are soft hearted and perhaps forgiving, so he came back to exploit those very qualities.
Thank you all, really made me understand better. I guess he will never change.
He can't change until he stops thinking with the wrong head
I agree with most that has been said. Love yourself.forget the shitty past.
Hate to break it to you, but the Libra has lots of girls numbers as backup. you are probably not the only girl he called and said he missed. however if you are the only one giving it up to him, he will casually see you until someone better comes along.
If you really want him you are going to have to break it off with him. tell him you no longer havde the same feelings as before but would love to be friends. stay friends until he really needs you, don't give in and have sex until you have a commitment no matter how long it takes.
If you really want him you are going to have to break it off with him. tell him you no longer havde the same feelings as before but would love to be friends. stay friends until he really needs you, don't give in and have sex until you have a commitment no matter how long it takes.
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I so want that picture
I so want that picture
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