Ok, so I hear so many good things and so many bad things about this pairing. I'm a libra woman and I've been dating a Sag guy
for some time now and I really like him. You can say I'm in love with him, but I'm about to give up because I can't understand him. Its like a puzzle, you never know who your going to get, one day he's sweet and affectionate and the next he's distant and cold. Do any of you libra females feel my pain? or can you give me hope of light at the end of the tunnel?
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May 25, 2012Comments: 122 · Posts: 5590 · Topics: 41
Wait...hold up...@OP
Aren't you asking about this same man on the the Sag board? You're trying to manipulate him and you wonder why he hasn't expressed his true feelings? Manipulation is dishonesty. Sounds to me like you simply want his attention and take love as a game. Its not. No wonder he's withdrawn. We smell manipulation a mile away and will bounce quicker than a basket ball. Smh
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Mar 24, 2006Comments: 163 · Posts: 6615 · Topics: 326
so true-fully BS,
When you have children does your wife stay home and look after the kids or go back to work? She doesn't really have a career...
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Mar 24, 2006Comments: 163 · Posts: 6615 · Topics: 326
And if she isn't career orientated, you met her and she worked in a pub or takeaway joint or supermarket or clothing store. A means to an end with no future goals?
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Sep 13, 2010Comments: 0 · Posts: 1095 · Topics: 43
Well I??m a libra gal and I??ve delt with a few Sagg men, but I??ve only had one serious relationship with a sagg (or so I thought). I can tell you a great deal about these men, as my best cousin is married to one. She is an Aries. I also have lots of Sagg female cousins; they don??t seem to be too much different from the men when in love. Like one of my sagg female cousins is married to a Libra male.
One thing I will say about a Sagittarius man, is they are very cool and nonchalant about pretty much everything including love. To them life and love should be fun and adventurous. You shouldn??t be trying to figure it out, you should be enjoying it. Too much naggy, fussy behavior will drive them away. (This includes constantly prying them about their feelings and emotions). They are a ???fly by the seat of their pants?? type of guy and their partner has to be able to keep up or get left behind.
That hot and cold demeanor you are referring to is not something he??s doing on purpose. This is his personality in general. He can wake up one morning and want to go to an amusement park, go mountain climbing by noon, and race car driving in the evening. (this is extreme, but I??ve seen them do this. I dated one, I was dead tired after a day with him) They love excitement and fun. In their world the sun is always shinning. If in the even they are upset, you can believe they are trying everything in their power to get back to their chipper happy, fun loving self.
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Sep 13, 2010Comments: 0 · Posts: 1095 · Topics: 43
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If you want to keep him, you CANNOT nag him. About ANYTHING! He will not feed into it, unless it affects him. If he thinks it??s pointless and petty, he will shrug it off and keep it moving. Also you??ll want to be careful about asking him about his feelings all the time unless you??re sure you can handle what flies off that razor sharp tongue that he has. Sagittarius is very and I mean VERY blunt. Some people think it??s rude, but they see it as honesty. Unlike Aries men, whom keeps their mouth shut unless it has something to do with them, or unless asked; Sagittarius will blurt out their open and honest opinion without thinking twice about it comes out. So when you are asking him how he feels about you, you should watch your attitude and your approach, because he will slice you up with words without even breaking a sweat.
In matters of love, Lord help the woman that thinks she can outsmart a Sagittarius man. He cannot and will not be played. He??s extremely smart. His thought process is always 3 steps ahead. He does not take kindly to tricks being played on him, whether innocent or direct. If you want his attention, take it. Do not beg for it, because he will see you as weak and insecure. If you want to know his intentions with you, ask him. Be clear and firm on what you are asking, straight no chaser, no tears, or emotional blowouts, be firm, strong and confident. You said he knows the power he has over you, that my dear should scare you. I say that because a Sagittarius with fowl intentions could string you along (my ex) and throw you away like a used up rag doll when he??s done playing. A Sagittarius with sincere intentions will sit you down and tell you straight out what it is that he??s looking for, and your either on board or you??re not. Either way his ship sails on time with or without you. Either way, it??s important that you find out which one you are dealing with before you set your heart on the table.
He??s normally drawn to strong women and confident drop dead gorgeous women weather the beauty inside or out. He prefers both, but if she??s not beautiful on the outside he??ll have his phone and toss her to the side. After all he loves all women. She doesn??t have to be a super model, but she damn sure better have the confidence of one if she??s to keep up with him. He prefers a brain over a banging body any day. He??s mostly attracted to the woman that stands out in the room, the one that??s not fishin
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Apr 03, 2011Comments: 0 · Posts: 1451 · Topics: 31
sag men are the best for me when it comes to fun and conversations... commitment is dependent on what the guy wants.
I get attracted to them easily... theyre the best ones to ask for an emergency fuck. Never fails me.
If you want a commitment make sure thats what he wants too.