Libra Friendhsip

This topic was created in the Libra forum by marmir on Friday, January 29, 2010 and has 42 replies.
I'm curious to know how well are Libras at keeping friendship?
I have a friend (long distance), and he keeps in good contact with me everyday and we skype on weekends. This has been going for a the past 7 months. He's told me he likes me, (and really makes an effort to chat/make time etc.- however we are JUST friends) but doesn't know when the next time we'll meet up due to work. I've never kept in such amazing contact with a long distance friend before...and I am wondering if Libras are just close knit ppl, or he's keeping in touch in hopes for something more in the future...
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i generally really suck at keeping in touch with people. i'm around if they want me, but otherwise i'm usually too absentminded to call. like, i'll think of calling, then i'll forget. stuff like that.
if he's good at staying in touch, you're probably a pretty big priority of his.
air signs in general, actually, tend to suck at keeping in touch.
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I might suck in keeping in touch as I have a tendency to disappear and hermit for awhile (NOT a libran trait), but I will move heaven and earth for my closest friends.
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...yeah that's the vibe I got from him too. He's got a few really close friends, but even at that I don't think he chats to them everyday...we're both at work so we take breaks in between to say what's up. If I don't say hi to him first; he'll ALWAYS make conversation before the end of his day, and let's me know if he'll be online or not later that eve.
He's pretty intense with this whole 'friendship' thing. If it weren't for the distance thing, I think we'd be dating...
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Posted by marmir
...yeah that's the vibe I got from him too. He's got a few really close friends, but even at that I don't think he chats to them everyday...we're both at work so we take breaks in between to say what's up. If I don't say hi to him first; he'll ALWAYS make conversation before the end of his day, and let's me know if he'll be online or not later that eve.
He's pretty intense with this whole 'friendship' thing. If it weren't for the distance thing, I think we'd be dating...


Let's put it this way, I've been in your situation before, and I would've moved to him if I could've, but alas I did not. We'll stay your friend to keep options open SHOULD we find you within proximity. But we're also rather realistic about it too.
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hahaa!! I love how you put it! We've spoken about it...he hasn't made up his mind whether to take up work in Asia or go traveling. In either case, we're planing to meet up ..for old times sake , see what happens...but whatever...I'll take it for a grain of salt. At this point, I don't care if we're more than friends. I enjoy just being friends and his company Winking
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your libra friend sounds like mine. Same situation and he also broke up with his gf last year about the same time. He is also still thinking about his ex as well. So would this be a libra thing? Funny how your situation is similar to mine. Is yours in CA?
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Across an ocean....we got into this little mishap the other day and he said that if I had the opportunity to see other ppl than I should go for it. He's not planing to see other ppl, but he just has to figure out work first and doesn't know when the next time we'll get to meet up. I got upset because I didn't want him to give me the approval for me to see others. So I told him if that's what he wanted...then WE should have some distance between us...and if I was still single...
He panicked. He later logged on that evening to say hi and explained that he really does want to see me again, and that he still really likes me, but wanted to be fair for me etc. and that he's really not looking for other women if he gets a job elsewhere. Anyway, being friends....we resolved the situation. I decided if he wanted to talk to me he can message me, and sure enough he always did it first and was chatty as ever; asking about my day, what have I gotten up to, and talked about his day etc.. I hate the game play...but I figure if he wants me, he knows where to find me. that's it! that's all!
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Tbh, libran friendships are very skewed. What I mean is that Libra tries to be fair and see the best in people. And they always try to make everyone happy, especially their friends.
However, life is not always a bed of roses, and there are alot of black sheep in the friendship circle.
Librans pick their friends according to the level of connection they have - especially the bright optimistic people.
They don't pick their friends according to their quality, which is exceedingly important. By quality, I dont mean friends who can offer some gain, but true friends who actually love and care for them.
Libra has alot of acquaintances, but very few true friends. Sad, to say. But the libra's true friends are more often than not those they seldom meet but have very fond memories of.
And, to answer your title, it's not exaclty about friendship, but a romantic friendship?
They're just trying to get to know you better, with no strings attached. . . and you sound like an Aquarian. . .?
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Thanks Spica! You are very right about him wanting to 'get to know you better'.
I am Aries...We are friends but sometimes he gives me the impression that he's considering us being more than friends, and then he pulls away, and then returns...Just last week he was away in Austria for his sister's wedding. I didn't expect to hear from him b/c he's on vacation and long distance calls can be very expensive and WE ARE JUST FRIENDS...so at most I thought he MIGHT send an email to let me know how he's getting on...He called me instead and left a message to see how I was doing and was looking forward to chatting to me when he gets back. He even called the next day on a different number (I knew it was him), but didn't leave a message. I guess he didn't want to seem too keen.
Anyway, I love the friendship with him and have dated Libras twice in my life, and they are the most amazing boyfriends ever! But they really do take their time and make sure whatever is between us is really true. It's getting to be tough with the distance between us, and to be fair, even if we can't be more than friends, at times I just want to just hang out with him and chill out...so we skype and talk about work and our friends and what we've been up to and have a good laugh...He's SUPER consistent! SHOCKING! because most guys aren't very good with long distance anything and tend eventually disperse.
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The one thing I know about Libra men is they have NO problem with the long distance relationship. Just look around this forum. 90% of the "relationships" with libra men are long distance.
I have all day conversations with some of my closest friends. I think if he is stressing friendship than that is what you are.
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oh no..it's not him stressing on the friendship part...it's me. He puts the effort in keeping in touch with me at all times...I'm just not used to this 'friendship' with so much distance between us. I am slowly growing attached to him, and eventually later on in the future, I'd want to try to be more. But now is not the right time.
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Posted by marmir
oh no..it's not him stressing on the friendship part...it's me. He puts the effort in keeping in touch with me at all times...I'm just not used to this 'friendship' with so much distance between us. I am slowly growing attached to him, and eventually later on in the future, I'd want to try to be more. But now is not the right time.


I think your venus is in aquarius.. right?
Because Aquarius gets confused between friendship and love, but never Libra.
If you're a potential date, then you're out of the friend's category.
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Wow! You're pretty good...I'm not really sure about my astrology...but he did mention a couple months ago that he sees me as someone potentially long term; that he believes in fate and the right timing etc etc. BUT he's NEVER said he ONLY sees me as a friend. Which I know he is inclined to express those words if he realyl doesn't see any potential. He's def. trying to get to know me more and figuring out his career. I was in a long term relationship (5yrs) a little over a year ago. I still find myself new to this single life and guys showing interest...I'm retarded with reading their actions vs. what they say.
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Hey! That's REALLY AWESOME! I checked out my astro...you're right! It is venus in Aquarius! Good work! Errr....So does that mean I have a chance to get with this Libra friend at some point?!? haha! Or am I just playing the fool and wishful thinking?
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If you don't commit, then he won't.
Of course I know you have some Aquarian influence. I have alot of Aries in my life, dudette. Winking
But, you yourself may not believe in anything beyond friendship, or long term relationship. You get bored easily and once you 'catch' him you'd be on to another more exciting guy. Libra boys are too boring for you, is that a hit again?
By the way, Libra doesn't believe in friendship being as a means to stall time or etc. It's now or never. A drift is as good as a mile. D'ya know what I mean?
When you emphasize 'friendship' like little sparrow says, it really is friendship. You can't hook someone by friendship and then slowly leading towards romance. It doesn't work this way. . . in the end, you're the one playing the game. Do you see it?
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Posted by marmir
Hey! That's REALLY AWESOME! I checked out my astro...you're right! It is venus in Aquarius! Good work! Errr....So does that mean I have a chance to get with this Libra friend at some point?!? haha! Or am I just playing the fool and wishful thinking?


Do you have Mars in Libra as well?
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Posted by marmir
Across an ocean....we got into this little mishap the other day and he said that if I had the opportunity to see other ppl than I should go for it. He's not planing to see other ppl, but he just has to figure out work first and doesn't know when the next time we'll get to meet up. I got upset because I didn't want him to give me the approval for me to see others. So I told him if that's what he wanted...then WE should have some distance between us...and if I was still single...
He panicked. He later logged on that evening to say hi and explained that he really does want to see me again, and that he still really likes me, but wanted to be fair for me etc. and that he's really not looking for other women if he gets a job elsewhere. Anyway, being friends....we resolved the situation. I decided if he wanted to talk to me he can message me, and sure enough he always did it first and was chatty as ever; asking about my day, what have I gotten up to, and talked about his day etc.. I hate the game play...but I figure if he wants me, he knows where to find me. that's it! that's all!


I hate to tell you this but you're manipulating him to do whatever you want and you know it.
I know how you work because one of the people I know is the same way.
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That's pretty impressive! Yes I do have Mars in Libra.
ah man! I really don't know now...we really like each other, but I told him that I didn't want to commit to anything until we see each other again just to be sure it's real for the both of us. We're both not seeing anyone at the moment...and he keeps chatting and keeping in touch with me. I don't want to drop him because he's genuinely a GREAT guy, plus he calls me loooooonnng distance....he's pretty intense now that I think of it...mmmmmm
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You have moon in gemini.. or ..?
What are his placements/ his exs' placements?
Btw, you are the one in control for now
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I don't know about his ex...all I know is that he's NOT getting back with her; but he keeps in touch here and there from time to time. Whenever he's got a bad day or something, he seems to always be coming to me...which is sweet!
His Sun in Libra, Moon/Cancer, Lots of Libra, Mars in Sag.
Spica...I really don't feel like I'm in control Sad We get on well tho! Winking
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@marmir..are you from south east asia?as i know of a person who is exactly undergoing the same situation.
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no I am not...I read your other post, and to be fair....we definitely have a connection between us. We went a week without speaking to each other, and it felt SO long! When he got back from the holidays and chatted...the time flew by.
Anyway, I must say, things have been steady between us. Is it odd that he/we check out homes he's thinking of buying at the end of the year? He asks for my opinion on the matter and where he should buy etc...,man.....he's so cute.
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Posted by marmir
I don't know about his ex...all I know is that he's NOT getting back with her; but he keeps in touch here and there from time to time. Whenever he's got a bad day or something, he seems to always be coming to me...which is sweet!
His Sun in Libra, Moon/Cancer, Lots of Libra, Mars in Sag.
Spica...I really don't feel like I'm in control Sad We get on well tho! Winking


then don't play that game you're playing. . I agree with cutie on the other post.
you see, I know an aries w/ venus in aquarius and I think she is the champion game player.
the Libra guy got super duper confused and it delayed everything right from the outstart and
the aries girl couldnt stop with her games because it was sOooo easy for her, and it was fun.
Plus, the friendship thingy.
Ya know, you gotta allow people to choose who they want to be with. Game playing is to manipulate someone else to be with *you*; to confuse them and then tease them.
if you truly respect the person, then don't influence them towards what you really want.. not what *they* want. There is a super huge difference. Assuming you care for your friend, then dont try to tell him to forget his ex and come to you.

I dont want to be mean but if you're not like that Aries I know, then apologies.
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oh no! You definitely have me wrong. When we met I wasn't expecting anything from him at all! We were both in similar situations and that was how we connected with each other. I've even said that if he felt strongly for her and can't get over things, then perhaps he should give it another go. She even came down to LIVE with him for a month (she's a manic-depressant, he wanted to make sure she was ok). I even asked if he wanted us to stop talking for a while, he said no and he still wanted to keep in touch etc. It was him that came on to me for a long while and of course, I've developped a fondness for him.
I never tried to push him towards me in anyway or convinced him to be with me. He had made up his mind long ago without my help.
No worries on the apologies Spica! I totally understand how it can seem...
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Alright..
I was just projecting a real life scenario unto yours. I am always amazed if the jigsaw puzzle could click in terms of life patterns of people who know not each other.
I think I feel sorry for that Libra in a terrible 'in-between' girlfriends situation. It's always excrutiating to be in that space.. especially how you described it.
But, still, I think its better for someone to get out of a mess before you get into it. You *may* be a rebound - but if you don't want to risk it, and don't mind it then go ahead. BUT I do forsee something messy - because the ties to the ex is not broken - you can be a positive distraction for him, but he's still gotta deal with his past feelings, which obviously is still there.
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no no! I don't want to get involved in that way because I've had similar past experience dealing with a guy and him getting over his ex etc etc.. As much as I like him...I don't want to push him or convince him of anything, I just want him to be happy and not drain himself emotionally...and as an aries, we want to be the ONLY one. If not, we really don't try very hard afterwards...being second doesn't compute with us.
I did mention we're miles apart? So rebound...seems a bit hard in all cases. If anything, he'd be looking for something closer to home. He's really not the type to drop exes...he's friends with all his exes and chats to them from time to time smile
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Posted by spica
By the way, Libra doesn't believe in friendship being as a means to stall time or etc. It's now or never. A drift is as good as a mile. D'ya know what I mean?


as a libra, i can't date friends. if they liked me, why didn't they ask me out sooner, where they just dangling me around and judging me all that time, were we really even friends? i certainly know that i can't be won over. if the spark isn't there from the first meeting, nothing will ever create it, not even years of good conversations.
either somebody is a friend or they are more. i know that if i've got feelings for somebody, i don't really see them as a friend, even if i call them a friend.
is that what you mean?
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Well yes Libras are very big on communication. The more communication they have with you, the greater the chances that they're really into you, even if they'd prefer to keep you as just their friends. Libras love to talk & chat up a storm; anything that stimulates them mentally is their cup of tea. When a Libra can feel themselves attaching to you, they don't necessarily shut down or put a hault on the communication just b/c the connection grows stronger. No, they go for it. Libras generally do have lots of friend, BUT only tend to be VERY close with a small knit group of people, thus this is why alot of people often call Libra's their best friends, even if the Libra doesn't necessarily feel that you are their's. They don't necessarily have to have an intent to talk to you; as long as you hold good conversation & can take them out of the zone, they will continue to communicate with you & will often let things go as far as things are willing to go. Libras have the ability to see the good in everybody, thus that's why one might see them chatting with or getting close to all the people that everyone else might ignore or walk right past. Libras take interest in everyone they communicate with on the regular, BUT that doesn't mean that they always see everyone they like as long-term potential. Libras can flirt with you, talk to you all day & say sweet nothings in your ear (with all GOOD intentions) but yet not necessarily see you as more of a friend. And this social butterfly in them is why they're often accused of leading people on. When it comes to commitment/love/relationships & all that good stuff, they are actually very picky & aren't ones to leap into every door that looks appealing to them. Whenever a Libra is keeping up the contact with you, that means you're doing something good.
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Posted by marmir
no no! I don't want to get involved in that way because I've had similar past experience dealing with a guy and him getting over his ex etc etc.. As much as I like him...I don't want to push him or convince him of anything, I just want him to be happy and not drain himself emotionally...and as an aries, we want to be the ONLY one. If not, we really don't try very hard afterwards...being second doesn't compute with us.
I did mention we're miles apart? So rebound...seems a bit hard in all cases. If anything, he'd be looking for something closer to home. He's really not the type to drop exes...he's friends with all his exes and chats to them from time to time smile


Hmm ok, then you know what to best do then. I do know Aries wants to be the only one.. that is understandable..
As little sparrow mentioned, I think Libra men have no problem with online relationships. It offers them the detachment as well as closeness needed. . .
Btw, regarding friends with exes, I am not sure what is going on there. It is definitely not healthy to be friends with exes unless they're thinking of going back together.
. . .this is coming from a Libra who is not friends with exes. . . its not truly possible.
But that really depends on your definition of friendship. Passion once there already killed the friendship tune. You can't get it back the same.
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Posted by spica
By the way, Libra doesn't believe in friendship being as a means to stall time or etc. It's now or never. A drift is as good as a mile. D'ya know what I mean?


as a libra, i can't date friends. if they liked me, why didn't they ask me out sooner, where they just dangling me around and judging me all that time, were we really even friends? i certainly know that i can't be won over. if the spark isn't there from the first meeting, nothing will ever create it, not even years of good conversations.
either somebody is a friend or they are more. i know that if i've got feelings for somebody, i don't really see them as a friend, even if i call them a friend.
is that what you mean?
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Yes.
I don't buy into the term 'friendship'. It is extremely vague, and has the potential to hold expectations self created. Friendship can mean anything - because it encompasses all layers. It can even be used as a term to indicate 1. denial, 2. platonic/FWB 3. breakup lingo 4. plea for distance 5. manipulation technique.
the thing with aquarius types is that they see friends as potential lovers. Or lovers as potential friends. They cannot distinguish it - or rather, don't want to distinguish it so it is a copout or just a vague grey area to be left alone forever.
"i know that if i've got feelings for somebody, i don't really see them as a friend, even if i call them a friend. is that what you mean?"
Yes
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Posted by krysrenee7
Well yes Libras are very big on communication. The more communication they have with you, the greater the chances that they're really into you, even if they'd prefer to keep you as just their friends. Libras love to talk & chat up a storm; anything that stimulates them mentally is their cup of tea. When a Libra can feel themselves attaching to you, they don't necessarily shut down or put a hault on the communication just b/c the connection grows stronger. No, they go for it. Libras generally do have lots of friend, BUT only tend to be VERY close with a small knit group of people, thus this is why alot of people often call Libra's their best friends, even if the Libra doesn't necessarily feel that you are their's. They don't necessarily have to have an intent to talk to you; as long as you hold good conversation & can take them out of the zone, they will continue to communicate with you & will often let things go as far as things are willing to go. Libras have the ability to see the good in everybody, thus that's why one might see them chatting with or getting close to all the people that everyone else might ignore or walk right past. Libras take interest in everyone they communicate with on the regular, BUT that doesn't mean that they always see everyone they like as long-term potential. Libras can flirt with you, talk to you all day & say sweet nothings in your ear (with all GOOD intentions) but yet not necessarily see you as more of a friend. And this social butterfly in them is why they're often accused of leading people on. When it comes to commitment/love/relationships & all that good stuff, they are actually very picky & aren't ones to leap into every door that looks appealing to them. Whenever a Libra is keeping up the contact with you, that means you're doing something good.


Dudette, I dont really agree with this, but then you may be right for other libra types.
By communication, do you mean verbal communication?
Talking up a storm can be a superficial way of showing interest. That means the friends category. Vocal with partners? Maybe not so much - there's way lot more to censor, I think. Or at least in my experience with a Libra partner.
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I totally agree with you guys about dating friends. I've never become friends with someone and see the potential of dating them afterwards...If its not there (chemistry) in the beginning, its not going to happen later. We could get along great, hang out all the time, but if my feelings aren't there from the start, its a no go. I guess it's why it has become a bit complicated on the friendship issue. It's clear there's something there, and he does only have a very close, but small knit of friends. Social networking - big yes!
(sigh) unfortunately for me, due to our distance at the moment...we can't really do anything but to be friends and get to know eachother better this way.
My Libra guy is more of what Krysrenee said. I don't see a big deal with keeping in touch with exes. I keep in touch with mine casually and so I don't really feel threatened....If it's meant to be, it would have already. there's nothing wrong with caring about someone whom you were once close to. It's natural to feel some sort of bitterness, but at some point, we have to be mature and move forward and hope that they find what it is they're looking for.
And yes, he is SUPER picky, and has no problem telling you honestly if he doesn't see anything between the two of you no matter how close/nice/sweet you may be to him. He won't keep in close contact and open up to you unless he really feels connected...oh! I think I just answered my own questions....haha!
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Posted by spica

I don't buy into the term 'friendship'. It is extremely vague, and has the potential to hold expectations self created. Friendship can mean anything - because it encompasses all layers. It can even be used as a term to indicate 1. denial, 2. platonic/FWB 3. breakup lingo 4. plea for distance 5. manipulation technique.
the thing with aquarius types is that they see friends as potential lovers. Or lovers as potential friends. They cannot distinguish it - or rather, don't want to distinguish it so it is a copout or just a vague grey area to be left alone forever.


well, i'm really picky about who i call a friend. most people i'll call acquaintances. or i'll refer to them as somebody i'm friendly with. but never an actual friend unless i mean it. people i've known who feel the same have all ended up invariably being either librans or virgos.
it frustrates me to no end when people say it in a more casual way. when i was younger, i really thought boys i'd dated wanted to stay friends. that was stupid. now, i don't date friends. and i plainly refuse to be friends after breaking up. or even after things not working out with somebody i dated a couple times. they made the choice to pursue more. i know what i want from somebody as soon as i meet them, and i hold others to the same standards, even though i know it isn't fair.
a couple years ago, i tried dating an aquarius i had been friends with for a couple years at the time. he'd always had iffy boundaries with me and would often say stuff about how great we would be together (bearing in mind that he thought he knew me very well and in reality pretty much didn't know me at all, because as an aquarian he didn't care to). i knew we wouldn't. and we weren't. dating him, his boundaries were just as iffy. i wasn't even hurt. i didn't care. he's slipped to acquaintance status since.
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"well, i'm really picky about who i call a friend. most people i'll call acquaintances. or i'll refer to them as somebody i'm friendly with. but never an actual friend unless i mean it. people i've known who feel the same have all ended up invariably being either librans or virgos.
it frustrates me to no end when people say it in a more casual way. when i was younger, i really thought boys i'd dated wanted to stay friends. that was stupid. now, i don't date friends. and i plainly refuse to be friends after breaking up. or even after things not working out with somebody i dated a couple times. they made the choice to pursue more. i know what i want from somebody as soon as i meet them, and i hold others to the same standards, even though i know it isn't fair.
a couple years ago, i tried dating an aquarius i had been friends with for a couple years at the time. he'd always had iffy boundaries with me and would often say stuff about how great we would be together (bearing in mind that he thought he knew me very well and in reality pretty much didn't know me at all, because as an aquarian he didn't care to). i knew we wouldn't. and we weren't. dating him, his boundaries were just as iffy. i wasn't even hurt. i didn't care. he's slipped to acquaintance status since."
I totally know what you mean.
Basically, "friendship" doesnt mean so much to me as it used to in high school - a true friend is very hard to find - especially when you grow up.
I don't believe in "being friends" with exes, either.
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"My Libra guy is more of what Krysrenee said. I don't see a big deal with keeping in touch with exes. I keep in touch with mine casually and so I don't really feel threatened....If it's meant to be, it would have already. there's nothing wrong with caring about someone whom you were once close to. It's natural to feel some sort of bitterness, but at some point, we have to be mature and move forward and hope that they find what it is they're looking for."
Dude, I know what you mean by 'caring'; in a friendship, no hold barred kind of way. It is the typical "aquarian" stance.
AFAIK, my guy has never been in touch with his exes, neither have I.
friends, totally different matter.
If you stay friends with exes, it means putting them on a string for later, as and when.
The Aries/ ven in Aqua girl I know, however, always keeps in contact with those who fancy her but she doesnt intend ever to be with them. I think its extremely cruel - she uses them but those poor bastards know nothing.
As for her REAL exes, its a goodbye for good, and I know it.
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Nah, for me; when it's over, it's over. I don't go backwards. I don't hold grudges and I do really wish them well. If it didn't work out between us, I hope it works out with the next person. Once I've had enough, I really mean it.
That's such a mean thing what your friend is doing Sad
I totally don't do that. I have many guy friends and I love hanging out with them, but once I know (and its usually in the begining) they have an interest and I don't. I make it VERY clear to them I'm NOT attracted to them in that way. They respect my space and are TRUELY friends and we still hang and it's never been awkward. I've known these guys for over 7 yrs.
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Libras are amazing friends! They will keep in touch and even if they don't you are always on their minds. I have some Libra friends that I see maybe 3 times a year, but every time it's like we never separated.
I love my libras! smile
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Posted by marmir
Nah, for me; when it's over, it's over. I don't go backwards. I don't hold grudges and I do really wish them well. If it didn't work out between us, I hope it works out with the next person. Once I've had enough, I really mean it.
That's such a mean thing what your friend is doing Sad
I totally don't do that. I have many guy friends and I love hanging out with them, but once I know (and its usually in the begining) they have an interest and I don't. I make it VERY clear to them I'm NOT attracted to them in that way. They respect my space and are TRUELY friends and we still hang and it's never been awkward. I've known these guys for over 7 yrs.


Thats great Marmir. You don't sound like my 'friend' in any way, except your energies seem really similar - but that only ends right there.
My 'friend' is very charming, and she could never commit - loves her freedom too much - or she has some childhood issues she refuses to acknowledge.
But she is very seductive and love to "toy" with people - especially those she knows she cannot have - it's all a game to her and she plays to win. (but i acknowledge she is psychopathological - and it has nothing to do with sign placements)
And I do understand the non regression - all aries I know dont go back to past lovers at all - this is quite unlike libra - who will swing backwards and forwards, sometimes picking the ex lover (most recent one).
But as has been mantioned lots of times, though libra seems pliable and unable to make a decision, they are the judge - and have already made a decision from the get go - but they allow people to sway them because they enjoy the multitude spectrum of possibilities - its like a technicolor stardust coat - life without freedom of choice is so dull.
So, if you want to be more than friends, then make it clear from the get go, then see his response.

But please know that once you get involved with him, things will change from what you see now to something else. So be warned, and dont manipulate, or play the game because though the present may be fine and dandy the ending maynot be so fine..

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Posted by Gizmo
Libras are amazing friends! They will keep in touch and even if they don't you are always on their minds. I have some Libra friends that I see maybe 3 times a year, but every time it's like we never separated.
I love my libras! smile


They sound really awesome!
the typical libra is a harmeless and well meaning friend
we dont like to manipulate people
and some see that as a weakness to be exploited.
- if you are sincere and true, you have a loyal friend forever (mental distance is actually closer than physical!)
because its the virtue most respected - the good they see in you.
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My best Libra pal always sees the good side! I love that about her.
We give each other plenty of space and at the same time are always connected on some level. We know each others shortcoming and forgive them to each other.
It's really a really great friendship that both of us cherish tremendously!
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We both know if it weren't for the distance we would definitely try it out to be more than friends. But I told him that I think it would be best that we see each other physically before we make any permanent decisions. He knows how I feel about him and vice versa. And we haven't lost touch one bit!
Oh! On a lighter note, I received a small package from him for Valentines! It came in time and was a nice surprise! Chocolates and a card. He wrote my name and drew a heart around it, and wished he could have been there with me! Tongue Libras are the sweetest!
I've also had a Libra best friend growing up, and we lost touch. We met up afew years ago and she still had the story we wrote together when we were in grade school! It was the most sentimental thing and nearly brought me to tears! She's one of my favourite people to this day and I still hold her dear in my heart!
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