Libra guy?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by sydneyhughes27 on Sunday, February 27, 2011 and has 7 replies.
They say that when a libra flirts with you, he isn't into you. So what does it mean if he's unusually shy around you? It's like, when he's with his friends, he talks, laughs, shouts, etc. But when he's with you, he talks in a calm way.
I'm just wondering 'cause I have a crush on this libra guy who seems to be indifferent with me. I always catch him looking at me but when I do, he suddenly looks away. And there was one instance when I was singing on stage and I caught him looking at me again. But this time, he was smiling. He seems to be amazed or something. But as soon as I noticed it, he looked away again. Strange. What do you think?
LOL No, when he flirts, he's still into you.. but it might be a pretty casual, superficial "into" you. Cuz he's a flirt.. he's into flirting with everyone, esp when single.. now.. that special girl, the one who leaves him feeling tongue-tied and exposed, the one with whom he doesn't want to make a fool of himself? Yeah, she's the one he sneaks looks at, and looks away.. the one he talks to, but the flirting is toned way, way down.. maybe he's not ready for her to KNOW he likes her.. God, she might not be into me - she might reject me! Can't have that.. I know, let's play it cool. Wait and see if she likes me too. Yeah, that's safer. Man, I like her.. bet she doesn't even know I'm alive, though. *sigh*
And on the "amazed" thing.. I've noticed that Libras love to watch you do something well.. it more than impresses them.. it gives them tingles.. and they watch in amazement.. singing, dancing, playing a sport, whatever.
Do you like this guy? Cuz if you do, you'll have to let him know.. otherwise, he's probably going to keep playing it safe.
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Posted by Nefer

And on the "amazed" thing.. I've noticed that Libras love to watch you do something well.. it more than impresses them.. it gives them tingles.. and they watch in amazement.. singing, dancing, playing a sport, whatever.


That is so true. Like it's watching them in action, and if they're enjoying what they're doing then it's them naturally, if that makes sense.
Maybe yeah on those other points too.smile
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Oh, I definitely agree with that, e*3! You're right.. even MORE than doing something really well that impresses him.. if you are LOVING it, even if you SUCK at it, he's gonna be gob smacked. Libra LOVES to see you smiling, happy, really, really loving what you're doing. Even if it's something as simple as staring at you dazed and starry-eyed while you're laughing and joking with your friends. That's kinda not just Libra though.. that's actually pretty much ANY red-blooded male.. a woman's smile and her laugh are a Siren's call.
So ladies.. go out and do things you LOVE, things that make you FEEL good and happy.. things that make you laugh and smile.. your Mr. Right might be watching... you might not even notice him or see him there.. but he'll notice you, and feel compelled to reach out to you. *wink*
Posted by Nefer
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by Nefer

That's kinda not just Libra though.. that's actually pretty much ANY red-blooded male.. a woman's smile and her laugh are a Siren's call.
So ladies.. go out and do things you LOVE, things that make you FEEL good and happy.. things that make you laugh and smile.. your Mr. Right might be watching... you might not even notice him or see him there.. but he'll notice you, and feel compelled to reach out to you. *wink*


Indeed! I completely agree with you Nefer on that any red-blooded male would see a woman's smile and her laugh as a Siren's call. smile
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LOL No, when he flirts, he's still into you.. but it might be a pretty casual, superficial "into" you. Cuz he's a flirt.. he's into flirting with everyone, esp when single.. now.. that special girl, the one who leaves him feeling tongue-tied and exposed, the one with whom he doesn't want to make a fool of himself? Yeah, she's the one he sneaks looks at, and looks away.. the one he talks to, but the flirting is toned way, way down.. maybe he's not ready for her to KNOW he likes her.. God, she might not be into me - she might reject me! Can't have that.. I know, let's play it cool. Wait and see if she likes me too. Yeah, that's safer. Man, I like her.. bet she doesn't even know I'm alive, though. *sigh*
And on the "amazed" thing.. I've noticed that Libras love to watch you do something well.. it more than impresses them.. it gives them tingles.. and they watch in amazement.. singing, dancing, playing a sport, whatever.
Do you like this guy? Cuz if you do, you'll have to let him know.. otherwise, he's probably going to keep playing it safe.


Yeah, I actually like him. How do I tell him? I tried to talk to him this morning but he seems to be evasive. It's like even before I was able to call out his name, he disappears. Lol.
Wow, that's excellent advice, KoL.
And the lack of sarcasm and vitriol makes my fingers twitch to dial the phone, so the proper authorities can arrest the impostor pretending to be you and start hunting for your body. o.o
Pithet are you a Libran? Cos I thought you were bling?

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