Ok so here it is. I have known this Libra dude for about 2 years now. Im not the average girl.. I very masculine actually. Let me start with describing myself. I play guitar, softball, pool, poker, in a hardcore band, and Im not afraid to make any first moves lol. However, I have only been with one guy* (if u know what I mean). Yet, Ive had alot of boyfriends.. just not that sexual right away unless I know you well off 1st. So now I go back to the libra guy. He is very* attractive, and we get along so well. Finally one day when we are driving back from the casino he tells me he likes me more than a friend. I have always been attracted to him, but for some reason I AM SO SHY when it comes to this libra guy? I kinda just smiled and brushed it off like a buddy joke. So anyway, I txt him the next day saying that I felt the same. Well ever since that day, shit has gone DOWN HILL!! By the way.. I am a gemini. So natrually Im attracted to him. Everytime we hang out now its with his friends except for two times where I slept over his house (in the same bed). We didnt do anything but cuddle for like 5 min and than fell asleep, BOTH times. We have kissed only 1 time.. and it was in front of his friends at a basketball game. Other than that .. things havent been really progressing! Over the weekend we got into a fight because his friend was trying to get with me at his party meanwhile all I did was push him away and wait for The Libra guy to come and spend time with me. The only reason why I went there was for the libra. So I left bcuz I was tired of trying so hard. I dont get it? Now I try and put myself out there and he doesnt even budge?? So after I left I went to go play pool.. and saw this cancer guy that I used to date. I didnt want to look at my phone bcuz I knew that the LIbra was prob texting me. But eventually I gave in to check my phone. HE BLEW UP MY PHONE! Come back blah blah .. sleep over... I miss you. And I was too drunk to drive so I didnt. I didnt text him for the whole next day, and than later that night he text me some cop out. " You left your shoes at my house".. So I txt bak "Just leave em there Ill pik them up sometime" Than the next day I didnt text him, and he txt me again " Have you talked to so & so".. anbd In reply "No, whats up?" and that was that. Than the next day he flips out and is like.. whats the deal? Where have u been? I just explained exactly what it was, I didnt want to txt him cuz I was busy. Its not like we r together*
Libra Guy way too shy?
The reason why I am posting this.. is because I want to know whats up with him? Is he gay, a virgin, bi, or just an idiot? He dated this one girl who was a hoe lol.. and he never took her out or anything.. he broke up with her because he found out she was a hoe.. she was VERY pretty but .. a hoe.. lol. Anyways.. I dont know what to do? Now he is saying I dont want to rush things that is why I havent made a move.. but I just dont know.. How can I tell him to grow up and just be my man.. Are you strong enough to be my man?? Sheryl Crow...
sounds like games to me from both sides to be honest. Why didnt you pick up the shoes? that's probably what he was hoping for so you could talk, etc....why dont you text him back?
I dont get the games, especially Libra and Gemini games.....move on and find somebody that'll give you what you want because this one won't....
I dont get the games, especially Libra and Gemini games.....move on and find somebody that'll give you what you want because this one won't....
Yeah I have weird experiences with Libras like this, had one a couple of days ago, this chick disappeared from right under my nose for like 5 or 6 months and I was pestering this guy that was hiding her and he would not tell me anything about her and then I confronted him threatened to call the cops on him pull out of his drive way and get back on Memorial Drive ATL and he's on the pavement approaching me with a glock, I got out my car and there was the squad right adjacent to me signalled the cop and ran across some 8 lanes to the other side of Memorial (I could have just driven off but was on a red) and hid behind some bushes and outta nowhere a cop pulls over and arrests me and a minute later my Libra girl is in the parking lot spoke to the cops and pulled had some dude tag along with her in a 4*4 > she spoke to the cops got the impression she didn't wanna atleast say hi > it really hurts a lot, got three tickets but I'm taking the guy to court. Interesting how I flushed that whole scenario out. This other Libra is just indecesively stubborn as hell won't talk whatsoever I call her for her birthday no talk > call her on my birthday no talk. I don't understand the meaning of these circumstances except how uncanny these experiences were.

this is true. Its crazy how they're back and forth. I dont think he wanted me to pick up the shoes.. I try not to play games.. it just seems like thats what he wants from me? I just got out of a 4 yr relationship with a CAppy. It was great.. I just moved away. Maybe thats why he is afraid? He thinks Im not ready? I dont know.
perhaps

I guess time will tell?
uh huh
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