Howdy ya'll. Wondering if I'm a special case or not... Libras are supposed to be social and what not, but a lot of times I feel like being a hermit crab. I feel like I let down my friends when I don't want to go out partying and what not, but I'm just not that type of gal. I know it's ok... but am I missing out? I would much rather... just "be" if that makes any sense. I do feel like a "sasquatch" so to speak, but I just want the people around me to understand I care for them deeply, even if I don't feel like going out and meeting social expectations.
Is that normal?? a libra hermit crab. I guess there may be other things in my chart influencing that feeling!
Read up your chart, you may find something there. Maybe its even how you were socialised growing up. I find that I can be a social butterfly in the right setting. When I am home though, I'm in my own world and dont necessarily want to socialise ...just wanna quietly do my thing till its bedtime. LOL
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May 07, 2012Comments: 0 · Posts: 280 · Topics: 20
My Libra guy is like this. He likes to just stay home sometimes and relax. Funny that you said just "be" because I used that term one weekend we just hung out and did nothing. He liked that term..LOL. He is social and does get out sometimes but I know during the week he is a homebody. Not sure what his chart says.
I know being a Scorpio I would rather be home than out and about most times.
As outgoing and sociable they say Libras can be I also like my alone time too. So, yes I am a Hermit haha. I need my independence and time to just relax, being busy can be so draining! Even when I'm not very busy, I can go into hermit time..but one thing is for sure, I wont really shut myself out from people like other signs. Heck, if you want to be a hermit with me..netflix it is! haha. Honestly, when I feel unbalanced, that's what I need that time. Libra's can be people pleasers, I know I am. But when I'm home, hmm I must enter my woman cave. =) Just try to compromise and show up sometimes for social things, I do that to get them out of nagging for a while lol. Socializing in one day for me is draining, esp since my career is in healthcare..AND I talk to everyone in general, grocery store, shopping, mailman, etc lol. Whether it's a mere hello, brief convo, or just telling a random stranger to have a nice day haha. The life of a Libra!