Good evening fellow air signs. I am an aqua guy who has been seeing a younger 2nd decan libra for 5-6 months. I really could not ask for more as she finishes my sentences, always tries to be positive, is independent enough and also intimate enough. There is a light somewhere that we feel in each other.
The problem is I cannot get her to commit to me. She's not the amorous type and does not have any reservations about me personally, but she has some type of apprehension or fear holding her back that I can't decipher.
Now I know theres a lot of aqua lib couples out there, please share your experiences and how long it took for things to be serious.
au revoir
I'm laughing a little bit because I just ended the romantic aspect of my relationship with an Aqua. Isn't it you guys that normally have the commitment issues, lol?
The info I have from you is very vague/general, so there could be a million reasons why she's keeping you at arm's length. Usually a Libra is willing to commit WAY earlier than an Aqua. We like being in partnerships and can't stand to be alone (e.g. without a boyfriend) for long periods of time. That's not to say we're clingy; we're usually pretty independent and have our own things going on. I would venture to say maybe she has some trust issue from a past betrayal? If you're sure the issue doesn't lie with you, then I'd start there.
Im a libra and ive made every guy ive been with wait. If shes anything like me shes probably just weighing her options or trying to keep things interesting or even see if your not just trying to get to her goodies. Probably why ive dated a lot of cancers, theyll do whatever it takes lol