Libra ladies would you or would you not date
This topic was created in the Libra forum by Ferocity Dravidian on Saturday, November 3, 2007 and has 10 replies.
Libra men? when I mean "date" I don't mean it in the more superflous/superficial manner instead very intimate on many levels. Would you or would you not?
Maybe...it depends...if he can take the lead and make decisions when I can't/won't...then again maybe not because my experience has been that we could never get past the surface level...he wouldn't draw nigh me and I wouldn't draw nigh to him...and I don't know why libras are labeled as such fun I find that we can be quite boring...
Wouldn't it be like dating a kind of brotherly type?
The two signs where I have regularly heard the woman state they would not be interrested in a man of their same sign are Libra and Scorpio. However, I am dating a Libra woman who has opened up more and more quickly than she has with any other boyfriend and possibly person and the relationship makes her feel very secure and of all things....free.
I think the issue is on the fence (as with most Libras and issues) and weighs back and forth depending on the person or people they have access to, to help make the distinction of weather or not other Libras make good intimate partners.
In my experience, young libras like how the more agressive and overtly masculine signs pull the femaninity out of their personality and like stated above who also make decisions and take charge primarily. In this experience Libra women if they don't take the plunge with one of these earlier partners come around later to guys that are more laid back in their approach to life, romantic and detail oriented when it comes to the wants and needs of their partner. Libra fits the last description rather well, along with a couple of other signs. Problem is that a lot of the other signs that do aren't elementally compatible according to most astrologers.
I also think that it is a libran life lesson to go from having someone extract the femanine energy from the libra ladies, to that side comfortably initiating itself.
Libras also transition from liking aggrssive ego drivin males to humble and confident males who walk softly and carry a big stick....which just happens to be a commonality with Libra males.
So....in my opinion, they become more open to it with life experience and luckily the two are probably the most compatible of all same sign couples.
I think the issue is on the fence (as with most Libras and issues) and weighs back and forth depending on the person or people they have access to, to help make the distinction of weather or not other Libras make good intimate partners.
In my experience, young libras like how the more agressive and overtly masculine signs pull the femaninity out of their personality and like stated above who also make decisions and take charge primarily. In this experience Libra women if they don't take the plunge with one of these earlier partners come around later to guys that are more laid back in their approach to life, romantic and detail oriented when it comes to the wants and needs of their partner. Libra fits the last description rather well, along with a couple of other signs. Problem is that a lot of the other signs that do aren't elementally compatible according to most astrologers.
I also think that it is a libran life lesson to go from having someone extract the femanine energy from the libra ladies, to that side comfortably initiating itself.
Libras also transition from liking aggrssive ego drivin males to humble and confident males who walk softly and carry a big stick....which just happens to be a commonality with Libra males.
So....in my opinion, they become more open to it with life experience and luckily the two are probably the most compatible of all same sign couples.
I can understand how it would be boring. The boredom lies from both being alike and unwilling to rock the boat to show emotions.
At first, it got boring, and seemed like going nowhere. Brotherly type, yes, because we were platonic friends and always have been.
It goes two ways, either strictly brotherly/platonic, or romantic. Once it gets romantic, there's no turning back. And then it gets really familiar, like you belong together.
I agree with liking the aggressive, dominant, different types, for both males and females. I never thought I would be with him; he was a friend of mine for many years, whom I treated basically as a girl friend (he's exceptionally good with girls, style , nice buddy etc.).
We'd both 'stagnate' when we were younger because we wanted the other to make the decisions. Strangely, we were so alike, more like soul friends. And we had this attraction to each other, but it wasn't strong enough for a relationship.
That came much later, and I'm not regretting it, though there's still a long way to go.
There's no-one else like what he (the libra) can offer. It's a familiarity that you just keep returning to. A multi-facaded relationship that can't be told or seen from the (calm) surface.
I would think a same sign partnership shows you all your glaring faults, straight to your face, help you accept them unconditionally, grow, all with the understanding there's someone right beside you growing and seeing their own faults too.
At first, it got boring, and seemed like going nowhere. Brotherly type, yes, because we were platonic friends and always have been.
It goes two ways, either strictly brotherly/platonic, or romantic. Once it gets romantic, there's no turning back. And then it gets really familiar, like you belong together.
I agree with liking the aggressive, dominant, different types, for both males and females. I never thought I would be with him; he was a friend of mine for many years, whom I treated basically as a girl friend (he's exceptionally good with girls, style , nice buddy etc.).
We'd both 'stagnate' when we were younger because we wanted the other to make the decisions. Strangely, we were so alike, more like soul friends. And we had this attraction to each other, but it wasn't strong enough for a relationship.
That came much later, and I'm not regretting it, though there's still a long way to go.
There's no-one else like what he (the libra) can offer. It's a familiarity that you just keep returning to. A multi-facaded relationship that can't be told or seen from the (calm) surface.
I would think a same sign partnership shows you all your glaring faults, straight to your face, help you accept them unconditionally, grow, all with the understanding there's someone right beside you growing and seeing their own faults too.
Brotherly type"--- ehhh...more like I'm dating myself...that little man thats in my belly finally manifests...cause I seem to switch roles not on purpose but I just realized or finally admitted that I do act manly and hard around my female friends and girly and go into siren mode around guys...and oh God don't let both sexes be in the same room I go into overload...i don't want to talk about this anymore i feel weird...
"I would think a same sign partnership shows you all your glaring faults, straight to your face, help you accept them unconditionally, grow, all with the understanding there's someone right beside you growing and seeing their own faults to"
I think you made a good point
However, I don't think I could date my own sun sign
Not that I never would, I just don't think that it would work out
I think you made a good point
However, I don't think I could date my own sun sign
Not that I never would, I just don't think that it would work out
I think a gemini dating a gemini would be like playing high speed ping-pong 
with a live hand grenade and shovels.
Yes, I think Libra men are wonderful!
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