Libra Ladies, Your Infinite Wisdom, Please
This topic was created in the Libra forum by a muse a libra on Tuesday, December 4, 2007 and has 15 replies.
I need libras who've dated Sag men. I've searched the Sagittarius board, but it is dry dry dry. And for some reason, my Sag seems a little dry, too. I enjoy his company and he is very affectionate towards me, but 2 things:
1. Our conversation is sometimes lacking, sometimes stalls out. Not always awkwardly, but yes, sometimes those silences can be awkward (not supposed to happen between libra/sag!)
2. He always tells me to call him when I'm leaving, which means he never calls me. I will wait 2 days usually, max to see if he will, but I do think it's something of a test.
This guy is intriguing, gentlemanly and very hunky. It's very early on and we are both taking it slow and I sense a little nervousness about him. I'd like your reactions, experiences, opinions you fine libra women.
1. Our conversation is sometimes lacking, sometimes stalls out. Not always awkwardly, but yes, sometimes those silences can be awkward (not supposed to happen between libra/sag!)
2. He always tells me to call him when I'm leaving, which means he never calls me. I will wait 2 days usually, max to see if he will, but I do think it's something of a test.
This guy is intriguing, gentlemanly and very hunky. It's very early on and we are both taking it slow and I sense a little nervousness about him. I'd like your reactions, experiences, opinions you fine libra women.
I don't know about Libra girl and Sag guys, but Libra guys and Sag girls are a great match...
I don't know about Libra girl and Sag guys, but Libra guys and Sag girls are a great match...
From my experience .... Sag guys are really weird. And lets just say .... sexually lackluster. In fact, the worst sex I have ever had was with a Sag.
Nice guys, really fun, but a little flakey.
They seem to get distracted by shiny things and forget you for awhile. They kinda run off for awhile, then run back, then run off, then run back. They get really freaked about commitment too. Even if it is the furthest thing from your mind.
He probably wants you to call so he has reassurance that you like him, so he doesn't have to do the work, and doesn't get distracted by his own life.
They need things to go real slow ... even on the physical level or they will freak out. That is my advice.
Nice guys, really fun, but a little flakey.
They seem to get distracted by shiny things and forget you for awhile. They kinda run off for awhile, then run back, then run off, then run back. They get really freaked about commitment too. Even if it is the furthest thing from your mind.
He probably wants you to call so he has reassurance that you like him, so he doesn't have to do the work, and doesn't get distracted by his own life.
They need things to go real slow ... even on the physical level or they will freak out. That is my advice.
Thanks LS. You always have good advice. I do find Sag men to be odd, too. But I like a little strangeness in the men I date, so it's working okay for me right now. As for the sex, it's not the most thrilling I've ever had, but it's not the worst either...I'm hoping he'll be open to a little training 
I've been beating him to the "you call me punch" lately. It's been a fun little cat/mouse game, who can say it first. I'm happy to report, when I tell him to call, he always does.
I've been beating him to the "you call me punch" lately. It's been a fun little cat/mouse game, who can say it first. I'm happy to report, when I tell him to call, he always does.
if you guys just date then go find one aqua friend to help this situation out. take he/she along with you this would help stimulate conversation. aqua get along great with both sag & libra & easy going. after you guys hook up just leave aqua behind..he/she will always understand & never mind having time alone....amen
Yup...all that that Little Sparrow said...I remember a while back one I asked to the prom and he said hold on let me go turn off my computer...never came back to the phone...never called back...then one day 6 months later popped up at my house like "HEY! How ya doing?"...left and a year later popped up at my house again since he was in the neighborhood like we just kept in costant contact and are buddy buddy...the last straw was when he came by locked his keys in the car and my dad payed $ 50 to get them out...mind you when he'd stop by i was not happy or friendly...i thought i had disappearing acts...
Sags: Love adventure. In other words: get bored quick. ALWAYS on the run. ALWAYS disappearing then showing up again, usually at odd times. Every one I've known, male and female, have been egotistical. Oh yes, and they always seem to come off smarter than they really are. Completely UNFAITHFUL if you ever get serious!
I know a lot of sag's and they don't seem egotistical at all! They are some of my closest friends. I will admit, one of them is a known cheater, a big time sneak. The others, I don't know about for sure, but they seem true and genuine people, with real intelligence. Elaborate please!
Sags aren't egotistical in that they desire the spotlight, like Leos. They just a have a "me first" attitude---whether they get attention or not. EVERY Sag I've ever known is like this. They also have their own unique philosophy of life (probably based on that attitude). Double Standard ALL the time. I've never know a Sag that applies the same rules to himself / herself as to others. Now they can be generous with their money and things in general---BUT they're going to make sure their pockets are lined at the same time. The UNFAITHFULNESS thing is what gets me-----there's really no reason for it, just the way they are.
I do admire their love for adventure and how they're just themselves and some are extremely smart---which translates to SHREWD when dealing with others.
I do admire their love for adventure and how they're just themselves and some are extremely smart---which translates to SHREWD when dealing with others.
I have found Sag men attractive (case in point: Brad Pitt!) and have met a few sag men but nothing worked out favorably, for even a date.
First, their nonchalance is off-putting.
Then, their sensitivity beneath that nonchalance is worse.
They dislike clinginess, but that means it's a hit-and-run
They fail at intimacy. Most likely guzzlers to hide their inability to express themselves.
Telling you to call is an easy way out for him.. it boosts his ego and then he doesn't need to remember to call.
When a Sag is worth it, he does the opposite..
I have Sag friends who disappear for days. I just assume they found a secret spaceship and have been going to mars and back. Unless you need a jack in the hat, Sags are out for the generally clingy libras.
First, their nonchalance is off-putting.
Then, their sensitivity beneath that nonchalance is worse.
They dislike clinginess, but that means it's a hit-and-run
They fail at intimacy. Most likely guzzlers to hide their inability to express themselves.
Telling you to call is an easy way out for him.. it boosts his ego and then he doesn't need to remember to call.
When a Sag is worth it, he does the opposite..
I have Sag friends who disappear for days. I just assume they found a secret spaceship and have been going to mars and back. Unless you need a jack in the hat, Sags are out for the generally clingy libras.
My dad is a Sag. and my mom bless her heart never quite felt like he loved her for some reason. My experience with him was one of insensitivity for the most part. He only said I am sorry to me one time that I can remember. I don't know if this is typical of the sign but he had a knack for saying something that was totally rude or mean sometimes. And then he had no clue what so ever as to why his statement had the reaction it did. Like he had no tact in dealing with people you might say.
Here is an example: His new girlfriend is about thirteen years younger than he is (he is now in his eighties) and he started sending her expensive face creams that were for reducing wrinkles on a persons face. She decided to go get a face lift because of the gifts he was sending. To this day he has no clue that what he did prompted her decision to have the surgery. And this is a mild example of what I mean. Don't get me wrong my dad was a great guy in all other aspects. A good provider and family man who loved his kids with all his heart. He just was never taught how to use tact when communicating with others. Sometimes it became the thing the family would laugh about because it was so out there, and we all understood that he meant no real harm. It was never intensional or done with any kind of mean spirit on his part, that is what made it so darn odd and funny at times. Well sorry for rambling again, I will get better and shorter in my posts as time goes on. OK!
Here is an example: His new girlfriend is about thirteen years younger than he is (he is now in his eighties) and he started sending her expensive face creams that were for reducing wrinkles on a persons face. She decided to go get a face lift because of the gifts he was sending. To this day he has no clue that what he did prompted her decision to have the surgery. And this is a mild example of what I mean. Don't get me wrong my dad was a great guy in all other aspects. A good provider and family man who loved his kids with all his heart. He just was never taught how to use tact when communicating with others. Sometimes it became the thing the family would laugh about because it was so out there, and we all understood that he meant no real harm. It was never intensional or done with any kind of mean spirit on his part, that is what made it so darn odd and funny at times. Well sorry for rambling again, I will get better and shorter in my posts as time goes on. OK!
* I don't know if this is typical of the sign but he had a knack for saying something that was totally rude or mean sometimes. And then he had no clue what so ever as to why his statement had the reaction it did. Like he had no tact in dealing with people you might say.
OMG! I just had this conversation with someone else. That is the sign for sure. Sag has no filter. They are the bow of truth for a reason.
OMG! I just had this conversation with someone else. That is the sign for sure. Sag has no filter. They are the bow of truth for a reason.
read my post about wat i went thru with a Sag and im a Libra it started out beautiful but he did hide the fact he was a cokehead so maybe thats why he was confusing ..but u cant stereotype everyone ..just take things slow and if he;s flaky or needy or indecisive ..leave him, u dont want to be anyones mother thats annoying
I see nuances off all these personality types in my Sag. I feel he is deeply sensitive, and I think that is the reason our conversation was stalling in the beginning. Now, we have a nice flow, though it is slow still. He listens to me, which is nice and important to me. He remembers what I say, proven again and again.
He is honest to the point of insensitivity, though not yet directed toward me. I appreciate his honesty though. He does open up a LOT more after a couple of beers, though. It's pretty obvious the alcohol helps him loosen up and get in touch with himself. I think this will get better as he gets more comfortable with me.
Something that is fairly interesting, we've been friends for about 6 months and were both seeing other people in our group, though neither of our relationships got serious as we both got dumped. I sometimes get a little nervous, knowing Sags predisposition toward cheating (and don't trust the other girl as far as I can throw her) but this kind of heartbreak is something we have in common as strange as that sounds. I think we are both reluctant and afraid to let each other in too far too soon.
We had a great night before I left for home for X-Mas. He gave me a very thoughtful gift (one could read it as "rude" it was a manicure kit, since my nails are atrocious, but I see it as very perceptive and apt) and we went to dinner. We stayed up talking most of the night which we've never done before. I loved it.
I'm interested to see how this all plays out. All bets are off, we'll just have to see!
He is honest to the point of insensitivity, though not yet directed toward me. I appreciate his honesty though. He does open up a LOT more after a couple of beers, though. It's pretty obvious the alcohol helps him loosen up and get in touch with himself. I think this will get better as he gets more comfortable with me.
Something that is fairly interesting, we've been friends for about 6 months and were both seeing other people in our group, though neither of our relationships got serious as we both got dumped. I sometimes get a little nervous, knowing Sags predisposition toward cheating (and don't trust the other girl as far as I can throw her) but this kind of heartbreak is something we have in common as strange as that sounds. I think we are both reluctant and afraid to let each other in too far too soon.
We had a great night before I left for home for X-Mas. He gave me a very thoughtful gift (one could read it as "rude" it was a manicure kit, since my nails are atrocious, but I see it as very perceptive and apt) and we went to dinner. We stayed up talking most of the night which we've never done before. I loved it.
I'm interested to see how this all plays out. All bets are off, we'll just have to see!
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