libra males

i have a libra boyfriend and the main things i notice are that he hates showing his emotions, he would rather tell a joke to keep the situation light.. another thing is he has millions of friends lol and half of them are girls and that makes me jealous and possesive (being a cancer).. hehe and he fell in love with me exceptionally quick and im not so sure about that still..

are these libra traits? some of them are cute and some drive me crazy, he can never make up his mind about things and leaves decisions to me alot of the time..

Yup, all sounds familiar...

Are you worried?

That is how those lovely boys are. I hear and am starting to learn that they aren't really indecisive, but really careful about decisions they make. YES THIS CAN DEFINITELY DRIVE YOU CRAZY. Libra men can relate to women better than any other sign I have known. So a lot of them do have quite a few platonic female friends. Okay, most platonic, they can cross over to FWB, if they become attracted to one or another of their female friends. With their charm, it can be hard to resist (not to say that yours is - in general). So, yes those are all the traits of the Libra man - it comes with the package. Believe me, I know.

We are removed from our emotions. We tend to think more than feel.

Don't ask him to be other than he is. He can't.

Its like they're scared of meaningful conversation.

But they are very capable. Get him on the subject of the health care system and let him rip.

Your just going to have to deal with the many chick friends...like the women who date pisces & aqua guys.

ummmm health care is meaningful. In fact, it is more meaningful than any amount of emotional feces people want to dig up, which is just self-serving bullshit that doesn't help anyone even the person digging it up.

I am not sure why people persisist in rolling about in their own emotional feces and serving it up as emotional intimacy.

"ummmm health care is meaningful. "


I know.

***I am not sure why people persisist in rolling about in their own emotional feces and serving it up as emotional intimacy.***

Simple, some people are emotional and some aren't. Those that are live through emotion, those that aren't don't. People are who they are period. No matter the sign. Libras are thinkers more than emotional reactionaries, most water and some earth signs are more emoional reactionaries than thinking first. Doesn't make one better than the other though (not saying anyone intended to imply that).

Right on, QS!

Thank you Atom. We have to keep it in prospective.

I think you misunderstand what I am saying Queenie. 🙂

I am not talking about sharing passing emotions. I am talking about people who dig into the past and pull it out.

"When I was three ... this happened to me ...."

It just seems not only self-indulgent but self-serving. It seems like a form of emotional manipulation to excuse bad behaviour. "This happened to me when I was three so you can't be mad at me ... so you have to take care of me ... or whatever."

The thing is we aren't three anymore. We are adults . (BTW, this isn't directed at anyone. Just throwing out ideas.) Whatever happened is the past and isn't who you are now unless you allow yourself the indecency of defining yourself by a past moment when you were three.

I also think holding onto a victim mentality is an attempt to punish the person who inflicted the initial injury. It is flawed logic because the victim is only hurting him or herself. "I will self-destruct because you did this to me when I was three."

It is okay to say Yes bad stuff happened to me as long as you have let it go. It isn't good to use that stuff, that dysfunction, as a tool for bonding.

Just some thoughts I am throwing out there.

Okay LS in that sense I agree with you. However, no one posted anything of that nature in that sense so I wouldn't have known in what way ou meant what you did. Where did this come from? Just your thoughts, something you are just throwing out there?

acp8705,

yep you got it all right,

emotions: we dont show are emotions too often, and never in public, but if we do it is always serious, either positively (we are totally in love so we time to time express ourselves:-) or negatively (vie versa)

friends: regarding the female friends if we are in love that interest is usually just academic (but lasts until we die)

fall in love quickly: well at least for me this is 100% usual, shortly: I always fall in love at first sight and don't stop intensively seducing until the girl is mine, in other words: i dont think you should worry about this one. but sometimes later when i am dating the girl i am not always sure what to do then, continue, or break up? (but the feeling that i should hurt her ...god damn no)

traits: well acp8705, to be absolutely honest with you, it might even under some very special circumstances happen

hard to decide: hell yeah, I am able to decide by myself the big stuff, but whether to buy an orange or blue polo, or have fries or rice....jesus, sweetie what do you think??

That was really helpful l_m, thanks.

Ahhh got ta luv those Libra boys!!!! LOL!!! All of those things about them, make them even more interesting. They seem to always peek curiosity... Especially one in particular 🙂

from my experiences...just give librans space...they'll always come back to you.