Libra males

Hi, I am in deperate need of help! My fiance is a libra and when we started dating, I've done some research on the libra but now I have a situation and no-one could tell me what to do.. I am a very insecure person and sometimes a little demanding... He's such a wonderful man and works really hard so I don't get to see him very often and live seperately until we get married. Anyway, last night he said that sometimes I don't make him feel wanted and he said that I need to say what I feel more.. I was hoping to get some help from a libra male (and anyone who could help) to tell me what I'm suppose to do because as you'll find that virgo's aren't very good at expressing their feelings (at least, I'm not)
PLEASE HELP!!!!

read my post virgo women married to libra man sad story.... maybe it will help you. if not what do you really wanna know i was married to a libra for 4yrs and we are now separated.

Just break up and move on. Libra man - virgo women is a disaster. It all begins only bcoz virgo women cannot control themselves from flirting with a libra man and those poor souls end up hallucinating themselves into an affair. The biggest weakness of libra is falling in love for the sake of being in love and getting married for the sake of being in a relationship.

When i hv enuf money, i will sure make a monument in honor of the brave and stupid libra men who thought they were in love with virgo and cappy women and ended up leading a miserable life.

Amen!

I'm with thelibran on this one

LOL

Plan a dinner just for both of you at his place or yours. Bring red wine. Laugh, have fun, tell him how handsome he looks and don't nag him.

Libra's hate being nagged and they hate drama.

They like being romanced.

to a degree, Mystic. Don't overdo that.

chantal - virgo : It sounds as if he really likes you because he's being open and honest with you about that. I am the same way: insecure and wasn't showing very much affection to my libra. To me, however, I need to be shown a certain amount of affection in order to reciprocate it. A big part of our downfall was that I didn't feel much affection from him, and was afraid to show him affection because it made me feel as if I wasn't liked as much as I thought I liked him. Recently he contacted me and actually apologized for the lack of affection, and in return I did as well. It turned out we were both scared to show eachother the affection each of us was wanting because of our insecurities.

He told you. The hard part is over. Be assured that he likes you because of it, allow yourself to break down some of the walls built up by those insecurities and show him some adoration. But not too much. Libras do like a chase, so be somewhat indirect about it as well.

I do not believe Libras and Virgos are incompatible at all. There's just a definite lack of communication between the two. At least that's what I've come to experience.

Thanks Virgoian!

Thelibran, I beg to differ! When we met, I didn't flirt at all, I was cold towards him and to be honest I thought he was a male chauvenist - which by the way, he is - and I hated that about him! He asked me more than 3 times to go out with him and I kept saying no.. When he asked me out on a date for the fourth time, I was persuaded by my mom to go.. We went out and I got some of my friends to join us, we all mingled and had a fabulous time and since then we've been together and we're unbelievably happy! We talk about everything and anything! Yes, sometimes he's moody (typical libra traits) but I've learned to deal with! He never gives me mixed signals or anything like that! He's honest and absolutely adores me! Our relationship will work because we both want it to work and having said that we both do our best to keep eachother happy!

((I do not believe Libras and Virgos are incompatible at all.))

It doesn't matter who believes what. Beliefs have no place in a libra's life. Truth is what matters. ask any libra guy who is 30+. he will tell u the same story.

Chantal, its only ur perspective about his behavior. u hv no idea how it was inside his brain.

Yes, truth is what matters, I agree and maybe you're right and maybe I'm just naive and in love but he's not like how people describe libras in general! BTW, I didn't ask if we were compatible or not, I asked for tips on what I can do to make him feel appreciated..
What do you mean by: "u hv no idea how it was inside his brain.?"

When a libra cover things up, its few steps better than what US govt have been covering up for decades. You wont even suspect a thing.

And what's that suppose to mean? I'd love to hear this!

LOL

I understand you completely. Me being a Virgo woman I can totally relate to not being able to express feelings very well, however it doesn't mean that I don't care or that I don't have feelings its just harder for me to put into words. If you really care about this person put everything aside and be honest with yourself and how you feel about him and then just tell him exactly how you feel inside. I know its a lot easier said than done, but once you do it-you'll feel a big sigh of relief, and knowing that you could truly express your feelings for that person to them. On the other hand I must say a Virgo Woman and a Libra Man is a hard challenge. My last three boyfriends were all Libra's and all three of them didn't end all that well. Never again will this Virgo woman want a Libra man.. -shudder- lol. Hope things work out for you though.

Thank you Brina! I am determined to make our relationship work and I'll do anything to keep him happy and interested! I know it's going to be a challenge (has been from day one) but I love challenges and honestly, I've never felt this way about anyone, I haven't said that to him though, he's the one who keeps saying that he will be lost without me in his life..

Virgo being a Mutable sign should ordinarily be able to express what they feel, all Virgos I come across openly express themselves but you are in one of those long distance type or arranged marriage type relationships. You are insecure bekorxk you don't got a choice of your own.

I can say what I feel easily but as Brina said, we're not very affectionate people and we don't like people "hanging" on us (I don't!). Just so you know, Joe, I'm not in a long distance relationship and it's definitely NOT an arranged marriage! I've had a pretty hard life and that made me an insecure and sometimes suspicious person!