Libra man

I really would like to know how much it actually means to a libra when they say " i do like u a lot, u are amazing, kind,
Nice and the most caring person i know"...
Please give me a constructive advice, thanks

So u think i shouldnt ever hope of getting back together? Is that absolutely impossible for a libra?

you have to listen to the totality of what he is saying.

i have no doubt that he likes you as a person but he just wants to sleep with you. that's all he wants from this.

when he says you're ahead of him emotionally, he means he doesn't feel the same way you feel about him.

if you stress him out he has already decided that you are not the person for him but you are convenient for now to keep getting together. stressing out in my mind is that there is too much drama about you. we don't like drama. give us a calm, peaceful and fun life. no heavy emotions please. it's too draining.

so that's why he only wants the fun stuff with you - watching a movie, having sex. if you want to be his toy in this and can handle only the superficial, then go for it but it won't have any sort of consistency. he will continue to come and go as his desire takes him. i suspect as a taurus this will leave you hurt and confused and miserable.

as sugarfoot said, let him go.

Thanks guys for ur advice.
I am actually quite confused now. We did date for quite some time and we do have a connection and he always told me he feels very relaxed with me, and he did open up with quite a lot of private stuff... So i am confused wen u say " he wont come back bcoz there was nothing to come back to", coz we were never together? Could u please elaborate on what u mean?

P.S. Oh and i already ended it coz we have always been honest with each other, there was a time i didnt mind the sex friendship coz i myself had a lot doing on, so it was nice with that, but i told him thats not enough for me and since he thinks we are not at the same page now, so i left. No drama and nothing negative between us

You know the old adage...when in doubt, go with your first instinct. If you are questioning whether he wants to be with you or not, then you already have your answer. Like everyone here says, there's no doubt he likes you. If he didn't, he would be around, but there seems to be nothing more than that for him.
Put some real distance between your relationship with him and MEAN IT, then see what happens. Good Luck

Thanks Llb4Life. I have realized that my mistake was that inwas too available for him. I am type of person who'd prioritze a person i like( without of course putting the rest of my life on hold). So i have done that alot and i also didnt let him chase me enough. I am a bit old-fashioned in that way, when i am interested in a person ( which doesnt happen often) i show it openly and i dont play games or hard to get.
I know all these advice is quite general, and in my case i know that there is a special connection between us so thats why i want to give it another try after giving him some space, to see how it goes if i change a couple of things in my attitude to him. We had a great connetion, no drama, no insults or anything, full of honesty and respect so i dont wanna loose this 🙂

Posted by Lulu771
Hi, i met this libra guy. I like him a lot... Natually i had a bit of a problem with both of his indecisiveness coz i am naturally impatient... Long story short, he always said i am
Amazing and he likes me a lot and so on... a few months back he said he wants to be only sex friends... Well
We tried for a while then he admitted that i stressed him so he gt scared... So we were back together again... Then due to my personal problems i was too stressed and overwhelmed with all what was going on ( and i am a person who can take A LOT), i guess i stressed him
Again, so he backed off... I am a more stable and loyal and dedicated and committed person so it pisses me
Off every time he sayf he only wants to be sex friends( movie watching and sometimes eating and talking)... So now i told him i dont want that any more...

Please tell me two things
1. What exactly it means when a libra man says he wants only sex friendship (movie+eating/chatting)? All the classic relationship literature says "when a man says he only wants sex, it means he only wants sex". Is that the case here?
2. Shall i approach him again after disappearing for some time?

Your answer was here. You had it in your own paragraph, followed by several people telling you the same thing.

Yet you start a new thread, twist it around with a select phrase to bait people into the advice that you want to hear, which is the fairy tale bullshit.

Get the fuck out of here with that garbage. You're ridiculous.

Posted by Lulu771
Thanks Llb4Life. I have realized that my mistake was that inwas too available for him. I am type of person who'd prioritze a person i like( without of course putting the rest of my life on hold). So i have done that alot and i also didnt let him chase me enough. I am a bit old-fashioned in that way, when i am interested in a person ( which doesnt happen often) i show it openly and i dont play games or hard to get.
I know all these advice is quite general, and in my case i know that there is a special connection between us so thats why i want to give it another try after giving him some space, to see how it goes if i change a couple of things in my attitude to him. We had a great connetion, no drama, no insults or anything, full of honesty and respect so i dont wanna loose this 🙂

Most Libra women think the same way as most Taurean's wherein we see relationships as serious and committed, and generally don't play emotional games, but apparently Libra men are a different species..lol. Tiz is a great advisor on Libra men, so he can probably give you some insider tips.

Thanks so much. How can i find that person u talked about?

Posted by Lulu771
Thanks so much. How can i find that person u talked about?

His screen name is Tizani. In MY opinion, he seems to really be able to see two sides of an issue and give some pretty good advice, but of course it's up to the person to be open enough to at least consider what he's saying. I can see two sides of an issue as well, but 'm still trying to get there....lol. I think my other placements make me a little more combative at times, but he always seem to be so mellow and balanced. I'm sure not everyone will agree with him, but for me personally, he's cool, and I maybe wrong, but I think he is a professional counselor of some type as well.

Sorry for so many questions. I am new to this forum thingy. If i send him a private msg will he get it?

I’m sorry I didn’t see your other post. But I’ve said what he said to you, to close friends. Not always a love interest. Libra’s a very good with words, very beautiful and pretty words and we know just when to use them. If you want something more I always encourage a person to be completely direct with a Libra don’t give him/her a way to go around the question. Make them give you a straight answer, otherwise they will fill your head with nice words, make you feel good about yourself so it will soften the blow or reality that they don’t really want you in that way, and you’ll notice they still didn’t answer your damn question. Lol. It’s because they know you won’t like the answer.

Trust me, if this man wanted you and ONLY you, he would tell you so. When I was into my Scorpio I told him flat out, I want you to myself I don’t want to share, I want you. He doesn’t have to wonder because it doesn’t get any more direct than that. If you want this Libra or you want to know where you stand, then tell him flat out “Listen, there was a time I was cool with being friends with benefits or whatever this is but not any more. I want more. I’ve grown some real feelings. I want you for myself. I want to be exclusive. If that’s not something you want right now, then say that. But you should know I’m not settling for anything less. So if not, then I’ll see you around.”
Certainly I don’t recommend trying to be his friend right away, because you need to time heal over the feelings you’ve developed that are not too “friendly” if you catch my drift. Let him know you’re not mad, but he needs to understand your need for a little space while you wrap your brain around the fact that the two of you are not on the same page.

Posted by Sugarfoot
Every time I realize I wasted time giving advice to a fixed sign yet again.

😆

Posted by Lulu771
Thanks Llb4Life. I have realized that my mistake was that inwas too available for him. I am type of person who'd prioritze a person i like( without of course putting the rest of my life on hold). So i have done that alot and i also didnt let him chase me enough. I am a bit old-fashioned in that way, when i am interested in a person ( which doesnt happen often) i show it openly and i dont play games or hard to get.
I know all these advice is quite general, and in my case i know that there is a special connection between us so thats why i want to give it another try after giving him some space, to see how it goes if i change a couple of things in my attitude to him. We had a great connetion, no drama, no insults or anything, full of honesty and respect so i dont wanna loose this 🙂

you may think there is a special connection but i would bet money on it that he doesn't. if there was he wouldn't want to let you go either! does that not make sense? you say you don't want to lose this. what you don't want to lose is the fantasy because the reality is you've got a guy who thinks you are great to have sex with, who doesn't want commitment and will settle with you while he waits for what he really wants. if you consider that to be great, then you've set the bar too low.

space is not the issue. are you kidding? libras are all up in your business if they want to be. the key is he just doesn't want to be.

and now you've decided it is best to play games. good luck with that.

A libra has a stubborn mind. Its hard to persuade him to do something new, so if he was only with you for the sex then THATS WHAT IT IS. Its a Libra's first impression of you that plans out y'all relationship. If a libra really likes someone he waits but if his obligation is just to have sex with you then thats going to be you guys relationship forever and he will say whatever he needs to, to charm you at all the right times to get what he wants. Im a Libra guy so i know. But good luck with everything

Only you really know in your guts like the person said above. Those words sound like placating words to soften the impact of a blow like the truth. But then again I don't know what context the words were spoken. If he was affectionate and romantic he loves you as a woman and a friend. If there were no romantic gestures because you were over the phone etc, it's hard to say, so rely on your gut instinct.

Posted by luckiedollsmith
A libra has a stubborn mind. Its hard to persuade him to do something new, so if he was only with you for the sex then THATS WHAT IT IS. Its a Libra's first impression of you that plans out y'all relationship. If a libra really likes someone he waits but if his obligation is just to have sex with you then thats going to be you guys relationship forever and he will say whatever he needs to, to charm you at all the right times to get what he wants. Im a Libra guy so i know. But good luck with everything

Hmm. I've seen myself not really like someone at first and then suddenly they do something that makes me really like them. Like this aqaurius up in college, totally not my type at all, but he was so sweet and persistant. Then one day i got sick and he took care of me, i fell for him. Then there's this Aries, once again i hated the way he dressed, just super bummy, i'm talking dengy shirts every day. But he was persistant, and once i got to know the REAL him, i understood him as a person and i fell in love. Then one day he got dressed for his birthday and blew me away! haha!

But libra man always say nice things as libra woman( I am) 🙂 who knows what they really think....and also I think libra man they said most of the same for many woman ,keep calm,stay cool 🙂