libra man and facebook

This topic was created in the Libra forum by sole2 on Friday, January 24, 2014 and has 16 replies.
My libra bf still has pictures of his ex on fb. None of me. He says he is too lazy to spend time uploading and deleting, and will let me do it next time we are together (it is long distance).
But it's still pissing me off. Also because I saw he hid something I liked on his wall (so not so lazy after all).
He is not very active on there, in fact doesn't even reply when people wish him a happy birthday. He may go on once or twice a week. He says it is not his reality. His first excuse for not loading pictures of us is that he has too many work colleagues there and doesn't want them to know about his personal life. Then when I said that was sh** because he posted pictures of his ex (personal life) before. He turned it into the lazy excuse.
Am I getting upset for nothing?
His ex deleted and blocked him on fb. And he is still friends with some of her friends who he reached out to after she blocked him from her life. But then he had the nerve to tell me he deleted them (clear lie).
Is this big enough for me to fight over or should I just let it go?
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Ok, thanks!
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A lot of people just don't log on that often.
It would bother me too and make me question whether he was really into me and the reasons why. It's so simple to load pictures from your phone. Whether he deleted the old ones, well, that takes time. Adding new ones doesn't.

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Posted by SuninLibraMooninCapVenusinScorpio
His first excuse was BS and the second one about being lazy, well deleting a picture from Facebook isn't exactly difficult so I wouldnt accept that as the truth.
Always trust your instincts. Personally that would hurt me, not just the fact that he may have pictures of his ex on Facebook which he knows I can see, but the fact that he lied and kept them knowing it made me uncomfortable.



Yup, that's exactly how I feel! If it weren't for all the other amazing qualities he has, which I have been looking for, he would have been a goner a long time ago. But now he is definitely under review hahaha.
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The fact that he's lying so much is a lot of wtf.
I'd be insulted he's hiding you from everyone else.
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I know this very well.... He kept that pictures there, to not let others see that woman is not with him now. For Libra is a shame and lose of face in others's front to know he was leaved by his ex or ended up the relationship. But also he keep you in secret, this is also not a good sign from him.
And no.3 reason, is that he liked that girl more than he likes you now and he show this . Lazy is only a lie ! Other reason is, to make you jealous or to see some of your reactions. My Libra did exactly the same with some pictures , he posted a pic with a girl on his blog and unde the pic he was writting that what it was, it was.. long time ago between them. Many of his friends appreciated that picture , they liked that girl in the picture ( they never met her real because the girl in fact was not his ex ! , it was only a picture with a girl in his way ) and he liked keep that picture there to makes me jealous and to let me see what his friends comment about that girl. It is a stupid game of Libra , I can't understand what is good in this game for them, but they do this. So, it is possible she is not his ex in your case too ! He only said that to can see what other comment about that girl and him and to see some of your reactions. Is a stupid game, really, at least you will know later about this.
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I was paying back , how is the saying ! I made some id and enterred on his blog and I leaved a lot of negative comments about that girl, about him and his blog , all this in time and bwtween other comments from his friends there. He believed I am a different person always and sometimes he replied to "me' there . But then all his friends read "my" comments there and his work so, it had not any good end smile Having bad comments like " I no like this girl" or " no match" or " who is this ...? really not for you .. " and comments about his blog, I just wanted make him feel what I felt whan saw that pictures ! I know is a stupid thing from me doing this, but at least he never think it was me and then I saw he deleted that picture from there =)) This was some years ago.
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He??s so full of ish it should be coming out of his nose.lol.
Why do you have to wait until your together to delete it off his profile. Why cant he just text you his login and password and let you do it? Since he??s so ???lazy??. I mean that is, IF he??s serious about letting you do it.lol NOT.
I wont lie, I would dump him. Especially if I don??t love him yet. Bye bye. I don??t have time for the games, or question marks. When a man is serious about you he doesn??t want it to be any misunderstanding on his end because he cares just that much, and those pictures would??ve been gone the moment you mentioned it. And if he??s so ???inactive?? as he claims, he will give you that password. I know plenty of guys that have girlfriends, and their girlfriends have their password, hell the guys barely post stuff. With me it would be, either you delete the shit, or give me your password and I??ll do it.
I hate when people say Facebook, or the page don??t matter. I does, because family friends, and co-workers network through these sites, and believe it or not people are downright nosey, that??s why Instagram and Facebook make so much money. So I would tell him you don??t wanna upload pictures of me then fine, but the pictures of your ex better come down or I??m done until they do. Period.
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Ok most of everyone is validating what I've been thinking. It's just you want to see the best in people so you begin to question your own reasoning, so I accepted it. And I didn't want to seem like a crazy social-media obsessed teenage girl because he was like, 'it's just facebook, it's not important to me, why should facebook be a sign of love? I only deal in the real world, I'm not a show-off who needs to upload stuff as it happens live'. I didn't have an answer after he said that, hahaha.
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Their exes are trophies of past conquests/romances.
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Posted by sole2
Ok most of everyone is validating what I've been thinking. It's just you want to see the best in people so you begin to question your own reasoning, so I accepted it. And I didn't want to seem like a crazy social-media obsessed teenage girl because he was like, 'it's just facebook, it's not important to me, why should facebook be a sign of love? I only deal in the real world, I'm not a show-off who needs to upload stuff as it happens live'. I didn't have an answer after he said that, hahaha.



There aint no answer to that. And it??s not about showing off, it??s a respect thing. The ex comes down because I simply don??t like it, and it??s a show off of your past. Period. That like walking into his house and he still has pictures of her all over the place, when your over someone and they are out of your life that??s all it is too it, the pictures go too, unless they have a baby together and the baby is in the picture otherwise there??s no need for them. He??s gaming you. And he??s full of it.
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True. I just broke up...but fb was the least of our problems.
Thank you everyone for your input, it's much appreciated!
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Their exes are trophies of past conquests/romances.


Precisely! This is why when I found out my ex cheated on me, I took every material thing I gave him, which wasn't much, back. When I did go into his email account to get solid proof of infidelity, I deleted every email we've ever exchanged because that prick used to save everything so he could reminisce later. I erased myself from his life. Didn't want him to have satisfaction of anything. As for his memory of me, that'll fade with time.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Their exes are trophies of past conquests/romances.


Precisely! This is why when I found out my ex cheated on me, I took every material thing I gave him, which wasn't much, back. When I did go into his email account to get solid proof of infidelity, I deleted every email we've ever exchanged because that prick used to save everything so he could reminisce later. I erased myself from his life. Didn't want him to have satisfaction of anything. As for his memory of me, that'll fade with time.
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Ok if it just a trophy and memento that doesn't bother me. I've kept tons of stuff from my past relationships. They are all packed away in boxes, but when I see them and get nice memories it still makes me smile. So if he is just keeping it as a trophy then I shouldn't be so hard on him - for me it was more important to distinguish if it is because he still has a flame burning for her.
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Posted by sole2
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Their exes are trophies of past conquests/romances.


Precisely! This is why when I found out my ex cheated on me, I took every material thing I gave him, which wasn't much, back. When I did go into his email account to get solid proof of infidelity, I deleted every email we've ever exchanged because that prick used to save everything so he could reminisce later. I erased myself from his life. Didn't want him to have satisfaction of anything. As for his memory of me, that'll fade with time.


Ok if it just a trophy and memento that doesn't bother me. I've kept tons of stuff from my past relationships. They are all packed away in boxes, but when I see them and get nice memories it still makes me smile. So if he is just keeping it as a trophy then I shouldn't be so hard on him - for me it was more important to distinguish if it is because he still has a flame burning for her.
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...but they keep these "mementos" as an option later on down the road. Some Libra guys are notorious for that bs. As someone said, they keep in touch with exes and always have an open door for them- for their own personal needs.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by sole2
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Their exes are trophies of past conquests/romances.


Precisely! This is why when I found out my ex cheated on me, I took every material thing I gave him, which wasn't much, back. When I did go into his email account to get solid proof of infidelity, I deleted every email we've ever exchanged because that prick used to save everything so he could reminisce later. I erased myself from his life. Didn't want him to have satisfaction of anything. As for his memory of me, that'll fade with time.


Ok if it just a trophy and memento that doesn't bother me. I've kept tons of stuff from my past relationships. They are all packed away in boxes, but when I see them and get nice memories it still makes me smile. So if he is just keeping it as a trophy then I shouldn't be so hard on him - for me it was more important to distinguish if it is because he still has a flame burning for her.



...but they keep these "mementos" as an option later on down the road. Some Libra guys are notorious for that bs. As someone said, they keep in touch with exes and always have an open door for them- for their own personal needs.
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I said that open door thing. Lol. The backdoor is always open for the exes in case times are hard.
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