Libra Man came back after 2 years

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Okay so I posted here for my ex Libra long long time ago and It all finished after on and off relationship two years back . He intentionally ditched me proposed my friend , mind games , ignorance , ego issues and all . However I gathered all my strength and moved on. Ok so I don't know if this is my nature or my zodiac sign thing but once its over its over because I am a capricorn although I have tried to give a lot of chances but you know somehow it wasn't meant to be we were 17 when we came in a relation stretched it till 19 and then I moved on . So I was clear on it that I don't want that mess in my life ever again because he was pretty immature . Okay so this all finished two years back and we haven't been in contact of any sort from past 2 years.

Two days back I was doing my assignment and it was 4:30 AM in the morning Plus I was chatting with one of my friend on messenger just to confirm something about the assignment and suddenly I received a message request and boom it was him . He was like "Hey Remember me ?" I was like ok.. so I didn't replied Just seen it and ignored . After 5 mints he was like " I am sorry for hurting you or making you hurt " Ok so I was so in shock and feeling weird plus it was anger and stuff going on ion me so I said " Who .. Oh .. Lol what hurt " So he was ohk hmmmm and I didnt replied back after that so he sent me friend request and I was like what shit is going on?Am I supposed to talk to him that I eally don't want to . But My friends are like its all over come on just accept his apology and I am so confused .

I have this whole emotions and brain fight going on one says its nothing

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I have this whole emotions and brain fight going on one says its nothing just be friends with him but then One side of me says once a betrayer is always a betrayer so I have no idea . What you guys think of that ? Let me know youir opinions and suggestions in comments below .

Much love,

Thank you


just went through this with an ex-libra - dated monogamously and never fought and had such a good time together for over a year and then poof, he decides it would be best for him to just start dating other women so I moved on - then he calls late one night and I was just like you - Capricorn Moon - fighting both sides ... I told him the next day that I was in another relationship and not to contact me and he was cool about all that but geez it threw me too ... because it was so good maybe and we never fought I wonder what ? but then again I can't even think about it cause I know how much I was hurt that he just blew me off like that so I'm going to leave that alone ...

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I have this whole emotions and brain fight going on one says its nothing just be friends with him but then One side of me says once a betrayer is always a betrayer so I have no idea . What you guys think of that ? Let me know youir opinions and suggestions in comments below .

Much love,

Thank you


just went through this with an ex-libra - dated monogamously and never fought and had such a good time together for over a year and then poof, he decides it would be best for him to just start dating other women so I moved on - then he calls late one night and I was just like you - Capricorn Moon - fighting both sides ... I told him the next day that I was in another relationship and not to contact me and he was cool about all that but geez it threw me too ... because it was so good maybe and we never fought I wonder what ? but then again I can't even think about it cause I know how much I was hurt that he just blew me off like that so I'm going to leave that alone ...

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I am going through this all and I had this all flash back of times when he used to hurt me that I won't have strength to fight back my self respect but then He is here saying sorry for all what he has done at 4:30 AM in the morning GOD knows what was wrong with him and now he isn't even cancelling the request and neither texting me . So I don't get the point at all :/

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Posted by Carolz
So ladies you think I should not trust him with this and not even accept the request and stuff right ?
Agree to meet with him.

Get your closure.

Your emotions may not be genuine and trustworthy at this point.

This feeling may stem from unrequited love, ego, or unresolved issues.

You may meet with him, and think..."What the hell was I thinking?"

There may not be any genuine feelings there at all.

Two years is a long time.
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I just got back with my Libra. This is the second time he ran. I really had to ask myself which was worth. The pain of missing him forever or the pain of going through another breakup.


Being in a relation again with the same person and specially a Libra is a bad idea ! My breakup was once for all. I never even talked about the reconciliation How ever we were friends with feelings you know how that doesn't work usually .
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So ladies you think I should not trust him with this and not even accept the request and stuff right ?
Agree to meet with him.

Get your closure.

Your emotions may not be genuine and trustworthy at this point.

This feeling may stem from unrequited love, ego, or unresolved issues.

You may meet with him, and think..."What the hell was I thinking?"

There may not be any genuine feelings there at all.

Two years is a long time.

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So you think I should give him a chance to speak what he has to say and meet him up ?

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I have this whole emotions and brain fight going on one says its nothing just be friends with him but then One side of me says once a betrayer is always a betrayer so I have no idea . What you guys think of that ? Let me know youir opinions and suggestions in comments below .

Much love,

Thank you


just went through this with an ex-libra - dated monogamously and never fought and had such a good time together for over a year and then poof, he decides it would be best for him to just start dating other women so I moved on - then he calls late one night and I was just like you - Capricorn Moon - fighting both sides ... I told him the next day that I was in another relationship and not to contact me and he was cool about all that but geez it threw me too ... because it was so good maybe and we never fought I wonder what ? but then again I can't even think about it cause I know how much I was hurt that he just blew me off like that so I'm going to leave that alone ...




I am going through this all and I had this all flash back of times when he used to hurt me that I won't have strength to fight back my self respect but then He is here saying sorry for all what he has done at 4:30 AM in the morning GOD knows what was wrong with him and now he isn't even cancelling the request and neither texting me . So I don't get the point at all :/


Sounds like maybe his heart was broken.

Men learn the value of a woman when they've been hurt themselves.
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Arghh!! This was exactly what I was thinking at the first place I received the apology !!
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I have this whole emotions and brain fight going on one says its nothing just be friends with him but then One side of me says once a betrayer is always a betrayer so I have no idea . What you guys think of that ? Let me know youir opinions and suggestions in comments below .

Much love,

Thank you


just went through this with an ex-libra - dated monogamously and never fought and had such a good time together for over a year and then poof, he decides it would be best for him to just start dating other women so I moved on - then he calls late one night and I was just like you - Capricorn Moon - fighting both sides ... I told him the next day that I was in another relationship and not to contact me and he was cool about all that but geez it threw me too ... because it was so good maybe and we never fought I wonder what ? but then again I can't even think about it cause I know how much I was hurt that he just blew me off like that so I'm going to leave that alone ...




I am going through this all and I had this all flash back of times when he used to hurt me that I won't have strength to fight back my self respect but then He is here saying sorry for all what he has done at 4:30 AM in the morning GOD knows what was wrong with him and now he isn't even cancelling the request and neither texting me . So I don't get the point at all :/

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4:30 am is ridiculous - wants to say he's sorry but doesn't appear to have changed - just reaching out in a time of reflection ? regretting his ways I suppose to someone who only ever loved him - this was my case as well so I'm assuming ... I have no idea of his intentions for calling but it seemed like he wanted to get back together but it was just all too much and too late and it was his loss - too bad but it is what it is - blow it off and keep going ...
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I have this whole emotions and brain fight going on one says its nothing just be friends with him but then One side of me says once a betrayer is always a betrayer so I have no idea . What you guys think of that ? Let me know youir opinions and suggestions in comments below .

Much love,

Thank you


just went through this with an ex-libra - dated monogamously and never fought and had such a good time together for over a year and then poof, he decides it would be best for him to just start dating other women so I moved on - then he calls late one night and I was just like you - Capricorn Moon - fighting both sides ... I told him the next day that I was in another relationship and not to contact me and he was cool about all that but geez it threw me too ... because it was so good maybe and we never fought I wonder what ? but then again I can't even think about it cause I know how much I was hurt that he just blew me off like that so I'm going to leave that alone ...




I am going through this all and I had this all flash back of times when he used to hurt me that I won't have strength to fight back my self respect but then He is here saying sorry for all what he has done at 4:30 AM in the morning GOD knows what was wrong with him and now he isn't even cancelling the request and neither texting me . So I don't get the point at all :/


4:30 am is ridiculous - wants to say he's sorry but doesn't appear to have changed - just reaching out in a time of reflection ? regretting his ways I suppose to someone who only ever loved him - this was my case as well so I'm assuming ... I have no idea of his intentions for calling but it seemed like he wanted to get back together but it was just all too much and too late and it was his loss - too bad but it is what it is - blow it off and keep going ...

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It's not reflection, he's testing the waters to see if he can get in good with her. When assholes like this come sniffing around, all it indicates is that they want something. It's selfish, not reflection. Dudes like this shouldn't be entertained, period.
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I have this whole emotions and brain fight going on one says its nothing just be friends with him but then One side of me says once a betrayer is always a betrayer so I have no idea . What you guys think of that ? Let me know youir opinions and suggestions in comments below .

Much love,

Thank you


just went through this with an ex-libra - dated monogamously and never fought and had such a good time together for over a year and then poof, he decides it would be best for him to just start dating other women so I moved on - then he calls late one night and I was just like you - Capricorn Moon - fighting both sides ... I told him the next day that I was in another relationship and not to contact me and he was cool about all that but geez it threw me too ... because it was so good maybe and we never fought I wonder what ? but then again I can't even think about it cause I know how much I was hurt that he just blew me off like that so I'm going to leave that alone ...




I am going through this all and I had this all flash back of times when he used to hurt me that I won't have strength to fight back my self respect but then He is here saying sorry for all what he has done at 4:30 AM in the morning GOD knows what was wrong with him and now he isn't even cancelling the request and neither texting me . So I don't get the point at all :/


4:30 am is ridiculous - wants to say he's sorry but doesn't appear to have changed - just reaching out in a time of reflection ? regretting his ways I suppose to someone who only ever loved him - this was my case as well so I'm assuming ... I have no idea of his intentions for calling but it seemed like he wanted to get back together but it was just all too much and too late and it was his loss - too bad but it is what it is - blow it off and keep going ...


It's not reflection, he's testing the waters to see if he can get in good with her. When assholes like this come sniffing around, all it indicates is that they want something. It's selfish, not reflection. Dudes like this shouldn't be entertained, period.
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just a booty call then
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So you think I should give him a chance to speak what he has to say and meet him up ?


Yes,

But this isn't for a reconciliation.

What happened could NEVER be rectified.

This is an opportunity for you to put some permanent closure to this chapter in your life.

Forgive him and move on.

There is a real good man waiting for you in the near future.

He deserves to get the best of you.

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I just got back with my Libra. This is the second time he ran. I really had to ask myself which was worse. The pain of missing him forever or the pain of going through another breakup.
that is why I wouldn't go back after he did that the first time - what ? try again so he can do it all over again ? no freaking way !
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If it were anyone else in the world, I would feel the same.

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Also, stop saying "430am in the morning." It's redundant and you sound dumb. Am implies morning. No need to say "430 morning morning."
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@Rocky,

You're cold as Ice...

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It was one thing in the OP, maybe just a derpy moment. But she continued to say it in other comments and it's wtf territory haha. STAHP, PLEASE.