Libra man missing me
This topic was created in the Libra forum by Gemini25 on Sunday, September 15, 2019 and has 34 replies.
So I'm still talking to this Libra man and I really really like him. We talk everyday. Currently he is on a business trip and Today he texted me he misses me and I was kinda shocked because even though he haven't met in real life yet I dont understand how he can miss me. Is this normal for Libras? Btw he is so romantic and sweet .
Yes.....but that doesn't make you as his #1 or even #2. We do like to acquire admirers for sport.
is what normal for libras?
to say they miss people when they haven't even met yet? yes, i can imagine it.
to say they miss people when they haven't met and actually mean it? he probably meant it in the moment. it most likely sounded like a good thing to say at the time.
does this guy actually miss you? he probably misses his fantasy of the person he imagines you to be.
the words have little to do with you but more about his meaningless conversation. don't put any stock in it. it's just chat.
to say they miss people when they haven't even met yet? yes, i can imagine it.
to say they miss people when they haven't met and actually mean it? he probably meant it in the moment. it most likely sounded like a good thing to say at the time.
does this guy actually miss you? he probably misses his fantasy of the person he imagines you to be.
the words have little to do with you but more about his meaningless conversation. don't put any stock in it. it's just chat.
Posted by HeartofIceHe also added "I know it sounds weird as we haven't met in real life yet but I miss you "
You can't really miss someone you've never met IRL. He probably just misses hearing from you or talking to you, or anything else like that.
Posted by jeaneHere's the thing this is the 3rd time he said I miss you during one of our chats. Then he added he wants to see me in real life so bad. He lives out of state so it's not like we can plan a date. We have talked by Skype before so it's not like we haven't seen each other but yes I know it's not the same as meeting in person. I really do like him but again I am being guarded.
is what normal for libras?
to say they miss people when they haven't even met yet? yes, i can imagine it.
to say they miss people when they haven't met and actually mean it? he probably meant it in the moment. it most likely sounded like a good thing to say at the time.
does this guy actually miss you? he probably misses his fantasy of the person he imagines you to be.
the words have little to do with you but more about his meaningless conversation. don't put any stock in it. it's just chat.
Posted by greylaternI wish it was that easy to just meet up anytime but it's not. He lives out of state. He is planning a trip to see me but let's see. I hope he does. We have skyped before though.Posted by Gemini25
So I'm still talking to this Libra man and I really really like him. We talk everyday. Currently he is on a business trip and Today he texted me he misses me and I was kinda shocked because even though he haven't met in real life yet I dont understand how he can miss me. Is this normal for Libras? Btw he is so romantic and sweet .
"He is so romantic and sweet"
Ya he absolutely could. Better meet up before the mental/virtual expectations/vision of each other gets too unrealistic though. It does happen when people aren't being truely themselves in there interactions and only communicating the "best version of themselves". Does that make sense to you?
Take Libra supremes comment as a gain of salt. He is not wrong but that doesn't matter. Woman are far more likely to be juggling and deciding between different potential suiters then men. Nothing wrong with that. Rather be chosen then just because I was acceptable and around at the time.click to expand
Plus he initiates conversations everyday himself always checking in to the point when one day he doesnt it feels weird to me. Not sure if I should text him from time to time...I'm just being guarded and I am old fashioned in a way that if a Man wants to reach out he will.
Posted by Gemini25he could say it a hundred times, it doesn't give it any more weight.Posted by jeane
is what normal for libras?
to say they miss people when they haven't even met yet? yes, i can imagine it.
to say they miss people when they haven't met and actually mean it? he probably meant it in the moment. it most likely sounded like a good thing to say at the time.
does this guy actually miss you? he probably misses his fantasy of the person he imagines you to be.
the words have little to do with you but more about his meaningless conversation. don't put any stock in it. it's just chat.
Here's the thing this is the 3rd time he said I miss you during one of our chats. Then he added he wants to see me in real life so bad. He lives out of state so it's not like we can plan a date. We have talked by Skype before so it's not like we haven't seen each other but yes I know it's not the same as meeting in person. I really do like him but again I am being guarded.click to expand
he says it because there is the comfort of distance.
unless there are actual plans for him to come to you, stay guarded and give it no merit.
they are nice words. nice to say and nice to hear but ultimately meaningless unless he is standing in front of you.
Posted by jeanePosted by Gemini25Posted by jeane
is what normal for libras?
to say they miss people when they haven't even met yet? yes, i can imagine it.
to say they miss people when they haven't met and actually mean it? he probably meant it in the moment. it most likely sounded like a good thing to say at the time.
does this guy actually miss you? he probably misses his fantasy of the person he imagines you to be.
the words have little to do with you but more about his meaningless conversation. don't put any stock in it. it's just chat.
Here's the thing this is the 3rd time he said I miss you during one of our chats. Then he added he wants to see me in real life so bad. He lives out of state so it's not like we can plan a date. We have talked by Skype before so it's not like we haven't seen each other but yes I know it's not the same as meeting in person. I really do like him but again I am being guarded.
he could say it a hundred times, it doesn't give it any more weight.
he says it because there is the comfort of distance.
unless there are actual plans for him to come to you, stay guarded and give it no merit.
they are nice words. nice to say and nice to hear but ultimately meaningless unless he is standing in front of you.click to expand
Ok but why keep saying it when I'm in contact with him on the daily? Is he testing me if I will say it back? To me miss you or missing you is a strong word and I dont just say it to anyone. I know Men think differently but I dont get why say it. Also he tells me thinking of you sometimes as well.
Posted by TimonOk but heres the thing...the talks to me everyday so how can he miss me hearing from me?Posted by HeartofIce
You can't really miss someone you've never met IRL. He probably just misses hearing from you or talking to you, or anything else like that.
I agree with this.click to expand
Posted by Gemini25Posted by jeanePosted by Gemini25Posted by jeane
is what normal for libras?
to say they miss people when they haven't even met yet? yes, i can imagine it.
to say they miss people when they haven't met and actually mean it? he probably meant it in the moment. it most likely sounded like a good thing to say at the time.
does this guy actually miss you? he probably misses his fantasy of the person he imagines you to be.
the words have little to do with you but more about his meaningless conversation. don't put any stock in it. it's just chat.
Here's the thing this is the 3rd time he said I miss you during one of our chats. Then he added he wants to see me in real life so bad. He lives out of state so it's not like we can plan a date. We have talked by Skype before so it's not like we haven't seen each other but yes I know it's not the same as meeting in person. I really do like him but again I am being guarded.
he could say it a hundred times, it doesn't give it any more weight.
he says it because there is the comfort of distance.
unless there are actual plans for him to come to you, stay guarded and give it no merit.
they are nice words. nice to say and nice to hear but ultimately meaningless unless he is standing in front of you.
Ok but why keep saying it when I'm in contact with him on the daily? Is he testing me if I will say it back? To me miss you or missing you is a strong word and I dont just say it to anyone. I know Men think differently but I dont get why say it. Also he tells me thinking of you sometimes as well.click to expand
because he probably thinks it sounds romantic and he is likely to be caught up in his own imagination. it's still nonsense. he probably believes it but he doesn't really mean it.
to him it's not a strong word and he probably does say it to practically anyone - well anyone he hasn't grown bored with yet. it's not to say he is an utter bastard. he's just full of shit. most of us are.
Posted by HeartofIceWe talk sometimes twice a day. He always asks how my day went and other topics and then sometimes he texts me goodnight at the end of the day. I almost never I initiate thou he does.Posted by Gemini25Posted by TimonPosted by HeartofIce
You can't really miss someone you've never met IRL. He probably just misses hearing from you or talking to you, or anything else like that.
I agree with this.
Ok but heres the thing...the talks to me everyday so how can he miss me hearing from me?
I mean he maybe misses hearing from you if y'all don't talk for a few hours, maybe. I'm not sure. I had a Libra get in touch with me a day after we'd spoken and he told me he missed my voice which was surprising for me to hear since 1) I've never witnessed an Air Sun get mushy even in the slightest and 2) we'd literally just spoken the day before lol. How much do you guys talk every day?click to expand
Posted by jeanePosted by Gemini25Posted by jeanePosted by Gemini25Posted by jeane
is what normal for libras?
to say they miss people when they haven't even met yet? yes, i can imagine it.
to say they miss people when they haven't met and actually mean it? he probably meant it in the moment. it most likely sounded like a good thing to say at the time.
does this guy actually miss you? he probably misses his fantasy of the person he imagines you to be.
the words have little to do with you but more about his meaningless conversation. don't put any stock in it. it's just chat.
Here's the thing this is the 3rd time he said I miss you during one of our chats. Then he added he wants to see me in real life so bad. He lives out of state so it's not like we can plan a date. We have talked by Skype before so it's not like we haven't seen each other but yes I know it's not the same as meeting in person. I really do like him but again I am being guarded.
he could say it a hundred times, it doesn't give it any more weight.
he says it because there is the comfort of distance.
unless there are actual plans for him to come to you, stay guarded and give it no merit.
they are nice words. nice to say and nice to hear but ultimately meaningless unless he is standing in front of you.
Ok but why keep saying it when I'm in contact with him on the daily? Is he testing me if I will say it back? To me miss you or missing you is a strong word and I dont just say it to anyone. I know Men think differently but I dont get why say it. Also he tells me thinking of you sometimes as well.
because he probably thinks it sounds romantic and he is likely to be caught up in his own imagination. it's still nonsense. he probably believes it but he doesn't really mean it.
to him it's not a strong word and he probably does say it to practically anyone - well anyone he hasn't grown bored with yet. it's not to say he is an utter bastard. he's just full of shit. most of us are.click to expand
Wait you're a Libra? Libras are full of shit? Maybe in naive but I do still believe in real romance and a connection. Of course I am cautious. He tells me he is planning to come and visit me but he is not giving me an update if he is still coming at the end of this month. I dont want to ask him because I dont want to come off as being pushy . Honestly at this point if he comes cool if he doesnt than it is disappointing since we have build an emotional connection talking everyday now for a month and a half . I like to believe if he isnt serious why talk to me but again who the hell knows.
I think it’s ok to like him but libra males are romantic by nature so you have to not take those words as seriously with them as you would with others. When they actually start moving towards a decision is when you’re really know they’re serious. It’s especially easy, when there’s distance, to really get caught up in every word. Enjoy the conversations for what they are- flirty, emotional conversations. Until you can meet in person, it’s not a sign that you should deepen your feelings. Good luck OP! 🤗
I wouldn’t read too much into some strangers words. You’ve never even met after all.
Posted by Gemini25i don't think it's wrong to believe in romance and connection. it's a wonderful thing. i'm not cynical enough to say it doesn't exist.Posted by jeanePosted by Gemini25Posted by jeanePosted by Gemini25Posted by jeane
is what normal for libras?
to say they miss people when they haven't even met yet? yes, i can imagine it.
to say they miss people when they haven't met and actually mean it? he probably meant it in the moment. it most likely sounded like a good thing to say at the time.
does this guy actually miss you? he probably misses his fantasy of the person he imagines you to be.
the words have little to do with you but more about his meaningless conversation. don't put any stock in it. it's just chat.
Here's the thing this is the 3rd time he said I miss you during one of our chats. Then he added he wants to see me in real life so bad. He lives out of state so it's not like we can plan a date. We have talked by Skype before so it's not like we haven't seen each other but yes I know it's not the same as meeting in person. I really do like him but again I am being guarded.
he could say it a hundred times, it doesn't give it any more weight.
he says it because there is the comfort of distance.
unless there are actual plans for him to come to you, stay guarded and give it no merit.
they are nice words. nice to say and nice to hear but ultimately meaningless unless he is standing in front of you.
Ok but why keep saying it when I'm in contact with him on the daily? Is he testing me if I will say it back? To me miss you or missing you is a strong word and I dont just say it to anyone. I know Men think differently but I dont get why say it. Also he tells me thinking of you sometimes as well.
because he probably thinks it sounds romantic and he is likely to be caught up in his own imagination. it's still nonsense. he probably believes it but he doesn't really mean it.
to him it's not a strong word and he probably does say it to practically anyone - well anyone he hasn't grown bored with yet. it's not to say he is an utter bastard. he's just full of shit. most of us are.
Wait you're a Libra? Libras are full of shit? Maybe in naive but I do still believe in real romance and a connection. Of course I am cautious. He tells me he is planning to come and visit me but he is not giving me an update if he is still coming at the end of this month. I dont want to ask him because I dont want to come off as being pushy . Honestly at this point if he comes cool if he doesnt than it is disappointing since we have build an emotional connection talking everyday now for a month and a half . I like to believe if he isnt serious why talk to me but again who the hell knows.click to expand
but i will say, i will never believe the flowery words that come out of a libras mouth unless accompanied by action.
fine, if he is planning to come. great. believe it when he knocks on your door. until then it is just words.
he is probably talking to you because you sound like a great person. you most likely share a lot of interests and you make his day more interesting. that's perfect for a penpal. it doesn't make a potential romantic relationship until you can see the whites of his eyes.
for yourself, enjoy it! enjoy his company, the laughs but don't pin your hopes on him until he proves to you that he is worthy of it.
Posted by HeartofIceWe are talking a month and a half now including Skype and phone talk.Posted by Gemini25Posted by HeartofIcePosted by Gemini25Posted by TimonPosted by HeartofIce
You can't really miss someone you've never met IRL. He probably just misses hearing from you or talking to you, or anything else like that.
I agree with this.
Ok but heres the thing...the talks to me everyday so how can he miss me hearing from me?
I mean he maybe misses hearing from you if y'all don't talk for a few hours, maybe. I'm not sure. I had a Libra get in touch with me a day after we'd spoken and he told me he missed my voice which was surprising for me to hear since 1) I've never witnessed an Air Sun get mushy even in the slightest and 2) we'd literally just spoken the day before lol. How much do you guys talk every day?
We talk sometimes twice a day. He always asks how my day went and other topics and then sometimes he texts me goodnight at the end of the day. I almost never I initiate thou he does.
And how long have you guys been in contact with each other? I think it's best to go with what @jeane said and just go with the flow/try not to take anything he says or does too seriously. Unless he actually books a trip to see you in person. Or you can do that too, it's up to you. But Libras love to talk fuzzy wuzzy words and not follow through with them, lol, so just know that.click to expand
Posted by HeartofIcePosted by Gemini25Posted by HeartofIcePosted by Gemini25Posted by HeartofIcePosted by Gemini25Posted by TimonPosted by HeartofIce
You can't really miss someone you've never met IRL. He probably just misses hearing from you or talking to you, or anything else like that.
I agree with this.
Ok but heres the thing...the talks to me everyday so how can he miss me hearing from me?
I mean he maybe misses hearing from you if y'all don't talk for a few hours, maybe. I'm not sure. I had a Libra get in touch with me a day after we'd spoken and he told me he missed my voice which was surprising for me to hear since 1) I've never witnessed an Air Sun get mushy even in the slightest and 2) we'd literally just spoken the day before lol. How much do you guys talk every day?
We talk sometimes twice a day. He always asks how my day went and other topics and then sometimes he texts me goodnight at the end of the day. I almost never I initiate thou he does.
And how long have you guys been in contact with each other? I think it's best to go with what @jeane said and just go with the flow/try not to take anything he says or does too seriously. Unless he actually books a trip to see you in person. Or you can do that too, it's up to you. But Libras love to talk fuzzy wuzzy words and not follow through with them, lol, so just know that.
We are talking a month and a half now including Skype and phone talk.
How far away do you guys live from each other? Sorry I forgot to include that in my last post.click to expand
I'm in NYC and he's in Cali
Posted by Gemini25Posted by HeartofIcePosted by Gemini25Posted by HeartofIcePosted by Gemini25Posted by HeartofIcePosted by Gemini25Posted by TimonPosted by HeartofIce
You can't really miss someone you've never met IRL. He probably just misses hearing from you or talking to you, or anything else like that.
I agree with this.
Ok but heres the thing...the talks to me everyday so how can he miss me hearing from me?
I mean he maybe misses hearing from you if y'all don't talk for a few hours, maybe. I'm not sure. I had a Libra get in touch with me a day after we'd spoken and he told me he missed my voice which was surprising for me to hear since 1) I've never witnessed an Air Sun get mushy even in the slightest and 2) we'd literally just spoken the day before lol. How much do you guys talk every day?
We talk sometimes twice a day. He always asks how my day went and other topics and then sometimes he texts me goodnight at the end of the day. I almost never I initiate thou he does.
And how long have you guys been in contact with each other? I think it's best to go with what @jeane said and just go with the flow/try not to take anything he says or does too seriously. Unless he actually books a trip to see you in person. Or you can do that too, it's up to you. But Libras love to talk fuzzy wuzzy words and not follow through with them, lol, so just know that.
We are talking a month and a half now including Skype and phone talk.
How far away do you guys live from each other? Sorry I forgot to include that in my last post.
I'm in NYC and he's in Caliclick to expand
Trust your sexy hands, you can have him.
He doesn't mean it if he isn't actually talking to you but he is talking to someone else who isn't you lmao. People show us things in person that they don't show us online and people also show us things online that they don't in person. Which one is really you, the you online or the you offline? Both! and probably neither lmao I'm sorry my philosophical Sag is being a pain in the ass. What he means by he misses you is that he does miss talking to you and you talking is "you." He misses you as the you he knows you to be in this current moment. Idk why people have to rain on your parade. I would be weary of Libras though sigh, especially if they have Leo placements. Any attention is good attention but at least you have stuck out from the crowd lol
-A fellow Air Sign
Posted by BrittnieThanks for that.
-A fellow Air Sign
He does have venus in Leo.
Posted by greylaternI have reached out to him before but I just don't think I should do it when he is silent. Or should I? I mean I like the roles of a man takes the lead and I reward him with responding. He knows I like him and plus shouldn't he wonder why i dont initiate. He shouldn't have a problem to contact first each time.Posted by Gemini25Posted by greylaternPosted by Gemini25
So I'm still talking to this Libra man and I really really like him. We talk everyday. Currently he is on a business trip and Today he texted me he misses me and I was kinda shocked because even though he haven't met in real life yet I dont understand how he can miss me. Is this normal for Libras? Btw he is so romantic and sweet .
"He is so romantic and sweet"
Ya he absolutely could. Better meet up before the mental/virtual expectations/vision of each other gets too unrealistic though. It does happen when people aren't being truely themselves in there interactions and only communicating the "best version of themselves". Does that make sense to you?
Take Libra supremes comment as a gain of salt. He is not wrong but that doesn't matter. Woman are far more likely to be juggling and deciding between different potential suiters then men. Nothing wrong with that. Rather be chosen then just because I was acceptable and around at the time.
I wish it was that easy to just meet up anytime but it's not. He lives out of state. He is planning a trip to see me but let's see. I hope he does. We have skyped before though.
Plus he initiates conversations everyday himself always checking in to the point when one day he doesnt it feels weird to me. Not sure if I should text him from time to time...I'm just being guarded and I am old fashioned in a way that if a Man wants to reach out he will.
You should reach out to him when you want to and it doesn't feel forced. Feel free to do it just to bullshit with him and have fun like a normal relationship. It shows your continued interest.
Recipication is actually important for Libras and people in general. Think of it like dancing. You step I step and we sync up. Acting and reacting towards each other to the point were you don't know who is leading nor does it matter. It's always interesting and you can change to a different the song or tune when things feel stagnant(not working) or boring.
Omg my friend's friend ordered Uber eats suchi for her randomly from 200 miles you away. Genius.click to expand
Posted by Gemini25Ok Gem! Stop being...us! You want someone to say it’s bullshit?Posted by TimonPosted by HeartofIce
You can't really miss someone you've never met IRL. He probably just misses hearing from you or talking to you, or anything else like that.
I agree with this.
Ok but heres the thing...the talks to me everyday so how can he miss me hearing from me?click to expand
I know what you going on because I am doing the same thing and I am dating this man for a year! In person!
Can you just let ‘missing’ part slide and keep on telling him to come and meet you if he misses you so much? See how soon he will BE there.
If he will find excuses - just tell him that he is full of shit. And move on.
Posted by GemitatiTrue we are adults. Next time he does tell me he misses me I will ask him when is he coming to see me .Posted by Gemini25Posted by TimonPosted by HeartofIce
You can't really miss someone you've never met IRL. He probably just misses hearing from you or talking to you, or anything else like that.
I agree with this.
Ok but heres the thing...the talks to me everyday so how can he miss me hearing from me?
Ok Gem! Stop being...us! You want someone to say it’s bullshit?
I know what you going on because I am doing the same thing and I am dating this man for a year! In person!
Can you just let ‘missing’ part slide and keep on telling him to come and meet you if he misses you so much? See how soon he will BE there.
If he will find excuses - just tell him that he is full of shit. And move on.click to expand
Posted by Gemini25Good luck 😅Posted by Brittnie
-A fellow Air Sign
Thanks for that.
He does have venus in Leo.click to expand
Posted by HeartofIcePosted by Gemini25Posted by greylaternPosted by Gemini25Posted by greylaternPosted by Gemini25
So I'm still talking to this Libra man and I really really like him. We talk everyday. Currently he is on a business trip and Today he texted me he misses me and I was kinda shocked because even though he haven't met in real life yet I dont understand how he can miss me. Is this normal for Libras? Btw he is so romantic and sweet .
"He is so romantic and sweet"
Ya he absolutely could. Better meet up before the mental/virtual expectations/vision of each other gets too unrealistic though. It does happen when people aren't being truely themselves in there interactions and only communicating the "best version of themselves". Does that make sense to you?
Take Libra supremes comment as a gain of salt. He is not wrong but that doesn't matter. Woman are far more likely to be juggling and deciding between different potential suiters then men. Nothing wrong with that. Rather be chosen then just because I was acceptable and around at the time.
I wish it was that easy to just meet up anytime but it's not. He lives out of state. He is planning a trip to see me but let's see. I hope he does. We have skyped before though.
Plus he initiates conversations everyday himself always checking in to the point when one day he doesnt it feels weird to me. Not sure if I should text him from time to time...I'm just being guarded and I am old fashioned in a way that if a Man wants to reach out he will.
You should reach out to him when you want to and it doesn't feel forced. Feel free to do it just to bullshit with him and have fun like a normal relationship. It shows your continued interest.
Recipication is actually important for Libras and people in general. Think of it like dancing. You step I step and we sync up. Acting and reacting towards each other to the point were you don't know who is leading nor does it matter. It's always interesting and you can change to a different the song or tune when things feel stagnant(not working) or boring.
Omg my friend's friend ordered Uber eats suchi for her randomly from 200 miles you away. Genius.
I have reached out to him before but I just don't think I should do it when he is silent. Or should I? I mean I like the roles of a man takes the lead and I reward him with responding. He knows I like him and plus shouldn't he wonder why i dont initiate. He shouldn't have a problem to contact first each time.
I think it's a general human thing to just want reciprocation of efforts in interpersonal relationships, astrology aside. If he's always the conversation starter, 1) you really should step it up and start conversations yourself as well so that he's not over here thinking you're not interested in him because you never hit him up on your own and 2) that's not good because men aren't supposed to be expected to initiate 100% of the conversations ever. Not at the beginning of your "courting" phase, not at the middle, and not at the end. That's just old fashioned and traditional thinking and it's 2019. And I'm not saying that women are supposed to do all of the work at any time either. Relationships go both ways. It would be good if you actually talked to him during a period of silence and started a conversation so that he doesn't get the impression that you're making him do all of the work. It's scary to start a conversation with someone you're into especially if you don't know whether or not they're into you as well but it's a risk that should be taken to keep the communication going without being artificial. Even better would be just meeting up IRL but take that at whatever pace you want, there's no rush especially seeing you guys are on opposite coasts of the States.click to expand
While I do agree with you to some degree, I have to say that it doesnt matter if its 2019 or 1998 its biology. Men have it hard wired to be Men to be masculine. If he wants to talk to me he will. He didnt have a problem doing that in the first 2 weeks we talked so why would he now? Last time he texted me was yesterday and today nothing yet. I dont know if he is actually waiting for me or he is truly busy.
Posted by Gemini25i weep that young women today believe this sort of stuff.Posted by HeartofIcePosted by Gemini25Posted by greylaternPosted by Gemini25Posted by greylaternPosted by Gemini25
So I'm still talking to this Libra man and I really really like him. We talk everyday. Currently he is on a business trip and Today he texted me he misses me and I was kinda shocked because even though he haven't met in real life yet I dont understand how he can miss me. Is this normal for Libras? Btw he is so romantic and sweet .
"He is so romantic and sweet"
Ya he absolutely could. Better meet up before the mental/virtual expectations/vision of each other gets too unrealistic though. It does happen when people aren't being truely themselves in there interactions and only communicating the "best version of themselves". Does that make sense to you?
Take Libra supremes comment as a gain of salt. He is not wrong but that doesn't matter. Woman are far more likely to be juggling and deciding between different potential suiters then men. Nothing wrong with that. Rather be chosen then just because I was acceptable and around at the time.
I wish it was that easy to just meet up anytime but it's not. He lives out of state. He is planning a trip to see me but let's see. I hope he does. We have skyped before though.
Plus he initiates conversations everyday himself always checking in to the point when one day he doesnt it feels weird to me. Not sure if I should text him from time to time...I'm just being guarded and I am old fashioned in a way that if a Man wants to reach out he will.
You should reach out to him when you want to and it doesn't feel forced. Feel free to do it just to bullshit with him and have fun like a normal relationship. It shows your continued interest.
Recipication is actually important for Libras and people in general. Think of it like dancing. You step I step and we sync up. Acting and reacting towards each other to the point were you don't know who is leading nor does it matter. It's always interesting and you can change to a different the song or tune when things feel stagnant(not working) or boring.
Omg my friend's friend ordered Uber eats suchi for her randomly from 200 miles you away. Genius.
I have reached out to him before but I just don't think I should do it when he is silent. Or should I? I mean I like the roles of a man takes the lead and I reward him with responding. He knows I like him and plus shouldn't he wonder why i dont initiate. He shouldn't have a problem to contact first each time.
I think it's a general human thing to just want reciprocation of efforts in interpersonal relationships, astrology aside. If he's always the conversation starter, 1) you really should step it up and start conversations yourself as well so that he's not over here thinking you're not interested in him because you never hit him up on your own and 2) that's not good because men aren't supposed to be expected to initiate 100% of the conversations ever. Not at the beginning of your "courting" phase, not at the middle, and not at the end. That's just old fashioned and traditional thinking and it's 2019. And I'm not saying that women are supposed to do all of the work at any time either. Relationships go both ways. It would be good if you actually talked to him during a period of silence and started a conversation so that he doesn't get the impression that you're making him do all of the work. It's scary to start a conversation with someone you're into especially if you don't know whether or not they're into you as well but it's a risk that should be taken to keep the communication going without being artificial. Even better would be just meeting up IRL but take that at whatever pace you want, there's no rush especially seeing you guys are on opposite coasts of the States.
While I do agree with you to some degree, I have to say that it doesnt matter if its 2019 or 1998 its biology. Men have it hard wired to be Men to be masculine. If he wants to talk to me he will. He didnt have a problem doing that in the first 2 weeks we talked so why would he now? Last time he texted me was yesterday and today nothing yet. I dont know if he is actually waiting for me or he is truly busy.click to expand
Posted by HeartofIceit's not only that, it's what it means when they are thinking of themselves and what it means to be a woman.Posted by jeanePosted by Gemini25Posted by HeartofIcePosted by Gemini25Posted by greylaternPosted by Gemini25Posted by greylaternPosted by Gemini25
So I'm still talking to this Libra man and I really really like him. We talk everyday. Currently he is on a business trip and Today he texted me he misses me and I was kinda shocked because even though he haven't met in real life yet I dont understand how he can miss me. Is this normal for Libras? Btw he is so romantic and sweet .
"He is so romantic and sweet"
Ya he absolutely could. Better meet up before the mental/virtual expectations/vision of each other gets too unrealistic though. It does happen when people aren't being truely themselves in there interactions and only communicating the "best version of themselves". Does that make sense to you?
Take Libra supremes comment as a gain of salt. He is not wrong but that doesn't matter. Woman are far more likely to be juggling and deciding between different potential suiters then men. Nothing wrong with that. Rather be chosen then just because I was acceptable and around at the time.
I wish it was that easy to just meet up anytime but it's not. He lives out of state. He is planning a trip to see me but let's see. I hope he does. We have skyped before though.
Plus he initiates conversations everyday himself always checking in to the point when one day he doesnt it feels weird to me. Not sure if I should text him from time to time...I'm just being guarded and I am old fashioned in a way that if a Man wants to reach out he will.
You should reach out to him when you want to and it doesn't feel forced. Feel free to do it just to bullshit with him and have fun like a normal relationship. It shows your continued interest.
Recipication is actually important for Libras and people in general. Think of it like dancing. You step I step and we sync up. Acting and reacting towards each other to the point were you don't know who is leading nor does it matter. It's always interesting and you can change to a different the song or tune when things feel stagnant(not working) or boring.
Omg my friend's friend ordered Uber eats suchi for her randomly from 200 miles you away. Genius.
I have reached out to him before but I just don't think I should do it when he is silent. Or should I? I mean I like the roles of a man takes the lead and I reward him with responding. He knows I like him and plus shouldn't he wonder why i dont initiate. He shouldn't have a problem to contact first each time.
I think it's a general human thing to just want reciprocation of efforts in interpersonal relationships, astrology aside. If he's always the conversation starter, 1) you really should step it up and start conversations yourself as well so that he's not over here thinking you're not interested in him because you never hit him up on your own and 2) that's not good because men aren't supposed to be expected to initiate 100% of the conversations ever. Not at the beginning of your "courting" phase, not at the middle, and not at the end. That's just old fashioned and traditional thinking and it's 2019. And I'm not saying that women are supposed to do all of the work at any time either. Relationships go both ways. It would be good if you actually talked to him during a period of silence and started a conversation so that he doesn't get the impression that you're making him do all of the work. It's scary to start a conversation with someone you're into especially if you don't know whether or not they're into you as well but it's a risk that should be taken to keep the communication going without being artificial. Even better would be just meeting up IRL but take that at whatever pace you want, there's no rush especially seeing you guys are on opposite coasts of the States.
While I do agree with you to some degree, I have to say that it doesnt matter if its 2019 or 1998 its biology. Men have it hard wired to be Men to be masculine. If he wants to talk to me he will. He didnt have a problem doing that in the first 2 weeks we talked so why would he now? Last time he texted me was yesterday and today nothing yet. I dont know if he is actually waiting for me or he is truly busy.
i weep that young women today believe this sort of stuff.
Lmao right? I didn't even have anything to say anymore. So many women making these new threads asking for help with men think in this way, it's mind-boggling.click to expand
Posted by blvckphvseso glad to hear you are out of that though. it was a toxic situation you far from deserved. there is much better for you on the horizon.Posted by HeartofIcePosted by blvckphvsePosted by HeartofIcePosted by blvckphvsePosted by HeartofIcePosted by blvckphvsePosted by LibraSupreme
Yes.....but that doesn't make you as his #1 or even #2. We do like to acquire admirers for sport.
So fkn cringe and true
Aww 😔 Did a Libra man do you wrong?
Maybe you should be barking at the one self admitting to it??
If you don't relate to what someone of your own sign shared, good for you. No need to get snippy with me for noticing he ain't the only one to do it.
I was genuinely asking you about it.
Where have you been for the last 5 years? Lol
I've spent the last 5 years with a Libra (up until recent). And I know about the posse he keeps for attention in my absence.
I don't pay particular attention to most things on here so I've forgotten.
Probably for the better. Lolclick to expand
Posted by blvckphvsePosted by HeartofIcePosted by blvckphvsePosted by HeartofIcePosted by blvckphvsePosted by LibraSupreme
Yes.....but that doesn't make you as his #1 or even #2. We do like to acquire admirers for sport.
So fkn cringe and true
Aww 😔 Did a Libra man do you wrong?
Maybe you should be barking at the one self admitting to it??
If you don't relate to what someone of your own sign shared, good for you. No need to get snippy with me for noticing he ain't the only one to do it.
I was genuinely asking you about it.
Where have you been for the last 5 years? Lol
I've spent the last 5 years with a Libra (up until recent). And I know about the posse he keeps for attention in my absence.click to expand
Libra I see struck again. I know you enjoyed your exLibs company.
Posted by blvckphvseit's been all you baby.Posted by jeanePosted by blvckphvsePosted by HeartofIcePosted by blvckphvsePosted by HeartofIcePosted by blvckphvsePosted by HeartofIcePosted by blvckphvsePosted by LibraSupreme
Yes.....but that doesn't make you as his #1 or even #2. We do like to acquire admirers for sport.
So fkn cringe and true
Aww 😔 Did a Libra man do you wrong?
Maybe you should be barking at the one self admitting to it??
If you don't relate to what someone of your own sign shared, good for you. No need to get snippy with me for noticing he ain't the only one to do it.
I was genuinely asking you about it.
Where have you been for the last 5 years? Lol
I've spent the last 5 years with a Libra (up until recent). And I know about the posse he keeps for attention in my absence.
I don't pay particular attention to most things on here so I've forgotten.
Probably for the better. Lol
so glad to hear you are out of that though. it was a toxic situation you far from deserved. there is much better for you on the horizon.
Thank you jeane!! That means a lot. You've always been in my corner and have always been a great support xo
I'm very nervous of those peeking over the horizon though. I don't seem to take anyone at face value, I'm scared I'm gonna push the good ones away. In due time, I'm sure I'll get the handle of this again. Thanks so much!click to expand
i don't blame you for being gun shy! take your time. there is no rush. you'll jump again when you are ready and when they can prove themselves to be worthy of you.
the good ones will stay despite being pushed (within reason). i pushed my guy away more times than i can count. luckily he stood there and stayed right by me throughout it.
It's been 3 days and he stopped initiating texts. Like wtf?! He is looking at all my instagram stories but no texting. I think texting everyday twice a day was way to much and he backtracked?? Libras tell me what hes thinking
Posted by blvckphvsePosted by LibraSupremePosted by blvckphvsePosted by HeartofIcePosted by blvckphvsePosted by HeartofIcePosted by blvckphvsePosted by LibraSupreme
Yes.....but that doesn't make you as his #1 or even #2. We do like to acquire admirers for sport.
So fkn cringe and true
Aww 😔 Did a Libra man do you wrong?
Maybe you should be barking at the one self admitting to it??
If you don't relate to what someone of your own sign shared, good for you. No need to get snippy with me for noticing he ain't the only one to do it.
I was genuinely asking you about it.
Where have you been for the last 5 years? Lol
I've spent the last 5 years with a Libra (up until recent). And I know about the posse he keeps for attention in my absence.
Libra I see struck again. I know you enjoyed your exLibs company.
Struck again? Lol
Sure.. if listening to someone brag about themselves all day sounds enjoyable.. haha.
Of course there were things I enjoyed, and things I miss, I think that is natural.. But he didn't care about me and that was becoming very evident. I don't want to dwell on what was good, because it became heavily outweighed. If I could have it my way, he'd work on himself and I'd never let him go, but that's not going to happen.click to expand
Damn that's pretty deep. I wish the best for your next white knight that you connect on all levels.
Posted by blvckphvsePosted by LibraSupremePosted by blvckphvsePosted by LibraSupremePosted by blvckphvsePosted by HeartofIcePosted by blvckphvsePosted by HeartofIcePosted by blvckphvsePosted by LibraSupreme
Yes.....but that doesn't make you as his #1 or even #2. We do like to acquire admirers for sport.
So fkn cringe and true
Aww 😔 Did a Libra man do you wrong?
Maybe you should be barking at the one self admitting to it??
If you don't relate to what someone of your own sign shared, good for you. No need to get snippy with me for noticing he ain't the only one to do it.
I was genuinely asking you about it.
Where have you been for the last 5 years? Lol
I've spent the last 5 years with a Libra (up until recent). And I know about the posse he keeps for attention in my absence.
Libra I see struck again. I know you enjoyed your exLibs company.
Struck again? Lol
Sure.. if listening to someone brag about themselves all day sounds enjoyable.. haha.
Of course there were things I enjoyed, and things I miss, I think that is natural.. But he didn't care about me and that was becoming very evident. I don't want to dwell on what was good, because it became heavily outweighed. If I could have it my way, he'd work on himself and I'd never let him go, but that's not going to happen.
Damn that's pretty deep. I wish the best for your next white knight that you connect on all levels.
Thank you! Very sweet of you considering I've been nothing but an ass to ya. I'll try to be nicerclick to expand
No your cool, I don't mind the asshole thing if it's justified. Were all here for understanding of astro and the study of others.
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