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May 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2604 · Topics: 117
I posted this in an expat forum when another libra asked me about libra-scorp. Except him, everyone else confirmed that I am retarded. I am not trying to hurt anyone but hoping that this can create a far better understanding.
Scorp is bloody mysterious. So libra often get suspicious. we spend long time deducting and calculating and pushing her to speak. She always love to tell the truth in installments. Part by part. Though libra gets frustrated, still holds on bcoz of the sex part. Yea we love sex and get the best of it from scorp girls. Libra gets a lot frustrated with this method of scorp but once she say it all, we calm down. But still deduct the possibility that there could be a bit more so we start with our mind games. Can be quite disappointed sometimes since she might have said everything already but then we wonder "if it was only this much, why did she had to spend 3 weeks telling me that in parts" ...
Scorp is way damn slow to changes. Whereas libra keeps inventing and reinventing them selfs every now and then. So scorp find it a bit hard to catch up with our methods and ideas and libra always wonder and often waste time in trying to change scorp. Scorp takes few years to change a system she has been used to so libra try all his methods one by one to make her change. Finally we give up.
Scorp normally pull libra from his friend circles and keep him for herself. She never understands why libra have so many friends around and we spend time for them. According to her, as long as a friendship dont give any input, then its useless.
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May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
I cant offer advice..my last 3 "boyfriends" were Scorpio and i have NO idea what they are about!! Honestly, i locked myself away for hours on end trying to figure them out, and even now, they are are a complete mystery. I found each of them to be equally overtly sexual, nonchalant, intense, jealous and inconsiderate. Not a good match for Libra, (my own experiences/opinion of course), althouh the scorp female/libra male combo tends to be ok rather than the vice-versa.
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Mar 13, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 764 · Topics: 33
That's interesting but it depends on personalities of Libras or Scorps I think , because I love reinventing myself from time to time and keep an open mind to ideas .What is right and wrong ? The set of values that we sometimes hold and call it perfection ? I know I m not perfect and neither are others but we all have something to learn from each other . Sometimes , I change so quick that my Libra has hard time to catch up , but that's fine because I dont want to change anyone , I let them grow on their own pace . Let them find out their own path , though I ll give them my support and encouragement to see their potential .
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Mar 13, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 764 · Topics: 33
Between I never pull him out of his circle , but instead joining him sometimes and also introducing him to my circle .I remind him of keeping contact with his friends because the man can be absent minded sometimes! lol! Still you cant deny that there re some people you like alot , you ll put them on top of your list and spend more time with them .That's not about fair or not fair but that's respect and love Just my own view. Signed Up:
Jan 05, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1715 · Topics: 63
Scorps I know are actually pretty straight forward; always intense (more so I think than Libras); CUNNING (too cunning for me); MUCH MORE interested in sex versus friendship when compared to Libra.
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Libras a VERY nice people. WONDERFUL people. In many ways I wish my nature was more like my Libra buds.
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Jan 17, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1252 · Topics: 17
I agree with exam... I do think that it depends on the specific Scorp and Libra. Both LP and nic had come to this forum with previous Scorp bad experiences, much like yours, and, while agreeing that there were certain aspects of that combo that made it hot, had pretty much written off Scorps for the points you listed and no doubt others. That being said, just as there are differences between "good" and "bad" Libras, there are grave differences between "good" and "bad" Scorps, most especially some of the points you have listed. I can see aspects of the points you have made somewhere in my psyche, but I have spent a long time trying to overcome what I view as negative and hindering facets that I have found in my personality disposition. Am I there yet? I don't know. I tend to think that we are all a work in progress, and perhaps always should be...
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"Scorp is bloody mysterious. So libra often get suspicious. we spend long time deducting and calculating and pushing her to speak. She always love to tell the truth in installments. Part by part. Though libra gets frustrated, still holds on bcoz of the sex part. Yea we love sex and get the best of it from scorp girls. Libra gets a lot frustrated with this method of scorp but once she say it all, we calm down. But still deduct the possibility that there could be a bit more so we start with our mind games. Can be quite disappointed sometimes since she might have said everything already but then we wonder "if it was only this much, why did she had to spend 3 weeks telling me that in parts" ..."
For the most part, I tend to try to be completely up-front about all things. In my early years, I would have merely not told something I didn't want someone to know. The best way to not get caught in a lie is to not tell one. Having a disturbingly psychic mother taught me that. Or atleast that is what I thought she was when I was growing up, now i just realize that at certain times I can just really suck at bald faced lying (too many details are a dead giveaway). But, when getting back into a corner, I would have generally twisted it to the point that I actually was telling the truth (from a certain perspective). I find that the relationship between my Sag mother and myself (both growing up and as an adult) has done wonders for my personal development. Fire signs are very open and honest people, and my mother ingrained a certain level of integrity, openness, and honesty in my psyche when I was young. It was always there, giving me this incredible level of unbalance whenever I lied (emotional unbalance, I have no idea what type of unbalance it is that Libras refer to), but it took some development in my early adult years to attempt to truly overcome.
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Jan 17, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1252 · Topics: 17
As I said, for the most part, I tend to try to be completely up-front about all things, but on a personal level I realize that this is unfortuantely not always the case... Now, the vast majority of the things I have that problem with are what I find to be personal things. For example, telling my family about nic, most especially my mother. My mother is my best friend, but also my mother, and that dynamic makes it our relationship sticky at times. Ever since I was young, I have had a hard time telling my mother about the men in my life. Discussing them and many things about our relationship, once she knows about them, is fine, but getting over that hurdle of telling her the first time has always been a point of major anxiety for me (and for the life of me, I have absolutely no idea why). It took me months to tell her about my first boyfriend, but it didn't help that I had already watched her evil teasing ways with my older sister. Do people not understand that you just don't TEASE a Scorp when they are trying to share important personal information?!?!? Okay, so I am trying to tell her about this guy I met online (nic), and the first thing out of her mouth is "Is he your boyfriend?" (emphasis added for the patronizing, demeaning, evil, horrible, teasing tone). Damn near quickest way to make me scurry back under my rock... "No, Mom, he is just a friend"... Hey!?! I was trying!!! So, few days later, she goes into the bathroom to pee, and disturbingly enough the first thing that crosses my mind is "what a WONDERFUL opportunity"... So, I yell out "Oh, btw, I think I am going to Phoenix to visit nic"... It took me a few more days to feel confortable enough to actually confirm that we might be more than just friends... Horrible and cowardly, I know. But, for some asinine reason, I can't seem to help it. There is this level of anxiety and fear that is only dwarfed in my life by my psychotic dreams (and perhaps not even those). But, this is significant progress, sadly enough. I did much better with telling her that I was intending on changing my occupation and exactly what I was wanting to change it to. I was able to tell her almost everything before I felt the need to scurry back under my rock, almost. But, it was almost, as in nearly all the way there. Damn, I am pathetic...
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Jan 17, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1252 · Topics: 17
Oddly enough, I have no problems sharing this kind of information with perfect strangers. It only seems to be the people I care about the most that it truly freaks me out about sharing it.
"Scorp is way damn slow to changes. Whereas libra keeps inventing and reinventing them selfs every now and then. So scorp find it a bit hard to catch up with our methods and ideas and libra always wonder and often waste time in trying to change scorp. Scorp takes few years to change a system she has been used to so libra try all his methods one by one to make her change. Finally we give up."
I used to be this way. It DID take me a few years to change my "system" to feel comfortable with variety and change. Once I did, I found that I loved it. It feels so free, like I am a child again and their is this whole big world that is out there that I seem to have forgotten. Probably my Gem moon rejoicing at being let out of its cage... LOL! I think that Scorps do like to keep their options open, but once decided they can be hard to get to change and, yes, it can take some time for them. I find for me that is the case because I have the tendency to build so much upon those things in my mind. They become foundations and restructuring them can and will make entire buildings fall down. I have tried to work on keeping my options open while still being capable of completely setting my mind on a decision, so that the structures in my mind are far more variable and shiftable. Does it work? I am not quite sure yet, but if it doesn't I will adjust and correct it as needed.
I think that fundamentally Scorps do enjoy change, they just seem to naturely enjoy a far deeper level of change, as exam stated "reinventing myself". But, for us, that does take time. Libras change, but I do not believe they reinvent themselves as easily as they "change". Their changes are still fundamentally on par with their being / existence and thus is seems that Libras change far more quickly, but I see them as different levels of change. But, maybe I am wrong...?
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"Scorp normally pull libra from his friend circles and keep him for herself. She never understands why libra have so many friends around and we spend time for them. According to her, as long as a friendship dont give any input, then its useless."
Hmmm, personally, I would disagree. I think that personal relationships always have value, if merely just the emotional ones that stem from it. I enjoy the circle of friends that nic has, and love that he has an outlet for that need in his personality. He is a good, friendly, and caring person and you can see that in the relationships that he has with the people around him. I would much rather just join him with his friends, if and when possible, than attempt to keep him all to myself. It is constricting and confining and I don't like the concept of restricting another person's personal freedoms.
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Nov 06, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2221 · Topics: 14
"Libras are nice people ...."
So are Leos Signed Up:
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"Libras a VERY nice people. WONDERFUL people. In many ways I wish my nature was more like my Libra buds."
Ah but Atom, Aries are what they are for a reason, and it is good. We are the "evolutionary" opposite to Aries, and our differences only highlight the similarities. When under stress or high amounts of pressure, the Libra takes on the Aries decisiveness, reaction, and passion and the Aries in the same circumstances takes ont he Libra contemplativeness, calculating, speculating and diplomacy.
When it comes down to it Aries and Libra are in this game for the same reasons. To excel, make their mark and do it with independance and inginuity. We were just gifted with opposite traits to make it a challenge. If there was another person whom I have been friends with where we both equally learned from each other in a positive way it is my good Aries friend of over 15 years. I learned to be a bit more impulsive and passionate, he learned bit of diplomacy and objectiveness.
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Bravo Alcheme ! I could not say it better Signed Up:
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My advice to others interrested in the Libra/Scorp relationship is one of caution, tact and initial detatchment. There is just a huge opportunity for a disaster. A disaster that can take years to play out. Like Alch said, I had completely written of scorp women despite my carnal attraction to them and them me. I had pretty much catagorized them as friends with bennifits and nothing more. The complexity, deception and misunderstanding is just all to possible. But I found that Alch was so different in all of the negative light that I knew scorp to be, and all of the positives are there. How can you ignore that? I can't. It is because of an equally astrological maturity I feel. Had we met while younger, it probably wouldn't have worked. I was way more stuck in my Libra ways and her in her scorp ways because we hadn't the opportunity to disect ourselves yet.
I learned in my relationship with my past scorp that I need to open up emotionally, affectionately and provide my partner with a strong sense of security. Not matte what sign I got involved with, I needed to visit traits of mine and correct them. I am still a Libra through and through, at the end of the day I am what I am, but I am a much more balanced and insightful verson of that Libra prototype.
I used to not need affection. I would cause pain to the girl I loved by being cold and distant. To me, it was simply a matter of acknowledging we loved each other I needed nothing more. I poorly demonstrated my feelings in pretty much not showing my affectionate and romantic side. There were special occasions, but for the most part I was a pretty emotionally and affectionately robotic person. This is poison for a young emotional scorp woman, a poison only strenthened by her devotion and dedication. She was not going to give up on her dream of a romantic, affectionate demonstrative partner and secretly wished for me to be this person. While I wished she would become less intense, more secure, and trusting. She would never become any of these things if I did not become the things she wanted.
I later realized the problems of my ways, that it wasn't just the misguided scorpios, what woman would want such little affection? Intensity, affection and romance to exist only in the bedroom and not outside of it? Not many. I would find myself to be the common denominator in the relationship problems I encountered. Until I realized my faults and worked sincerely to correct them, I would not find what I now have.
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Jan 05, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1715 · Topics: 63
Good insights, ni'c'.
Yes, Libra & Scorpio NOT a good idea---I like you Libras too much to expose you to that. (One exception=QS).
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"Yes, Libra & Scorpio NOT a good idea---I like you Libras too much to expose you to that. (One exception=QS)."
WTF?!?!? Am I just chopped liver?!?
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Bravo Nic ! hmm ...I become a cheerleader recently ! lol! Signed Up:
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LMAO Al!!!! ewwwww@chopped liver!!!
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""Libras are nice people ...."
So are Leos " Meow!!! Signed Up:
Aug 11, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 5176 · Topics: 77
I think everyone has touched on some true aspect of the Libra male/Scorp Woman relationship. However it boils down to what space each are in at the time they meet and what life experiences they have had and changes they have made through what they have learned from those life experiences. Legnthy I know...
Personality and life lessons are big when this combo meet. Those to aspects depend on how the two signs relate to eachother... I think.
Sexual attraction is always there. I think Scorp girls are the one sign that can understand and fulfill the Libra males emotional side (yes girls they have one) and Libra men are the one sign that can continually keep the Scorp girl intellectually and romantically stimulated... Just a few of the many things that make them click.
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Nov 06, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2221 · Topics: 14
Good point Queen.
Would you agree that Libra/Scorp is not going to turn out so hot as one of someones first relationships but has a good chance as they both have a lot more experience? I think prior Libra/Scorp experience helps alot too lol.
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Mar 13, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 764 · Topics: 33
Yup ,QueenS is right ! LIbra can be quite emotional whether they know it or not ! They try to be playful when they express it though! My Libra thinks I know him better than himself ,especially when it comes to his personalities and his emotions Hmmmm Libras are delicious and delightful but don't mix reinvention with transformation. Scorp women are strong and they hang in there like no body's business. They not gonna change like fashion - haha jokes on you if this week's little sacrifice don't work. You gotta dig deep to change a scorp - careful you don't write yourself out of the script.
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Jan 05, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1715 · Topics: 63
'Sorry, al', you are so much NOT like most Scorps that I kinda forgot. (Forgive?).
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Nov 06, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2221 · Topics: 14
"careful you don't write yourself out of the script."
Libras aren't ones to worry to much about this. If they don't have the freedom to explore their whims and interrests it will eventually become apparent and while they may not end things because of it, it will become a calculated risk.
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Jan 05, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1715 · Topics: 63
nic, in your opinion do LIbras think TOO much?
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***Yes, Libra & Scorpio NOT a good idea---I like you Libras too much to expose you to that. (One exception=QS).***
Atom, didn't quite understand that buddy. Please elaborate...
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***Would you agree that Libra/Scorp is not going to turn out so hot as one of someones first relationships but has a good chance as they both have a lot more experience? I think prior Libra/Scorp experience helps alot too lol.***
Either, I haven't had enough cofee today, my brains are fried, due to excessive budget analyzing or I am a moran... Huh??? I think you are saying that initial scorp/libra relationships might not hit it off right away, but when one learns things about the other in those relationships, they have a better chance in a future relationship with that sign. Am I correct?
Hell, I am LP deprived, not thinking clearly.