Well, as a Libra female, I've heard that we're a little different than our male species, but some of the common Libran traits are the "non emotional" not so "affectionate" traits. We are not the most emotional people, and space is something that's a must. We can be affectionate in the very beginning, but after after a while, we kinda slow that down too. I've been accused of not saying the "I LOVE YOU" line a lot myself, but it doesn't mean that we don't love you. We just show love in different ways and one of those ways are doing those very little small things that makes you smile. We love doing special things for the one's we love. If he was not interested, believe me, you would have known by now....especially at age 41. Sounds like he's ready to commit to a long term relationship, but he's still a little unsure. However, with all that being said, I still say......stay in tune with your WOMEN'S INTUITION because it never leads you astray. If something still doesn't feel right after a year, keep it in the back of your mind and always take note of it.
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Beware of that nagging feeling, it's there for a reason and shouldn't be ignored. Deep down you know what it is about and you should sort it out as soon as you can.
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I think you're getting yourself worked up over nothing.
Thanks for all the comments. There have been NO behavior changes to speak of--something just seemed off. He does have a moodiness cycle from the 18th thru the end of the month--sometimes it's more noticeable than others. When he arrived home from work last night, he commented in his childlike voice "I like you a little bit", which he does quite often. Then, while he was playing with the dog, he said, "Well, I love you a lot and I like you a little bit." That let me know that everything was okay and he was feeling balanced again.
It's nice to get information from a Libra, and I appreciate all of you responding. I feel that he is ready to commit, and I'm willing to be patient with him.
To put it as simply as I can, liking a woman's company is a lot harder to come by than loving her. When it comes down to it, that "liking a little bit" is going to make all the difference in the world in the tough times, believe me.
if he said that, it's a good thing.
Thanks! He is a man of few words, and I've come to learn that when he says something I need to really pay attention. Even though he isn't very outward with the affection and PDA, I know he loves me.
I've heard that Libra men need to see mirroring in the affection they show. I'm much more "touchy-feely" than he is, so how do I balance this on a daily basis to let him know he's loved without making him feel smothered?
He's hinted at marriage during this year and says he's never talked about it in any other relationship. Even though he hasn't discussed it recently, could he still be considering it with me? I don't know what the signs are when a Libra man is going to propose.
Thanks for your comments...they're very enlightening!
I don't know much about Libra men, i've never dated them, but as a Libra woman, i can be madly in love and affectionate at first, i will go out of my way to be romantic, remember dates, remember everything about my partner, but then after a while, it fizzles out, more and more, i'll make less effort as time goes on, but i'll still stay in the relationship because i'm comfortable, even if i'm not in love. and i become irritated if someone shows me too much affection at that point, it makes me feel a bit ill. thats what happened to me in a four year relationship. he was a Cap who nagged me all the time, i hate being nagged, it is a huge turn off.
but when i had met someone i felt like was "the one", a virgo man, it was constant love, over the top affection, and romance 24/7 for two years straight. i said i love you 10 times a day, maybe more.
but like i said, i dont know much about what the libra males are like, this could be nothing, but if i put myself in his shoes, there could be a chance he is just in the relationship because he is comfortable and not because he has found "the one".
You probably wouldn't like the song but at least read the lyrics. Try to apply this in your life.
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"Lateralus"
Black then white are all I see in my infancy.
red and yellow then came to be, reaching out to me.
lets me see.
As below, so above and beyond, I imagine
drawn beyond the lines of reason.
Push the envelope. Watch it bend.
Over thinking, over analyzing separates the body from the mind.
Withering my intuition, missing opportunities and I must
Feed my will to feel my moment drawing way outside the lines.
Black then white are all I see in my infancy.
red and yellow then came to be, reaching out to me.
lets me see there is so much more
and beckons me to look through to these infinite possibilities.
As below, so above and beyond, I imagine
drawn outside the lines of reason.
Push the envelope. Watch it bend.
Over thinking, over analyzing separates the body from the mind.
Withering my intuition leaving all these opportunities behind.
Feed my will to feel this moment urging me to cross the line.
Reaching out to embrace the random.
Reaching out to embrace whatever may come.
I embrace my desire to
feel the rhythm, to feel connected
enough to step aside and weep like a widow
to feel inspired, to fathom the power,
to witness the beauty, to bathe in the fountain,
to swing on the spiral
of our divinity and still be a human.
With my feet upon the ground I lose myself
between the sounds and open wide to suck it in.
I feel it move across my skin.
I'm reaching up and reaching out.
I'm reaching for the random or what ever will bewilder me.
And following our will and wind we may just go where no one's been.
We'll ride the spiral to the end and may just go where no one's been.
Spiral out. Keep going...