Libra man with moon in Taurus - slow or insecure?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by rainbowie on Sunday, August 20, 2017 and has 3 replies.

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I'm an Aries woman, been with Libra man for a little over a year. We first dated for five months (exclusively since the beginning) and then I asked him whether he considers that we are gf/bf, and he said "yes, of course"!

He's a very sweet guy, and we've been hanging out a lot with his awesome family as well. Before I met him, I had been single for 2 years after a long, 7 year relationship. In the beginning, he felt almost too good to be true.

He has bought a new 1BR apartment sone months ago, and is moving there in 2 weeks time. I brought it up to discuss whether we are moving there together or if he sees us living together at some point. Before answering, he asked if I wanted to go "all-in" and move there with him, and that he has thought about different options a lot. After discussing, we decided that it would make sense to keep two apartments for a while, but he welcomed me to spend as much time at his new place as possible. I'm very happy with this, as I really like my own space and there's no need to rush.

Then to the core of the problem: During our relationship, he has mentioned that he never wants to discuss something unless he is completely sure about it first inside his own head. Probably the reasons for this are the fact that he wants to please, avoids conflicts and doesn't want others to affect his decisions, and that he tends to analyse all aspects. I have expressed to him that we need to talk, even if it would cause a conflict, because otherwise the relationship cannot get deeper.

He also hasn't said I love you yet - does this mean he's not sure? He acts very lovingly, but especially with my Gemini moon I would love to hear those words.

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Moon in Taurus = slow + "he never wants to discuss something unless he is completely sure about it first inside his own head" = true facts

Also: I really don't get what you're needing reassurance about as from your post personally I see this guy totally in

You should simply enjoy what you guys have and let him be more expressive in words for your Gemini moon later. Taurus is not very good with words. Look at his actions and the way he includes you in everything and how he's there for you.

"I have expressed to him that we need to talk, even if it would cause a conflict, because otherwise the relationship cannot get deeper." - what do you want to talk about with him? Also: Taurus moon also doesn't like conflict. It's not just Libra sun is also Taurus sun/moon applicable. Also Taurus is stubborn and unmovable: the more you'll try to make him move the more he'll oppose. Basically you need for everything to develop naturally and slowly. Never rush a Taurus sun/moon as it will backfire.

"He also hasn't said I love you yet - does this mean he's not sure? He acts very lovingly, but especially with my Gemini moon I would love to hear those words." - most evidently in a relationship both partners will move at different rhythms, so basically you will have to wait for one another at one point. You're already there so just wait for him.

Also maybe you two have different love languages and it's something you didn't see yet, so therefore you don't really see/feel his love for you: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/

Because of your Gemini Moon most definitely you have words of affirmation as love language so at long as he'll not start to profess that you'll feel like something is off. You can tell him how important words are for you.