Libra Men and Love at First Sight

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Scorpiogrl62 on Tuesday, March 12, 2013 and has 28 replies.
Okay, first of all I miss-posted this in the Taurus group because that's what he told me that he thought he was. Turns out that he was just guess.
I'm going to go into a lot less detail here mostly because it's probably not necessary.
Long story short, I met my Libra nearly 7 months ago for one weekend. Just as friends. Had a crush yes, but didn't act on it. After that weekend I didn't see him or speak with him again until a couple of days ago. It didn't take him more then half an hour to tell me that he loved me. Had from the moment he'd set eyes on me. Passionately.
As a Scorpio I was bit overwhelmed by all this and immediately suspicious. This is my first encounter with a Libra so I set out with the research. I've been reading but now I want to query the minds of you fine folk. My query is two-fold.
Firstly, is this normal behavior for Libra men?
Can I trust that he means what he says?
And can I expect him to go into a cold reevaluating period and/or drop me like a lump of coal once if I fall for him?
Thank you all in advance.
details
Posted by Scorpiogrl62

Firstly, is this normal behavior for Libra men?


The unbalanced, in a hurry, immature ones, yes.
Can I trust that he means what he says?


Nope. He'll rush out as fast as he rushed in.
And can I expect him to go into a cold reevaluating period and/or drop me like a lump of coal once if I fall for him?
click to expand


Probably.
It's not definitive, but the Libras who behave like this are the ones to watch out for. Reeeed flag!
If you want to take it as is with him, go for it. Just tread lightly. But regardless of sign, any guy who moves that fast is one to watch out for.
details
Tiz, what are those reasons?
details
Whats 'fair' & 'right'? I dont get it because personally if i like someone I dont see the point in thinking about being fair or right. That to me = no real feelings in the 1st place. I mean, whats there to really think about? Either you love or you dont.
details
I get you all's nature but again, its infuriating to know that somebody needs time to 'think' about something so automatic as 'love feelings' or what to do with them. Its like its fake if you need to think about it first. I get it thou. So, how do you reach the 'right' & 'fair' conclusion about feelings? LOL, its ridiculous even in writting *smh*
details
Why you need a push from others thou? Cant you just follow your own heart without cheers from bystanders? You all are lame tbh lol. Wow. Do your thing leebs, as weirdotastic as it is.
details
I find it lol worthy that the sign that wants to do what's "fair or right" can't make a decision to save their lives. So who are they to figure out what's fair or right?? :p
Also to be the ones to figure what's fair and right, you're far too concerned with what others think, so how does that not produce biased and skewed decisions in the "fair and right" department. It seems as if it's not really going to be fair or right, right?
The universe was screwing with you guys when they made you the scales AND indecisive.
details
Leeeebra, what do you mean by that? Fix my sight lol
details
Haha true.
details
Thanks for the insight all.
details
Posted by Leeeebra
Posted by rockyroadicecream

The universe was screwing with you guys when they made you the scales AND indecisive.


You'd make a scale that permanently tilt to one side? I'd like to see that. oh come one, if you aim to laugh at Libras, at least at something that's actually funny not on your own expense. Winking
click to expand


Except I see scales perfectly balanced when making logical decisions. When those scales are constantly swinging left and right, not many logical decisions being made. And apparently, the average Libra isn't balanced, or is easily knocked off of balance when put into situations that push them to decide. In turn, panic sets in to balance those scales and it can leave one questioning that what they're using to balance that other side is ideal or just a quick fix so they aren't knocked off balance. Panicked quick fix based on soothing unpleasant feelings? Or a fix that's actually based in logic?
details
Posted by Scorpiogrl62
Thanks for the insight all.
I just don't trust easily but this guy seems all but perfect (and I've come to understand that Libra is a charming sign). He's hitting checkmarks that I didn't even realize that I had. I guess the big problem is that I can easily see myself falling for him but I don't want to if he's fooling himself.
And the rest of the convo has been pretty fun to read as well.


Yeeeah. They do that. If your gut is telling you to be wary, BE WARY. Like I said, feel free to proceed if you want to give it a try, but don't let him drag you into his whirlwind of "I think I know what I want but I really don't" logic because you could easily get burned. I think that was a big mistake on my part with the Libra ex. I'm so go with the flow about all this stuff, I just went with it with him and by the time my slow poke Taurus venus was getting comfy and really getting into the guy, BAM, he's gone and done with it.
My hs crush/friend got back in touch with me after 7 years and once it was out we'd had crushes on eachother, he got all crazy about getting into a relationship RIGHT NOW and was considering moving out here. This was within weeks which left me wtf. ...then he disappeared (met his girlfriend) because he found a new shiny object to be obsessed with.
The current guy I'm seeing, I've taken it slower and kinda put on the brakes when he had his moments a few months back. He hasn't been as rushed as what I've seen in the past with a couple others, so I think that helps a lot too. But I've just been taking it as it goes and not rushing.
Just enjoy the good bits and keep an eye out for the craptastic ones.
details
Posted by Leeeebra
Scales are balanced when what you put on it don't change, let's say an apple, life would be so much easier if you are an apple, he is an apple, I am an apple, but are you? an apple? no, you are a human being, the input on the scale of life is forever changing, complicated and sophisticated. and a good scale balances even CHANGE, that's why the need to clear out noises and find that solitude. and don't be silly, everything that exist in the Cosmo is balanced, balance is life, sustainability, and continuity. Balance is forever. It's OK if you don't understand that energy, you are not born a Libra, but to not respect the UNKNOWN, is generally referred to as ignorance. and all that you see is a Libra can't chose between red or blue, orange or banana...lol, we are all on a path of evolution, we evolve and grow, when a Libra matures, what's on his/her scale changes in depth. It's the path of life for us, you just don't understand it.



Cool story bro. If that's the lala land story you want to put behind how you handle the situation, fine. Whatever floats your boat. Unfortunately, how the rest of the world experiences and sees it from you guys? No.

And really, if my head was shoved that far up my ass, I'd be misunderstood too. smile
details
Posted by LIBRA1234
@Scorp "Long story short, I met my Libra nearly 7 months ago for one weekend. Just as friends. Had a crush yes, but didn't act on it. After that weekend I didn't see him or speak with him again until a couple of days ago. It didn't take him more then half an hour to tell me that he loved me. Had from the moment he'd set eyes on me. Passionately."
We call this kind of guy "the perfect moment guy" haha. The guy is feeling you at that moment. He seems amazing because he puts in that persona. After that moment is gone, he is GONE... Be careful with these kind of guys. They prey on victims when their dick goes up. It doesn't mean it will last. The fact he told you he loved you says what kind of immature prick he is. I am not talking out of my ass, I know these kind of guys - I witnessed this with my male causins and his friends - ohh lawd what kind of shit I saw! Good luck!


Right? Regardless of sign, any guy who pulls this crap is one you should be wary of. I've known guys like this as well. Talk about a freaking headache. And I was just hearing stories on their end and it gave ME a headache.
details
Leeeebra, there are fine, very fine bits of truth in your little analysis, but the rest is bullshit. Lets see why... a)I never said anything about me following my heart. If I was I would have been with him ages ago.b)I dont remember 'bashing' him either. Yeah I said things about him & said things about myself too, so dont exaggarrate as if I come here badmouthing him alone...I say shit about myself too. c) I have no idea how I'm 'using him'. You'll have to pimp my eyesight on that one because I'm there for him as he is there for me too. Like I said here before, I'm the person he calls when he has issues cause he knows I listen to him & know how to comfort him etc. We know one another well. d) I take his calls because of 'c'. I'm a loyal person to an extent, you rub my back & I rub yours. I've gotten angry when he tries to pull me back to our relationship issues. e) It may not look like a 'normal' friendship to you, but its normal to us cause 'normal' is only normal to whoever sees it that way.
I may be blind, but at least clear my vision with facts
details
And to clear any mental fog..me & this guy dated in 2003 (I was 19 and him 24) and broke up in 2005, we were together a little over 2 years...NEVER DATED HIM AGAIN. We remained friends all these years until 2012 December where we tried to reconcile & ended up breaking up yet again. Now we are back to the friendship we always kept intact. Thats the story between me & him.
details
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by Leeeebra
Scales are balanced when what you put on it don't change, let's say an apple, life would be so much easier if you are an apple, he is an apple, I am an apple, but are you? an apple? no, you are a human being, the input on the scale of life is forever changing, complicated and sophisticated. and a good scale balances even CHANGE, that's why the need to clear out noises and find that solitude. and don't be silly, everything that exist in the Cosmo is balanced, balance is life, sustainability, and continuity. Balance is forever. It's OK if you don't understand that energy, you are not born a Libra, but to not respect the UNKNOWN, is generally referred to as ignorance. and all that you see is a Libra can't chose between red or blue, orange or banana...lol, we are all on a path of evolution, we evolve and grow, when a Libra matures, what's on his/her scale changes in depth. It's the path of life for us, you just don't understand it.



Cool story bro. If that's the lala land story you want to put behind how you handle the situation, fine. Whatever floats your boat. Unfortunately, how the rest of the world experiences and sees it from you guys? No.

And really, if my head was shoved that far up my ass, I'd be misunderstood too. smile

click to expand




+1
details
I understand but, never had my head up my azz before, I always tell people with no brain or concept of thought to kiss my azz
details
Takes a true person to make hamburger meat outta me, haven't found one yet, I'm my own person and I speak my mind, some libras need to do the same and stop trying to please everybody just to be liked
details
Posted by everevolvingepithet
If they had no brain do you think it would register though?



Depends on the person, half the world is run by idiots with no brain power, it's the one that holds the strings to that idiot that gets me thinking
details
Leeeebra, something is really irritating me about the tone of your post, but I'll let it pass cause I'm not in the mood to argue and write lengthy posts & address each an every point that makes me feel like somebody is inserting a finger up my ass. So, see it however you see it and I'll see it the way I wanna see it, K? I'm dropping this subject now cause I'm not in the mood for it & thanks for the bullshit you wrote...whatever you wanna call it.
details
LOL. Whatever. Pfffft
details
Who said anything about moving on? Where to? LOL. Why, you dont wanna chat? That naughty mars energy you mentioned earlier is starting to rub off on me, so I'm sticking around cause I wanna get naughty too. So, what's up now?
details
Seems every post in here turns sour. Thought we Libras loved peace hahaha Tongue
details
Ha ha @ 'truth'. Ok. Exactly, what is it that I'm supposed to be grateful for from your 'fellow librans'? I find the 'ungrateful' part of your post very interesting.
details
You are pissed & this is your 'storm'!? You gotta be kidding me. Your fed mars bottle thingy better show me more than this cause I'm starting to yawn. I've seen storms LOL, to me your rendition of a storm is like the air from a chinese hand fan. Blow more air cause my own mars is starving here. LMAO
details
K. LOL
details
Posted by LIBRA1234
Posted by libra sun
Seems every post in here turns sour. Thought we Libras loved peace hahaha Tongue


We do? hmmm I like drama - but that is to be expected, I have too many leos in my chart, they overshadow my libra lol and yeah my mars is in scorp. If that's not dramatic enough I don't know what is? hahah
click to expand


Haha I'm a self confessed trouble maker. But keep getting told (on this site) that we will back down to keep the peace but the Libras here are feisty Winking
details
Home Astrology Comments Forums Search

©1997-2025 dxpnet.com. All Rights Reserved.
Advertising Contact Terms of Use Privacy Policy