Libra men confusing
This topic was created in the Libra forum by FannyQ on Sunday, April 9, 2017 and has 5 replies.
So I'm a Leo. And I've been seeing a Libra man on and off for 5-6 years. We were never in a committed relationship but have been seeing each other loosely for this amount of time. When we first met I had a boyfriend. Then when I did not. He had a gf. Then we finally were both single and got together and he got back with his gf. They split up again and we've seen each other here and there for the last year. I saw him several times before the holidays. Then he vanished until now. Now he comes back. Every time he comes back he tells me how much he loves me. And that I've always put up with him. And that he's thought about us moving in together and getting married. I met his family. And all his friends 2 years ago. He says he doesn't bring women he is not dating to his parents place. Yet he disappears for months. I just don't understand how he can say he loves me and we should have been in a relationship already. But then doesn't want to talk about it further and then disappears again. Every time. But swears he loves me. Why does he do this? And often he makes plans and cancels them. Yesterday he begs me to come over. Tells me how much he missed me and loves me. After not really speaking and not seeing him since December. I spent the Night. And then he asks me to see him again tonight. Now texts me and says he staying at his mothers and cancelled. He Candella often. It's hard to believe him when we make plans. I just don't understand. Someone please help me figure out what this all means. I tell him I love him too. And I'm terrified of commitment or marriage but he is the one man I would marry tomorrow if he asked. And I've expressed this to him. Please help me understand what all this nonsense means. Because I'm at my breaking point of either ignoring Him forever or telling him to not contact me until he's ready for a serious relationship with me? What do I do? I can't keep doing this for another 5 years
Thanks for replying. You are right. Libra or not. If the intent was there - genuinely there it would not take 5 years period. Sometimes I have to just sit back and see it for what it really is. Thanks again!
Posted by blackphaseThis^.
Don't hold your breath.. If a Libra wanted you, it wouldn't take 5 years.
Posted by blackphaseRight it definitely does not take 5 years. Also when Libras are in love, they are present with you. They don't pop in and out for long periods of time. Libras don't like to be too far from their mate if they're truly in love. This guy simply doesn't understand what love is, so he just throws the word out there. Just know that he probably has other women that he "loves" as well.Posted by FannyQFrom my experience, they are all in very quickly if they are serious about you.
Thanks for replying. You are right. Libra or not. If the intent was there - genuinely there it would not take 5 years period. Sometimes I have to just sit back and see it for what it really is. Thanks again!click to expand
Astrology aside, when a person loves you (regardless of the sign), they'll stick around. They'll be more consistent. You wouldn't have to question their actions.
There's also no reason for him to make things serious with you. You've been sleeping with him whenever he wants. He says he loves you so that he can keep the cycle going. In reality you're in more of a friends with benefits situation at best. You need to start standing up for yourself and have this man court you properly.
"And I'm terrified of commitment or marriage but he is the one man I would marry tomorrow if he asked."
Why? If you're terrified of commitment, why would you'd be willing to marry a man who can't commit to you? That's a bad way to go.
I don't know this one is kind of tricky; he wouldn't keep coming back to you if there weren't some feelings there because we'll just leave people alone.
5 years is a long time and you must mean something pretty special to him. Just because he's not coming in hard doesn't mean that he doesn't have feelings for you.
It could mean he has some intimacy issues and doesn't know how to resolve the feeling of being smothered compared to the feeling of being free sounds like he's conflicted with that.
But trust and believe baby doll no Libra that I know will be f****** with somebody for 5 to 6 years that we did not hold very dear to our hearts.
5 years is a long time and you must mean something pretty special to him. Just because he's not coming in hard doesn't mean that he doesn't have feelings for you.
It could mean he has some intimacy issues and doesn't know how to resolve the feeling of being smothered compared to the feeling of being free sounds like he's conflicted with that.
But trust and believe baby doll no Libra that I know will be f****** with somebody for 5 to 6 years that we did not hold very dear to our hearts.
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