Libra Men in Relationships.

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Wheat
@Wheat
13 Years

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What is wrong with you guys in relationships? One time I met a Libra guy who was nice for a while, but he was acting kind of strange...Like when we went to go see fireworks, he was PISSED when the light on the side of the street was "too bright" and I thought he was joking so I shrugged it off. And a week or so later I wasn't waking up early enough or something stupid so he called me a lazy bitch...I kinda laughed at first, but then I realized he was being dead serious. So I broke up with him, and he sent me a lot of mean messages...which I laughed at, and didn't really give a response to.

The next Libra I met was kind of shy when it came to dating, but he was an awesome friend. We both liked the same kind of music, had a lot of the same views, and just...got along. It took a really long time until we were a couple, but once we were I couldn't look him in the eyes even for a second without the entire conversation suddenly going completely awkward, I had to make all the moves...Which I didn't really mind, it's just when I went to hug him or something he acted like it was the hardest thing he had to do. So, I put him out of his misery (at least I thought that's what I was doing when I broke up with him) and he started acting upset. Which was stupid because when we were together he acted like he hated me.

Libra number three was a guy that I had known for awhile, and I knew he had feelings for me because a year earlier he tried to talk to me about those feelings, and I turned him down. This guy was shy, awkward, but good looking. He asked me out again, and I just decided to go for it. We started talking more, and I realized that there really was not much to talk about with him except his family, running, and our shared love for Lord of The Rings. Like guy number two, he made me go in for the hug, the kiss, the holding hands, but this time I guess he really wanted to...After we kissed for the first time there was no chemistry, and things started to get even more awkward because I stopped trying. He went on a lot of trips, we didn't talk much...so I ended it. We remain friends...And now he isn't awkward when talking to me. :I


I still meet guys who I often consider trying to get to know. Then later find out that they are Libras...I'm too terrified to ever have a relationship with one again, or any time soon, but when the time comes that I end up with one, I just really need to know...

Libras...How do you want your partner to act?
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lblibra
@lblibra
13 YearsLibra

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Posted by everevolvingepithet
No srs, be yourself and you can't really go wrong for that, right?



Thats exactly right ,if someone cann't accept you for who you are as long as its realtively normal then its not your problem. I hate it when people put on a false face and you only find out who they really are much later in the realtionship.

It just sounds like these particular individuals had some issues with dating. Maybe they don't get out much I dunno.
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Nefer
@Nefer
16 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

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I've had many relationships, with many types (Astrologically and non-) and it took many tries to find the RIGHT fit for ME.. if I'd given up after 2 or 3 failed relationships with (immature) Libra boys, I'd have never given THIS Libra a chance.. and what a tragedy that would be! *grin*


If you are always 100% yourself.. then you will have a greater chance of finding the RIGHT one for YOU.

If you have to change yourself, or not be true to the real you in any way, or have to play/act differently than you are*.. then even if you attract, get, keep someone.. they aren't actually the RIGHT one for you.. how can they be -- YOU'RE not even being you?!

(*mind you, this is NOT license to act like a psycho/bitch/whatever and claim it's the "real you".. have a little grace and dignity. Be the BEST YOU that you can be.. and the BEST fit for YOU has the best chance of finding you!)