Posted by Black-MambaThe statement you made makes no sense at all. I'm not sure why you've been so Defensive since my last post, and why this post is even relevant to you.
Wow so you suppress your emotions by badgering another emotional state with your games
Libra moons are evil, thanks for confirming
Posted by stillstillwaterFor example, I get frustrated with my partner if I think someone is taking advantage of him and he does nothing to address the person or fight back. We have a shared driveway with the neighbor next door, and she is always parking her car in the driveway like she owns it. My fiance owns his house, and the neighbor is a renter. I think it's ridiculous that he's a property owner and this woman is using the driveway 99% of the time. Again, an issue with reciprocity.
Yes 100% regarding the mental stimulation. I cannot be with anyone who I can't have discussions with... and if i end up in such relationships it makes me really bitter
"Do any libra moons feel that if their partner is not evenly matched to them, they will do things to undermine their partner and their relationship?"
- Can you give examples of what you mean?
Posted by dilettanteI'm not sure why I feel the need to test like that. It's not a test made to undermine but it comes across that way. I feel like I'm testing for weakness, as in, can people take advantage of you sort of thing.
my libra moon looks for companionship... which is why i date a lot/ hold on to toxic relationships. honestly, dating around causes me to feel imbalanced bc im spreading my energy so thin.
i definitely need emotional reciprocity & mental stimulation. if we arent having good banter, im prob not gonna give a lot of my time to you.
yr whole bit about testing mental aptitude is kinda fucked though.
Posted by elllleDefinitely a square!
Okay....^^^^ that clearly sounds like a square.
Emasculation is not a good look.
Posted by elllleI don't think I emasculate my partner, but I also have the same issue with not being able to respect a man, that I don't feel is on par with me in intelligence. If anything, I detest stupidity to a point that it is a pet peeve of mine. I can't deal with it. lol
Okay....^^^^ that clearly sounds like a square.
Emasculation is not a good look.
Posted by nikkistarThis is exactly how I feel. The last thing I want to do is emasculate him. I just can't tolerate what I'm calling willful ignorance (and not stupidity, lol) in my example.Posted by elllleI don't think I emasculate my partner, but I also have the same issue with not being able to respect a man, that I don't feel is on par with me in intelligence. If anything, I detest stupidity to a point that it is a pet peeve of mine. I can't deal with it. lol
Okay....^^^^ that clearly sounds like a square.
Emasculation is not a good look.click to expand
Posted by libralionfishIn this situation, I understand your frustration. It's the "unfairness" of it that bothers you. But here is the thing you have to try and also understand, is that if he isn't bothered by it, and he found his own solution for himself, then you really shouldn't be so confrontational about it. After all, it is only a parking spot. Correlating how he runs a household, cannot be compared with that. Focus on how he makes you feel as a partner, not how he handles his renter. Some things are worth fighting for, and other things are trivial in the grand scheme of life.
For example, I get frustrated with my partner if I think someone is taking advantage of him and he does nothing to address the person or fight back. We have a shared driveway with the neighbor next door, and she is always parking her car in the driveway like she owns it. My fiance owns his house, and the neighbor is a renter. I think it's ridiculous that he's a property owner and this woman is using the driveway 99% of the time. Again, an issue with reciprocity.
I asked him why he doesn't address this issue with her and he says he doesn't want to cause any waves or ill will. Parking is very hard to find on his street and this woman is too lazy to give up the driveway. It pisses me off that he won't speak to her and I start questioning his ability to run a household. I'll say this to his face and then he feels offended and undermined.
Posted by elllleLOL!Posted by nikkistarI remember you speaking about it in past posts.Posted by elllleI don't think I emasculate my partner, but I also have the same issue with not being able to respect a man, that I don't feel is on par with me in intelligence. If anything, I detest stupidity to a point that it is a pet peeve of mine. I can't deal with it. lol
Okay....^^^^ that clearly sounds like a square.
Emasculation is not a good look.
Yours is a different energy though....it is not so harsh.
It is very interesting how the signs emit the same flavour but different intensities.
Like the wings at bw3....it's all chicken, just different sauces. 😂🤣click to expand
Posted by elllleI'm trying to be honest. I'm definitely a control freak and I've gotten better with it over the years.Posted by libralionfishAt least you are honest....lol.Posted by elllleDefinitely a square!
Okay....^^^^ that clearly sounds like a square.
Emasculation is not a good look.
I think the biggest thing for sun square moon is control. In all forms....even over people. Not having control can lead to depression with this square.
Probably should practice not caring so much.
It is just a parking space. It isn't a cure for cancer or a solution for world hunger.
Try to distract yourself with something mundane to slow the thoughts.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneYes, intelligence, but it goes beyond just text book smarts. I'm also talking about organizational abilities and an understanding of human psychology.
Mental level as in intelligence?
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by elllleNikkistar is not like any other libra moon i knowPosted by nikkistarI remember you speaking about it in past posts.Posted by elllleI don't think I emasculate my partner, but I also have the same issue with not being able to respect a man, that I don't feel is on par with me in intelligence. If anything, I detest stupidity to a point that it is a pet peeve of mine. I can't deal with it. lol
Okay....^^^^ that clearly sounds like a square.
Emasculation is not a good look.
Yours is a different energy though....it is not so harsh.
It is very interesting how the signs emit the same flavour but different intensities.
Like the wings at bw3....it's all chicken, just different sauces. 😂🤣
she's a star i tell you, a starclick to expand
Posted by Black-MambaHis sun is in scorpio and his moon is in virgo. He's not a textbook scorpio at all.Posted by libralionfishwhat is your mans sign and moonPosted by LadyNeptuneYes, intelligence, but it goes beyond just text book smarts. I'm also talking about organizational abilities and an understanding of human psychology.
Mental level as in intelligence?
i am shocked that a libra moon would understand/know human psychology
as selfish as they areclick to expand
Posted by black773I'm not that well versed in chart terminology/aspects so I'm using the wrong terms. My sun is pisces and my moon is libra.
You don’t even have the Sun Square Moon aspect and it’s impossible for a Pisces Sun to Square Libra Moon.
Nothing to see here but yet another delusional Pisces without facts.
Posted by libralionfishNow let's see if you're another defensive cancer who can't stand being called out ... At least I'm being honest with myself.Posted by black773I'm not that well versed in chart terminology/aspects so I'm using the wrong terms. My sun is pisces and my moon is libra.
You don’t even have the Sun Square Moon aspect and it’s impossible for a Pisces Sun to Square Libra Moon.
Nothing to see here but yet another delusional Pisces without facts.click to expand
Posted by libralionfishPosted by libralionfishNow let's see if you're another defensive cancer who can't stand being called out ... At least I'm being honest with myself.Posted by black773I'm not that well versed in chart terminology/aspects so I'm using the wrong terms. My sun is pisces and my moon is libra.
You don’t even have the Sun Square Moon aspect and it’s impossible for a Pisces Sun to Square Libra Moon.
Nothing to see here but yet another delusional Pisces without facts.click to expand
Posted by GemLoverThanks! I'm looking for insight. Not 100% with my descriptions but trying to sort through my thought process.Posted by libralionfishOk now if nobody else here will step up to the plate and give you any good compliments on this post well let me be the first to do just that. This is the best post I've seen yet. Very well thought out and very well put.Posted by Black-MambaHis sun is in scorpio and his moon is in virgo. He's not a textbook scorpio at all.Posted by libralionfishwhat is your mans sign and moonPosted by LadyNeptuneYes, intelligence, but it goes beyond just text book smarts. I'm also talking about organizational abilities and an understanding of human psychology.
Mental level as in intelligence?
i am shocked that a libra moon would understand/know human psychology
as selfish as they are
Cancer is just as selfish as libra, if not more. They are in the child category of zodiac signs. Libras are selfish in a midlife crisis sort of way and cancers are selfish in a me, me, me kind of way. I know this because I have my rising in leo. Cancers need constant attention or they feel neglected. If you insist on muckraking.
Let the one without sin be the first to cast the stone ...click to expand
Posted by libralionfishMost men aren't as detailed oriented as women. And if they are they most likely have the ocd.Posted by LadyNeptuneYes, intelligence, but it goes beyond just text book smarts. I'm also talking about organizational abilities and an understanding of human psychology.
Mental level as in intelligence?click to expand
Posted by black773Posted by libralionfishPosted by libralionfishNow let's see if you're another defensive cancer who can't stand being called out ... At least I'm being honest with myself.Posted by black773I'm not that well versed in chart terminology/aspects so I'm using the wrong terms. My sun is pisces and my moon is libra.
You don’t even have the Sun Square Moon aspect and it’s impossible for a Pisces Sun to Square Libra Moon.
Nothing to see here but yet another delusional Pisces without facts.
Gather your facts and you won’t be corrected. I saw that you were a Pisces sun and Libra moon already, it takes seconds to go to a profile to read that. What exactly are you going on about Cancer for? I am not a Cancer.
Pisces are so damn delusional. It’s like having a conversation with a child. For all I know, you could be confronting your man in your head and none of this is a reality. I can’t believe a delusional Pisces, you all make up lies.click to expand
Posted by libralionfishEvenly matched would just be my view of it and I would doubt that I could even make a fair assessment....so much I could be missing or not seeing. So logically I cannot relate to that. Also depends on my mood though LOL.
Do any libra moons feel that if their partner is not evenly matched to them, they will do things to undermine their partner and their relationship?
I do this all the time. If I feel my partner is not on the same mental level as me, I can start turning nasty and doing things to test their mental aptitude. It's like I'm testing them to see if they can operate at the same level as me. Sometimes I think I can't respect anyone who can't match me in a relationship. The emotional need for balance and mental stimulation is huge with this moon placement.
I wonder if it's this need for balance that contributes to libra's reputation for being a serial dater?
Posted by ellllePosted by libralionfishI feel you. I have the libra venus (and a libra stellium in my pisces 12th house)....but with an opposition to my aries moon.Posted by elllleI'm trying to be honest. I'm definitely a control freak and I've gotten better with it over the years.Posted by libralionfishAt least you are honest....lol.Posted by elllleDefinitely a square!
Okay....^^^^ that clearly sounds like a square.
Emasculation is not a good look.
I think the biggest thing for sun square moon is control. In all forms....even over people. Not having control can lead to depression with this square.
Probably should practice not caring so much.
It is just a parking space. It isn't a cure for cancer or a solution for world hunger.
Try to distract yourself with something mundane to slow the thoughts.
What I've found with this sort of energy is that I need to find an outlet for it outside of my relationship. I've realized that my significant other can't provide for every single one of my needs, but that doesn't make it a bad relationship. It's too ideal to expect everything out of one person. I think the libra in me looks for this ideal, which doesn't exist. This is why we have friendships, hobbies, etc. It is so easy for me to get embroiled in my partner with my moon placement, though.
My sun is in pisces, so I can't hold on to negative feelings for too long. In the end it always boils down to love with me. I'm not gonna lie though, there is a constant struggle between my head and my heart.
Constant push and pull.
I feel like a rag doll between my head and heart with all the tug of war they play...lol
Travel helps (away from my partner)...and hobbies. I know it feels forced because why wouldnt we want to be with out partners all the time!! (because 5 minutes into it...we don't...lol)
Taking time away from my partner actually helps me appreciate and love him even more.click to expand
Posted by elllleI my fellow Scriba!Posted by libralionfishI feel you. I have the libra venus (and a libra stellium in my pisces 12th house)....but with an opposition to my aries moon.Posted by elllleI'm trying to be honest. I'm definitely a control freak and I've gotten better with it over the years.Posted by libralionfishAt least you are honest....lol.Posted by elllleDefinitely a square!
Okay....^^^^ that clearly sounds like a square.
Emasculation is not a good look.
I think the biggest thing for sun square moon is control. In all forms....even over people. Not having control can lead to depression with this square.
Probably should practice not caring so much.
It is just a parking space. It isn't a cure for cancer or a solution for world hunger.
Try to distract yourself with something mundane to slow the thoughts.
What I've found with this sort of energy is that I need to find an outlet for it outside of my relationship. I've realized that my significant other can't provide for every single one of my needs, but that doesn't make it a bad relationship. It's too ideal to expect everything out of one person. I think the libra in me looks for this ideal, which doesn't exist. This is why we have friendships, hobbies, etc. It is so easy for me to get embroiled in my partner with my moon placement, though.
My sun is in pisces, so I can't hold on to negative feelings for too long. In the end it always boils down to love with me. I'm not gonna lie though, there is a constant struggle between my head and my heart.
Constant push and pull.
I feel like a rag doll between my head and heart with all the tug of war they play...lol
Travel helps (away from my partner)...and hobbies. I know it feels forced because why wouldnt we want to be with out partners all the time!! (because 5 minutes into it...we don't...lol)
Taking time away from my partner actually helps me appreciate and love him even more.click to expand
Posted by justagirlThanks for the advice! I have a link to my chart here: https://astro-charts.com/chart/126acc000/Posted by black773Posted by libralionfishPosted by libralionfishNow let's see if you're another defensive cancer who can't stand being called out ... At least I'm being honest with myself.Posted by black773I'm not that well versed in chart terminology/aspects so I'm using the wrong terms. My sun is pisces and my moon is libra.
You don’t even have the Sun Square Moon aspect and it’s impossible for a Pisces Sun to Square Libra Moon.
Nothing to see here but yet another delusional Pisces without facts.
Gather your facts and you won’t be corrected. I saw that you were a Pisces sun and Libra moon already, it takes seconds to go to a profile to read that. What exactly are you going on about Cancer for? I am not a Cancer.
Pisces are so damn delusional. It’s like having a conversation with a child. For all I know, you could be confronting your man in your head and none of this is a reality. I can’t believe a delusional Pisces, you all make up lies.
If she has interceptions in her chart and the house Libra and or/Pisces are wide houses, they could be square by degrees
OP, you comfortable enough to post your chart?click to expand
Posted by libralionfishPosted by justagirlThanks for the advice! I have a link to my chart here: https://astro-charts.com/chart/126acc000/Posted by black773Posted by libralionfishPosted by libralionfishNow let's see if you're another defensive cancer who can't stand being called out ... At least I'm being honest with myself.Posted by black773I'm not that well versed in chart terminology/aspects so I'm using the wrong terms. My sun is pisces and my moon is libra.
You don’t even have the Sun Square Moon aspect and it’s impossible for a Pisces Sun to Square Libra Moon.
Nothing to see here but yet another delusional Pisces without facts.
Gather your facts and you won’t be corrected. I saw that you were a Pisces sun and Libra moon already, it takes seconds to go to a profile to read that. What exactly are you going on about Cancer for? I am not a Cancer.
Pisces are so damn delusional. It’s like having a conversation with a child. For all I know, you could be confronting your man in your head and none of this is a reality. I can’t believe a delusional Pisces, you all make up lies.
If she has interceptions in her chart and the house Libra and or/Pisces are wide houses, they could be square by degrees
OP, you comfortable enough to post your chart?click to expand
Posted by Black-Mamba😂Posted by LadyNeptunei figured out why leo moons and libra moons get alongPosted by libralionfishMost men aren't as detailed oriented as women. And if they are they most likely have the ocd.Posted by LadyNeptuneYes, intelligence, but it goes beyond just text book smarts. I'm also talking about organizational abilities and an understanding of human psychology.
Mental level as in intelligence?
Libra moon doesn't like confrontation. But its irking you so you want him to confront her for you.
Just let it go.
Or slash her tires. Your call
we will slash the tires for them
and think about the repercussions laterclick to expand
Posted by elllleHaha well I’d call her out first. Maybe leave some notes on her windshield.Posted by LadyNeptuneThe Aries Moon way. 😂🤣😂Posted by libralionfishPosted by LadyNeptuneYes, intelligence, but it goes beyond just text book smarts. I'm also talking about organizational abilities and an understanding of human psychology.
Mental level as in intelligence?
Just let it go.
Or slash her tires. Your callclick to expand
Posted by libralionfishOh ok. Now I understand better what you mean...Posted by stillstillwaterFor example, I get frustrated with my partner if I think someone is taking advantage of him and he does nothing to address the person or fight back. We have a shared driveway with the neighbor next door, and she is always parking her car in the driveway like she owns it. My fiance owns his house, and the neighbor is a renter. I think it's ridiculous that he's a property owner and this woman is using the driveway 99% of the time. Again, an issue with reciprocity.
Yes 100% regarding the mental stimulation. I cannot be with anyone who I can't have discussions with... and if i end up in such relationships it makes me really bitter
"Do any libra moons feel that if their partner is not evenly matched to them, they will do things to undermine their partner and their relationship?"
- Can you give examples of what you mean?
I asked him why he doesn't address this issue with her and he says he doesn't want to cause any waves or ill will. Parking is very hard to find on his street and this woman is too lazy to give up the driveway. It pisses me off that he won't speak to her and I start questioning his ability to run a household. I'll say this to his face and then he feels offended and undermined.click to expand
Posted by nikkistarLibra moons „live and love“ „harmony“! They‘d rather not speak up about sometimes little but important stuff (like you mentioned) to avoid possile conflict. Although it might not get bad afterall, just speaking up in a calm mature way. But in their heads worst case scenarios play already! I know that from my cap 😂 most times I handle such things with my cap moon and tell him „see? Wasn‘t that bad afterall“Posted by libralionfishIn this situation, I understand your frustration. It's the "unfairness" of it that bothers you. But here is the thing you have to try and also understand, is that if he isn't bothered by it, and he found his own solution for himself, then you really shouldn't be so confrontational about it. After all, it is only a parking spot. Correlating how he runs a household, cannot be compared with that. Focus on how he makes you feel as a partner, not how he handles his renter. Some things are worth fighting for, and other things are trivial in the grand scheme of life.
For example, I get frustrated with my partner if I think someone is taking advantage of him and he does nothing to address the person or fight back. We have a shared driveway with the neighbor next door, and she is always parking her car in the driveway like she owns it. My fiance owns his house, and the neighbor is a renter. I think it's ridiculous that he's a property owner and this woman is using the driveway 99% of the time. Again, an issue with reciprocity.
I asked him why he doesn't address this issue with her and he says he doesn't want to cause any waves or ill will. Parking is very hard to find on his street and this woman is too lazy to give up the driveway. It pisses me off that he won't speak to her and I start questioning his ability to run a household. I'll say this to his face and then he feels offended and undermined.click to expand