LIBRA PROS N CONS
This topic was created in the Libra forum by 100%leo on Tuesday, February 20, 2007 and has 38 replies.
100% LEO LADY HERE.....been dating a libra man for 2 months now, he is adorable, genuine and the life of the party....I enjoy being with him because I like being the life of the party as well....so we have so much together..
but I'm having difficulty trying to read him in the bedroom.....
I usually initiate contact whether is kissing, holding hands, caressing....he just lays there....Leos can be wild in bed but is that scaring my libra off...don't want to come off to forward....I WANT TO KNOW WHAT MAKES HIM TICK..What do libras like in bed? What don't they like? why do libras dislike public affection? and how to I conquer this libra man? I would like some aggressiveness in the bedroom on his part....but how do I tell him without freaking him out...Also do Libras and leos last? are we compatible or are we doomed???.Any advice Libra guys?
but I'm having difficulty trying to read him in the bedroom.....
I usually initiate contact whether is kissing, holding hands, caressing....he just lays there....Leos can be wild in bed but is that scaring my libra off...don't want to come off to forward....I WANT TO KNOW WHAT MAKES HIM TICK..What do libras like in bed? What don't they like? why do libras dislike public affection? and how to I conquer this libra man? I would like some aggressiveness in the bedroom on his part....but how do I tell him without freaking him out...Also do Libras and leos last? are we compatible or are we doomed???.Any advice Libra guys?
"I WANT TO KNOW WHAT MAKES HIM TICK"
Expressive sensuality. Let him know that you believe he has the gift of intuitively pleasing you and he will. We are more inhibited when we are unsure weather or not our partner will appreciate the level of sensuality we have. If you want a Libra to completely take control of your body you have to offer it, and not try to change the pace or control it during the act. We will get you to move, think and feel exactly how we want you to but you have to let yourself go. We do it without communicating, on an almost psychic level. We get a little stifled when the girl can't relax, lay back and let us go to work. We do like the girl to initiate and then push us into taking the lead, that creates a little confusion for some people, for others it flows really naturally. Were not cave men in bed, were artists.
"why do libras dislike public affection?"
We don't dislike public affection as a definition, we are really sensitive to public affection being used as a tool for territory or possesion, so much so we would sometimes rather just avoid it than have to deal with it. Also, we don't like teasing for the sake of teasing which is something Leo women tend to do, we do like teasing that is obviously going to be followed through with. With a cirtain type of girl public affection is usually a form of foreplay. *cough* Scorpio *cough*
Expressive sensuality. Let him know that you believe he has the gift of intuitively pleasing you and he will. We are more inhibited when we are unsure weather or not our partner will appreciate the level of sensuality we have. If you want a Libra to completely take control of your body you have to offer it, and not try to change the pace or control it during the act. We will get you to move, think and feel exactly how we want you to but you have to let yourself go. We do it without communicating, on an almost psychic level. We get a little stifled when the girl can't relax, lay back and let us go to work. We do like the girl to initiate and then push us into taking the lead, that creates a little confusion for some people, for others it flows really naturally. Were not cave men in bed, were artists.
"why do libras dislike public affection?"
We don't dislike public affection as a definition, we are really sensitive to public affection being used as a tool for territory or possesion, so much so we would sometimes rather just avoid it than have to deal with it. Also, we don't like teasing for the sake of teasing which is something Leo women tend to do, we do like teasing that is obviously going to be followed through with. With a cirtain type of girl public affection is usually a form of foreplay. *cough* Scorpio *cough*
If this helps any we have EXTREMELY high sex drives and we have a tendancy to mute it because our level of excitement isn't progressive, it is an on off switch. If you turn us on or lead us to believe that you want it the switch flips and until the act gets underway you have a freight train of squirming, seething passion on your hands. We hide it well because of our ego, we don't want to hand over control of our own sexual urges so sometimes it comes across as playfulness rather than passion to maintain that control.
Naturally we progress from slow and passionate to hot and wild, until we are completely comfortable with you we won't be able to jump right into the hot and wild, but once we are we'll bend you over the kitchen sink while your washing your hands or walk into the shower grab you and throw you on the bed without warning. This all happens after the intillectual rapport is firmly established. Be communicative during sex, and give lots of feed back. In the beginning getting off or getting you off really is just a side issue, the main purpose is to completely learn and memorize your body and once that is done we'll give it to you exactly how we know you want it. Let it build basically.
Naturally we progress from slow and passionate to hot and wild, until we are completely comfortable with you we won't be able to jump right into the hot and wild, but once we are we'll bend you over the kitchen sink while your washing your hands or walk into the shower grab you and throw you on the bed without warning. This all happens after the intillectual rapport is firmly established. Be communicative during sex, and give lots of feed back. In the beginning getting off or getting you off really is just a side issue, the main purpose is to completely learn and memorize your body and once that is done we'll give it to you exactly how we know you want it. Let it build basically.
being a Leo in a r/ship with a Libra???? what Nic said...DEFINITELY!!!!
Oh and 2 months isn't long with these guys....you're in for quite a ride!!! Patience will be a virtue....for Leo?? this is difficult, believe me I know all too well LOL...but I've been told its worth it in the long run 
It really depends on his Mars/Venus/Moon placements.
*** until we are completely comfortable with you we won't be able to jump right into the hot and wild, but once we are we'll bend you over the kitchen sink while your washing your hands or walk into the shower grab you and throw you on the bed without warning. This all happens after the intellectual rapport is firmly established. Be communicative during sex, and give lots of feed back. In the beginning getting off or getting you off really is just a side issue, the main purpose is to completely learn and memorize your body and once that is done we'll give it to you exactly how we know you want it. Let it build basically.
Pretty much. In the beginning we are just trying to find out where your knobs are and what this button here does if you go like this.
Depending on how we like you, we might go very sensual instead of very aggressive.
I love public affection as long as I am really into the person.
Yes we have EXTREMELY high sex drives.
We will go from tender and loving, to aggressive and wild ... but we need to know you first or not care at all.
*** until we are completely comfortable with you we won't be able to jump right into the hot and wild, but once we are we'll bend you over the kitchen sink while your washing your hands or walk into the shower grab you and throw you on the bed without warning. This all happens after the intellectual rapport is firmly established. Be communicative during sex, and give lots of feed back. In the beginning getting off or getting you off really is just a side issue, the main purpose is to completely learn and memorize your body and once that is done we'll give it to you exactly how we know you want it. Let it build basically.
Pretty much. In the beginning we are just trying to find out where your knobs are and what this button here does if you go like this.
Depending on how we like you, we might go very sensual instead of very aggressive.
I love public affection as long as I am really into the person.
Yes we have EXTREMELY high sex drives.
We will go from tender and loving, to aggressive and wild ... but we need to know you first or not care at all.
Coming from a scorp. Ofcourse, I was shocked to hear your questions. Never had any of those problems from a Libra... What Nic said...
Look, they want to know they are desired by you, tell them they drive you nuts during sex. Compliment body parts, during and after. Smack him on the ass and tell him how cute his ass it.. etc.. I being a wild scorp rarely give them a chance to initiate, however if I want them too. I just have to look and wait about... 1 second and it is on!!! Letting go is a must, which seems to come naturally for a Scorp girl/Libra guy. So if you are holding back at all during sex. Let that go.. You will see how he ravishes your body and you will end up in a blissful fairy tale, and when you wake up the next morning you will hate it ended... Unless... you grab body parts.
Look, they want to know they are desired by you, tell them they drive you nuts during sex. Compliment body parts, during and after. Smack him on the ass and tell him how cute his ass it.. etc.. I being a wild scorp rarely give them a chance to initiate, however if I want them too. I just have to look and wait about... 1 second and it is on!!! Letting go is a must, which seems to come naturally for a Scorp girl/Libra guy. So if you are holding back at all during sex. Let that go.. You will see how he ravishes your body and you will end up in a blissful fairy tale, and when you wake up the next morning you will hate it ended... Unless... you grab body parts.
Oh affection in public??? Girl please!!! It is about seduction. Stroke his hand, face. Then walk away, give a hug and continue laughing and talking and pretty soon he won't be able to stop touching you and won't care whose around.
QS, that sounds right...I think.
I was careful with not leading too much into this Libra's "bubble", but apparently I got in there by talking, smiling, laughing, sharing...so yeah, I do think they like PDA - just depends on who it's with.
I was careful with not leading too much into this Libra's "bubble", but apparently I got in there by talking, smiling, laughing, sharing...so yeah, I do think they like PDA - just depends on who it's with.
*** Oh affection in public??? Girl please!!! It is about seduction.
In the beginning, when you are flirting sure. Once you are both worked up anything can happen. (Libra ladies are the exhibitionists of the zodiac.)
Libra and Leo are very, very sexually compatible. It can be quite explosive.
Obviously, I am a Libra Lady but Leo men can be crazy, crazy, crazy aggressive. Although it is kind of scary, it is REALLY exciting. Don't be afraid. He will play it over and over and over in his mind.
We love the idea that we drive you crazy and that you have to have us now ... or as a leo would say, "NOW!"
It depends on what is happening in your relationship and what place he is coming from. He might need to get his bearings because, from my experience, Leos can really rile us up. It is hard to keep it all in check.
In the beginning, when you are flirting sure. Once you are both worked up anything can happen. (Libra ladies are the exhibitionists of the zodiac.)
Libra and Leo are very, very sexually compatible. It can be quite explosive.
Obviously, I am a Libra Lady but Leo men can be crazy, crazy, crazy aggressive. Although it is kind of scary, it is REALLY exciting. Don't be afraid. He will play it over and over and over in his mind.
We love the idea that we drive you crazy and that you have to have us now ... or as a leo would say, "NOW!"
It depends on what is happening in your relationship and what place he is coming from. He might need to get his bearings because, from my experience, Leos can really rile us up. It is hard to keep it all in check.
If he isn't ready for a relationship, it has nothing to do with compatibility. It has to do with timing and there is nothing you can do. The compatibility just makes it harder.
And a leo will devour you in public if you let them. They are awesome!
Happy Sighs!
Happy Sighs!
***If he isn't ready for a relationship, it has nothing to do with compatibility. It has to do with timing and there is nothing you can do. The compatibility just makes it harder.***
This is true, however, even though my Libra friend isn't (It seems) He is very affectionate with me all time... Ask him...
HP, yup that will work.
LS, has also hit all points on the nose. Once again...
This is true, however, even though my Libra friend isn't (It seems) He is very affectionate with me all time... Ask him...
HP, yup that will work.
LS, has also hit all points on the nose. Once again...
***This is true, however, even though my Libra friend isn't (It seems) He is very affectionate with me all time... Ask him...***
I meant, ask your boyfriend how he feels about being affectionate in public. Cause, when they are, they can be REALLY affectionate. Like LS said, some of my wildest exibitions have been with a Libra...
I meant, ask your boyfriend how he feels about being affectionate in public. Cause, when they are, they can be REALLY affectionate. Like LS said, some of my wildest exibitions have been with a Libra...
hee!
I always win the "who has done the craziest stuff in public" contests. (bows)
People are always so shocked cause I seem so innocent and pure. Refined and classy yet unworldly.
Yeah. We tend to be very affectionate folk even when we aren't ready which I think confuses everyone.
Cause we really, really, really like you ... but you know?
I always win the "who has done the craziest stuff in public" contests. (bows)
People are always so shocked cause I seem so innocent and pure. Refined and classy yet unworldly.
Yeah. We tend to be very affectionate folk even when we aren't ready which I think confuses everyone.
Cause we really, really, really like you ... but you know?
As charming and attractive as Libras are and while they no doubt want to be desired for those things, given that they are air signs, they no doubt would prefer to be truly desired as a whole person (mind, body, soul, and being), rather than merely being seen as trophies. Take these comments, for example:
"until we are completely comfortable with you we won't be able to jump right into the hot and wild"
"more inhibited when we are unsure weather or not our partner will appreciate the level of sensuality we have"
"This all happens after the intillectual rapport is firmly established"
Perhaps your Libra is (either correctly or incorrectly) getting the feeling that he is being appreciated more purely as a conquest rather than truly desired as a whole person. Perhaps your Libra is holding back because there is a part of the relationship or himself that he feels like you lack the desire to connect to (again whether correct or incorrect).
"until we are completely comfortable with you we won't be able to jump right into the hot and wild"
"more inhibited when we are unsure weather or not our partner will appreciate the level of sensuality we have"
"This all happens after the intillectual rapport is firmly established"
Perhaps your Libra is (either correctly or incorrectly) getting the feeling that he is being appreciated more purely as a conquest rather than truly desired as a whole person. Perhaps your Libra is holding back because there is a part of the relationship or himself that he feels like you lack the desire to connect to (again whether correct or incorrect).
Also, in regards to PDA, it would seem that Libra's perhaps do like PDA, but as a natural outlet of expression for the passion you feel for that person, the same passion that would, or should, come into play in the bedroom (the insatiable desire to truly experience that person).
"we are really sensitive to public affection being used as a tool for territory or possesion"
"we don't like teasing for the sake of teasing"
"public affection is usually a form of foreplay"
"We love the idea that we drive you crazy and that you have to have us now "
"And a leo will devour you in public if you let them. They are awesome!"
Given those responses, and the Libran intuitive nature in regards to people, it would sound like your Libra would be receptive when the motives are pure and that desire is effectively transmitted in the act. When you touch him in public, communicate through that touch that you had a burning need to physically connect with him, to feel him, so that he has no doubts in his mind that it might be to "stake your claim" or because you enjoy being publicly associated with him or because of any other reason. When you kiss him in public, let him know without words that for that instant the only thing that exists in the world is him. When you tease him in public, let him see in your eyes, your actions, your smile that you are doing it because you want nothing more than to freeze frame the entire world that very instant, rip of his clothes, and devour him (or let him devour you, or even better, both!!), and then unpause the world and let it return to its regularly scheduled programming never being the wiser. Or when you tease him, with every intention of missing the entire party should the perfect place and perfect moment be found and not minding one bit...
Damn, I think I got carried away there... I think you get the idea. You are a Leo, set the man on fire!
"we are really sensitive to public affection being used as a tool for territory or possesion"
"we don't like teasing for the sake of teasing"
"public affection is usually a form of foreplay"
"We love the idea that we drive you crazy and that you have to have us now "
"And a leo will devour you in public if you let them. They are awesome!"
Given those responses, and the Libran intuitive nature in regards to people, it would sound like your Libra would be receptive when the motives are pure and that desire is effectively transmitted in the act. When you touch him in public, communicate through that touch that you had a burning need to physically connect with him, to feel him, so that he has no doubts in his mind that it might be to "stake your claim" or because you enjoy being publicly associated with him or because of any other reason. When you kiss him in public, let him know without words that for that instant the only thing that exists in the world is him. When you tease him in public, let him see in your eyes, your actions, your smile that you are doing it because you want nothing more than to freeze frame the entire world that very instant, rip of his clothes, and devour him (or let him devour you, or even better, both!!), and then unpause the world and let it return to its regularly scheduled programming never being the wiser. Or when you tease him, with every intention of missing the entire party should the perfect place and perfect moment be found and not minding one bit...
Damn, I think I got carried away there... I think you get the idea. You are a Leo, set the man on fire!
DAMN
Welcom to the Libra Board, otherwise known as "How do Fire Signs Relate To Everything Libran."
I'm Earth and it set my ground on fire, that's for damn sure.
***Yeah. We tend to be very affectionate folk even when we aren't ready which I think confuses everyone. ***
***Cause we really, really, really like you ... but you know?***
LS, yeah I know...
***Cause we really, really, really like you ... but you know?***
LS, yeah I know...
so the affection stops when?
pats QS on the back and hands her a nice stiff .... martini.
Alcheme, yeah I guess we scorps get them in that aspect. I feel exactly the same. No problems showing them how we desire them... My last stunt, case in point Just because I wanted to be with him, regardless of what that consequences could have been (as in he could have had company) and that would have really been bad, although I was drunk and may have either embarrassed the other person and humored him with a comment like. "Ok, her time is up I am here" that would have really been bad. I sort of did that with my ex and a girl who had popped up to see him unannounced as I did, but she had just gotten there (I didn't know or did I care) He got a kick out of it, while she ran off and was offended.
Sorry I know I can be awful!!!
Just because I wanted to be with him, regardless of what that consequences could have been (as in he could have had company) and that would have really been bad, although I was drunk and may have either embarrassed the other person and humored him with a comment like. "Ok, her time is up I am here" that would have really been bad. I sort of did that with my ex and a girl who had popped up to see him unannounced as I did, but she had just gotten there (I didn't know or did I care) He got a kick out of it, while she ran off and was offended. Sorry I know I can be awful!!!
when? when we stop being friends/friendly.
It doesn't really stop. The moment someone reappears in my life, if I had genuine affection for them, the friendship just picks up where we left off.
If you do something REALLY shitty, (and I mean REALLY shitty), we won't forgive. If it is something mild, and time has passes, we'll get over ourselves and embrace you when you reestablish contact.
I just had a friend from high school email me this week. I haven't heard from her in years. I feel all the affection and joy I felt for her when we were close, even though we had a falling out about six? years ago.
It doesn't really stop. The moment someone reappears in my life, if I had genuine affection for them, the friendship just picks up where we left off.
If you do something REALLY shitty, (and I mean REALLY shitty), we won't forgive. If it is something mild, and time has passes, we'll get over ourselves and embrace you when you reestablish contact.
I just had a friend from high school email me this week. I haven't heard from her in years. I feel all the affection and joy I felt for her when we were close, even though we had a falling out about six? years ago.
*We love the idea that we drive you crazy and that you have to have us now ... or as a leo would say, "NOW!"*
Hehehehe.....yup...NOW is always good in our eyes
Hehehehe.....yup...NOW is always good in our eyes
NOW works for me!
hehehe
"When you touch him in public, communicate through that touch that you had a burning need to physically connect with him, to feel him, so that he has no doubts in his mind that it might be to "stake your claim" or because you enjoy being publicly associated with him or because of any other reason."
I couldn't have said it better myself.
"When you kiss him in public, let him know without words that for that instant the only thing that exists in the world is him. When you tease him in public, let him see in your eyes, your actions, your smile that you are doing it because you want nothing more than to freeze frame the entire world that very instant, rip of his clothes, and devour him (or let him devour you, or even better, both!!), and then unpause the world and let it return to its regularly scheduled programming never being the wiser. Or when you tease him, with every intention of missing the entire party should the perfect place and perfect moment be found and not minding one bit..."
Listen to this, she gets it one hundred percent. Ima have to wait a few minutes to get up now. Damn you.
Notice how Alcheme used the words "devour each other".....those accurately describe our sexual frame of mind.
I couldn't have said it better myself.
"When you kiss him in public, let him know without words that for that instant the only thing that exists in the world is him. When you tease him in public, let him see in your eyes, your actions, your smile that you are doing it because you want nothing more than to freeze frame the entire world that very instant, rip of his clothes, and devour him (or let him devour you, or even better, both!!), and then unpause the world and let it return to its regularly scheduled programming never being the wiser. Or when you tease him, with every intention of missing the entire party should the perfect place and perfect moment be found and not minding one bit..."
Listen to this, she gets it one hundred percent. Ima have to wait a few minutes to get up now. Damn you.
Notice how Alcheme used the words "devour each other".....those accurately describe our sexual frame of mind.
Devouring is good. . .
Maaaaaaan! Just read the previous posts and IT'S GETTING HOT IN HERE!
Yes well I've taken notes for tonight - only 4 hours to go - wooohoooo!!!! LOL
You KNOW we'll want your steamy report!
indeed....I wonder how he'll surprise me THIS time!! Everytime he comes up with something he says and/or does that surprises me and/or perplexes me - I know this is how these guys work but sheesh, give a kitten a break LOL
Actually he surprises me with me being able to spend time with him for the 3rd time in just over a week - I am absolutely shocked!!!
Actually he surprises me with me being able to spend time with him for the 3rd time in just over a week - I am absolutely shocked!!!
Kitties no like BOREDOM.
Yes, absolutely shocking seeing him 3 times in one week. I saw Libra Girl 2 times in one week and thought I'd died and went to Heaven. My gosh! What would happen if they were around more often?
Yes, absolutely shocking seeing him 3 times in one week. I saw Libra Girl 2 times in one week and thought I'd died and went to Heaven. My gosh! What would happen if they were around more often?
We'd be angels coming down constantly??
Don't worry Atom...I'll be back on tomorrow with my 'steamy' report and asking questions - yikes you all say!!!
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