libra reconnecting

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Nefer
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Meh, I can see Amethyst's point too.. it WAS very difficult to read. But I've seen worse on here - people typing in the ghetto slang they probably speak every day. *shrug*

Personal observation and experience...

Libras occasionally try to reconnect.. ESP if they feel things weren't DONE yet. Takes them a long time to decide sometimes, they always weigh and balance and try to make the RIGHT decisions (that's where the 'wishy-washy' image comes from) ...so generally if they just totally END something, it's permanent and they don't try to return. (Though they DO like to remain friendly with their exes, if possible!) If Libra didn't END it, didn't make a solid decision that this person was NOT the right one for them, and therefore move on... they might try to reconnect and see what's still there. I've found that's especially true of Libras who were not the ones to initiate the leaving. If YOU decided to let go of HIM, and he hadn't made a solid decision that you were not right for him, he could certainly come back to see if there's a chance NOW. (Libras try to be fair.. you might dump him, but if he figures he didn't blame you for not wanting him cuz he did X or Y or said A or B, if he thinks HE would have dumped himself too, he wouldn't hold it against you.) Are you different now? Is he? Have you two worked out some of your personal issues, maybe issues that made it not the right time for you two before?

Yes, Libras are friendly with their exes... but if you give it some time, you'll see if he's just trying to be friendly, or if he is trying to reconnect emotionally. I lean towards the reconnect, personally... the Libras I've known don't usually bother trying to get just "friendly" with someone they haven't had contact with for a year - they have plenty of friends for that. You know him better than we do, and you know your history. You should be able to tell soon enough if he's being friendly or getting romantic, because Libras tend to go all-out when they want a girl, wanting to talk a lot, spend a lot of time together, etc. They aren't like that with friends.. they're more like.. a willing shoulder to cry on when their friends (exes) need someone to talk to, but they rarely SEEK OUT those friend-exes.
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Posted by curious visitor
eh. libras reconnect. it could mean feelings. it could mean he's bored and is returning to safe harbor.



well im far from a safe harbor 😉 he once said im dangerous. 😉

well anyway ..today he emailed me again asking about someone we know. and i replied with a simple answer & nicely straight to d point.

i have another question:

if libra rarely 'seek out exes. how do they remain friends with them? and arent most of them friends with exes, also could he be looling for somekind of more formal closure thats why hes back. i accused him of something then..which is not big deal..nothing like cheating or anything. bit he coild be back to clean his name or my idea of him. bec i stopped talking to him. tho he was trying to explain during our last conversation last year .