Libra Saga Continues...

This topic was created in the Libra forum by LeonineCharmer on Thursday, August 1, 2019 and has 10 replies.
Catch up info, both female, I am a Leo she is a Libra, we have known each other for about 9-12 months.

Ok so today we are talking and I tell her how another friend did something special for my bday. (I never really talk about my other friends, just because I don't) She says yeah friends are fun like that. So back to normal conversation while she is getting ready to leave. She asks me to walk out to her car with her which we do all the time.

We continue to talk and she says "Its nice that we have a relationship where we can empathize with each other." I said "Yes it is good to have someone to talk to that gets it." Well then she turns and gives me a big hug, cross body, but still big and says as she is hugging me "I love you guys so very much!" I say more softly "We love you too." Then she looks at me and leaves. (She knows my kids which is where the "us" and "we" comes from.)

She has not done that before. Tell me am I reading to much into this thinking she is a little jealous maybe, or is she just trying to establish a place, if you will, in my life as to This is where I fit in right? type attitude? Or am I being dense with what she is telling me about her feelings for me? Help! You Libras are so confusing LOL!! smile
Posted by dilettante

she likes your friendship. you get her, she gets you.

also, why do you think she is jealous? jealous about what?

if i recall, nearly everyone said she is letting you down easy, in your other thread.

i sometimes find ( as a libra moon) that leo energy can be too eager & demanding, which makes me wanna run away. i had a leo sun coming over to my house unannounced & it really rubbed me the wrong way. i think leo’s can be blinded by their own emotions that they arent willing to see clearly.

to me, nothing about this screams “she is into you romantically”. she likes the time you spend together & that doesnt have to mean it is in a romantic way.
We have always been affectionate. We even have pet names for each other. This was completely different.

Not eager. This has been going on for freaking months. I came on here because I can't understand her. If she was blowing me off she certainly has a funny way of showing lack of interest. Things from what she is showing me in person are getting more intense. So it is either she is playing me or something else.

Jealous, yeah because I barely bring up another friend and then it feels like she is trying to figure out where she stands by laying out where she fits into my life as a person who empathizes with her. I am not all crazy wild when around her. I try to take what she is saying and doing, trying to figure her out. I am Cap moon Cap asc. She's the one who asks me places, leaves texts for me in the middle of the night, and so on. Then she gets distant and then all affectionate and lovey dovey again as you say. Just each time it seems to get more intense and I just cannot figure out why the withdraw and come back cycle.

Its actually exhausting.

Posted by Notmyrealname

Maybe she thought when you were talking about your friends doing stuff you were hinting at her that she wasn’t being as appreciative so she felt bad and was trying to make sure you know she does care?
Maybe.
Libras are just fun flirts nothing more nothing less. Alot of people take my kindness and read to much into it. Now I'm more careful on how it's being perceived. If she liked you it wouldn't be a guess.
Oh my goodness you people lie so much on here. Sounds like a bunch of white fragile women yapping about nothingness to me. Nothing screams “this is astrology worthy” to me.
Posted by LeonineCharmer
Posted by dilettante

she likes your friendship. you get her, she gets you.

also, why do you think she is jealous? jealous about what?

if i recall, nearly everyone said she is letting you down easy, in your other thread.

i sometimes find ( as a libra moon) that leo energy can be too eager & demanding, which makes me wanna run away. i had a leo sun coming over to my house unannounced & it really rubbed me the wrong way. i think leo’s can be blinded by their own emotions that they arent willing to see clearly.

to me, nothing about this screams “she is into you romantically”. she likes the time you spend together & that doesnt have to mean it is in a romantic way.


We have always been affectionate. We even have pet names for each other. This was completely different.

Not eager. This has been going on for freaking months. I came on here because I can't understand her. If she was blowing me off she certainly has a funny way of showing lack of interest. Things from what she is showing me in person are getting more intense. So it is either she is playing me or something else.

Jealous, yeah because I barely bring up another friend and then it feels like she is trying to figure out where she stands by laying out where she fits into my life as a person who empathizes with her. I am not all crazy wild when around her. I try to take what she is saying and doing, trying to figure her out. I am Cap moon Cap asc. She's the one who asks me places, leaves texts for me in the middle of the night, and so on. Then she gets distant and then all affectionate and lovey dovey again as you say. Just each time it seems to get more intense and I just cannot figure out why the withdraw and come back cycle.

Its actually exhausting.
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Look, why don't you just kiss her the next time you are together. Her reaction will let you know if she's interested. She probably does just want to have sex with you and as a Libra Moon she's waiting on you to make the move. You being a Leo that shouldn't be a problem.
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Posted by LeonineCharmer
Posted by Notmyrealname

Maybe she thought when you were talking about your friends doing stuff you were hinting at her that she wasn’t being as appreciative so she felt bad and was trying to make sure you know she does care?


Maybe.


Ar I do feel bad for you I can see how this must be really frustrating but just realistically what do you want to happen? Considering she’s married? All I can really think of is maybe to tell her about being bisexual or interested in girls in general or something, so that she can either admit it too, or change any behaviour herself that might be inappropriate in those circumstances. I’m a libra and every libra I’ve ever known has been super affectionate with friends, but I would definitely put effort into moderating my behaviour if I thought it could cause problems or misunderstandings... I just don’t really know what you are expecting to happen really. Maybe you need a bit of a break away from her for a bit just to sort your feelings out get a bit of distance from this?
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Good advice. I have been thinking about your post since last night. The main thing I want is to just know where I stand. I am trying to understand the Libra psyche without asking her much. I don't want to mess up the friendship. This makes me feel like I am on a roller coaster of emotions.

Before I posted this I did send her a text letting her know that I do appreciate her and left it at that. So I had already done that before it was recommended here that makes me feel good that I did reinforce the friendship.
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Posted by LeonineCharmer
Posted by dilettante

she likes your friendship. you get her, she gets you.

also, why do you think she is jealous? jealous about what?

if i recall, nearly everyone said she is letting you down easy, in your other thread.

i sometimes find ( as a libra moon) that leo energy can be too eager & demanding, which makes me wanna run away. i had a leo sun coming over to my house unannounced & it really rubbed me the wrong way. i think leo’s can be blinded by their own emotions that they arent willing to see clearly.

to me, nothing about this screams “she is into you romantically”. she likes the time you spend together & that doesnt have to mean it is in a romantic way.


We have always been affectionate. We even have pet names for each other. This was completely different.

Not eager. This has been going on for freaking months. I came on here because I can't understand her. If she was blowing me off she certainly has a funny way of showing lack of interest. Things from what she is showing me in person are getting more intense. So it is either she is playing me or something else.

Jealous, yeah because I barely bring up another friend and then it feels like she is trying to figure out where she stands by laying out where she fits into my life as a person who empathizes with her. I am not all crazy wild when around her. I try to take what she is saying and doing, trying to figure her out. I am Cap moon Cap asc. She's the one who asks me places, leaves texts for me in the middle of the night, and so on. Then she gets distant and then all affectionate and lovey dovey again as you say. Just each time it seems to get more intense and I just cannot figure out why the withdraw and come back cycle.

Its actually exhausting.


Look, why don't you just kiss her the next time you are together. Her reaction will let you know if she's interested. She probably does just want to have sex with you and as a Libra Moon she's waiting on you to make the move. You being a Leo that shouldn't be a problem.
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LOL! Trust me I thought of it!! smile

Posted by LeonineCharmer
Posted by dilettante

she likes your friendship. you get her, she gets you.

also, why do you think she is jealous? jealous about what?

if i recall, nearly everyone said she is letting you down easy, in your other thread.

i sometimes find ( as a libra moon) that leo energy can be too eager & demanding, which makes me wanna run away. i had a leo sun coming over to my house unannounced & it really rubbed me the wrong way. i think leo’s can be blinded by their own emotions that they arent willing to see clearly.

to me, nothing about this screams “she is into you romantically”. she likes the time you spend together & that doesnt have to mean it is in a romantic way.


We have always been affectionate. We even have pet names for each other. This was completely different.

Not eager. This has been going on for freaking months. I came on here because I can't understand her. If she was blowing me off she certainly has a funny way of showing lack of interest. Things from what she is showing me in person are getting more intense. So it is either she is playing me or something else.

Jealous, yeah because I barely bring up another friend and then it feels like she is trying to figure out where she stands by laying out where she fits into my life as a person who empathizes with her. I am not all crazy wild when around her. I try to take what she is saying and doing, trying to figure her out. I am Cap moon Cap asc. She's the one who asks me places, leaves texts for me in the middle of the night, and so on. Then she gets distant and then all affectionate and lovey dovey again as you say. Just each time it seems to get more intense and I just cannot figure out why the withdraw and come back cycle.

Its actually exhausting.
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Didn't read your original post, but if you ever find a Libra acting hot and cold, it's because they like the attention, but aren't interested in anything serious. Or they genuinely enjoy your company, but at the same time, don't want to lead you on so they waver back and forth.
I am a Libra n well I've kinda had this same interaction going on wit a friend of mine but I know I'm a few months late but I hope u went for it bcuz exactly how this situation.is was exactly like my friend n myself but I was jus too shy around her n I wud have to get comfortable around her n also she was hard to read too...ha wow exactly kinda same time frames n jus until a couple weeks ago we had a few drinks n she made her move on me which I didn't expect but everything was so right ha sadly to say I regret it bcuz our friendship isn't the same no more... I'm usually the more out there type been single 3yrs soooo i think that kinda took its toll too but it's whatever jus have to let her be n the situation get better if anything... 😭😭😭