Posted by dilettanteWe have always been affectionate. We even have pet names for each other. This was completely different.
she likes your friendship. you get her, she gets you.
also, why do you think she is jealous? jealous about what?
if i recall, nearly everyone said she is letting you down easy, in your other thread.
i sometimes find ( as a libra moon) that leo energy can be too eager & demanding, which makes me wanna run away. i had a leo sun coming over to my house unannounced & it really rubbed me the wrong way. i think leo’s can be blinded by their own emotions that they arent willing to see clearly.
to me, nothing about this screams “she is into you romantically”. she likes the time you spend together & that doesnt have to mean it is in a romantic way.
Posted by NotmyrealnameMaybe.
Maybe she thought when you were talking about your friends doing stuff you were hinting at her that she wasn’t being as appreciative so she felt bad and was trying to make sure you know she does care?
Posted by LeonineCharmerLook, why don't you just kiss her the next time you are together. Her reaction will let you know if she's interested. She probably does just want to have sex with you and as a Libra Moon she's waiting on you to make the move. You being a Leo that shouldn't be a problem.Posted by dilettante
she likes your friendship. you get her, she gets you.
also, why do you think she is jealous? jealous about what?
if i recall, nearly everyone said she is letting you down easy, in your other thread.
i sometimes find ( as a libra moon) that leo energy can be too eager & demanding, which makes me wanna run away. i had a leo sun coming over to my house unannounced & it really rubbed me the wrong way. i think leo’s can be blinded by their own emotions that they arent willing to see clearly.
to me, nothing about this screams “she is into you romantically”. she likes the time you spend together & that doesnt have to mean it is in a romantic way.
We have always been affectionate. We even have pet names for each other. This was completely different.
Not eager. This has been going on for freaking months. I came on here because I can't understand her. If she was blowing me off she certainly has a funny way of showing lack of interest. Things from what she is showing me in person are getting more intense. So it is either she is playing me or something else.
Jealous, yeah because I barely bring up another friend and then it feels like she is trying to figure out where she stands by laying out where she fits into my life as a person who empathizes with her. I am not all crazy wild when around her. I try to take what she is saying and doing, trying to figure her out. I am Cap moon Cap asc. She's the one who asks me places, leaves texts for me in the middle of the night, and so on. Then she gets distant and then all affectionate and lovey dovey again as you say. Just each time it seems to get more intense and I just cannot figure out why the withdraw and come back cycle.
Its actually exhausting.click to expand
Posted by NotmyrealnameGood advice. I have been thinking about your post since last night. The main thing I want is to just know where I stand. I am trying to understand the Libra psyche without asking her much. I don't want to mess up the friendship. This makes me feel like I am on a roller coaster of emotions.Posted by LeonineCharmerPosted by Notmyrealname
Maybe she thought when you were talking about your friends doing stuff you were hinting at her that she wasn’t being as appreciative so she felt bad and was trying to make sure you know she does care?
Maybe.
Ar I do feel bad for you I can see how this must be really frustrating but just realistically what do you want to happen? Considering she’s married? All I can really think of is maybe to tell her about being bisexual or interested in girls in general or something, so that she can either admit it too, or change any behaviour herself that might be inappropriate in those circumstances. I’m a libra and every libra I’ve ever known has been super affectionate with friends, but I would definitely put effort into moderating my behaviour if I thought it could cause problems or misunderstandings... I just don’t really know what you are expecting to happen really. Maybe you need a bit of a break away from her for a bit just to sort your feelings out get a bit of distance from this?click to expand
Posted by DonnaLibraLOL! Trust me I thought of it!!Posted by LeonineCharmerPosted by dilettante
she likes your friendship. you get her, she gets you.
also, why do you think she is jealous? jealous about what?
if i recall, nearly everyone said she is letting you down easy, in your other thread.
i sometimes find ( as a libra moon) that leo energy can be too eager & demanding, which makes me wanna run away. i had a leo sun coming over to my house unannounced & it really rubbed me the wrong way. i think leo’s can be blinded by their own emotions that they arent willing to see clearly.
to me, nothing about this screams “she is into you romantically”. she likes the time you spend together & that doesnt have to mean it is in a romantic way.
We have always been affectionate. We even have pet names for each other. This was completely different.
Not eager. This has been going on for freaking months. I came on here because I can't understand her. If she was blowing me off she certainly has a funny way of showing lack of interest. Things from what she is showing me in person are getting more intense. So it is either she is playing me or something else.
Jealous, yeah because I barely bring up another friend and then it feels like she is trying to figure out where she stands by laying out where she fits into my life as a person who empathizes with her. I am not all crazy wild when around her. I try to take what she is saying and doing, trying to figure her out. I am Cap moon Cap asc. She's the one who asks me places, leaves texts for me in the middle of the night, and so on. Then she gets distant and then all affectionate and lovey dovey again as you say. Just each time it seems to get more intense and I just cannot figure out why the withdraw and come back cycle.
Its actually exhausting.
Look, why don't you just kiss her the next time you are together. Her reaction will let you know if she's interested. She probably does just want to have sex with you and as a Libra Moon she's waiting on you to make the move. You being a Leo that shouldn't be a problem.click to expand
Posted by LeonineCharmerPosted by dilettante
she likes your friendship. you get her, she gets you.
also, why do you think she is jealous? jealous about what?
if i recall, nearly everyone said she is letting you down easy, in your other thread.
i sometimes find ( as a libra moon) that leo energy can be too eager & demanding, which makes me wanna run away. i had a leo sun coming over to my house unannounced & it really rubbed me the wrong way. i think leo’s can be blinded by their own emotions that they arent willing to see clearly.
to me, nothing about this screams “she is into you romantically”. she likes the time you spend together & that doesnt have to mean it is in a romantic way.
We have always been affectionate. We even have pet names for each other. This was completely different.
Not eager. This has been going on for freaking months. I came on here because I can't understand her. If she was blowing me off she certainly has a funny way of showing lack of interest. Things from what she is showing me in person are getting more intense. So it is either she is playing me or something else.
Jealous, yeah because I barely bring up another friend and then it feels like she is trying to figure out where she stands by laying out where she fits into my life as a person who empathizes with her. I am not all crazy wild when around her. I try to take what she is saying and doing, trying to figure her out. I am Cap moon Cap asc. She's the one who asks me places, leaves texts for me in the middle of the night, and so on. Then she gets distant and then all affectionate and lovey dovey again as you say. Just each time it seems to get more intense and I just cannot figure out why the withdraw and come back cycle.
Its actually exhausting.click to expand