Libra sun/Scorpio moon

This topic was created in the Libra forum by virgoOPPP on Thursday, September 17, 2020 and has 20 replies.
does anyone have experience with this combo?

coz i don't get it.

and i'm giving up.

idk what i did to activate this guy the wrong way but he gives me 'the worst roommate vibes.' and we're not even roommates. he's my uncle ffs. coz of the pandemic, we're stuck around each other. and i hate every minute. i ask him simple questions and instead of just saying 'idk,' he spirals into an emotional outburst about my 'ignorance and disrespect of him.' and i know i'm not exactly giving off the vibe of respect around him but when you're a petty man who makes controlling comments about my clothing when my own father rarely does and i haven't seen you in years oh sweet uncle of mine, then you can't blame me for resenting you for not minding your own business.

maybe it's the sun in virgo and the moon in virgo giving people strength to be pettier than usual. but this man takes the cake, he went the extra mile. he literally went to a store early morning just to ask if they were selling bread yesterday and proceeds to call me a liar. late in the afternoon, i tried to buy bread but was told they don't have any left but that they would have tomorrow. little did i know that this simple incident is some kinda offense- once again- to his pride. i try my best to not be seen by him. and i try my best not to start unnecessary convos. man feels like a ticking bomb.

now i get this impassioned, intense accusation of lying about there being bread.

WHO DOES THAT?! who goes to a kriffing store to check if i lied about there being bread yesterday?

i mean i'm sure his failing business makes for better convos but apparently, my bread-purchasing F A I L U R E stands out in comparison.

my respect for the man continues to plummet.

i can't even eat my eggs in peace without his early morning emotional meltdowns.
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Posted by thatlibralife

What questions are you asking him that he deems as disrespectful?

How does his failing business factor into your relationship with him?


i ask him about old speakers and amplifiers. usually about the history of these equipment. something casual like: "what year do you think it's from? hmm maybe from west germany?" my voice is usually quiet, i try to keep it blank and unemotional coz i don't wanna trigger him. but maybe he feels my vibe around him. i'm extremely resentful and constantly disappointed of his meltdowns over the smallest things.

i feel like his failing business stresses him out coz he's got a family. maybe he's taking it out on me. but when i have problems, i try not to take it out on other people. especially people i haven't seen in years.

see when i can't even have eggs quietly in the morning, you can't expect much love from me.
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Posted by thatlibralife

What questions are you asking him that he deems as disrespectful?

How does his failing business factor into your relationship with him?


i ask him about old speakers and amplifiers. usually about the history of these equipment. something casual like: "what year do you think it's from? hmm maybe from west germany?" my voice is usually quiet, i try to keep it blank and unemotional coz i don't wanna trigger him. but maybe he feels my vibe around him. i'm extremely resentful and constantly disappointed of his meltdowns over the smallest things.

i feel like his failing business stresses him out coz he's got a family. maybe he's taking it out on me. but when i have problems, i try not to take it out on other people. especially people i haven't seen in years.

see when i can't even have eggs quietly in the morning, you can't expect much love from me.


I don’t know any Libra/Scorp mooners but you two obviously don’t like each other much. Best to steer clear as much as possible.

When I don’t like someone I’m not wanting to engage in small talk either. I’d rather you keep your distance. Maybe he picks up on your disdain for him and feels annoyed at the insincere attempts at civility.
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that's the thing, i don't even really try to be too friendly.

i try my best to be invisible to him but he always finds a way to get under my skin.

hell i don't even acknowledge him most of the time and just pretend i always need to nap just to avoid him and the RARE times i DO actually try to at least start a fake friendly convo, it gets sooo awkward LMAO he doesn't feel like talking which is great for me coz it gets him to shut up.

from what i remember of my taurus cousin, she survived this by just nodding all the time and being fake sweet even if she actually secretly resents him. i can't do that coz he's not my dad and i'm not good at hiding my feelings with my face. like if i'm annoyed or disgusted, people KNOW even if i don't say anything lol it's so sad.
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Posted by PeakSoy

Thank god my family members are the build up resentment quietly type
i feel like he doesn't have the right to be this emotional with me

this kind of resentment should be reserved for his wife, not me

it's creepy how this man i haven't seen in years tells me what i can and cannot wear
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Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by PeakSoy

Thank god my family members are the build up resentment quietly type


i feel like he doesn't have the right to be this emotional with me

this kind of resentment should be reserved for his wife, not me

it's creepy how this man i haven't seen in years tells me what i can and cannot wear


Probably thinks he has some authority over you

I kicked my own uncle out and we even got along lol

He stole some diamonds so there goes all those good memories out the window 😅
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what sign is he?

ohh and another thing i let him stay in my old room coz he's got nowhere else to go right now. we're family and one time when i was an idiotic kid, i heard he saved me from drowning in a swimming pool. but what's the point of saving my life when he makes me miserable as an adult?

he's got a failing, undeveloped beach resort and the pandemic's reduced him to a man of $ 80 a week. must be a tough life to be a poor libra man. i never tell him these things but my resentment keeps growing. i feel like i'm so soft that's why he keeps pushing me around. he doesn't do this to my brother (who tried to beat him up once when he was high).
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Ignore his comments about how you dress

Literally just don't respond to him

Act like you didn't hear anything

What's he gonna do then? Nuthin

Btw what kind of things does he specifically say about how you dress? It definitely sounds creepy
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Posted by PeakSoy

Can your dad get you a condo? It really solves not wanting to see unwanted family members.
my mom clings to me and manipulates my dad into always keeping me around. i mostly go back and forth my mom and grandma's home coz they always have some excuse. they don't tell me this, but i can feel they have a fear of me leaving them.

'ohh my legs, you know it's hard for me to walk nowadays and i can't just trust anyone.'

'you're ungrateful sierra, after all i've done for you.'

thankfully, i'm always in relationships so that means i've usually got an apartment to crash or i'm always in the process of getting one. but i'm a mutable so.....
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Posted by SassyKiwi

Ignore his comments about how you dress

Literally just don't respond to him

Act like you didn't hear anything

What's he gonna do then? Nuthin

Btw what kind of things does he specifically say about how you dress? It definitely sounds creepy


i don't react coz it's so awkward.

he makes comments whenever he feels like i either gained or lost some weight and my clothes (material/length). i really hate that coz trying to have a 'pleasant' convo with him is even worse than our usual robotic or resentful convos. i've even told my scorpio sun/taurus moon aunt (his wife) about how i thought he's annoying and weird for making these comments. she says he's verbally-abusive to her so i'm just seeing the tip of the iceberg here. but i never like getting comments about my body, even from my boyfriends it feels kinda awkward. i feel like you don't have the license for this when you're not the one i'm having sex with.
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Posted by akitu

Sooooo sexual
he's my uncle
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Posted by akitu
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by akitu

Sooooo sexual


he's my uncle


Lol! I’m sorry this is my experience with your uncle 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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i don't even know how my aunt can ever like my uncle

somehow i feel like i never hated anyone this much, not even any of my aunts
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Posted by akitu
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by akitu
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by akitu

Sooooo sexual


he's my uncle


Lol! I’m sorry this is my experience with your uncle 😂😂😂😂😂😂


i don't even know how my aunt can ever like my uncle

somehow i feel like i never hated anyone this much, not even any of my aunts


Oh man I’m sorry I just read the thread that sounds pretty awful.

I would say don’t ignore it get straight to the point. Just say look we can’t keep doing this how are we going to sort it out? He’ll prob try taking a dig like ‘well if you blablabla’ say no, not an opportunity for you to keep digging we need a genuine solution, obviously this isn’t working and we have to find a way to live together so how can we do that.

Just get real practical, real strong and mature, no digs no sarcasm etc just make him compete with you on the ‘being reasonable’ stage. Libras hate to be painted like the unreasonable one lol.
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we've had our 'serious talks' where he explains that:

'i am your uncle, you must respect me and i'm just always trying to do what's best for you.'

he caught me talking to my boyfriend barely 3 minutes over the phone and he made annoying comments to me about it (my dad doesn't even care, his brother so he needs to fuck off). i pay attention to the tiniest things and i'm extremely sensitive about these things. and knowing how people look down on my bf is hard enough. i've already lashed out against one of my aunts when she made a mean comment about my capricorn.

i try to be as robotic as much as i can but i feel like he enjoys annoying me.
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So basically..

You ignore and distance yourself from him unless you need information on sound equipment you think you can flip for profit.

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Posted by _Dazed

So basically..

You ignore and distance yourself from him unless you need information on sound equipment you think you can flip for profit.
my uncle likes to lecture like i'm some kinda student. i do it to try to gain his approval. sometimes i try to be helpful but it never works out. 'nah, i can do this myself.' like dude, there's nothing else a virgo can offer you here aight i'm out.

every single time i try to be nice, he gets quiet and doesn't seem to want to engage but he WILL for negative discussions where he can paint me in a negative light. i barely say a word to this guy in a week. interactions with him are so painful and at best- just awkward.
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Posted by virgoOPPP
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Posted by akitu
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by akitu

Sooooo sexual


he's my uncle


Lol! I’m sorry this is my experience with your uncle 😂😂😂😂😂😂


i don't even know how my aunt can ever like my uncle

somehow i feel like i never hated anyone this much, not even any of my aunts


Oh man I’m sorry I just read the thread that sounds pretty awful.

I would say don’t ignore it get straight to the point. Just say look we can’t keep doing this how are we going to sort it out? He’ll prob try taking a dig like ‘well if you blablabla’ say no, not an opportunity for you to keep digging we need a genuine solution, obviously this isn’t working and we have to find a way to live together so how can we do that.

Just get real practical, real strong and mature, no digs no sarcasm etc just make him compete with you on the ‘being reasonable’ stage. Libras hate to be painted like the unreasonable one lol.


we've had our 'serious talks' where he explains that:

'i am your uncle, you must respect me and i'm just always trying to do what's best for you.'

he caught me talking to my boyfriend barely 3 minutes over the phone and he made annoying comments to me about it (my dad doesn't even care, his brother so he needs to fuck off). i pay attention to the tiniest things and i'm extremely sensitive about these things. and knowing how people look down on my bf is hard enough. i've already lashed out against one of my aunts when she made a mean comment about my capricorn.

i try to be as robotic as much as i can but i feel like he enjoys annoying me.


Then say that. Call him on it every damn time til he gets tired of doing it. The important thing is not to add to it. You’re the better person now, it’s gonna drive him craaazzyy. Do not get emotional don’t get offended get bored. Expect it. Say yep see this is a good example of what I meant. Why do you think that’s appropriate? Or ‘you should discuss it with my father then’. Just make it very clear he is not your father and he is going through the wrong channels and you’re not taking his comments into you. Just shrug it off say let me know when you’re ready to be reasonable, or you catch more flies with honey, just be logical. Like it’s way more logical, if his actual intention is to change your behaviour in some way, to not be an asshole about it, and the more you make this clear the more stupid his approach looks. Like literally say ‘do you really believe this approach is working?’ Not accusatory just matter of fact like puzzled because it doesn’t make sense. Put the focus on his immediate behaviour and not on you. Don’t make the mistake of getting personal or attacking him. Focus focus focus on the exact thing he said or did and don’t let him distract. Both libra and scorp moons hate the idea of their emotions being out of control so maybe say something like talk to me when you’re feeling less emotional. Or just refuse to have the conversation til he speaks to you like a grown up. Literally say I’m not having this conversation while you’re so emotional let me know when you’re ready to discuss this maturely. Just literally Do. Not. Bite.
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trust me, i am full on robot with my uncle.

it's my best defense mechanism.

i think it even relaxes him when i just let him rant.

kriffing water moon men.
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Mum is a Libra/Scorpio moon. Ignore, deflect and change the subject, they are superficially critical for no reason

I go to take her grocery shopping. Knock on the door, cause she gave the one extra key to my brother… who lives in Italy

Me: hey Mum

Mum: why are you standing like that, are you posing? You still have that skirt, huh. Is there something wrong with the hem?

Me: hello to you too

Mum: what!? Do you think I’m insulting you? I didn’t even say anything

Me: *sigh* look over there!

I'm so used to it

I got two compliments on that skirt that day so she can suck it
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Posted by shellshocker

Mum is a Libra/Scorpio moon. Ignore, deflect and change the subject, they are superficially critical for no reason

I go to take her grocery shopping. Knock on the door, cause she gave the one extra key to my brother… who lives in Italy

Me: hey Mum

Mum: why are you standing like that, are you posing? You still have that skirt, huh. Is there something wrong with the hem?

Me: hello to you too

Mum: what!? Do you think I’m insulting you? I didn’t even say anything

Me: *sigh* look over there!

I'm so used to it

I got two compliments on that skirt that day so she can suck it
YES

they act and sound like nagging moms

scorpio energy is so parental
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Posted by FactCheck


i just can't with how someone can start shit about BREAD

WHO DOES THAT

imagine if my aunt cheated on him

she told me he choked her in rage one time when she threatened to leave his ass
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Posted by Dreamy88

I have a Libra uncle, unknown moon, but he is controlling to the women in the family. Two of my younger cousins, both girls and twins, lived with him for a while and he'd always say something if they dressed modern. He even blew up because their lady friends didn't greet him. It wasn't just a simple act like "say hi if you're walking into our house". He was actually berating the girls and negging them for their looks because they didn't say hi. Also, another time, he was visiting when I lived with my parents. My younger sister came out of her room and was wearing a tank top without a bra and he gave me shit for my dad allowing her to dress like that. Mind you, she was an adult at that time and on military leave.

In a nutshell, my uncle is extremely old school. He's worst when he's drunk.
what do they want?

"greetings, m'lord?"
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Poopy leeb

Ooooouu scorp moon

That combo is SALTYYY

😂😂😂😂😂

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Posted by Aqua-Marine

I guess we all just have certain people we just fight over petty things. As much as I love my grandma, I feel like we argue way too much over such petty stuff. And I’ll admit I for some reason get over sensitive over things because for some reason she always says the wrong thing to me and bothers me. And then she gets mad and tells me I need to “change” how I am because the world is a harsh place and I cant take everything people say to heart” Umm yes I can take things personally way too much but she does not really understand me a lot of times so we argue a lot. It’s frustrating let me tell you and so conflicting. Because even though she has many good traits as my mom, there’s also traits of hers that bother me but I try not to let it bother me, but Im so close to my mom I don’t usually hide when Im upset at her and she’s horrible at reading me unless I make it VERY obvious. Oh and whenever I confront her with something bothering me “I dont feel like talking about it” “You’re stressing me out” she really confuses me.

I guess what Im getting at is that maybe your uncle is probably one of those people who probably gets very reactive towards you. He has Scorpio and god knows those people can get really dark when they don’t like someone or are mad. They are very deep and evil peeps if the energy isn’t used right.

And Im guessing you two just have a bad affinity where you fight over petty things, so you’re probably better off avoiding him because it’s just bad energy going on.

Also my mother is a Libra with lots of Scorpio and you can barely talk to her without her OVER reading everything.

Also emotional breakdown every morning? Lol like how? I have never met someone like that and Im just imagining an overdramatic man baby lol 😂
sometimes, my eyes are barely open in the morning

and i'm already hearing him talk

i automatically think you're a bad person when i don't get a meal in before you nag me

this is the code i live by
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