Libra sun Scorpio venus...

This topic was created in the Libra forum by JBG on Wednesday, March 19, 2014 and has 26 replies.
What are your thoughts on these placements? Any experiences with these people?
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My placements and it's very difficult! We tend to fall really hard but are quite picky in choosing whom we love. Can be quite stalker like at least when I was younger, don't waste my time on that stuff now! The venus in Scorpio tends to be a little dark, likes "diffrent"...not sure what your really asking...I have had long term relationships with Taurus, Pisces and Aquarious... Currently hung up on emotionally an available Virgo!!!
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Posted by notyourtype
I have this placement as well, and I'd say it's a pleasant pairing on its own. Libran natives are generally very sociable, but the Scorpio Venus adds an air of mystery to them, so they're generally not as talkative and out-spoken as your typical Libra.
Which aspects of these placements are you most curious about? There's just way too much ground to cover with such open-ended questions.



I guess I'd like to know how they act in a relationship or with someone they like/love. Are they flighty like libra or intense like scorpio. I met a guy with that placements and he was not that talkative but liked to go to social events.
Do they hide tier feelings like Scorpios can do at times? I could never tell what he was thinking. Ever! But I never actually saw the scorpio intensity I read about, I always wondered where it was! He was quite mysterious though & not forthcoming with feelings. Just wondering how their mind works, when I said I wanted to end it bc of his excessive aloofness & indecisiveness he was like ok. But called me up later like I never said that.
I guess I'm just trying to understand an old friend better...
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& this is crazy I know but it would kind of turn me on If he stalked me. I would actually like that. Not stalk me & kill me but if he rode past my house just to see what was up, & I found out about it. I would be quite flattered. But I'm a leo.
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Posted by Shescomeundone
My placements and it's very difficult! We tend to fall really hard but are quite picky in choosing whom we love. Can be quite stalker like at least when I was younger, don't waste my time on that stuff now! The venus in Scorpio tends to be a little dark, likes "diffrent"...not sure what your really asking...I have had long term relationships with Taurus, Pisces and Aquarious... Currently hung up on emotionally an available Virgo!!!


Do you tend to like your partners to play hard to get like a libra or have total devotion like a scorpio??
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I have Libra Sun/Scorpio Venus. I'm not sure what all the hullaballo is about with Scorp Venus. I'm pretty laid back, not prone to stalking or obsession. About the only thing I can say that "rings true" in Scorp Venus description is I am very loyal and faithful to my loved ones. If there's a special man in my life, he's the one and only and I'd never consider looking twice at someone else. Libras are stereotyped as cheaters. I've never cheated and never would.
That said, I have a male acquaintance with Scorp Sun/Scorp Venus, and I've definitely recognized some of the "darker" aspects of Scorp Venus in him. And yes, sometimes he scares me a little. Compared to him, I must be the Diet Coke of Scorp Venus.
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Posted by Shescomeundone
My placements and it's very difficult! We tend to fall really hard but are quite picky in choosing whom we love. Can be quite stalker like at least when I was younger, don't waste my time on that stuff now! The venus in Scorpio tends to be a little dark, likes "diffrent"...not sure what your really asking...I have had long term relationships with Taurus, Pisces and Aquarious... Currently hung up on emotionally an available Virgo!!!


Do you tend to like your partners to play hard to get like a libra or have total devotion like a scorpio??
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This is the difficult part... I totally love when someone is devoted to me but then I become bored...I'm talking long term.. I think the Libra in my needs to be spoiled and cherished in a long term relationship... Then the Scorpio comes out and I crave a good chase! To reaffirm I'm desirable and in the game so to speak... This dosent happen easily it has to be someone I find very intriguing... I may become obsessed with the person. Not being able to stop thinking about them and all the scenarios of having illicit affairs with them... It dosent mean in reality I'm going to be with them, if I'm in a committed relationship I won't cheat physically but mentally this other person will posses my thoughts! It sounds phsyco when I verbalized it but it is a pattern... I have not had many partners throught my life.. I prefer stable relationships and ICK to sleeping around... Their are very few men I become intimate with. Once I'm attracted that man will forever be in my lusty little mind!!
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Posted by Shescomeundone
My placements and it's very difficult! We tend to fall really hard but are quite picky in choosing whom we love. Can be quite stalker like at least when I was younger, don't waste my time on that stuff now! The venus in Scorpio tends to be a little dark, likes "diffrent"...not sure what your really asking...I have had long term relationships with Taurus, Pisces and Aquarious... Currently hung up on emotionally an available Virgo!!!


Do you tend to like your partners to play hard to get like a libra or have total devotion like a scorpio??
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Just another Libra Sun, Scor Venus chiming in ...
Playing hard to get is the fastest way to kill my interest. If someone's not naturally totally devoted, they're a waste of time IMO.
I don't have jealousy or possessiveness issues, because I refuse to be in a situation where those would arise. If I suspect that he's not truly there for me, I'm out the door before I can even complete the thought.
The other side of the coin, though? I don't get turned off by the super innocent, devoted and "clingy" types. As long as that's truly who they are, I find it very charming.

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Posted by JBG
Posted by Shescomeundone
My placements and it's very difficult! We tend to fall really hard but are quite picky in choosing whom we love. Can be quite stalker like at least when I was younger, don't waste my time on that stuff now! The venus in Scorpio tends to be a little dark, likes "diffrent"...not sure what your really asking...I have had long term relationships with Taurus, Pisces and Aquarious... Currently hung up on emotionally an available Virgo!!!


Do you tend to like your partners to play hard to get like a libra or have total devotion like a scorpio??


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This is the difficult part... I totally love when someone is devoted to me but then I become bored...I'm talking long term.. I think the Libra in my needs to be spoiled and cherished in a long term relationship... Then the Scorpio comes out and I crave a good chase! To reaffirm I'm desirable and in the game so to speak... This dosent happen easily it has to be someone I find very intriguing... I may become obsessed with the person. Not being able to stop thinking about them and all the scenarios of having illicit affairs with them... It dosent mean in reality I'm going to be with them, if I'm in a committed relationship I won't cheat physically but mentally this other person will posses my thoughts! It sounds phsyco when I verbalized it but it is a pattern... I have not had many partners throught my life.. I prefer stable relationships and ICK to sleeping around... Their are very few men I become intimate with. Once I'm attracted that man will forever be in my lusty little mind!!
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^ yea, that's the key difference, I think. I don't get bored with consistently devoted, loyal relationship. I'm just happy to have found a happy equilibrium with them. I have always sought out partners who I could count on for that. Coincidentally, those types tend not to cause many problems, much less suspicions.
My guy and I have fun in other ways, like going fishing or video games. smile
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Still pining over the nutter Libra, huh?
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This is actually a different libra, I dated 2. This is an ex from college who is trying to get back in. I'm reluctant.
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Hahaha. One of them. I'd be reluctant too.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Hahaha. One of them. I'd be reluctant too.


Nothing ever really went terribly wrong between us, He was an overall good guy, but not very protective of me & I hated that. It's been 4 years and he's back, ready for a serious commitment. (So he says) he's 28, an engineer & has been single since we split. Says he's never stopped missing me, although this is the first I'm hearing of it. He said he's too prideful to share his innermost feelings.
I cared for him but he just didn't protect me like a man should. He didn't stick up for me EVER. Literally if his brother called me a B he'd say "don't worry about it, you know you're not one". I HATED that.
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ask me a question . ill try to help smile
my chart is weird
here :
SUN : LIBRA
MOON : SCORPIO
mercury : Libra
Venus : Scorpio
mars : cancer

ascendant / rising : cancer . but i'm not sure . I can be a Leo

House 5 / V in Scorpio
House X in Aries ( Midheaven )





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Damn you're needy.
He's back around because if you broke it off, he's going back to finish off something he had no choice in.
Basically, if he called it quits, you wouldn't hear from him again, tbh.
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Posted by muwik
ask me a question . ill try to help smile
my chart is weird
here :
SUN : LIBRA
MOON : SCORPIO
mercury : Libra
Venus : Scorpio
mars : cancer

ascendant / rising : cancer . but i'm not sure . I can be a Leo

House 5 / V in Scorpio
House X in Aries ( Midheaven )








What kind of woman/man intrigues you? What makes you stick around for more? Is your love truly FOREVER? Like do you still love your first love even though it's over? Do you hide your feelings from someone if you're bit sure they feel the same?
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Posted by Shescomeundone
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Posted by Shescomeundone
My placements and it's very difficult! We tend to fall really hard but are quite picky in choosing whom we love. Can be quite stalker like at least when I was younger, don't waste my time on that stuff now! The venus in Scorpio tends to be a little dark, likes "diffrent"...not sure what your really asking...I have had long term relationships with Taurus, Pisces and Aquarious... Currently hung up on emotionally an available Virgo!!!


Do you tend to like your partners to play hard to get like a libra or have total devotion like a scorpio??


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This is the difficult part... I totally love when someone is devoted to me but then I become bored...I'm talking long term.. I think the Libra in my needs to be spoiled and cherished in a long term relationship... Then the Scorpio comes out and I crave a good chase! To reaffirm I'm desirable and in the game so to speak... This dosent happen easily it has to be someone I find very intriguing... I may become obsessed with the person. Not being able to stop thinking about them and all the scenarios of having illicit affairs with them... It dosent mean in reality I'm going to be with them, if I'm in a committed relationship I won't cheat physically but mentally this other person will posses my thoughts! It sounds phsyco when I verbalized it but it is a pattern... I have not had many partners throught my life.. I prefer stable relationships and ICK to sleeping around... Their are very few men I become intimate with. Once I'm attracted that man will forever be in my lusty little mind!!


^ yea, that's the key difference, I think. I don't get bored with consistently devoted, loyal relationship. I'm just happy to have found a happy equilibrium with them. I have always sought out partners who I could count on for that. Coincidentally, those types tend not to cause many problems, much less suspicions.
My guy and I have fun in other ways, like going fishing or video games. smile

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I like that stuff too, I like a little romance... I love being out In nature wit
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Very stressful and contradictory.
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Intriguing men.. Yet still proceed with caution.
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my placement as well. I have a scorp ascendant as well. as far as relationships go I prefer something intense. current bf of two yrs is a Gemini sun and I love our relationship as far as communication goes. I need a lot of mental stimulation and I like being able to bounce my random ideas off of him. Conversation and mental stimulation is very important, but I think the scorp part of me wants to make something of all my ideas and find a deeper "meaning" out of all the information collectively. I always ask a lot of "why" questions. about people, society, myself, and why people behave the way they do. I love psychology and am a psych major because of how fascinating human motivations are to me. besides people though I ask a lot of "why" questions about the world too and other aspects of reality and life, although most of the time there is no answer and I get overwhelmed by the vastness of the unknown. I overthink a lot and can become heavily preoccupied with my internal world trying to find logical explanations and meaning for my life. as a libra sun/scorp venus i'm very romantic and am happy when I can make my partner happy, but that partner can't just be anyone. I am quite selective most of the time, I like someone stable and confident. confidence is very important and but not someone who flaunts and is obvious about things. I'm a pretty reserved person around others and trust only a few with my true thoughts. I like subtleness in public as far as how the other person presents themself. dignity. charm. and witty humor are always attractive. also a bit of mystery, I love being able to investigate and try to find all the hidden truths about someone. someone who is loud or too impulsive with no forethought for their words drives me crazy. If it is outrageous it might make me laugh but usually I will dismiss someone I can tell lacks intelligent forethought or lacks shame. depth is key. If someone can pick up on my intellect and sincerely compliment it I always melt. secretly long to have my emotional inner world recognized and validated in a romantic relationship. TO really connect is what I want most I think. I appreciate a good listener who has something valuable to contribute. never judge them, because whatever they choose to share with you that have trusted you with a part of themself and will resent you for judging and not understanding or at least trying to if you don't understand where they are coming from. often times I do feel misunderstood in relati
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I'm trying to figure out a libra venus Scorpio, mercury Scorpio moon Scorpio..

His a few years my senior but I really like him strange because I don't like libra men they are pretentious popularity attention thirsty and superficial I was friends with 1 for over 5 years he changed so much but this guy I am just drawn in.

Pisces venus Aries moon leo mercury Pisces
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My ex have this placement. If he likes u, u would def know! We broke up 8 years ago, even tho he has a girl he contacts me often. When i have someone in my life he doesnt like it, gets jealous and tries to win me back. They have a hard time getting over someone if the girl did the breaking up. But like alot of libras really indesisive, doesnt know what he wants in the end.
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I don't like that I crave intensity and enjoy drama *on my terms*.

#fuckinscorpioenergy
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I don't like that I crave intensity and enjoy drama *on my terms*.

#fuckinscorpioenergy
I know what you mean, i wish i could be lighthearted and carefree about love, but i cant reach that point until i have tested loyalty and built trust, until then I'm too serious
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Maybe we were born in the wrong era Sad

#pitypartyoclock

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Yeah, I knew a guy with this placement. He was supposed to be a friend.... BUT.... behaved more like a jealous, obsessive, secret stalking boyfriend. Sad

Unfortunately, I was felt like I was dragged into a "Lifetime TV" movie drama with a Libra Sun/Venus in Scorpio. What I thought was going to be a nice, light, intellectual air sign friendship ended and at present is a CRAZY obsessive, online stalking confusion that won't end. Sad

He has:

- Libra - Sun

- Scorpio - ASC

- Libra - Moon

- Scorpio - Venus

- Scorpio - Mercury

- Libra - Mars

- Scorpio - Pluto (in 1st House)

= Charming+SUPER STRONG INTENSE SEXUAL VIBE

I always suspected I was "watched from afar" by him before I met him at a Christmas party while I was with my husband. I wasn't really interested in him and was annoyed that my husband drew him into a conversation with us.

In hindsight, I made the mistake of being nice and taking some photos with him (and other people) at the Christmas party.

I figured I would never see the Libra/Venus in Scorpio again except he coincidentally (or was it?) showed up on my college campus waiting for me after my class was over. I must have made some strong impression.

I don't know how he did it, but he somehow "knew" where my class was, the days and time. The Libra/Venus in Scorpio didn't leave me alone the whole semester. The first day of class was such a crazy whirlwind of intense activity, lunch, photos, making a video, meeting my friends, I felt like I went on 5 dates with him in one day.

I know, I know I was married and I swear the Libra/Venus in Scorpio made me believe we were only good friends because he said he was religious and said (lied) that he wasn't attracted to me. BUT...... he behaved like he was "courting me" yet would always "say" no no no to string me along and charm me while very slowly subtly seducing me. I could not believe he would be trying to "steal" me away from my husband, such a religious guy.

(Month 1) After the first week I swear he said "how's my babe" under his breath. Excuse me? (I was married) In only a few weeks, I had taken 100 photos with him. He wouldn't leave me alone. I was his "Best Friend" in just a few weeks.

(Month 2) - Professors and classmates joked that we appeared to "be dating".

Said an "I love you" in a casual way. Intro to his parents.

(Month 3) - He invited me to spend Spring Break with his friends. He called me his "date" in front of them. Huh? But flirted and hugged another girl same night. Huh?

Drove me to outside his apartment (forgot wallet, yeah right).

(Month 5) - Invited me to a "group thing" at the beach except it ended up only being me and him. Hmmm?

(SUMMER) - He decided to take a summer class on my campus so we could hang out. Which led to rides home that became treating me to dinner and later clever "dates" surrounded by his friends so it didn't appear so obvious he was spending the day with me while pretty much ignoring his friends. Then 4th of July with his parents.

After I noticed I spent a full week together with him I guess I freaked out. I was in so deep. I felt like the frog who was slowly heated up in a pot only to realize it was boiling to death.

This is when it got VERY INTENSE with the Libra/Venus in Scorpio.

(Month 7) I tried to back away from him, (end friendship) but he begged me not to leave (him) because it would be like a part of him was ripped away (sounds like Venus in Scorpio).

(Month 8) I tried to leave Libra/Venus in Scorpio again (at a dinner party thrown by a girl who had slept with him, trying to create a "relationship" with him). He chased after me and later "chose" me and ended it with other girl. (Yeah she was MAD at me). The Libra/Venus in Scorpio texyed me that "he loved me with every fiber of his being". Sent me the romantic song lyrics (to express how he felt without having to actually say it).

(Month 9) Libra/Venus in Scorpio showed first signs of being possessive, obsessive and jealous after I chatted with a young male at a church fellowship event he took me to. When I saw the photos of how angry he looked (like he wanted to kill the other guy) I knew I was in trouble and scared to death. It was then that I realized I was not in a friendship but in some sort of "ownership" by the Libra/Venus in Scorpio.

He must have sensed me slipping away because he went "CRAZY" and kidnapped me and kept me with him at his apartment for the weekend (it was gated and I didn't know code to escape). He actually called his "spiritual advisor" to meet us to (I think force me) into a surprise "couple's conseling" session so I would bond to the Libra/Venus in Scorpio more (and not leave him).

Ironically, when I was gone for the weekend my husband definitely noticed and contacted the Libra/Venus in Scorpio and told him he needed to end things with me and leave me alone, cut ties, no social media.

(Month 10) Libra/Venus in Scorpio blocked me on Facebook.

(Month 11) Suddenly Libra/Venus in Scorpio has an instant new girlfriend (who I knew on Facebook). Lots of kissing photos and "date night" photos (I think to make me jealous). Obvious "rebound" girl.

(Month 12) I wished Libra/Venus in Scorpio and his new girlfriend happy holidays (on her Facebook) and that they have a sucessful future as a couple. Well, strangely for people publically professing their LOVE they were way too angry over my positive message to them. She "blocked" me on her Facebook after happy holiday message. Hmmm?

(Month 13) New Year (2017) Libra/Venus in Scorpio, after 8 weeks with new girlfriend, suddenly breaks up with her a week before he is going to be at the same conference with me. (We were pre-scheduled to speak at a college conference months before). See told you she was a rebound girl.

At conference, I am not speaking to Libra/Venus in Scorpio but he tries to talk to me and casually suggests I listen to Demon Hunter - Driving Nails.


I wish I didn't. He tricked me to psych me out to "feel his pain" for him I guess.... with lyrics: "I was the blood inside your broken heart" (Very Venus in Scorpio).

Present - After 6 months of "blocked" (no) communications Libra/Venus in Scorpio hasn't "given up" on me. He started "friending" MY friends on Facebook whom he never met, including males I am sure he does NOT care to know except he is "keeping an eye on them" because I am in photos with them.

Also Libra/Venus in Scorpio is making himself "visible" and watching me on Facebook when he "likes" my friends "live" Facebook videos which include me. Specifically, it was only me (filming) using my friend's phone and I was shocked when the Libra/Venus in Scorpio "liked" the video immediately. I don't even know how he found me. It was so spontaneous and random.

But that is soooo Venus in Scorpio.... always "watching" you from afar.

So the lesson here with Libra/Venus in Scorpio is:

If a Libra/Venus in Scorpio CONNECTS with you then he WANTS you!

NOTHING will stop a Libra/Venus in Scorpio if he WANTS you.

-NOT being in another relationship

-NOT being married

-NOT running away

-NOT leaving him

-NOT blocking him on social media

-NOT 6 months of NO communications





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Posted by VenusIn8thHouse

(Month 12) I wished Libra/Venus in Scorpio and his new girlfriend happy holidays (on her Facebook) and that they have a sucessful future as a couple.

1) You shouldn't have done that. You said he kidnapped you and kept you inside his apartment against your will. You don't wish the person who did you harm a successful future, no matter what you feel for him.

2) If your instincts say that he's trying to pull you in, but he keeps on denying it, you leave, especially on the grounds that you KNOW he's lying. Reject all offers to hang out because that builds a connection and lays the groundwork for something more down the road.

3) You should have blocked and ignored EVERYTHING.

4) Pay no mind to the liked videos. You can't control him. You can't change him. It's just a like on the internet. That's all.

From now on, hopefully he stopped stalking you. But if he is, ignore ignore ignore.

The key with Venus in Scorpio and other Scorpio placements is having firm boundaries, because they will try to find parts of you that are weak and try to access them. If you are wishy washy, they can change your mind. If there's still a chance, there's still a chance.

I'm kind of surprised that you had this kind of trouble with this guy. I thought you, a Venus in the 8th house, would know better.
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