Libra vanishing act?
This topic was created in the Libra forum by RoseAngel81 on Tuesday, October 22, 2013 and has 12 replies.
Hi
I dated a Libra guy years ago. Actually I'm not sure you would call it dating. He blew hot and cold with me a lot and kept vanishing and coming back. I eventually gave up with him and left it.
One day out of the blue he came back and called me asking me out with him. I declined and he tried it a few more times and I kept saying no. What was up with that? It must have been a year since I saw him, maybe even more than that.
I've seen posts about Libra vanishing acts. Is this standard. It reminded me of him.
I dated a Libra guy years ago. Actually I'm not sure you would call it dating. He blew hot and cold with me a lot and kept vanishing and coming back. I eventually gave up with him and left it.
One day out of the blue he came back and called me asking me out with him. I declined and he tried it a few more times and I kept saying no. What was up with that? It must have been a year since I saw him, maybe even more than that.
I've seen posts about Libra vanishing acts. Is this standard. It reminded me of him.
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There was someone else. He had his fun with that person and now has come back around to you because his other options are no longer there.
I'm sure there was.
But is it standard for them to vanish and come back.
But is it standard for them to vanish and come back.
My roommate/friend did that. He was seeing several girls at the same time then poof! Stopped contacting them for 3 months. He just did his thing with the boys and just didnt want to be bothered all he did was play video games, basketball, and worked. Then months later got back to seeing those same girls again. Its weird they get into this phase where they need alone time. He ended up getting serious with one of he girls and after a year of being together they broke up and tried getting back the other one. Its interesting watching him blow hot and cold hes exactly like the Libra!
I knew what this Libra guy was doing and so in the end I told him to stick it.
That's funny that they do that.
That's funny that they do that.
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Posted by RoseAngel81
I'm sure there was.
But is it standard for them to vanish and come back.
Yep, if there's "unfinished" business and they haven't declared things "done" in their mind.
But this isn't necessarily a sign specific thing. This is a cakey eaty guy thing.
"Well, this piece of ass is getting more of my attention for whatever reason. Now that it's done, I think I'll go hit up that other chick that I left things in the air with intentionally so I could come and go as I please."
It's typical of guys who just want to screw around and have no idea what they want. I've seen it happen with various signs, too.
Thing is he did declare it done. I had asked him where we stood and he said we were not right for each other and that he didn't see a future with me. He came back twice after that. So weird. I hadn't chased at all.
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They're considered the indecisive sign of the zodiac for a reason.
If u want this libra make him earn u then
Don't make it easy, unless u want a quick lay, then have your way with him, them drop him
Don't make it easy, unless u want a quick lay, then have your way with him, them drop him
TaurusNikki: Can you please elaborate on what you mean by make him earn u/don't make it easy??
If a Libra is NOT in love with you, really truly smitten by you or committed to you then you can almost count on them dipping in and out. You simply cannot hold your breath with them until they have made things somewhat solid with you. From what you described he just likes you, but it??s not that deep to him. If I like someone but I don??t like them romantically I dip in and out, because it just doesn??t mean that much to me to see or talk to them every day or often for that matter. If I want to see you I??ll make an attempt if I don??t then I just don??t. Now if I love you or am looking for a solid relationship, it will drive me nuts not to hear from you at least 2x out of my day if not more, if we are together there??s no limit to how much I want to be right up under that person. When you are my love interest or my man, you are my boo, my honey bunch and I want to just love on you and spoil you until you say enough! Disappearing is furthest from my mind. Lol.
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Posted by scorpgal76
TaurusNikki: Can you please elaborate on what you mean by make him earn u/don't make it easy??
Treat them like shit. They seem to be gluttons for punishment.
For some odd reason, when you become distant, whatever, ignore them, give them a hard time for being whatever it is they're doing, they stick around. I wouldn't swear by this approach, but it's a trend I've noticed with many and it's rather strange.
These guys sometimes end up suffering from beaten wife syndrome, I swear. :/
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