Libra woman in love

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I wrote this topic cause I want to learn some real experiences from libras..There are lots of websites on the net how libras love and what they like but it's so general..

I wonder how do you feel when you like someone?
What do you do when you feel a spark?
Are you clingy if you love so much?
How do you show your interest?
Do you make the first move if you like? Are you being direct to get what you want or you just try to impress the person you like?
How do you feel when someone you love dosen't love you back? What do you do when this happens?
How do you deal with your emotional side if you can't have what you want?
What do you expect from a relationship?
What to do when your relationship gets to be routine? does it bother you? or you try to change something?
Are you loyal when you're not happy? Do you try to improve/change the situation or give up

These are some questions I'd like know their answers..You can add other questions or just write what you want to share..

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I wonder how do you feel when you like someone? like a fool, sometimes saying the wrong things and sounding stupid

What do you do when you feel a spark? I go with it.

Are you clingy if you love so much? Not at all, I like my own space

How do you show your interest? I try to make small talk about things I know that are important to them, just to show interest in their lives

Do you make the first move if you like? Are you being direct to get what you want or you just try to impress the person you like? dont usually make the first move, when I`m with the person for a bit then I have no problem telling them what I want.

How do you feel when someone you love dosen't love you back? What do you do when this happens? It destroys me for a bit, but I get over it by doing things I like to doing.

How do you deal with your emotional side if you can't have what you want? Doesn`t bother me

What do you expect from a relationship? Humor, Loyalty, Friendship

What to do when your relationship gets to be routine? does it bother you? or you try to change something? Yes I don`t like routine, I would try changing things up.

Are you loyal when you're not happy? Do you try to improve/change the situation or give up. I`m loyal and if I really ain`t happy I leave.
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1. I wonder how do you feel when you like someone?

The confidence in me waivers and I find I can't look at them for long especially if they look back at me and I am lost for words...dumbfounded, they would have to approach me for me to ease up.

2. What do you do when you feel a spark?

Show I am interested by eye contact or being around that person whether it be standing with them, bring myself closer so we can talk or feel each others presence. He will need to make the moves.

3. Are you clingy if you love so much?

I can be until I learn to trust this person.

4. How do you show your interest?

Answer as in 2.


5. Do you make the first move if you like? Are you being direct to get what you want or you just try to impress the person you like?

Not often but if they don't pick up on my signals then I will send stronger ones or get in a little closer to spark conversation.

6. How do you feel when someone you love doesn't love you back? What do you do when this happens?

Go crazy assessing the situation and finally will approach them and ask them out, I need to know so I can continue on and stop wasting time if there is no chance.

7. How do you deal with your emotional side if you can't have what you want?

Put it in it's place, we can't have everything we want all of the time. Move on and find new things to focus on...not saying it's easy but necessary!

8. What do you expect from a relationship?

It changes all the time in my mind so when I meet someone it changes with them. Loyalty would be something I need and that way I can learn to trust, we can build from there.

9. What to do when your relationship gets to be routine? does it bother you? or you try to change something?

I don't mind routine but I also like to change it up when I can or if he would. I'm very social so there's always offers on the table to step outside the square every once and a while. The friendship doors need to be kept open even when in a relationship so ideally this person would have to be social as well.

10. Are you loyal when you're not happy? Do you try to improve/change the situation or give up.

I am loyal to the end once I have pledge my love but if it's over it's over and I don't like to beat a dead horse. I'll end it or get them to!
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Posted by aquavita
lies behind their own motives. they watch other peole so close an dconstantly...that they never have time to look into themsleves...thus no emotions.. which is a good thing..as emotions...are nto waht feelings are. emotions are just confusing... they come from unclear head... may be isnide libra lives a big fat buddha...laughing at the world... yet a little extra compassion woudl not hurt libras....u re so self preservational... an yet so detached



I'm detached from that situation because it happened 5 years ago, why would there be any emotion in it now? Simply answering the questions, now if it was someone of the here and now, there may be more passion.

Did you lose a Libra or get hurt by one?
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Does libra girls have a relationship not to be alone? There are lots of comments about how libras are in love with love but it's quite obvious it can't be right every libras cause generalization is usually wrong.

I wonder when you're in a relationship with someone you like (not love) if you meet someone new and love him in time. Do you give the cold shoulder the person you're with or you would be direct after you have decided to be with other person? (to make sure you won't be alone after break up🙂 )
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Posted by Aesma

I could even love someone and not have a relationship with them either because I choose not to. This happened to me once in my first serious relationship. I fell for a guy and loved him but I still chose my ex over him because I respect our relationship and didn't want to cheat him nor hurt him. So I let that go and killed whatever emotion I had for the guy I fell for.

Was it bad?
No because I respected my relationship with my boyfriend back then.

Why didn't I just break up with him and be with the guy I fell for?
It didn't feel right to do that. IMO just because you have feelings for someone doesn't mean you'd just blindly follow your emotion and leave whatever you've built with your current partner for some other person you fancy. Emotions can change. You have to weigh the pros and cons before you decide.
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How did you deal with this situation? Hadn't your boyfriend realized the change in you?
Cause it must be difficult to show your attention or love to someone you're with when you fell in love with somebody else..

I'm asking cause I really don't know I would do if the same situation would happen to me