Libra Woman wanting to get it on with a Cancer Man

This topic was created in the Libra forum by saymyname7247 on Saturday, February 2, 2008 and has 6 replies.
Moon you were so right about cancers opening up and how most people are suprised when they do. This cancer man is taking me on the ride of my life. For the last few weekend we have been spending so much time together. A group of my girlfriends decide to go out to the club. I knew that he and some of his friends would be there...so we decide to just all get together and have a good time. Anyways...that night he and I were dancing and grinding. I was so excited. We both forgot that our friends were even there. It was if no one was even there. Before you knew it we both were kissing and just enjoying the night. We decided to leave...and I thought for sure this would be the night. He said NO. He was so sweet about it. I said ok...not that easily...but ok! After that night...we just started talking more and spending more time together. Well...tonight he did a suprise visit. He text me and told me that he wanted to kiss my lips again. I was blown away. Cause if you just knew this man...he is so not the forward type. If I want something from him I have to damn near take it. Needless to say...It got really really really passionate. I was taking his clothes off and kissing all over him. He was doing the same to me. I thought OMG...it's going to happen. I know he was feeling me. I could tell by the way he moaned and how he looked at me. It was intense. He said NO! Not now. I wanted to cry . I was so hot. Don't get me wrong...I am enjoying him very much. I love just being near him and touching him. But it's crazy. I have never had a man tell me NO. What am I to think of this? Is he playing with my mind? Does he have a plan that I don't know about? What is it?
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Yes, he's playing mind games with you. Take it from one Libra to another and someone with first hand experience with a Cancer man for over 4 years. It's a way to keep control and keep you hot for him. The longer you hold out with a Cancer man, the better. They tend to not like "easy" women. It can work for them, sometimes. But with so many female players out there, they can get messed over very easily. I've seen that happen, also. Be very cautious with the Cancer man because they aren't always what they appear to be. Be sure you know as much about this man as possible before sleeping with him or he will pull you into all kinds of drama you couldn't imagine would come from such a sweet man. The Cancer I dated attempted to contact me numerous times over the years and each time has professed his love but is lazy when it comes to giving his all to a woman. They have a tendency to be as distant as possible with you, while insisting that you give your all to them. Not all of them but the Cancer man has been the most demanding and selfish man I have ever met. I wouldn't want to date another. They're too childish, immature, lazy in love, and critical of far too many things. It's funny because most aren't that good looking but they have the audacity to be so critical of women. It's hilarious. Good luck but be careful.
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What was your cancer man's birthday? I wonder if you would be that hard on Cancer guys if your friend hadn't broke your heart. Just asking....
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His birthday is July 2. I am a pretty logical person so I won't say all Cancers are one way, in particular. However, I have many in my immediate family and I know other Cancers and there are definitely similarities. Some Cancers are players b/c many women fall for their charm and, seemingly, innocent ways. They can be master manipulators. I know of two sisters who were dating the same Cancer man and they would scratch one another's eyes out before attacking him because when he was sweet to them, he was just the sweetest man. Never mind the disappearing acts and numerous occasions of thoughtlessness that followed. Oh, we women forget so easily and hurt ourselves b/c he refuse to see the whole picture. We're too busy focusing on the snapshots that make our hearts go pitter patter, instead. So, I'm definitely not a man basher. I love them and I think we cause much of our grown grief, as women, because we close our eyes and disown our own feelings just to make our fairytales come true. Trust me. I'm not bitter or angry. But I will say to any woman who thinks it's ok for a man to play with and devalue her feelings to take a closer look. It's not a healthy way to start a relationship. Furthermore, to excuse a person's actions and/or disregard for your feelings b/c he or she is somehow insecure is ridiculous. If you don't mind me saying so. It is not ok to, purposely, hurt the one you love. NOT EVER!
Anyway, back to the story. Both sisters felt he was their best friend and they excused his actions b/c of his charm and the fact that they both had known him so long. However, neither of them saw him for the creep he really was. To this day, they can't find it in their hearts to really label him as the "dog" he was and that's pitiful.
The most hurtful thing from my experience with the Cancer I dated was that his unassuming, naive, innocent, and caring ways was just a ploy to get close to me. He wasn't nearly as "deep" as he portrayed himself to be. I eventually learned there wasn't any mystery, at all, to the man. In retrospect, there were times when I really questioned what the attraction was and I always came up with this: the chase intrigued me far more than anything else. As I studied myself, I realized that I enjoyed the challenge but in time would became bored with someone who didn't stimulate my mind. Looking back we played around, squabbled and partied more than we ever had valuable, thought-provoking, indepth conversat
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Looking back we played around, squabbled and partied more than we ever had valuable, thought-provoking, indepth conversations. As a Libra, I must have those things to be happy with a man.
Actually, I saw him as my best friend, at one time. However, the friendship was on his terms which isn't a friendship, at all. Eventually, I accepted the fact that I'd never be happy with a man who was so insecure that he would play with my emotions to make himself feel ok. I matured enough to understand what would and wouldn't work for me long term. I'm simply not into those kinds of childish games. I like a man who's more forward and honest about his true feelings (living w/integrity) without the manipulative and childish histrionics. I suppose that's why I've always been attracted to older men.
This man told me he wanted to be with me after all of these years b/c I'm a woman who would demand his best and accept nothing less. He stated he hadn't met anyone who ""pushes him to want to do better." But it's far too much work for me. I don't have the patience for the nonsense, any longer. Now, it really doesn't matter what sign a person is when it comes to setting the tone of a relationship. If you tolerate crap/inuendo/disrespect (making references to other women, rocking the bed, etc.) in the beginning expect more of the same later in the relationship. We humans are like that. Once we get set in our ways, we aren't easily changed.
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Manyara, I thank you sincerly for your insite. You sound like a woman of experience. I accept what you are saying to be true. I am intrigued by the chase and the mystery of this man. You hit the nail on the head with that one. We have been friends for so long. I am not in love with him..however I do enjoy being close to him. I love the intimate times that we do share. I do want to keep him as a friend. I will keep my eyes open.
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