Libra women and Virgo man

This topic was created in the Libra forum by librawomen on Monday, March 21, 2016 and has 6 replies.
I am Libra. Born sept 24. I have always dated and been attracted to Scorpios , sag and aquaria men. All these men have always made same comments about me in the relationship, that I am cold , detached and don't express my emotions. Last Aquarius man told me i need to lesrn to speak from the heart and to stop over analyzing everyhing. I don't like over clingy men, but I do like attention. So recently have been seeing a Virgo man. I am so confused when I have been with him I have notice I detached myslef from him. Also he does the same. when we talk about topics that interest both of us it feels nice and we bind. but as soon as its over back to our detached selves . i did the deed first date. which I know its a no no for virgos. I feel we both show more affection in the bedroom. Talking forehead kiss and all that mushy stuff. First times we hung out we cuddle he was the one telling me to sit next to him and hugging. Which was nice but not something I usually do. Next times I would sit across but he wouldn't ask anymore. But i can feel him looking at me from the corner of my eye. I don't know if I should initiate cuddling and sitting next to him. This all seem so new. Especially because other men I dated always were the one's chasing and persistent. I wss the one pushing away. Also I don't like texting everyday but should I with a Virgo even if he doesn't text. I know if I text he will msg back but there's days I just don't feel like it. I do like this one a lot but I am so lost. I don't want him to think I am not interested when I really am. I don't want to lose him.
😊 thanks made some correction
Lol speaking from experience, you don't have to worry too much. If the guy was similar to me he'd take an awful long time to finalize his decision about you. Maybe be consistent in showing sole attention to him, minimize overly-friendly contact with other men if you'd like him to be a long term partner
Dont stress. Communciating does help. We have to learn ppl love language. Communicating needs and wants helps to rid of confusion for example here u have discussed to us ur wants needs and hopes. Do that with him too as well. Take ur time it will work out and be fine.
Posted by virgowithasoul
Lol speaking from experience, you don't have to worry too much. If the guy was similar to me he'd take an awful long time to finalize his decision about you. Maybe be consistent in showing sole attention to him, minimize overly-friendly contact with other men if you'd like him to be a long term partner


I am patient , not in a rush. So him taking his timebis okay with me.

Should I call or msg him daily ? Example good mornings and good nights at least ???

He used too ask for use to cuddle but has stop. I am thinking maybe he got tired of asking. Should I just cuddle hug without asking ?? Lol I know odd things to ask. But I am trying to learn from past relationship and would like to be more affectionate , just really don't know how yo act and what okay to do. Also do t want to be rejected if I go in for a hug lol
Posted by virgowithasoul
Lol speaking from experience, you don't have to worry too much. If the guy was similar to me he'd take an awful long time to finalize his decision about you. Maybe be consistent in showing sole attention to him, minimize overly-friendly contact with other men if you'd like him to be a long term partner

I hate trying to express feelings lol