Libra women what would you think if....

This topic was created in the Libra forum by FieryAries9 on Friday, November 5, 2010 and has 10 replies.
Someone were to ask for your number in a message on facebook? and yes I know i have asked a lot about this girl, I'm just trying not to mess up, She knows i like her and she has shown she is interested, I just didn't get the chance this week at all to ask her, we have been both very busy, so I was gonna ask her online, what should i say in the message?
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Posted by amethyst2002
I'm not a Libra chick, but I think generally, it's kinda meh. Just sends off the impression that you don't have the balls to do it face to face. Comes off as way too passive, but that's me.
However, if you put the message as something like, "We've both been busy and I've been meaning to ask you this- could I get your phone number?" or something to that extent.
I think it just sends across a better impression if you were to ask her face to face, though. :/
Not a Libra perspective, but more like a female perspective overall. *shrugs*


hmm that's true, and no it's not that i can't do it face to face i literally have not had the time too, but i don't want to come of as insincere or jerky
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Libras are passive, take charge. I saw a post you made where she sounded into you, looks from across the room and stuff. If you all have been talking now ask her out somewhere. Don't just go for a phone number. Make plans and invite her.
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Posted by LibraSid
Libras are passive, take charge. I saw a post you made where she sounded into you, looks from across the room and stuff. If you all have been talking now ask her out somewhere. Don't just go for a phone number. Make plans and invite her.


Yea your right....
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Posted by amethyst2002
Posted by LibraSid
Libras are passive, take charge. I saw a post you made where she sounded into you, looks from across the room and stuff. If you all have been talking now ask her out somewhere. Don't just go for a phone number. Make plans and invite her.


Agreed.
@ OP- I KNOW that YOU aren't trying to be all passive, just saying that you may want to rethink this approach because that's the impression it can send across.
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I went back and reread some of the other posts. What do you know about her? It's clear you have a crush on her and she seems interested, so what do you know? Hobbies? Interests?
I saw in one of them you asked in Libras like compliments... YES. We can be vain in our own minds, some of us openly.
Try to find something you know about her, something she likes and involve yourself in it.
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Duuuuuuuuuuude.. *giggles*
Not a Libra, but have some Libra influences... and I'm definitely a chick and know what I want men to do. Okay, but seriously.. they've both given good advice. And NO, busy or not, I would NOT be impressed with some guy asking me for my number on FB (seems kinda.. lazy and creepy.. like, why did he ask to call me? I don't want to CHAT, I want to GO OUT!)... Maybe if he were an old friend, far enough away that we don't actually see each other, and it would be our main source of communication. Well, probably not even then.. I'm not big on the phone anyway.. I'd rather keep those "far aways" to emails and Wall Posts, etc......... So, yeah. Do it in person.. yes, you're Aries and a bit impatient, and you want to get this rolling NOW... but do it the right way. And like Sid said.. don't just ask for her number in person.. actually ask her out! Libras DO tend to be a little passive, non-pushy, non-aggressive, just go with the flow.. rarely will they make the first move, much less chase someone (cuz rejection totally sucks!). She's shown enough interest to encourage you.. now she's waiting for you to man up and ask her out... which is totally flattering, and therefore good to a Libra!
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Posted by amethyst2002
I'm not a Libra chick, but I think generally, it's kinda meh. Just sends off the impression that you don't have the balls to do it face to face. Comes off as way too passive, but that's me.
However, if you put the message as something like, "We've both been busy and I've been meaning to ask you this- could I get your phone number?" or something to that extent.
I think it just sends across a better impression if you were to ask her face to face, though. :/
Not a Libra perspective, but more like a female perspective overall. *shrugs*


Too true.
Seems as if you don't know this girl well enough to be comfortable asking for her number face-to-face. Maybe you need to get acquainted a bit better. When you KNOW you're ready and if you use good timing, it won't seem weird to her and it won't be awkward for you.


He never said he had a problem with face to face, just has been busy. That's the IMPRESSION he sends across to her if he messages her via FB, though.
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yea that's true I really am not under confident i'm just more cautious....
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Posted by FieryAries9

yea that's true I really am not under confident i'm just more cautious....


"The person who gets the farthest is generally the one who is willing to do and dare. The sure-thing boat never gets far from shore."
-Dale Carnegie
I am overly cautious too but sometimes you gotta try.
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Some Libras are kind of private so the FB thing is no go. I thought Aries are a lil bit more aggressive than what you are displaying. Be aggressive in your approach, but be humorous and light in your delivery.
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