Now that we've went through our ups and downs my libra boy's fuse is so short.. We've been together for almost a year now and i love him to death but i could do with out some of his habits.. Lately he's just seemed to turn cold... And i mean as cold as ice... He's cruel, mean and very rude. Any little altercation we come across is blown up into a big fight by him and he'll refuse my fone calls or texts all day. To make matters worse he's developed his old manipulative habits. He seems to see no wrong in himself and believes his behavior is justified.... He manipulats the situations to make it seem as if its my fault. ALL my fault. Im lost you guys.. Its getting worse and worse! Im starting to feel as if he loves his pride more than he loves me. He hides his feelings.... Trust and believe if we got into an argument today and I didnt call for a week straight I wouldnt hear from him no matter how much he wanted to reconcile.. THe stubbornness and the pride is overbearing.. I need help.. advice... WHat should i do? He knows that im always by his side and he also knows that I take mass amounts of bs from him without leaving because I did my fair share of attitudes and snappiness but I know for a fact he just isnt aware of how close my foot is to the door...Should I give him a taste of his own medicine and show him that if he doesnt start acting right im gone for good?
Libras....Can you relate to this type of behavior?

Not another one,Hun if you want to be with him follow Nefer formulae and dont question him or show him your upset with his coldness. It works for her.
If your like some of the other females who post here often.....you might want to throw in the towel now are sit down with him and have a one to one.
Everything you have posted above,have been repeated on here,time and time again. If he wont compromise. Then only you can decide what your next move should be.
Goodluck, to quote Beetleguese"Why would you want to be around so much negativity?"
If your like some of the other females who post here often.....you might want to throw in the towel now are sit down with him and have a one to one.
Everything you have posted above,have been repeated on here,time and time again. If he wont compromise. Then only you can decide what your next move should be.
Goodluck, to quote Beetleguese"Why would you want to be around so much negativity?"
Posted by FemmeScorpion
Not another one,Hun if you want to be with him follow Nefer formulae and dont question him or show him your upset with his coldness. It works for her.
If your like some of the other females who post here often.....you might want to throw in the towel now are sit down with him and have a one to one.
Everything you have posted above,have been repeated on here,time and time again. If he wont compromise. Then only you can decide what your next move should be.
Goodluck, to quote Beetleguese"Why would you want to be around so much negativity?"
Good advice.. And you both are right.... Negativity is not somewhere i wanna be ya know? But.. its hard when you love someone and im desprately trying to make it right. I saw Nefers advice and it seemed like a good idea... He does always come around but i think im going to follow your first... First im gonna have a heart to heart with him but..... when I try that he takes it as im attacking him so.... im gonna have to be very careful. I swear sometimes its like walking on eggshells with him... Well see what happens if he doesnt coompromise then to hell with him i guess
*compromise

Gemtaur and Nefer sings from the same hymn sheet. As i said b4 OP,if you want to stay with him. Follow the above advice to the T.
However i think it is the scorpio in me,that refuse to bend that far just to keep a men in my life.
Ok we all could tone down our jealousy-because it is unattractive and shows insecurity.
Possessiveness shows insecurity too,however a small amount of it is needed. As it can shows that your wanted.
And everyone likes to feel,they are needed.
Libra men love to be loved but not possess. To be frank,these men seem like hard work. Who wants to be threading on eggshells??
Certainly not me.
🙂
However i think it is the scorpio in me,that refuse to bend that far just to keep a men in my life.
Ok we all could tone down our jealousy-because it is unattractive and shows insecurity.
Possessiveness shows insecurity too,however a small amount of it is needed. As it can shows that your wanted.
And everyone likes to feel,they are needed.
Libra men love to be loved but not possess. To be frank,these men seem like hard work. Who wants to be threading on eggshells??
Certainly not me.
🙂

Posted by sdgafTo make matters worse he's developed his old manipulative habits.
he isn't likely to change,
no matter how much you care and would like to be treated fairly..
immature libras are far from being fair..
Im starting to feel as if he loves his pride more than he loves me.
you got it right..
some people are like that.click to expand
Bring back Tupac or his WTF. Spot on "Immature Libras"

Posted by sdgaf
I can't bring him, baby doll..
He's dead.
Lol i meant the pic....ur in the doghouse with one of the poster.
You better explain urself.lol

Steals what?

Posted by sdgaf
I won't tell Aries about the poster, I promise..
Hahahaha the aries bless-he has the calmest personality ever.
Thank you everyone.. For the great advice.. me and him just had another big blowup...like JUST now

oh dear ... I don't know what to say that hasn't already been said but ....
As an older Libra guy, damm- he sounds alot like a younger me.
If he's like me there are 1000 things going through his brain.
I was attending engineering school, heading up an alternative rock
band that had a record deal, working two jobs..yet my buddies
used to say I was lazy. And they weren't doing squat AFAIWC.
My GF wrote a song called lazy lover, and used to say I turned
cold on her all the time. I would toy with her emotions, yet I also
inspired her to greatness. I pushed her to her limits and beyond.
I could literally read her mind. She thought I was a freak, sometimes.
All the time looking for the next, just in case. At the same time compared
to my peers, I knew I was the best thing around.
Now I have a leo in my life, and I know how to make her purr!
When she starts pacing, I know to let her run.
I know in my heart science will catch up to astrology some day.
If he's like me there are 1000 things going through his brain.
I was attending engineering school, heading up an alternative rock
band that had a record deal, working two jobs..yet my buddies
used to say I was lazy. And they weren't doing squat AFAIWC.
My GF wrote a song called lazy lover, and used to say I turned
cold on her all the time. I would toy with her emotions, yet I also
inspired her to greatness. I pushed her to her limits and beyond.
I could literally read her mind. She thought I was a freak, sometimes.
All the time looking for the next, just in case. At the same time compared
to my peers, I knew I was the best thing around.
Now I have a leo in my life, and I know how to make her purr!
When she starts pacing, I know to let her run.
I know in my heart science will catch up to astrology some day.

Posted by Liberal777Libra
As an older Libra guy, damm- he sounds alot like a younger me.
If he's like me there are 1000 things going through his brain.
I was attending engineering school, heading up an alternative rock
band that had a record deal, working two jobs..yet my buddies
used to say I was lazy. And they weren't doing squat AFAIWC.
My GF wrote a song called lazy lover, and used to say I turned
cold on her all the time. I would toy with her emotions, yet I also
inspired her to greatness. I pushed her to her limits and beyond.
I could literally read her mind. She thought I was a freak, sometimes.
All the time looking for the next, just in case. At the same time compared
to my peers, I knew I was the best thing around.
Now I have a leo in my life, and I know how to make her purr!
When she starts pacing, I know to let her run.
I know in my heart science will catch up to astrology some day.
Damn arent you cocky.lol Guess thats why you're drawn to a leo.🙂

Posted by Sag_Cap_Beauty*Cusp
Thank you everyone.. For the great advice.. me and him just had another big blowup...like JUST now
Awwww girl step away-am not saying to end it with him,just step back and give yourself some breathing space.
It can get intense and from my experience when a libra is in a argumentative mood they will say some hurtful/nasty things.
And you will respond with equally mean things,the problem is when the dust is settled libras find it hard to forget all the mean stuff you've said.
Hope your feeling better today.🙂
libras are creatures of habit. once it is habit to not appreciate you and to treat you badly (to yell at you, to blame you when it's not your fault, etc), they'll just keep doing it. if it were a specific thing you did that set him off, it would be worth just stopping it. because that actually would work. but it seems like it's just you that sets him off. that's what your relationship is now. i think you'd be better off walking away.
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