Libras in love

When/how do you realize that your in love with someone? Do you prefer to say "I love you" first the first time or do you wait for the other person to say it? Is their a certain amount of time that you would wait or an amount of time that if you hadn't said it by that point you probably never will?
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depends on the level of the relationship I'm in. If I've been involved in an open honest relationship, I will say it first, especially if I can feel honestly that I don't care if the other person says it back. I usually wait, even if I say it first, I like for the time to be right. I've done that a few times before.

I usually know I'm in love like a slam! It comes to me all of a sudden and I know it's true. Happens early on, usually.

i always wait till they say it first. even thought you wanna tell them you dont want to scare them off. with me i know how i feel but i wont say until im sure they love me back.
did that make sence?? i hope so lol

I always wait. Libra want to feel safe. If the relationship feels unbalanced...I wait.

Wait. never tell my feelings until I'm sure or unless I'M DONE!

Yeah, I definitely wait. But actions speak louder than words so although I might not say it there are always hints.

yup we wait. It might pop up after few weeks or even months or years. Sometimes we can say it within a day when we are quite sure. But thats rare case. In either situation, the other person fail to understand why we like them.

The librans I have been involved with said it to me first except for one.

@ crudemood, I TOTALLY agree!!!

Actions most definitely speak louder than words. My boyfriend is scared to death to say he loves me, but he does things that show me that he loves me. Just recently, I had to go out of town for business and I forgot to feed my cat. So I asked him to go over to my place to feed the cat and I come home to a clean house and fresh banana bread! He also built a scratching post for the cat 2 weekends ago because I was getting frustrated with my kitty scratching my sofa.

I have surgery planned at the end of the month and he said without me asking and without hesitation that he would take off a few days to watch over me while I recover.

So words are nice; but actions are nicer.

"The librans I have been involved with said it to me first except for one."

same here, though I only dealt with one libra before....

"I love you" is kind of an extreme way of putting it but then Libra is an initiating Cardinal sign of leadership so if Libra likes Libra will be the first to take the necessary initiative to get the point across or drive the point home. It does not have to be something as blatant as "I love you".

Libra is very 'go getting' this is a masculine "go getter" sign so yes Libra would normally take the first step - this is true no doubt Libras are go getters from the on set - this concept does contradict with Libra 'indecision' - the scales thing but this trait does not make the go getting trait any less true becoz its true.