libra's need to balance?
This topic was created in the Libra forum by virgoguy79 on Thursday, January 10, 2008 and has 8 replies.
One more question for libras 
I was taking a libra girl out for shopping and i only wanted to buy her clothes and nothing for myself (my reward was just seeing her happy) but after she bought
a couple pieces of clothing, she kept insisting me to buy something for myself (even though I didn't want anything, only to buy her things). She didn't tell me why and i didn't ask her why but she kept insisting and persisting me to look for something i wanted and buy something for myself so i ended up buying a polo shirt
for myself and after that she seemed to be a lot happier or satisfied.
Is this because she felt guilty i was buying her clothes and getting nothing for myself or is this because of her libra need to balance and make things fair?
I was taking a libra girl out for shopping and i only wanted to buy her clothes and nothing for myself (my reward was just seeing her happy) but after she bought
a couple pieces of clothing, she kept insisting me to buy something for myself (even though I didn't want anything, only to buy her things). She didn't tell me why and i didn't ask her why but she kept insisting and persisting me to look for something i wanted and buy something for myself so i ended up buying a polo shirt
for myself and after that she seemed to be a lot happier or satisfied.
Is this because she felt guilty i was buying her clothes and getting nothing for myself or is this because of her libra need to balance and make things fair?
Its because she wanted you to have something new just like her and feel happy too.
Now you both have something new....we libras are all about our partners'.
Now you both have something new....we libras are all about our partners'.
Why were you buying her clothes? You aren't dating or in a long term committed relationship are you?
If not, I am guessing it was guilt. I would not be comfortable with that at all. I don't even like it when places I frequent and am a "regular" at give me freebies. (unless it is booze) It makes me uncomfortable basically because it seems unfair. But at times, it can seem like manipulation.
If not, I am guessing it was guilt. I would not be comfortable with that at all. I don't even like it when places I frequent and am a "regular" at give me freebies. (unless it is booze) It makes me uncomfortable basically because it seems unfair. But at times, it can seem like manipulation.
Also .... if this is the girl with the boyfriend ..... what are you doing?
geez i wish i had someone buying me clothes! but nah, wouldn't ever take it from a guy, thats just weird. odds are, she probably just felt a little weird after a while, because it was a shopping spree, i mean while your at it you might as well buy yourself something nice. odds are if shes a libra, she can probably pick out the best outfits for you.
That is what I thought too!
And why are you buying someone else's gf clothing? Why is she accepting? I don't understand. (weeps)
And why are you buying someone else's gf clothing? Why is she accepting? I don't understand. (weeps)
I wont be buying clothes to any girl unless am living with them or they are my close dearest friends with whom i go shopping. She sure felt uncomfortable when you did that.
Hmm..yeah, I'm a little confused about the whole shopping spree thing for this girl, is she your girlfriend?/ Either way, I am a libra and I always get freaked out when people buy or spend on me, I always feel the need to buy something for someone or pay at a meal or when I'm out for drinks....If that were me, I would have definitely picked up a little something for the guy too! Even if it was small, just so I felt that he was happy too! WE like to see the satisfaction on people's faces when we do something nice for them!
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